{"id":11633,"date":"2020-06-09T12:28:50","date_gmt":"2020-06-09T12:28:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11633"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:32:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:32:47","slug":"10-objetivos-que-debe-alcanzar-una-relacion-si-quiere-ser-realmente-feliz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-objetivos-que-debe-alcanzar-una-relacion-si-quiere-ser-realmente-feliz\/","title":{"rendered":"10 objetivos de pareja que debes alcanzar si quieres ser realmente feliz"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s a goal like every other in your life. You see it as something you need to achieve in order to be truly happy.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando empiezas una nueva relaci\u00f3n, tienes una imagen en la cabeza de c\u00f3mo deber\u00eda ser para que fuera la relaci\u00f3n adecuada para ti.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca definiste esos deseos y necesidades que tienes, nunca los convertiste en objetivos que necesitas alcanzar.<\/p>\n<p>Pero si alguna vez has visto alguna charla motivacional en Internet, sabr\u00e1s que para conseguir un determinado objetivo, tienes que definirlo y los pasos para conseguirlo.<\/p>\n<p>He aqu\u00ed algunos ejemplos de #relationshipgoals que quiz\u00e1 quieras tener en cuenta para tener una relaci\u00f3n feliz y satisfactoria:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Comunicaci\u00f3n sincera y abierta<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95152\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/couple-sitting-in-living-room-and-talking-with-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"pareja sentada en el salon y hablando con cafe\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/couple-sitting-in-living-room-and-talking-with-coffee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/couple-sitting-in-living-room-and-talking-with-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/couple-sitting-in-living-room-and-talking-with-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you start a new relationship, it&#8217;s all about learning something new about them, even their dark secrets and thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not obsessive to want to know someone better because you need to know what their motivations and their biggest fears are in order to know if you want to continue being in a relationship with them.<\/p>\n<p>Ten\u00e9is que ser sinceros el uno con el otro sobre las cosas que os molestan.<\/p>\n<p>If you are thinking about texting him but you think that you will get on his nerves and be a bother, don&#8217;t even start a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s the point if you can&#8217;t have someone to talk to at any given time of the day?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ser mejores amigos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95156\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/happy-couple-having-a-pillow-fight.jpg\" alt=\"pareja feliz teniendo una pelea de almohadas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/happy-couple-having-a-pillow-fight.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/happy-couple-having-a-pillow-fight-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/happy-couple-having-a-pillow-fight-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you thought that being best friends with your boyfriend is weird, well, you thought wrong. If you&#8217;re going to be in a happy relationship, you need someone with whom you can laugh, have pillow fights and play video games.<\/p>\n<p>Esas son las cosas que os hacen perfectos el uno para el otro.<\/p>\n<p>Pero lo m\u00e1s importante aqu\u00ed es que ser amigos te ayuda a superar los momentos dif\u00edciles.<\/p>\n<p>Sex can help you to get over whatever you did to upset the other but it will get weird after some time and it won&#8217;t have any meaning anymore.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tiempo a solas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95157\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Beautiful-young-girl-waking-up-after-a-night-sleep.jpg\" alt=\"Hermosa joven despertando despu\u00e9s de una noche de sue\u00f1o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Beautiful-young-girl-waking-up-after-a-night-sleep.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Beautiful-young-girl-waking-up-after-a-night-sleep-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Beautiful-young-girl-waking-up-after-a-night-sleep-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Necesitas tiempo para ti, para recargar pilas y centrarte en los objetivos que son s\u00f3lo tuyos.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t have to freak out every time your partner is not around! It&#8217;s nice to be alone for a while and gather your thoughts, and it might help you to find a solution to a certain problem.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s also there to see how independent you are, even when you&#8217;re in a <a href=\"https:\/\/tinybuddha.com\/featured\/10-ways-to-have-peaceful-loving-relationships\/\" rel=\"noopener\">relaci\u00f3n cari\u00f1osa y atenta<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Aunque vivas con tu pareja, puedes irte a otra habitaci\u00f3n a trabajar o a tomar un caf\u00e9 a solas y leer un buen libro.<\/p>\n<p>Algunas personas viven para esos momentos, porque saben que siempre tienen a alguien a quien recurrir cuando se sienten solas.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Se apoyan mutuamente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95158\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Beautiful-young-loving-couple-bonding-to-each-other-and-smiling-while-woman-holding-a-book.jpg\" alt=\"Hermosa pareja amorosa joven vinculaci\u00f3n entre s\u00ed y sonriendo mientras que la mujer sostiene un libro\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Beautiful-young-loving-couple-bonding-to-each-other-and-smiling-while-woman-holding-a-book.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Beautiful-young-loving-couple-bonding-to-each-other-and-smiling-while-woman-holding-a-book-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Beautiful-young-loving-couple-bonding-to-each-other-and-smiling-while-woman-holding-a-book-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9l debe saber lo que te esfuerzas por conseguir en tu vida y tambi\u00e9n al rev\u00e9s.<\/p>\n<p>Hay que apoyar los objetivos de los dem\u00e1s y estar ah\u00ed para ayudar si se puede.<\/p>\n<p>Be each other\u2019s support system and show the world that you can achieve everything you want together.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">No tener relaciones sexuales cada vez que est\u00e1n juntos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95159\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-young-couple-sleeping-on-bed-1.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa pareja joven durmiendo en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-young-couple-sleeping-on-bed-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-young-couple-sleeping-on-bed-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-young-couple-sleeping-on-bed-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s very important to not make sex the highest priority in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Si sois capaces de sentaros uno al lado del otro, sin tocaros siquiera, lo hab\u00e9is conseguido.<\/p>\n<p>Or even better, if you can cuddle for hours on end and still not feel the urge to fuck but rather to enjoy your time together like that, well, that&#8217;s the biggest #relationshipgoal out there.