{"id":115648,"date":"2020-11-30T13:09:32","date_gmt":"2020-11-30T13:09:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=115648"},"modified":"2022-01-19T21:39:02","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T21:39:02","slug":"como-acercarse-a-las-mujeres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-acercarse-a-las-mujeres\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo acercarse a las mujeres: 14 consejos que no resultar\u00e1n contraproducentes"},"content":{"rendered":"

Venga, chicos. Sed sinceros ahora y admitid que lo que todos querr\u00edamos saber es c\u00f3mo abordar a las mujeres en p\u00fablico, iniciar una conversaci\u00f3n y obtener una respuesta afirmativa cuando las invitamos a una cita.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, that can be terrifying, especially if you’re a shy guy or if you’ve never approached a woman before because you won\u2019t get a second chance to make a good first impression.<\/p>\n

Most men wait until they muster up the courage to do this, but a lot of guys don’t do it in the end because we’re miedo<\/a> de ser rechazados o simplemente pensamos que ser\u00eda muy humillante recibir una respuesta negativa.<\/p>\n

That’s so wrong. Maybe you’ve missed out on many great chances for true love because of that fear. Actually, that fear is stopping you from finding real love and true happiness in life.<\/p>\n

El objetivo de la vida es encontrar a alguien con quien compartirla; encontrar a alguien por quien merezca la pena vivir.<\/strong>… to find a companion on this crazy, unpredictable journey we call life.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n creo que las almas gemelas siempre se encuentran y que Dios encuentra la manera de cruzar sus caminos, pero aun as\u00ed, tienes que ponerte ah\u00ed fuera.<\/p>\n

To be honest, the reason why I’m writing this is because I was also terrified to approach women before.<\/p>\n

Pero, con estos sencillos pasos, encontr\u00e9 la forma de superar la ansiedad de acercamiento y el miedo al rechazo, que era un gran obst\u00e1culo para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3mo acercarse a las mujeres y hacer que te deseen.<\/span><\/h2>\n

“Women are not attracted to men who are good looking – they are attracted to men who are attractive.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Esta cita del famoso coach de vida y citas, Zan Perrion, realmente me ayud\u00f3 y definitivamente deber\u00edas tenerla en mente cada vez que quieras acercarte a una mujer hermosa y conseguir novia<\/a>Por supuesto. <\/p>\n

Also, below, you’ll find some powerful revolutionary consejos de citas para hombres<\/a> sobre conocer mujeres y hacer que una chica atractiva se enamore de ti.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: \u00bfC\u00f3mo abordar a una chica? 9 consejos que funcionan de maravilla<\/a><\/p>\n

Cree en ti mismo.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfc\u00f3mo te acercas a una chica en la vida real y al menos consigues su n\u00famero o que salga contigo? Este es el primer paso que tienes que dar.<\/p>\n

Si desea conseguir novia<\/a>Tienes que hacerlo con confianza. Debes conocer tu val\u00eda y creer en ti mismo que puedes seducir y conquistar a esa mujer atractiva que te gusta desde hace tanto tiempo.<\/p>\n

Debes trabajar tu autoestima.<\/strong> If you’re a shy guy or you have high self-doubt, you should practice in front of a mirror.<\/p>\n

Just try to imagine that the person in the mirror is the woman you like and that you’ve just approached her. It’s a great way to practice your body language and prepare yourself for approaching the girl you like.<\/p>\n

Otra cosa que te ayudar\u00e1 mucho con tu autoestima es verte bien y prestar atenci\u00f3n a tu aspecto f\u00edsico.<\/p>\n

Cu\u00eddate f\u00edsicamente, pero tambi\u00e9n emocional y espiritualmente. La cuesti\u00f3n es que nuestra imagen corporal influye directamente en nuestra autoestima. En otras palabras, para sentirte lo mejor posible, debes tener el mejor aspecto posible.<\/em><\/p>\n

Busca LAS se\u00f1ales.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando te acerques a una mujer y la atraigas, antes de dar el paso, debes observar la situaci\u00f3n y buscar se\u00f1ales del otro lado.<\/p>\n

A woman always knows what she wants, and if she wants you, she’ll make it clear to you.<\/strong> She won’t give you any mixed signals; she’ll be clear and direct about what she wants.<\/em><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, a menudo esas se\u00f1ales pueden ser muy peque\u00f1as e imperceptibles, sobre todo si la mujer es t\u00edmida.<\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, si est\u00e1s en una cafeter\u00eda y ella te mira con frecuencia, pero cada vez que empiezas a mirarla, aparta la mirada r\u00e1pidamente.<\/p>\n

Or, for example, she runs her hands through her hair or arches her back every time you look at her… you need nothing more because those are some clear signals that she’s into you and she wants you to approach her.<\/p>\n

BUT, that doesn’t mean that you should immediately approach her. You must wait for the right moment and you must be fully prepared for that step.<\/p>\n

