{"id":116087,"date":"2020-12-01T14:59:29","date_gmt":"2020-12-01T14:59:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=116087"},"modified":"2022-11-26T11:32:23","modified_gmt":"2022-11-26T11:32:23","slug":"senales-de-que-debes-alejarte-de-alguien","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-debes-alejarte-de-alguien\/","title":{"rendered":"15 se\u00f1ales de advertencia de que debes alejarte de alguien"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfTe sientes constantemente agotado sin motivo aparente? Pues quiz\u00e1 sea una de las se\u00f1ales de alarma de que deber\u00edas alejarte de alguien.<\/p>\n

If there’s one thing I’ve learned about life, it’s the following: Al\u00e9jate de los ideales falsos, de comer demasiado az\u00facar y de la gente t\u00f3xica.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you follow fake ideals, you’ll become inauthentic. If you eat too much sugar, you’ll get sick. And, if you surround yourself with toxic people, you\u2019ll be wasting your time and ruining your life!<\/p>\n

Life is too short to be dealing with negative people. Your time is too precious to waste it on people who don’t add value to your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tanto si tu pareja te da por perdido, como si tu colega conspira en secreto contra ti o tu amiga es una Debbie Downer (siempre sacando lo mejor de tu estado de \u00e1nimo positivo), lidiar con este tipo de personas suele ser inevitable.<\/p>\n

Pero, \u00a1no toda esperanza est\u00e1 perdida! Lo que puedes hacer es cambiar tu forma de responder a ellos.<\/p>\n

If you don’t pay attention to red flags, spending time with such people can destroy your well-being and lower your self-esteem and self-worth.<\/p>\n

Para que eso no ocurra, aqu\u00ed tienes la lista de se\u00f1ales de ADVERTENCIA de que debes alejarte de alguien:<\/p>\n

Pasas mucho tiempo quej\u00e1ndote de ellos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Do you find yourself constantly talking about them to your friends or family members? Has complaining about them become your new hobby (that you don’t really enjoy)?<\/p>\n

If yes, then you know there’s something fishy about that person. Often, we’re not even aware that we’re surrounded by negative people until we find ourselves constantly talking about them.<\/p>\n

I remember when I frequently visited the social media profiles of the toxic person in my life. Even though I couldn’t stand their presence, I was still consumed by their toxic personality in the virtual world.<\/p>\n

Supongo que intentaba obtener respuestas sobre por qu\u00e9 se comportan como lo hacen. \u00a1Qu\u00e9 equivocado estaba!<\/p>\n

I didn’t know that I was giving them even more power over my life by doing this!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Si pasa mucho tiempo analizando en exceso o quej\u00e1ndose de la persona negativa<\/a> en tu vida, entonces tienes que hacer algo al respecto.<\/p>\n

You’re not in control of your emotions<\/h2>\n

\"plano<\/p>\n

Whether you’re dealing with a manipulative co-worker or a friend, negative people can interfere with your emotions.<\/p>\n

Imagine that something bad happens at work, and you don’t react immediately because you have no idea what to say.<\/p>\n

So, you go home, and for the rest of the day, you can’t stop thinking about what happened.<\/p>\n

You’re also having difficulty falling asleep because you\u2019re haunted by all the things you wanted to say to them. You get up, go to work again, and feel like you’re not yourself anymore.<\/p>\n

You feel like you’re not in control of your emotions because you’re feeling frustrated all of a sudden, and uncontrollable bursts of rage entrap your mind and body.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cuando eso ocurre, puede que act\u00faes impulsivamente o dejes que emociones reprimidas<\/a> te pasar\u00e1n factura. Recuerda que controlling your emotions doesn’t mean avoiding them<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Les culpas por las decisiones que tomas<\/h2>\n

\"imagen<\/p>\n

Do you blame them when you don\u2019t do something you wanted to? Do you blame them for interfering with your life and ruining your plans?<\/p>\n

Do you blame them when you\u2019re unhappy with your life?<\/p>\n

If you have a toxic relationship with someone, you’ll blame them for the choices you make. They say that we’re the creators of our own happiness.<\/p>\n

Blaming other people for your misery is a huge sign that you’re giving away your power.<\/strong> If they are the reason for your confusion, excessive worrying, and misery, then it’s high time you stay away from them.<\/p>\n

Once you do that, you’ll be able to navigate through life the way you want. You will have the absolute freedom to make your own choices and be responsible for them instead of blaming others.<\/p>\n

Su autoestima disminuye considerablemente<\/h2>\n

\"umhappy<\/p>\n

Todas las v\u00edctimas de una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica y abusiva tienen algo en com\u00fan: una baja autoestima. Las personas t\u00f3xicas hacen todo lo posible por hacerte sentir<\/a> mal de ti mismo.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPara qu\u00e9? Para poder establecer un dominio sobre ti y controlarte m\u00e1s f\u00e1cilmente.<\/p>\n

