{"id":116690,"date":"2020-12-07T20:19:44","date_gmt":"2020-12-07T20:19:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=116690"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:48:29","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:48:29","slug":"senales-de-que-tu-familia-no-se-preocupa-por-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-tu-familia-no-se-preocupa-por-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"11 se\u00f1ales de que no le importas a tu familia y c\u00f3mo afrontarlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Do you think you have some toxic family members who simply don’t care about you and your needs?<\/p>\n

Here are some signs that your family doesn’t care about you, which will help you figure out whether you’re living in a dysfunctional, toxic environment or not.<\/p>\n

Crecer en una familia agradable, sana y funcional afecta positivamente a nuestra salud mental y autoestima.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nos ayuda a ser mejores personas y tambi\u00e9n a establecer unos objetivos buenos y realistas para el futuro.<\/em><\/p>\n

Por otra parte, crecer en un disfuncional<\/a> familia y tener una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica con miembros de tu familia afectar\u00e1 negativamente a tu bienestar mental y emocional, y tambi\u00e9n a tu futuro.<\/p>\n

Toxic family relationships will leave some scars on your mental health; scars that you’ll never be able to get rid of.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You’ll be left with fear about the future and your own family… the perfect family you have always dreamed you\u2019d have one day.<\/p>\n

The fact is that family relationships shape our lives. They play a major role in what kind of people we’ll become one day.<\/p>\n

However, unfortunately, we aren’t all blessed with a caring, happy and healthy family that is always there for us no matter what.<\/p>\n

11 Enormous signs your family doesn’t care about you<\/h2>\n

Of course, if you’re a teenager, this doesn’t apply to you because most teenagers think that their family doesn’t love them and wants to make their life miserable, but that’s just a phase.<\/p>\n

Now, you’re probably asking, how do you know that your family doesn’t care for you?<\/p>\n

Bueno, hay algunos signos comunes que pueden mostrarlo, y si reconoces alguno de estos signos, tu din\u00e1mica familiar es t\u00f3xica y debes encontrar una manera de lidiar con ella lo antes posible.<\/p>\n

You don’t feel loved and respected<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

In a functional and healthy family, all family members should feel loved and respected. It’s the most important thing for a healthy family relationship.<\/p>\n

If you’re away for some time, they should make a phone call or send you a simple email or a message on social media just to show they’re missing you and thinking of you.<\/p>\n

Deben apoyarte siempre, hagas lo que hagas.<\/p>\n

You’ll disagree sometimes, which is perfectly normal and we all sometimes argue with our family, but you’ll overcome it easily and behave as if nothing happened.<\/p>\n

They’re never there when you need them most<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

In all family situations, in good and bad times, you have to stick together and be each other’s biggest support.<\/p>\n

If your family is never there for you or if they can’t make time for you and your needs, it’s simply a sign that they don’t care about you and your needs.<\/p>\n

Just like you should make time for them even with your busiest schedule, they should do the same for you. By making time for someone, you’re actually showing them that you honestly care for them.<\/p>\n

They don’t care for your opinion nor your feelings<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Tu opini\u00f3n debe ser tan importante como la de ellos. Si todos los dem\u00e1s miembros participan en la toma de algunas decisiones importantes, t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n deber\u00edas participar.<\/p>\n

If they don’t care for your opinion or your feelings, it means they don’t care for you at all. That’s not healthy and it will definitely affect you.<\/p>\n

The important thing is that you shouldn’t accept that kind of mistreatment. You don’t deserve it, so don’t accept it. Tell them how you’re not okay with it and how your opinion should be as important as theirs.<\/p>\n

Ha sufrido diferentes tipos de abusos<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You have to understand this \u2013 abuse is unacceptable no matter where it comes from. If a person cares for you honestly, they would never make you hurt like that.<\/p>\n

And, I’m not talking about physical abuse only \u2013 there are different ways your family can abuse you, such as mental and abuso emocional<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If they are able to hurt you like that, then that’s a good sign that your family doesn’t care about you.<\/p>\n

El gaslighting tambi\u00e9n es otro tipo de abuso.<\/strong> It’s mental abuse because it affects your mental health negatively. <\/em><\/p>\n

Your family’s manipulation can make you reconsider some of your own life decisions as well as make you feel bad about your own choices.<\/p>\n

Tus necesidades nunca son importantes<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

First of all, understand that your needs are just as important as everyone else’s. If you’re trying to fulfill all of their needs, they should do the same for you.<\/p>\n

If you feel like your family has never even cared for your needs, then probably (and I know this is very hard to hear) they don’t care for you at all.<\/p>\n

This can make you feel sad and emotionally empty, but that\u2019s something you should never allow.<\/p>\n

There are other people in your life who care for you, and one day, you’ll find a person who’ll sacrifice everything for you and who’ll try to fulfill all of your needs.<\/p>\n