Coquetea primero con tu lenguaje corporal.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Just as she’ll be sending you some signals that she\u2019s into you by using her body language, you should do the same.<\/p>\n

It’s called flirting with your body language, and if you do it right, it will definitely help you win over the girl you like.<\/p>\n

Now, you’re probably asking yourself, How do I attract women using my body language? Well, it\u2019s called the art of charm and seducing and it’s pretty simple, actually.<\/p>\n

En primer lugar, debes escuchar a tu mente y a tu cuerpo y encontrar la forma de controlar ambos. Lo segundo es prestar atenci\u00f3n a tu postura corporal.<\/p>\n

It must be saying, ‘Hi, I’m here to win your heart over and I’m not leaving until I succeed.’ So, pull your stomach in, keep your shoulders back, stand up straight and smile in her direction.<\/p>\n

Eso sin duda te har\u00e1 notar.<\/p>\n

Establezca un contacto visual profundo.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Esto tambi\u00e9n forma parte de tu lenguaje corporal para ligar. Despu\u00e9s de una buena postura, el contacto visual es lo segundo m\u00e1s importante para atraer a las mujeres.<\/p>\n

Debes establecer contacto visual con la chica a la que quieres acercarte. Intenta captar el momento en que ella mira en tu direcci\u00f3n y m\u00edrala directamente a los ojos.<\/p>\n

You should maintain that eye-contact for at least three seconds in order to show her that you’re into her and to know whether she’s interested in you, too.<\/p>\n

I know that most men have struggled with making this step, but you must overcome that eye-contact anxiety because by making a genuine eye connection and opening your body to the woman you like, you’ll be showing her that you’re into her and that you want to make the move and approach her.<\/p>\n

If you get positive feedback from the other side, if she maintains eye contact for several seconds or smiles at you, that\u2019s her way of telling you that it’s okay for you to approach them and how they would like you to do that because they’re interested in you, too.<\/p>\n

Smile… positive vibes attract women the most.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

The most powerful weapon for seducing women is your smile. That’s probably one of the first things they’ll notice and fall in love with.<\/p>\n

Siempre que la sorprendas mirando en tu direcci\u00f3n o establezcas contacto visual con la mujer a la que te gustar\u00eda acercarte, debes sonre\u00edrle.<\/p>\n

Incluso antes de acercarte a una mujer que te gusta, debes dejar la impresi\u00f3n de un tipo positivo y optimista, porque un tipo positivo y optimista (y con sentido del humor) es el tipo que toda mujer desea.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, todos tenemos d\u00edas malos en los que nos sentimos malhumorados, pero incluso en esos d\u00edas, debes pensar en positivo y sonre\u00edr a pesar de esos malos momentos, sobre todo si la mujer que te gusta est\u00e1 cerca de ti.<\/p>\n

Prepara un buen tema de conversaci\u00f3n.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

\u200bThis is the last step you should take before taking the most important one… approaching that beautiful woman you like.<\/p>\n

Debe encontrar un buen tema de conversaci\u00f3n<\/a> antes de acercarse a ella.<\/p>\n

Don’t think that you’ll come up with something at the last minute or after you approach her because you won’t. You’ll get nervous and ruin everything that way.<\/p>\n

Debes buscar un buen tema de conversaci\u00f3n que pueda suscitar un gran debate y hacer que la conversaci\u00f3n avance.
\nYou must find something that will show her that you’re an interesting guy and that you’re worth taking her time.<\/p>\n

Please, don’t use cheesy pick-up lines.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Vale, s\u00e9 que dije que preparar un buen tema de conversaci\u00f3n<\/a> es el \u00faltimo paso antes de acercarte a una mujer que te gusta, pero esto es algo sobre lo que realmente tengo que advertirte.<\/p>\n

Puede utilizar un frase para ligar<\/a> to break the ice and start the conversation when you approach women, but please don’t use some bad and lame cheesy pick-up line that will make you look like a total jerk.<\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme, hay algunos muy malas frases para ligar<\/a> that you wouldn’t even believe are real.<\/p>\n

Don’t even think to try to approach women by using them because they’re very insulting and you’ll ruin every chance you’ve had to attract the woman you like.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 305 frases rom\u00e1nticas para ligar que le derretir\u00e1n el coraz\u00f3n<\/a><\/p>\n

Haz EL movimiento.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Por fin hemos llegado al paso m\u00e1s importante. Entonces, \u00bfc\u00f3mo acercarse a las mujeres de la manera correcta y hacer que te deseen?<\/p>\n

Well, if you did all these steps above the right way, you’re totally ready for this most important step.<\/p>\n

Si te decides por una frase para ligar, deber\u00edas utilizarla como una apertura humor\u00edstica e interesante y cont\u00e1rsela antes de presentarte.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, si decides iniciar una conversaci\u00f3n, debes presentarte y preguntarle amablemente si puedes dedicarle unos minutos de su valioso tiempo.<\/p>\n

