{"id":11577,"date":"2020-05-09T09:27:10","date_gmt":"2020-05-09T09:27:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11577"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:14:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:14:07","slug":"deja-de-pensar-que-no-piensa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deja-de-pensar-que-no-piensa\/","title":{"rendered":"Deja de pensar en \u00e9l, porque \u00e9l no piensa en ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

I’ve been where you are now. I’ve been there and I have felt just the way you’re feeling now.<\/p>\n

Hopeless, right? Like you weren’t good enough to please him, no matter what you did.<\/p>\n

You gave everything you could to that relationship, but it simply wasn’t enough. Love wasn’t enough.<\/p>\n

Now you’ve come to the point where your memories are overwhelming you and you can’t seem to understand why or even how to quit thinking about him.<\/p>\n

You continue to go over everything that happened and you can’t believe the outcome. He’s gone and you’re now left alone with your thoughts.<\/b><\/p>\n

Los recuerdos siguen viniendo a ti.<\/p>\n

You remember the time he brought you that huge bouquet of roses and he told you that, as beautiful as they were, they couldn\u2019t compare to your beauty.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n recuerdas la vez que te hizo la cena despu\u00e9s de un largo d\u00eda de trabajo y te dijo que eso era lo menos que pod\u00eda hacer por ti.<\/p>\n

Recuerdas las sonrisas y las risas, las noches que pasaban hablando sobre temas que s\u00f3lo entend\u00edan los dos.<\/p>\n

Vuelves a los recuerdos que creaste y lloras, porque duele.<\/p>\n

Lo que m\u00e1s te duele es haber olvidado la vez que lleg\u00f3 a casa tarde esa noche, oliendo a otra mujer.<\/p>\n

Olvidaste la vez que le dijiste que se fuera de tu piso porque te dio una bofetada estando borracho, as\u00ed que te prepar\u00f3 la cena para compensarte.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Olvidaste todas esas veces que le perdonaste sus errores, s\u00f3lo porque te trajo un ramo de rosas.<\/p>\n

Le perdonaste porque jur\u00f3 que te amaba.<\/b><\/p>\n

Eran s\u00f3lo palabras y no est\u00e1s dispuesto a aceptar la verdad.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 es m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil para las mujeres creer en mentiras que afrontar la verdad? \u00bfRealmente somos tan cegado por el amor<\/a> que sentimos por los hombres que nos traicionan?<\/p>\n

Ese mismo amor nos hace pasar por tantas penas y miserias que nadie puede ver, porque nos lo guardamos todo para nosotros.<\/p>\n

Volvemos a esos hombres en nuestra memoria. Olvidamos lo heridos que est\u00e1bamos y nos limitamos a recordar aquellos momentos felices, sin arrepentirnos nunca de ellos.<\/p>\n

Los sentimientos nos ciegan los ojos. Somos criaturas tan puras.<\/b><\/p>\n

La pregunta aqu\u00ed es: \u00bfCrees que \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n te recuerda? \u00bfBajo las s\u00e1banas de otra mujer? \u00bfCompr\u00e1ndole rosas cada vez que mete la pata?<\/p>\n

\u00bfBes\u00e1ndole el cuello y jur\u00e1ndole lo mucho que la quiere? \u00bfDe verdad crees que tiene tiempo para pensar en ti cuando probablemente, ahora mismo, la est\u00e1 besando?<\/p>\n

No. As much as you don’t want to hear it, he’s not pensando en ti.<\/a><\/p>\n

You were just a phase in his life, but he was everything you ever dreamed of. That’s the problem here.<\/p>\n

Why would you want to think about a man who doesn’t bother to think about you?<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Who doesn’t bother to go through his memories of you, because he has another woman to hug right now?<\/p>\n

He’s not thinking about the way your skin felt under his fingers, because he’s too busy touching the skin of another.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 le das el placer de estar constantemente en tu mente y en todo lo que haces?<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00a1Basta ya!<\/p>\n

Te est\u00e1s perdiendo tantas oportunidades maravillosas<\/a> para conocer a un hombre que pueda atesorarte, como realmente te mereces.<\/p>\n

Por fin podr\u00edas conocer a alguien que cumpla sus promesas y te muestre c\u00f3mo debe sentirse el amor verdadero.<\/p>\n

That’s why you need to stop thinking about your past, now more than ever.<\/p>\n

I know that it’s much harder than I make it sound, but there is no other option but to stop thinking about him.<\/p>\n

No era m\u00e1s que una importante lecci\u00f3n de vida que necesitabas aprender.<\/p>\n

Wasn’t that enough? He had the pleasure of being in your life for a short period of time and his time is done.<\/p>\n

Stop chasing lost moments, when your future could be filled with so much beauty that you can’t even imagine.<\/b><\/p>\n

Let go of him and you will open your heart to receive love again. Isn’t that what we all live for?<\/p>\n

El d\u00eda en que nos liberaremos de nuestro pasado y seguiremos hacia el futuro, sonriendo, riendo y amando.<\/p>\n

\"Deja<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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