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Deja tu tel\u00e9fono a mano sin miedo a que tu pareja revise tus mensajes<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95160\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/silver-smartphone-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"smartphone plateado sobre la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/silver-smartphone-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/silver-smartphone-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/silver-smartphone-on-bed-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Podemos <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/insight-is-2020\/201409\/the-3-reasons-we-can-get-jealous\" rel=\"noopener\">se pone muy celoso<\/a> but that doesn&#8217;t mean that we have the right to invade someone else&#8217;s privacy. You need to trust your partner in order to be calm and collected when they get a text message.<\/p>\n<p>El objetivo aqu\u00ed es no dejarse llevar nunca por las ganas de ver qu\u00e9 le manda por mensaje a otra persona porque conf\u00edas en tu pareja lo suficiente como para creer que te es fiel.<\/p>\n<p>Also, he won&#8217;t check on you either because he knows how precious he is to you. This gets to the point where we are willing to give our phone to the other person to look after and we let them know everything that&#8217;s on there because we have nothing to hide.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Telling them that other people are attractive and knowing they won\u2019t get mad<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95161\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/male-and-female-talking-and-holding-white-cup-of-tea-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer hablando y sosteniendo una taza de t\u00e9 blanco en casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/male-and-female-talking-and-holding-white-cup-of-tea-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/male-and-female-talking-and-holding-white-cup-of-tea-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/male-and-female-talking-and-holding-white-cup-of-tea-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hi! Hello. Let me update you on something new: you will be attracted to other people while you&#8217;re in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Attraction to others doesn&#8217;t magically disappear when you are in love with someone.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, durante un tiempo s\u00f3lo tienes ojos para tu media naranja, pero al cabo de un tiempo ves belleza f\u00edsica en otras personas y deber\u00edas tener el valor de decirle a tu hombre lo que piensas.<\/p>\n<p>And, believe it or not, they won&#8217;t get mad at you if you have a stable relationship, where both sides trust each other enough to know that they&#8217;re yours no matter what.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ser raros y asquerosos entre nosotros<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95162\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/weird-couple-making-duckface.jpg\" alt=\"pareja rara haciendo cara de pato\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/weird-couple-making-duckface.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/weird-couple-making-duckface-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/weird-couple-making-duckface-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sabes que tu relaci\u00f3n es real #relationshipgoals cuando te sientes completamente c\u00f3modo siendo t\u00fa mismo y sin ocultarle nada a tu pareja.<\/p>\n<p>You can laugh as loud as you can, because you know that your partner finds that cute. Or even fart and burp in front of each other, because you both know that they\u2019re normal human reactions.<\/p>\n<p>Hay tantas cosas que nos averg\u00fcenza hacer en p\u00fablico, pero no las hay en las historias de amor verdadero.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pasar la noche comiendo y viendo la televisi\u00f3n en lugar de salir<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95154\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/couple-drinking-beer-and-watching-TV.jpg\" alt=\"pareja bebiendo cerveza y viendo la tele\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/couple-drinking-beer-and-watching-TV.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/couple-drinking-beer-and-watching-TV-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/couple-drinking-beer-and-watching-TV-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Why do you need a fancy dinner to prove to each other that you are in love? Well, going out from time to time and treating yourselves is completely fine, unless it&#8217;s the only way you show each other that you are in love.<\/p>\n<p>The goal here, in particular, is that you are so happy with each other that it doesn&#8217;t matter where you are or what you do.<\/p>\n<p>Quedaros en la habitaci\u00f3n y ver pel\u00edculas toda la noche os ahorra dinero y os hace apreciar el tiempo que pas\u00e1is juntos.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Emocionarse al verse<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95153\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/happy-couple-hugging-outside.jpg\" alt=\"pareja feliz abraz\u00e1ndose al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/happy-couple-hugging-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/happy-couple-hugging-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/happy-couple-hugging-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Even after years of dating, you still get excited to see each other. What? You&#8217;ve been separated for an hour?<\/p>\n<p>Pues ser\u00e1 mejor que corras gritando hacia \u00e9l y te lances a sus brazos como si os hubierais visto por \u00faltima vez hace un mes.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-95151 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/10-Relationship-Goals-You-Need-To-Achieve-If-You-Want-To-Be-Truly-Happy-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 objetivos de pareja que debes alcanzar si quieres ser realmente feliz\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/10-Relationship-Goals-You-Need-To-Achieve-If-You-Want-To-Be-Truly-Happy-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/10-Relationship-Goals-You-Need-To-Achieve-If-You-Want-To-Be-Truly-Happy-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/10-Relationship-Goals-You-Need-To-Achieve-If-You-Want-To-Be-Truly-Happy-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/10-Relationship-Goals-You-Need-To-Achieve-If-You-Want-To-Be-Truly-Happy-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/10-Relationship-Goals-You-Need-To-Achieve-If-You-Want-To-Be-Truly-Happy-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/10-Relationship-Goals-You-Need-To-Achieve-If-You-Want-To-Be-Truly-Happy-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s a goal like every other in your life. You see it as something you need to achieve in order to be truly happy. When you start a new relationship, you have a picture in your mind about how it should look like in order for it to be the right relationship for you. You&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":95150,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11633","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/10-Relationship-Goals-You-Need-To-Achieve-If-You-Want-To-Be-Truly-Happy.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11633","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11633"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11633\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95150"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11633"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11633"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11633"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}