{"id":11520,"date":"2020-01-08T14:50:14","date_gmt":"2020-01-08T14:50:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11520"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:22:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:22:46","slug":"11-signos-reveladores-de-que-ya-no-ama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/11-signos-reveladores-de-que-ya-no-ama\/","title":{"rendered":"11 se\u00f1ales reveladoras de que ya no est\u00e1 enamorado"},"content":{"rendered":"

We all crave that romantic, passionate love that burns our lips and lifts our soul. But what to do when we find ourselves caught up in doubt about our man\u2019s feelings?<\/p>\n

\u00bfNos alejamos o \u00bfseguir luchando?<\/a> \u00bfEstamos seguros de que ya no nos quiere?<\/p>\n

Para responder al menos a algunas de esas preguntas, hemos reunido se\u00f1ales que podr\u00edan ayudarte a saber si te quiere y si merece la pena luchar por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

1. You can\u2019t remember the last time you heard, \u201cI love you\u201d<\/span><\/h2>\n

It\u2019s been ages since you heard him express his feelings toward you. You can\u2019t even remember the last time he said he loved you after you said it first.<\/p>\n

All you can remember are uncomfortable silences, looks off into the distance and him changing the subject. Trying to force the love, or the words to express it, doesn\u2019t work.<\/p>\n

No matter how hard you try, you can\u2019t force yourself to roll those words off your tongue if you don\u2019t feel them. This is the first and biggest sign that he\u2019s no longer in love.<\/p>\n

2. Ya no se r\u00ede contigo<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

Antes os divert\u00edais juntos, re\u00edais juntos, pasabais tiempo juntos. Pero ahora se r\u00ede solo, con el tel\u00e9fono en la mano.<\/p>\n

Se r\u00ede de sus programas de televisi\u00f3n, ensordeci\u00e9ndote con el silencio que queda cuando deja de re\u00edr.<\/p>\n

And when you gather enough strength to ask him to share it with you, he simply replies with, \u201cYou wouldn\u2019t get it.\u201d But you can still clearly remember the times when you just had to look at each other and you would start laughing.<\/p>\n

Esos momentos en los que pensabais, lat\u00eda el coraz\u00f3n y re\u00edais en sincron\u00eda, pero parece que \u00e9l ya no los recuerda.<\/p>\n

3. Las conversaciones sobre el futuro se desvanecen<\/span><\/h2>\n

Al principio, s\u00f3lo parec\u00edais hablar del futuro.<\/p>\n

Futuras vacaciones, viajes y pel\u00edculas que iban a ver juntos, y c\u00f3mo ser\u00eda su casa alg\u00fan d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s natural for guys to talk about the future when they\u2019re excited to share it with someone. But now, you can\u2019t even remember the last time he mentioned a future for you two.<\/p>\n

That could be because he doesn\u2019t see you as a part of it anymore.<\/p>\n

4. La relaci\u00f3n parece una rutina<\/span><\/h2>\n

There\u2019s no more passion<\/a> and excitement in his eyes. He doesn\u2019t wait up for you when you\u2019re working long hours. He doesn\u2019t welcome you home.<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, mira la televisi\u00f3n, apenas consciente de tu presencia.<\/p>\n

Cuando te besa, su mente est\u00e1 a kil\u00f3metros de distancia.<\/p>\n

When he holds you, he doesn\u2019t hold you as tight as he used to. Instead, his arms are just there, wrapped around you, cold as ice.<\/p>\n

Everything he does, he does it like a machine, with no emotions, simply doing them because he\u2019s used to doing them, not because he enjoys them.<\/p>\n

5. You don\u2019t communicate as much as you once did<\/span><\/h2>\n

He no longer talks about his life, how he\u2019s doing at work, how his day was and he isn\u2019t interested in yours.<\/p>\n

Your communication is only about chores around the house, the chores you\u2019re obliged to do together and even communication feels like a chore, something you have to do, instead of something you want to do.<\/p>\n

6. He doesn\u2019t seem to care about the little things anymore<\/span><\/h2>\n

Se daba cuenta cuando cambiabas de peinado, cuando te pon\u00edas un vestido nuevo.<\/p>\n

Te preparaba cenas, te llevaba el caf\u00e9 a la cama y te besaba en la frente cada vez que se cruzaba contigo.<\/p>\n

He was funnily annoyed by the way you eat cookies like Cookie Monster and when you make faces when eating Indian food. But now, he couldn\u2019t care less.<\/p>\n

No matter what you do, the way you do it and how hard you try, he just doesn\u2019t seem to notice at all.<\/p>\n

7. Intenta evitar la intimidad<\/span><\/h2>\n

Ya no te besa ni te abraza. Cuando os vais a dormir, cada uno est\u00e1 en su lado de la cama.<\/p>\n

When you try to make love to him, he suddenly remembers he has something to do, or he\u2019s tired or busy.<\/p>\n

La falta de sexo suele ser el mayor problema en una relaci\u00f3n y una se\u00f1al de que algo va mal.<\/p>\n

If you notice that your sex life is lacking, but your man refuses to talk about possible causes, that\u2019s because he already knows why.<\/p>\n

8. Empez\u00f3 a apagar el tel\u00e9fono<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

We all crave some rest from our phone after a long day at work, but most of us will just silence it. But if he starts turning his off, and you\u2019re not able to get in touch with him, that\u2019s a sign he just doesn\u2019t want to talk to you.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if he starts taking his phone wherever he goes, including when taking out the trash, that could be a sign that he\u2019s hiding something or someone from you.<\/p>\n

Either way, that\u2019s a sign of a doomed relationship.<\/p>\n

9. You\u2019re the only one trying<\/span><\/h2>\n

Para que una relaci\u00f3n tenga \u00e9xito hacen falta dos personas.<\/a> Hacen falta dos personas que se esfuercen, que pongan amor, para que prospere.<\/p>\n

But if you\u2019re the only one trying, if you\u2019re the only one loving, what\u2019s the point?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re only postponing the inevitable. Unless he\u2019s ready to sit down with you and discuss the issues you have and what to do to solve them, there\u2019s no point in fighting for something that\u2019s long gone.<\/p>\n

Otherwise, you\u2019re only suffering more, hoping that if you try a little bit harder, it will work out.<\/p>\n

But until he puts in a little bit of effort too, there\u2019s no way that relationship can work out.<\/p>\n

10. You\u2019re exhausted after spending time together<\/span><\/h2>\n

Los nervios est\u00e1n a flor de piel, pensando qu\u00e9 decir a continuaci\u00f3n, qu\u00e9 hacer. Pensando en c\u00f3mo acercarte a \u00e9l, esperando que no huya.<\/p>\n

Cosas que sol\u00edan ser naturales para ustedes dos ahora se sienten tan aterradoras.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de separarte, te sientes agotado de intentar hacer lo correcto, de calcular cada uno de tus movimientos. Y cr\u00e9eme, \u00e9l siente lo mismo.<\/p>\n

11. He doesn\u2019t care about spending time with you<\/span><\/h2>\n

No man enjoys his woman out there partying without him, without letting him know where she\u2019s going or at least making sure he knows she\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n

But if he doesn\u2019t show any interest in where you\u2019re going or for how long, that\u2019s because he doesn\u2019t really care.<\/p>\n

He enjoys spending time without you, probably hoping that you will meet someone else because he\u2019s already made up his mind about this.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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