Use a conversation starter that you’ve prepared already and get the conversation going.
\nEither way, I’m sure you’ll wow her and leave a good primera impresi\u00f3n<\/a> que har\u00e1 que ella tambi\u00e9n se interese por ti.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 t\u00fa mismo siempre.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Don’t act, don’t pretend you’re someone else just to get her liking. Be yourself always because she must fall in love with the real you.<\/p>\n

It’s the only way you’ll be able to create and maintain a healthy relationship one day. And, trust me, even though I know you don’t think like that sometimes, the real you is the best version of you.<\/p>\n

Habla, pero tambi\u00e9n escucha.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Once you approach her and get her attention, don’t be the only one talking. Listening is one of the most important social skills, and that’s the one you need the most when you approach the woman you like.<\/p>\n

It’s how you’ll show her that you’re interested in her, and also interested in what she has to say to you.<\/p>\n

It’s a well-known fact that women love men who are good listeners.<\/strong> You should listen actively and be focused when she’s talking about herself and try to remember as much as you can about her life.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 9 se\u00f1ales de que te est\u00e1 poniendo a prueba para decidir si eres un buen novio<\/a><\/p>\n

Compliment her, but don’t overdo it.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Compliments are always welcomed. All women like to hear a good compliment even if it comes from a man they’ve just met or one they aren’t interested in.<\/p>\n

Compliments build attraction, and that’s definitely a powerful weapon to get the woman you like to fall for you.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, debes tener cuidado con ello. Los cumplidos son buenos, pero si lo haces de la forma equivocada o si exageras, pueden perjudicarte y dejar una mala primera impresi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

If you give too many compliments after you approach a woman you just meet, it can make her think that those compliments aren’t honest and that you’re telling them to her just to seduce her.<\/p>\n

And, don’t compliment her physical appearance because she might think that you’re only looking for a hookup and it can make her lose interest in you.<\/p>\n

Un buen sentido del humor siempre ayuda.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Realmente creo que todas las mujeres se enamoran de tipos humor\u00edsticos.<\/p>\n

If you’re sitting near her in a coffee shop or in a restaurant, you should tell jokes to your friends and make them laugh, so she can hear them and think how funny and interesting of a guy you are.<\/p>\n

Para ser sinceros, a todos nos gusta estar en compa\u00f1\u00eda de gente que nos haga re\u00edr, y en mi opini\u00f3n, un sentido del humor<\/a> es una de las cualidades m\u00e1s ardientes que puede tener una persona.<\/p>\n

So, when you approach her and start a conversation, try to make her laugh and she’ll be yours for sure.<\/p>\n

Consigue su n\u00famero de tel\u00e9fono.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Si uno de los dos tiene que irse, deber\u00edas pedirle su n\u00famero de tel\u00e9fono o su correo electr\u00f3nico o enviarle una solicitud de amistad en las redes sociales y pedirle que la acepte.<\/p>\n

Debes encontrar la manera de seguir en contacto con ella, para poder invitarla a una cita y conocerla un poco mejor.<\/p>\n

But, don’t push. If she doesn’t want to give you her phone number, it doesn’t mean that she doesn’t like you… maybe she wants you to try and find it out by yourself.<\/p>\n

Maybe that’s how she wants you to prove you’re really interested in her.<\/p>\n

Don’t invite her on a date immediately.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

The first time you approach her, you shouldn’t invite her on a date immediately. You should ask her to stay in touch for a while, so that you two can get to know each other better.<\/p>\n

Espera al momento oportuno e inv\u00edtala a una cita.<\/p>\n

Even if you invite her out immediately, she probably won’t accept it because she would also like to get to know you better before that.<\/p>\n

Conclusi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

I hope this article has answered your question, ‘how do you approach women with confidence’? The most important thing is to remember that no hay nada que deba temer<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, los otros dos consejos de citas muy importantes son que cuando quieras conocer mujeres, debes dejar tu orgullo varonil a un lado y traer s\u00f3lo tu autoestima.<\/p>\n

Siempre digo que it’s way worse never to try than to fail or be rejected once or several times<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

And, even if you are rejected the first time you approach and try to seduce a woman, that’s not a reason for you to stop doing it.<\/p>\n

Even if a woman rejects you, that’s not your loss, it’s theirs because she’s missing the chance to meet a nice guy like you truly are.<\/p>\n

Believe me, once, it’ll pay off. Once, when you meet the right one, you’ll be the happiest person alive, and you’ll be very proud of yourself for having the courage to approach your beautiful woman and win her over.<\/p>\n

Don’t allow your fear to control you. Be strong, be a man and overcome it. Don’t just sit there waiting for true love. Go out there and attract it… Approach that woman you like and win her heart over forever.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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