Siempre te critican duramente<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ser criticado constantemente por personas cercanas, incluso por cosas que est\u00e1n fuera de tu control, har\u00e1 que se eleve esa voz cr\u00edtica interior.<\/p>\n

Constant criticizing is one of the most common mistakes that parents make. Unfortunately, sometimes, they aren’t even aware of the consequences it leaves on their children’s mental and emotional health.<\/p>\n

Incluso cuando haces algo mal, hay muchas otras formas en que tu familia puede se\u00f1alarte tu error.<\/p>\n

Constant criticizing and punishments are never a way to encourage someone to fix their mistakes. It has so many bad effects, and it’s definitely not a good way to discipline children.<\/p>\n

They don’t respect your boundaries<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

En todo tipo de relaci\u00f3n tiene que haber unos l\u00edmites sanos para que esa relaci\u00f3n sea sana y funcional, y cada parte tiene que respetar esos l\u00edmites.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n necesitamos tener nuestro espacio personal incluso en nuestras relaciones cercanas.<\/p>\n

If your family is constantly overstepping your boundaries, and if they don’t respect your need for personal space, then they don’t respect you at all.<\/em><\/p>\n

You have to value yourself if they don’t want to. You’re important and you deserve to be treated well… to be treated with respect and dignity.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Learn to say ‘No’ to them. If your boundaries are being violated constantly, it may lead to developing a codependiente<\/a> relaci\u00f3n entre t\u00fa y tu familia, lo que les permitir\u00e1 controlarte por completo.<\/p>\n

Todo es siempre culpa tuya<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Do you have a feeling that somehow, you always get blamed for everything… all bad things that happen in your family?<\/p>\n

Don’t worry, it’s not your fault. Don’t even dare to think that there is something wrong with you.<\/p>\n

It only means you’re living in a toxic family with people who use you as the sacrificial lamb for all bad family situations.<\/p>\n

They blame you for everything because it’s so much easier to put the culpar a<\/a> en otra persona en lugar de asumir la responsabilidad de sus propios errores.<\/p>\n

I know it’s heartbreaking to live in such surroundings when people blame you for all the bad things that happen. But, it’s also your fault if you allow them to do so. You have to learn to stand up for yourself.<\/p>\n

Nunca comparten nada contigo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfExiste un sentimiento m\u00e1s hermoso que compartir algo bonito que te ha ocurrido con las personas que quieres y te importan?<\/p>\n

That’s actually the whole point of life… to have dreams and goals to pursue and to share them with your loved ones.<\/p>\n

If you feel like your family is constantly pushing you aside and rarely sharing anything with you, it’s one of the most obvious signs your family doesn’t care for you.<\/p>\n

Te dejan fuera de todas las reuniones familiares<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you don’t live with your family and they never call or text you to simply check on you or they never visit or invite you to some important family gatherings, I’m sorry, but I have to break it out for you… they don’t care for you at all.<\/p>\n

Las reuniones familiares tienen por objeto reunir a todos los miembros de la familia en un mismo lugar para que puedan ponerse al d\u00eda y mantener su fuerte v\u00ednculo.<\/p>\n

If your family doesn\u2019t invite you to their gatherings, it’s only because they don’t want you there (obviously) and they don’t care about you, your life, or your well-being.<\/p>\n

I know it’s heartbreaking to be so estranged from your family, but trust me, it’s better for you, and one day, you’ll realize this yourself.<\/p>\n

Don’t force anything, and don’t go to places where you’re unwanted. If they don’t want to be in your life, then open the doors for them and escort them out of your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You have yourself and that’s more than enough, please trust me on this one.<\/em><\/p>\n

Also, one day, you’ll meet the person who’ll never want to spend a day without you, and you’ll have your own family one day who’ll make up for everything you missed with your family.<\/em><\/p>\n

You’re generally disappointed with how your family treats you<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If your family constantly makes you feel like you’re the black sheep of the family and you feel disappointed by the way they treat you, that’s toxic and unhealthy family dynamics.<\/p>\n

However, that’s not a reason for you to start thinking about how you’re less worthy than other members of your family.<\/p>\n

Don’t allow their toxicity to affect your autoestima<\/a> y te hacen dudar de tu autoestima. Deja de darles poder sobre tu vida.<\/p>\n

And, don’t ever think that all of the things that are happening are somehow your fault… that you deserved it somehow…<\/p>\n

Algunas personas son simplemente t\u00f3xico<\/a>, and no matter how much we love and try to save them, their toxicity just can’t be fixed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

What do you do when you realize your family doesn’t care about you?<\/h2>\n

If you’ve recognized any of these signs above, then you should react immediately and put a stop to your family\u2019s toxic behavior and mistreatment. Here is how you’ll handle it effectively.<\/p>\n

