{"id":116691,"date":"2020-12-03T14:30:20","date_gmt":"2020-12-03T14:30:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=116691"},"modified":"2021-08-30T13:49:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T13:49:45","slug":"me-niego-a-rebajarme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/me-niego-a-rebajarme\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que me niego a rebajarme por cualquier hombre"},"content":{"rendered":"

How many times have you been in a situation where a man ended up running away from you for being \u201cdemasiado<\/a>\u201d?<\/p>\n

Maybe he couldn\u2019t handle the fact that you earned more money or had a higher self-confidence. Or was it because you were taller, louder, or more dominant in another way?<\/p>\n

Did he accuse you of being too bossy or assertive? Or was it your fierce and independent side? Was it the fact that you didn\u2019t actually need him?<\/p>\n

La cuesti\u00f3n es que se sinti\u00f3 intimidado por ti.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been down that road more than once. And if you\u2019re an alpha female, you know exactly what I\u2019m talking about.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No, no es un mito ni una excusa vac\u00eda que nos decimos a nosotros mismos cuando nos rechazan. Los hombres realmente temen a las mujeres fuertes.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bueno, no todos lo hacen, pero hay hombres que se sienten amenazados por una mujer poderosa. Nos guste o no, hay muchos cavern\u00edcolas por ah\u00ed.<\/p>\n

You know the type, right? The one who thinks it\u2019s his job to protect his woman and provide for her.<\/p>\n

Of course, in return, she has to follow his lead. After all, he is a man, so he must know what\u2019s best for her.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Look, no guy will tell you this outright, but if you dig a little deeper and pay attention, you\u2019ll notice that they\u2019re all around us.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t only happen in romance: sooner or later, you\u2019ll face this power struggle with your male friends, coworkers, and practically anywhere you show up.<\/p>\n

So, I bet you can\u2019t help but wonder if you should dial yourself down a little. In fact, I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve already done it before to make a man happier.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 dejaste de llevar tacones altos o bajaste el tono de voz cuando estabas con \u00e9l. Tal vez estabas falsamente de acuerdo con su opini\u00f3n solo para complacerle.<\/p>\n

Podr\u00eda haber sido la cosa m\u00e1s tonta de la historia: le pediste que te arreglara la rueda pinchada, aunque sab\u00edas hacerlo t\u00fa mismo, s\u00f3lo para hacerle sentir m\u00e1s hombre.<\/p>\n

Or you let him get his way, even though you knew he wasn\u2019t right, just so he could have the impression that he was the dominant one.<\/p>\n

Los ejemplos son interminables, pero s\u00e9 todos nosotros mujeres fuertes<\/a> son culpables de estos delitos menores.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not here to judge because I used to do the same. It wasn\u2019t anything big at first, but later on, it hit me: I was dialing myself down for a man \u2013 that\u2019s what I was doing.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que dej\u00e9 de hacerlo. Dej\u00e9 de ocultar mi sentido del humor s\u00f3lo para que \u00e9l fuera m\u00e1s gracioso, dej\u00e9 de fingir ser est\u00fapida s\u00f3lo para que \u00e9l se sintiera m\u00e1s listo y dej\u00e9 de fingir ser indefensa s\u00f3lo para que \u00e9l sintiera que era capaz de protegerme.<\/p>\n

\"pensativa<\/p>\n

En pocas palabras, Dej\u00e9 de fingir ser d\u00e9bil s\u00f3lo para hacer que un hombre se sintiera fuerte.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No soy una mujer impotente que necesita que alguien la gu\u00ede por la vida. No soy incompetente ni fr\u00e1gil.<\/p>\n

Soy un mujer alfa<\/a>. I am strong, and I am too much. And if a man can\u2019t handle my true personality \u2013 well, that\u2019s his problem.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, trabaj\u00e9 muy duro para convertirme en la mujer que soy hoy. Invert\u00ed mucho tiempo, energ\u00eda y esfuerzo en llegar a ser yo.<\/p>\n

Nadie me regal\u00f3 mi independencia econ\u00f3mica y emocional. Luch\u00e9 por ser autosuficiente, firme y estable.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que.., what does the world exactly expect from me now? To annul everything I worked so hard to achieve just so some immature boy wouldn\u2019t be intimidated?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s not going to happen, even if my life depended on it. Because if I did that, si me bajara el tono, ser\u00eda mi fin.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Eso equivaldr\u00eda a mi suicidio espiritual<\/strong> \u2013 killing off everything I ever believed in and stood up for. And I know for sure that no man is worth that much of a sacrifice.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

How many times have you been in a situation where a man ended up running away from you for being \u201ctoo much\u201d? Maybe he couldn\u2019t handle the fact that you earned more money or had a higher self-confidence. Or was it because you were taller, louder, or more dominant in another way? Did he accuse…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":116711,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-116691","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/This-Is-Why-I-Refuse-To-Dial-Myself-Down-For-Any-Man.-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","parent":29643,"count":114,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29645,"category_count":114,"category_description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","cat_name":"being single","category_nicename":"being-single","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116691","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=116691"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116691\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116711"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=116691"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=116691"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=116691"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}