{"id":116161,"date":"2020-12-01T15:02:30","date_gmt":"2020-12-01T15:02:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=116161"},"modified":"2022-02-22T20:13:55","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T20:13:55","slug":"no-el-nuevo-amor-que-te-asusta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-el-nuevo-amor-que-te-asusta\/","title":{"rendered":"No es el nuevo amor lo que te asusta, sino el viejo dolor"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfSientes a veces miedo de volver a entregar tu coraz\u00f3n a alguien? \u00bfTe asusta la sola idea de volver a enamorarte?<\/p>\n

You’re probably afraid of getting hurt once again, right?<\/p>\n

Acabas de juntar todos los pedazos rotos de tu coraz\u00f3n y los has vuelto a pegar, y ahora, sientes miedo de enamorarte de alguien que podr\u00eda volver a romper tu fr\u00e1gil coraz\u00f3n en un mill\u00f3n de pedacitos.<\/p>\n

Yes, that’s an option, a risk, but you have to take that risk because sometimes, believe me, things turn out completely different. <\/em><\/p>\n

A veces, las cosas salen bien y lo \u00fanico que hay que hacer es creer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cree en el amor verdadero porque existe<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cree y espera que todo saldr\u00e1 bien. Mant\u00e9n la fe en el amor verdadero porque existe.<\/em><\/p>\n

That real, honest love isn’t some imaginary, ordinary or temporary feeling. It’s so much more than that. It’s one very powerful force that can make your whole world spin.<\/p>\n

Love isn’t scary, it’s incredibly beautiful<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Why should you be scared of something so pure and wonderful like true love is? It won’t hurt you, and if it does, then it’s no es amor verdadero<\/a>.<\/p>\n

El amor verdadero te sacude por completo. Te da una raz\u00f3n para vivir, y te da la fuerza para seguir siempre adelante en la vida por muy mal que se pongan las cosas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aporta tantos colores hermosos a tu vida. Te cambia por completo y te hace mejor persona. Te hace enamorarte de ti mismo y tambi\u00e9n de tu vida.<\/p>\n

So, tell me one good reason why you should be afraid of something so wonderful? Don’t allow that fear to ruin your chances of feeling true happiness.<\/p>\n

Don’t allow your old pain to make you lose faith in true love<\/h2>\n

\"pensive_dreaming<\/p>\n

Okay, it didn’t work out for you once, but that’s not a reason to push love to the side. It’s not a reason to close all the doors of your heart to real love.<\/p>\n

I know that once you’re traicionado por el<\/a> who swore they would never betray or hurt you, it’s difficult to give your trust and your heart to someone new, to someone who could hurt you the same.<\/p>\n

I know it’s tough, but you must be tougher than that. No matter how much someone hurt you, don’t ever allow it to burn all the bridges between you and true love.<\/em><\/p>\n

El amor verdadero no es un cuento de hadas<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

It doesn’t just happen. It requires traicionado por el<\/a>muchos sacrificios, compromisos y mucha comprensi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

That’s exactly why your last fairy tale didn’t have a happy ending. He wasn’t your prince and Dios lo ha apartado de tu vida<\/a> s\u00f3lo porque \u00c9l quiere que encuentres a la persona adecuada.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He wants you to find a man with whom you won’t have a \u201chappy ending\u201d either because your love story won’t ever end. He wants you to find your prince.<\/em><\/p>\n

Abrirse de nuevo al amor<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don’t close your heart to a new love just because someone has hurt you before. Don’t be afraid to fall in love again because love truly is the most beautiful thing in the entire universe.<\/p>\n

Love is the whole point of living. To know this, we have that other person who’ll always be there by our side no matter what.<\/p>\n

If you close all your doors to a new love, you’ll regret it one day for sure. Life is too short and it might be too late for regrets afterward.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Porque mereces que te quieran<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que, en el fondo, lo \u00fanico que quieres es que te quieran de esa forma desinteresada e incondicional.<\/p>\n

I know you want to feel that fairy tale kind of love, and one day, you will because it’s what you deserve. You’re a little bit damaged, but you still have a pure heart full of love that also deserves it.<\/p>\n

One day, you’ll meet someone who’ll make you feel loved, happy and respected every damn day.<\/p>\n

One day, you’ll get everything traicionado por el<\/a> y mucho m\u00e1s. Espere, espere y crea.<\/p>\n

Deja tu pasado donde pertenece<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It’s high time to forget about your past and leave it where it belongs, indeed, once and for all. Forgive those who hurt you and forgive yourself for being naive enough to trust them.<\/p>\n

Forget about your painful past and those bad experiences. You’re only wasting your precious time.<\/p>\n

You should turn to the future and forget about those things that happened when you couldn\u2019t change anything about it.<\/p>\n

You’re not afraid of new love, your old pain is what hurts and scares you. Free yourself from the shackles of your past. Let the pain go out of your life and let the happiness in.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Do you sometimes feel scared of giving your heart to someone again? Does that bare thought of falling in love again scare the hell out of you? You’re probably afraid of getting hurt once again, right? You just collected all the broken pieces of your heart and glued them back together, and now, you feel…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":116243,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-116161","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Its-Not-The-New-Love-That-Scares-You-Its-The-Old-Pain-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116161","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=116161"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116161\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116243"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=116161"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=116161"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=116161"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}