They will say mean and rude things to you, and they will insult and degrade you. They will do all that to make you believe that you’re weak and that you deserve to be treated that way.<\/p>\n

If anyone treats you this way, know that it’s high time you show them your STRENGTH! Your strength lies within you.<\/p>\n

It’s in your decision to dejarlo todo<\/a> t\u00f3xico y rod\u00e9ate de personas positivas; de aquellas que a\u00f1aden valor a tu vida y aumentan tu autoestima en lugar de rebajarla.<\/p>\n

Pasar tiempo con ellos te hace sentir fatal<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Do you often feel anxious for days when you’re about to meet that person? Do you feel drained in their presence and even for days after the encounter with them?<\/p>\n

Una de las se\u00f1ales m\u00e1s claras de que deber\u00edas alejarte de alguien es si pasar tiempo con esa persona te parece m\u00e1s una pesadilla que una experiencia agradable.<\/p>\n

Recuerdo cuando tuve que lidiar con compa\u00f1eros t\u00f3xicos en mi instituto.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que ocurr\u00eda algo malo, lo reviv\u00eda una y otra vez en mi cabeza durante d\u00edas. Me angustiaba tanto ir al colegio que pens\u00e9 seriamente en fingir que estaba enferma.<\/p>\n

A decir verdad, estaba enferma, pero no f\u00edsicamente. Estaba atormentado mentalmente, y tard\u00e9 un tiempo en recuperarme de todo aquello.<\/p>\n

Here’s my humble advice to you: Take care of your mental health. Don’t waste your time on those who are not worthy of it.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: 120 citas sobre personas t\u00f3xicas que te ayudar\u00e1n a poner l\u00edmites y a desintoxicarte<\/a><\/p>\n

Te rebajas a su nivel t\u00f3xico<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfAlguna vez te has sentido tan frustrado por una persona en particular que incluso has considerado unirte a ella y apoyar su forma de pensar s\u00f3lo para encontrar tu paz? Pues yo s\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Sol\u00eda ser amiga de alguien cuya presencia era devastadora para mi bienestar. Sus niveles de toxicidad eran realmente peligrosos para otras personas.<\/p>\n

No importaba lo que hiciera o dijera, todo seguir\u00eda igual. En un momento dado, decid\u00ed rebajarme a su nivel y, al hacerlo, me puse involuntariamente en una situaci\u00f3n a\u00fan m\u00e1s ca\u00f3tica.<\/p>\n

If you find yourself ever stooping to the other person’s toxic level, this is a huge red flag that it’s time to let go of them!<\/p>\n

I’ve learned the hard way that successfully dealing with negative people doesn’t mean becoming one of them, but it’s all about protecting yourself and not letting them destroy your inner peace.<\/p>\n

Encuentras consuelo en estrategias de afrontamiento poco saludables<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cada persona tiene su propio mecanismo\/estrategia de afrontamiento cuando se siente mal o atraviesa dificultades. Algunas estrategias de afrontamiento pueden ser t\u00f3xicas para tu bienestar.<\/p>\n

Do you find yourself drinking more than before, or you’re the victim of compulsive eating? Do you find comfort in enjoying things that are not good for you?<\/p>\n

Encontrar consuelo en esas cosas le proporcionar\u00e1 un alivio temporal, pero a la larga le har\u00e1n m\u00e1s da\u00f1o que bien.<\/p>\n

Nunca debes permitir que un individuo t\u00f3xico tenga poder sobre tu vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n, deja de intentar salvar a la gente t\u00f3xica<\/a> destruy\u00e9ndote a ti mismo. A veces, el mejor m\u00e9todo de afrontamiento es mantenerse alejado de ellos.<\/p>\n

Tus relaciones se resienten<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Imagine that you had an argument with that toxic friend, and now you’re back home feeling frustrated.<\/p>\n

You’re yelling at your kids for not behaving as they were told, and you’re mad at your husband for forgetting to do some chores.<\/p>\n

But, you aren’t actually acting that way because of them, but because of that toxic friend who filled you with negative energy.<\/p>\n

Here’s the thing with toxic people: Once you absorb their negativity, you will need to release it somehow in the future. <\/strong><\/p>\n

A menudo, elegimos hacerlo con nuestros familiares, mejores amigos y otros seres queridos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As\u00ed es como te conviertes en marido controlador<\/a> o esposa, novio o novia gru\u00f1ones, y la lista sigue y sigue. Si permites que las personas negativas permanezcan en tu vida, tus relaciones se resentir\u00e1n.<\/p>\n

