{"id":115280,"date":"2020-11-26T12:53:22","date_gmt":"2020-11-26T12:53:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=115280"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:06:56","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:06:56","slug":"aceptar-las-peleas-con-tu-novio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/aceptar-las-peleas-con-tu-novio\/","title":{"rendered":"Por qu\u00e9 y c\u00f3mo aceptar las peleas con tu novio"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfSientes a veces miedo de hablar por ti mismo en tu relaci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

\u00bfCree que puede perjudicar a su relaci\u00f3n? Discutir lleva a la ruptura, \u00bfno?<\/p>\n

No, and it\u2019s really a big NO. You\u2019re wrong. All couples argue, and having some little disagreements is actually healthy for your relationship.<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t ruin your relationship; on the contrary, it\u2019ll deepen your connection.<\/p>\n

Pero te entiendo perfectamente. Yo era as\u00ed una vez. Ten\u00eda tanto miedo al rechazo que guardaba todas las cosas que me molestaban dentro de m\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Unfortunately, I wasn’t aware of how big a mistake it was<\/strong> y definitivamente fue uno enorme. Por culpa de mi miedo, cre\u00e9 un ambiente t\u00f3xico y malsano en nuestra relaci\u00f3n que casi me cuesta perder a una persona a la que quiero.<\/p>\n

I thought that it was all okay, that I would be able to handle it and contain them inside until one day, I just couldn’t keep all those emotions and things that were bothering me inside, and they just burst out fiercely. To be more exact, they exploded.<\/p>\n

Esto revel\u00f3 muchas cuestiones sin resolver en nuestra relaci\u00f3n. Afortunadamente, nuestro amor fue m\u00e1s fuerte y conseguimos superarlo todo y salvar nuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

However, we promised that we’d never hide our feelings or try to bury them inside us. We understood that we should embrace and accept all of our differences and issues and try to deal with them in a healthy way.<\/p>\n

Discutir nos est\u00e1 uniendo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Every time we have a disagreement or we get angry at each other, we become aware, once again, that we can’t live without each other.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que nos reconciliamos tras una pelea, nos convencemos m\u00e1s de que nuestro v\u00ednculo es tan fuerte que nada puede da\u00f1arlo.<\/p>\n

Las peleas nos han ense\u00f1ado a comunicarnos mejor<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

\u00bfConoces realmente la importancia de comunicaci\u00f3n<\/a> for a good relationship? Well, we weren’t at the beginning and it almost ruined our relationship.<\/p>\n

Sab\u00edamos que ten\u00edamos problemas, pero optamos por no hablar de ellos como si eso fuera a hacerlos desaparecer.<\/p>\n

Ahora, hemos aprendido a hablar con m\u00e1s eficacia. Hemos aprendido a responsabilizarnos de nuestros errores. Hemos aprendido a disculparnos y a perdonarnos por nuestros errores. <\/em><\/p>\n

These things didn’t just improve our relationship, but they made our bond stronger than ever before.<\/em><\/p>\n

Nos ayud\u00f3 a escucharnos y comprendernos mejor.<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

I didn’t know how to be a good listener and that was probably causing most of the problems in our relationship.<\/p>\n

Fortunately, by embracing some small disagreements in my relationship, I also learned to listen and pay more attention to my partner’s needs. After all, they are as important as my own ones.<\/p>\n

Esos peque\u00f1os desacuerdos nos ayudaron a aceptar algunos cambios en nuestra relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Para ser sinceros, antes ninguno de los dos estaba satisfecho con algunas cosas de nuestra relaci\u00f3n, pero ten\u00edamos miedo de hablar de ellas porque ambos pens\u00e1bamos que podr\u00eda arruinar nuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de aceptar el hecho de que tener algunos peque\u00f1os desacuerdos en una relaci\u00f3n es inevitable, nos dimos cuenta del hecho de que cambia<\/a> son realmente buenas para la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

We are now ready to make compromises, and satisfying each other’s needs is our priority.<\/p>\n

Nos volvimos m\u00e1s afectuosos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Discutir tambi\u00e9n nos ense\u00f1\u00f3 a ser m\u00e1s cari\u00f1osos el uno con el otro. Tengo que admitir que nos ayud\u00f3 a refrescar y reavivar la chispa de nuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que uno de nosotros comete un error, intentamos solucionarlo de forma sana y entonces la persona que cometi\u00f3 el error pide disculpas<\/a> and tries to prove that they’re really sorry for what they did.<\/p>\n

Nos ense\u00f1\u00f3 a domar nuestro ego por el bien de la relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Trust me, there was a constant fight going on and it was between our egos and our feelings. We weren’t even aware of the fact that it was slowly ruining our relationship.<\/p>\n

Nuestra relaci\u00f3n se hab\u00eda convertido en una competici\u00f3n en la que intent\u00e1bamos constantemente demostrarnos a nosotros mismos que \u00e9ramos mejores que la otra persona.<\/p>\n

Afortunadamente, una vez que aprendimos a domar nuestros egos, nuestra comunicaci\u00f3n y nuestro v\u00ednculo tambi\u00e9n mejoraron.<\/p>\n

Adm\u00edtelo, \u00a1el maquillaje despu\u00e9s de una pelea es definitivamente el mejor!<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1 de acuerdo en que las parejas que se aman apasionadamente tambi\u00e9n se pelean apasionadamente? \u00bfSi? Yo tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

But, you know what’s the good part of it? They also make up after the fight more passionately and those kinds of reconciliations are the best.<\/p>\n

Juramos que nuestro amor siempre ser\u00e1 lo primero<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Yes, I agree that arguing over some little things is simply an inevitable part of every relationship and that it’s actually healthy to have some disagreements.<\/p>\n

Hicimos el voto de no acostarnos nunca enfadados o con asuntos pendientes.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Our relationship is and will always be our main priority. We know how strong our love truly is and that’s why we’ll never allow anything to jeopardize our relationship.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, the only important thing is that we have each other… all other things can be resolved.<\/p>\n

Our love will overcome all obstacles because it’s truly the greatest force in the universe.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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