En primer lugar, convi\u00e9rtete en una prioridad<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Antes de empezar a tratar con los miembros t\u00f3xicos de tu familia, tienes que volver a centrarte en ti mismo y hacer que t\u00fa mismo una prioridad<\/a>. Debes aprender a ser independiente y autosuficiente.<\/p>\n

One of the most beautiful things in the world is to have a happy and functional family, I agree, but it’s also not the end of the world if you don’t.<\/p>\n

You have yourself and that’s the most important thing.<\/p>\n

Even if you fail to make them realize that they’re being unfair to you, and even if you don’t succeed in fixing your relationship, you should accept it and move on with your life.<\/p>\n

Think about yourself, your future and your own family you’ll have one day. Practice autocuidado<\/a> and don’t allow their toxicity to affect your mood, your vibes and your happiness in life.<\/p>\n

Establezca unos l\u00edmites saludables<\/h2>\n

\"hija<\/p>\n

Debes traer algo saludable l\u00edmites<\/a> en tu relaci\u00f3n. Esto te ayudar\u00e1 definitivamente a deshacerte de su toxicidad o, al menos, a no permitir que afecte tanto a tu vida.<\/p>\n

Los l\u00edmites son buenos y necesarios en cualquier tipo de relaci\u00f3n. A veces, es necesario trazar la l\u00ednea y decir basta; aqu\u00ed es donde tu narcisista<\/a> el comportamiento y la falta de respeto cesan.<\/p>\n

Hable con ellos al respecto<\/h2>\n

\"hija<\/p>\n

Sit down and talk honestly with your family. Tell them how you feel about everything and how it’s high time for them to reconsider their behavior towards you.<\/p>\n

Tell them also how their mistreatment is affecting and ruining your mental health. Set an ultimatum for them… either they’ll change their behavior towards you or you’ll cortar<\/a> todo contacto con ellos.<\/p>\n

Construya su propio sistema de apoyo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Find comfort in your friends or some ‘normal’ family members. You should set up your own support system that will help you go through all of it.<\/p>\n

Find a shoulder to cry on. You shouldn’t go through all of this alone. There are still so many people who honestly care for you and those people deserve a place in your life the most.<\/p>\n

Dejar de normalizar el maltrato emocional<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

El maltrato es abuso<\/a>, and trust me, it’s even worse when it comes from people close to you. It’ll leave some marks for life on your physical, emotional, and mental health.<\/p>\n

Por mucho que quieras a alguien, nunca debes tolerar que te maltrate de ninguna manera. Enfr\u00e9ntate a tu familia y diles que dejen de hacerlo y empiecen a tratarte como te mereces.<\/p>\n

Perm\u00edtete sentir todas tus emociones<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Seguro que sentir\u00e1s toda una serie de emociones, y tienes todo el derecho a sentirte como quieras. Llora cuando lo necesites. Grita tambi\u00e9n cuando lo necesites.<\/p>\n

You have the right to feel angry at them because I know you didn’t deserve to be treated the way they treat you.<\/p>\n

However, please don’t allow that anger to consume you. It will take the best out of you and turn you into a very cold person.<\/p>\n

Cortar el contacto durante un tiempo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I know this is hard. I know it’s hard to cut off contact with your loved ones or to get them out of your life forever.<\/p>\n

However, in order to preserve your sanity, you’ll have to do it. If they are treating you badly, forget they are your family and know that there are some toxic people, abusers and narcissists in this world.<\/p>\n

Narcisismo<\/a> realmente puede destruir una familia por completo.<\/p>\n

Conclusi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

We are all aware that we aren’t all blessed with a healthy and happy family, and I really hope these common signs your family doesn’t care about you helped you realize this so you’ll be able to deal with it as soon as possible.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, estos m\u00e9todos tan efectivos de arriba te ayudar\u00e1n a manejar a los miembros t\u00f3xicos de tu familia, pero realmente tienes que seguir todos estos pasos cuidadosamente.<\/p>\n

You should never allow anyone, no matter how much you love and care for someone, to treat you the way you don’t deserve.<\/p>\n

Emotional (and even worse, physical) abuse will leave some consequences on your mental health and well-being, and you’ll never be able to heal from it completely.<\/p>\n

If you can’t deal with those toxic members of your family, then you have to cut off all ties with those members once and for all. Don’t allow anyone to control you and affect your happiness.<\/p>\n

The most important thing you really have to be aware of is that it’s never your fault<\/strong>. They’re just toxic people who aren’t pleased with their own lives and want to make you feel the same.<\/em><\/p>\n

Don’t allow them to do that. I know it’s awfully hard to cut off contact with your family, but for the sake of your own well-being and your future, you just have to do it.<\/p>\n

Love and take care of yourself first because (I’m sure you’re well aware of this by now) you’re all you have at the end of the day.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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