Siempre que te sientas agitado de repente, piensa en qu\u00e9 te hizo sentir as\u00ed en primer lugar. Si la respuesta es ellos, ya sabes lo que debes hacer.<\/p>\n

Careces de l\u00edmites saludables<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Toda relaci\u00f3n sana (sea rom\u00e1ntica o no) consiste en establecer l\u00edmites sanos. Pero las personas negativas suelen dificultarnos el establecimiento de l\u00edmites sanos.<\/p>\n

Te manipular\u00e1n, te dejar\u00e1n sin habla y te dar\u00e1n por sentado una y otra vez. Cada vez que eso ocurre, dices que nunca dejar\u00e1s que te lo vuelvan a hacer.<\/p>\n

But you already know that you’re just lying to yourself.<\/strong> You know that they will keep manipulating you because you haven’t set boundaries. Without boundaries, you will never be able to protect yourself from them.<\/p>\n

Si careces de l\u00edmites saludables y te cuesta establecerlos, deber\u00edas plantearte alejarte de ellos porque te lo debes a ti mismo y a quienes te quieren.<\/p>\n

Te culpan de sus problemas<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

This one should probably be at the top of the list of signs you should stay away from someone because it’s one of the most popular techniques used by negative people.<\/p>\n

Here’s one of the most important preguntas que debes hacerte si sospechas que tu relaci\u00f3n es abusiva<\/a>: \u00bfSoy siempre el culpable?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u00bfTe dicen a menudo cosas como Because of you, I’m no longer myself. You’re the reason why I failed my exam \/have done something wrong\u201d<\/em>? A menudo llegan a decir cosas hirientes<\/a> como You’re the reason why my wife\/husband left me.<\/em><\/p>\n

You become the scapegoat for all their problems, and you start to feel bad about yourself. They convince you that you’re responsible for everything negative that happens in their life.<\/p>\n

Lo hacen porque necesitan desesperadamente a alguien a quien culpar de sus problemas.<\/p>\n

Estas personas suelen fingir que son tus buenos amigos para luego demostrar lo contrario. Despu\u00e9s de alg\u00fan tiempo, te das cuenta de que son manipuladores disfrazados.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: 6 Doble moral a la que te somete una pareja emocionalmente abusiva<\/a><\/p>\n

Toman, toman y toman un poco m\u00e1s<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Toxic people are famous for two things: Being master manipulators and taking as much as they can from you. The word ‘giving’ simply isn’t in their vocabulary.<\/p>\n

If you’re in a romantic relationship with a toxic person or a narcissist, you probably feel taken for granted and convenient.<\/p>\n

Te mandan mensajes y te llaman s\u00f3lo cuando te necesitan y luego te ignoran cuando les llamas o les mandas mensajes.<\/p>\n

Disfrutan \u00e1vidamente de tu m\u00e1ximo afecto, y luego no dan nada a cambio. Toman, toman y toman un poco m\u00e1s sin pensar nunca en corresponder.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Such people are terrible friends and partners, and sadly there’s nothing you can do about it except one thing: You can save yourself by choosing to stay away from them.<\/p>\n

A veces, cortar todo contacto o decidir romper es inevitable y lo \u00fanico correcto.<\/p>\n

Te hacen sentir mal todo el tiempo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Las personas t\u00f3xicas son el tipo de personas que NUNCA admitir\u00e1n cuando se equivocan en algo o cuando cometen un error.<\/p>\n

A sus ojos, siempre tienen raz\u00f3n, y har\u00e1n todo lo que est\u00e9 en su mano para demostr\u00e1rtelo.<\/p>\n

Utilizar\u00e1n sus t\u00e1cticas sucias para hacerte sentir mal todo el tiempo. Cambiar\u00e1n los hechos, cuestionar\u00e1n tus recuerdos, te vender\u00e1n mentiras y har\u00e1n cualquier cosa para conseguir lo que quieren.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Si alguna vez experimenta esto, deber\u00eda ser una clara se\u00f1al de que algo no va bien. Sepa que las personas narcisistas har\u00e1n cualquier cosa para tener el control.<\/p>\n

De este modo, podr\u00e1n seguir manipul\u00e1ndote y haciendo lo que les plazca sin sentirse culpables por ello.<\/p>\n

Si dejas que te hagan sentir mal todo el tiempo, est\u00e1s permitiendo que sean ellos los que manden en tu vida y en tu felicidad.<\/p>\n

Esta es una de las principales razones por las que alejar a las personas t\u00f3xicas de mi vida es mi m\u00e9todo de autocuidado favorito<\/a>. Si sigues dej\u00e1ndoles jugar al echar la culpa a otros<\/a> juego, les dar\u00e1s luz verde para que sigan arruin\u00e1ndote la vida.<\/p>\n

Te enga\u00f1an<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Desde los jugadores t\u00f3xicos hasta los manipuladores, todas las personas malvadas tienen esto en com\u00fan: Est\u00e1n decididos a controlar tu realidad.<\/strong> Al controlar tu realidad, te est\u00e1n controlando a ti.<\/p>\n

Lo hacen enga\u00f1\u00e1ndote para que creas ciertas cosas sobre ellos. Ponen a otras personas en tu contra (tus amigos, familiares, etc.).<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, te inducen a pensar lo que ELLOS quieren que pienses de ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Mentir, cotillear y tergiversar los hechos se convierten en las principales t\u00e9cnicas de manipulaci\u00f3n que utilizan a diario. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Y no se detendr\u00e1n hasta que tengan completo poder sobre tu realidad y tus pensamientos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you’re in a romantic relationship with such a person, you will first think they are your soulmate only to realize they are your biggest enemy.<\/p>\n

Esas personas saben venderse y convencerte de que son exactamente lo que necesitas en tu vida.<\/p>\n

They will shower you with affection only to use this against you sometime in the future. They will agree with you on everything you say to them only to make you feel like you’re the one being manipulative.<\/p>\n

Whatever they are doing to you, they will convince you that you’re the one doing that to them. This might sound complicated, but actually, it’s really simple. And the solution is simple as well. It’s hidden in the title.<\/p>\n

Te menosprecian<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La gente malvada har\u00e1 todo lo que est\u00e9 en su mano para menospreciar tus opiniones y decisiones. Se burlar\u00e1n de tu aspecto y de tu cuerpo.<\/p>\n

Ridiculizar\u00e1n tus intereses y aficiones, hablar\u00e1n mal de tus amigos, de todo.<\/p>\n

If you tell them that you’re thinking about taking dance classes, they will tell you something like this: \u00bfT\u00fa, tomando clases de baile? <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Are you out of your mind? You know that you’ll never be good at it, and you will simply look ridiculous. I’m being honest with you to spare you the trouble.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

O si has engordado, te menospreciar\u00e1n de la siguiente manera: Honestamente, te ves terrible. Si te dijera que te ves bien, te estar\u00eda mintiendo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

They will also constantly make you feel like you’re no es suficiente<\/a>. Whatever you do or say, you’ll never meet their expectations.<\/p>\n

Even if you do, they will make sure to prove otherwise. That’s one of the evilest cosas que la gente t\u00f3xica hace para destruirte<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you’re feeling less worthy, this will reflect in every aspect of your life, and it will help them maintain their dominance over you.<\/p>\n

You just don’t feel right around them<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Whenever you’re spending time with them, do you feel weird like something is missing? Do you feel unable to relax and maintain your positive outlook?<\/p>\n

Si tu respuesta es afirmativa, entonces sabes que son malos para ti, y deber\u00edas mantenerte alejado de ellos.<\/p>\n

Comunicarse con ellos de forma sana es una misi\u00f3n imposible. Demostrar que est\u00e1n equivocados tampoco es una opci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

If you’re sensitive to other people’s energy like me, then you should definitely trust your intuition.<\/strong> If I notice that I don’t feel comfortable in someone’s company, I immediately start questioning myself and their personality.<\/p>\n

Usually, I think that there’s something wrong with me, but when I compare them to other people in my life, I start seeing things as they are. All those red flags that I wasn’t aware of start making sense.<\/p>\n

When you don’t feel right around someone, remember that there’s a reason why you’re feeling that way. Sometimes, the reason is you, while at other times, the reason is their toxic nature.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: 4 diferencias entre una conexi\u00f3n genuina y un apego t\u00f3xico<\/a><\/p>\n

You can’t force a toxic person to change!<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

One of the surest signs you should stay away from someone is if you\u2019re not happy around them. You should never tolerate the above toxic behaviors, no matter what.<\/p>\n

If they don’t add value to your life, if they take you for granted, belittle you, or mislead you, you shouldn’t allow them to keep doing all that. By not doing anything about it, you are signaling that you’re okay with this treatment.<\/p>\n

Uno de los 7 reglas de la vida<\/b><\/a>\u00a0says that you’re the only one in charge of your happiness.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you don’t stand up for yourself, no one else will. If you don’t care about your well-being, no one else will.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Remember that you can’t force a toxic person to change. The only time they’ll change is when they decide to do so. If you force them or nag them, you will only make things worse.<\/p>\n

No matter how sorry you feel for them, remember that it’s not your job to save them. Your job is to protect yourself. So, be in charge of your happiness and walk away from those who don’t deserve you.<\/p>\n

\u201cAs you remove toxic people from your life, you free up space and emotional energy for positive, healthy relationships.\u201d<\/strong><\/em> \u2013 John Mark Green<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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