{"id":116967,"date":"2020-12-04T14:10:33","date_gmt":"2020-12-04T14:10:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=116967"},"modified":"2021-08-30T13:48:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T13:48:41","slug":"demuestrales-que-no-puedes-ser-manipulado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/demuestrales-que-no-puedes-ser-manipulado\/","title":{"rendered":"La gente te llama loco cuando les demuestras que no puedes dejarte manipular"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfTe has defendido por primera vez en tu vida e inmediatamente te han declarado loco y demente?<\/p>\n<p><strong>You&#8217;ve put up with so many bad things. You&#8217;ve tolerated way too much from other people.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Y<\/em><em>ou&#8217;ve been disrespected, manipulated, and mistreated so many times, and you kept quiet about it just because it was coming from people you loved and cared for.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Now, you&#8217;ve decided to put a stop to all of that and finally choose yourself and your well-being for once in your life. I have to congratulate you; it\u2019s a very difficult task because you really must be very strong to confront cruel, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/120-frases-sobre-gente-toxica\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">gente t\u00f3xica<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Adoptar una postura ahuyentar\u00e1 a las personas t\u00f3xicas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116970\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady.jpg\" alt=\"pensativa y joven sentada con el pelo rubio liso y la cabeza apoyada en ambas manos en \u00e1ngulo bajo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>De repente, todas esas personas te han dado la espalda. Tu decisi\u00f3n de defenderte ha alejado a muchas personas de tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>Esto es un hecho, pero \u00bfsabes qu\u00e9? <em>It&#8217;s the best thing that could ever happen to you. Those people were bad for you anyway, and they never even deserved to be a part of your life.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Honestly, people tend to be like that sometimes. They&#8217;ll forget about you, leave, or even call you insane when they realize that they can&#8217;t use you, and when you show them you won\u2019t allow them to treat you the way they did before.<\/p>\n<p>I know it can be painful to hear them talk like that about you. You might even start reconsidering your behavior and whether you were right or not. However, you must understand that&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">It&#8217;s not you. It\u2019s them<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116971\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking-.jpg\" alt=\"mujer pensativa caminando por una calle estrecha con las manos dentro del bolsillo de su abrigo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking-.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re never the problem; the people who mistreated you are. They want to manipulate and use you for their benefit.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t ever allow them to make you doubt yourself. You can\u2019t put up with things you don&#8217;t deserve because you clearly know the difference between what you deserve and what you&#8217;re getting.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Decir NO significa conocer tus l\u00edmites<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116974\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven recostada en el sof\u00e1 con la cabeza inclinada hacia un lado y profundamente pensativa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t feel guilty for standing up for yourself. Don&#8217;t feel bad for setting <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/120-frases-sobre-gente-toxica\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">l\u00edmites<\/a> in your life and distancing yourself from certain people because it&#8217;ll save you from being hurt.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;ll definitely keep you from getting your heart broken.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s good to know your limits. <em>Traza una l\u00ednea en la arena cuando ciertas cosas en tu vida sean inaceptables, y resp\u00e9tate lo suficiente como para no permitir que otros crucen esa l\u00ednea.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s important to know when enough is enough and when it&#8217;s time to let go of people and move on.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Recuerda, tener un car\u00e1cter fuerte es tu superpoder<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116975\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven que piensa beber caf\u00e9 sentada junto al alf\u00e9izar de la ventana con un port\u00e1til en el regazo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sure you\u2019re asking why it&#8217;s a superpower. The answer is straightforward; it can make your life much easier and happier.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Having a strong character means you&#8217;re able to control your mind and your heart, your thoughts, and your emotions. It means you&#8217;re confident. It means you have unshakable faith in yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You won&#8217;t allow others to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/citas-de-manipulacion-la-lista-definitiva\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">manipule<\/a> or play games with you because you know you&#8217;re so much better and smarter than that. That&#8217;s not crazy; <em>that\u2019s the greatest love of all \u2014 SELF-LOVE.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Llamarte loco es s\u00f3lo otra forma de manipularte.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116976\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con chaqueta de cuero negro de pie cerca de un edificio con los brazos cruzados\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They want to make you think that you&#8217;re overreacting. They want to make you question your self-worth. They want to humiliate you.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s just one more trick they use to manipulate you and gain control over your life. BUT, they won&#8217;t succeed, and do you know why?<\/p>\n<p><em>Because you won&#8217;t fall for their cheap attempts at manipulation ever again.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">They\u2019re blame-shifting and pretending to be the victim<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116977\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman.jpg\" alt=\"estilosa mujer pensativa descansando en una acera cerca de un canal en una ciudad oto\u00f1al\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re calling you crazy because they want to present themselves as the real victim in this story. Believe me. You\u2019ll constantly go round in circles.<\/p>\n<p>They won&#8217;t ever apologize to you, and they&#8217;ll try to make you look insane, hoping they&#8217;ll succeed in their intention to manipulate you once again.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;ll happen again and again until you decide to break that circle once and for all and cut them out of your life forever. It won&#8217;t make you a victim either; it\u2019ll make you a strong and courageous winner.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t allow them to win<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116978\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white.jpg\" alt=\"mujer asi\u00e1tica con top blanco sosteniendo unas gafas de sol mientras camina al aire libre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Look at this as a fight. It&#8217;s a battle between good and evil, between you and those <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-cosas-que-la-gente-toxica-destruye\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">gente t\u00f3xica<\/a>. They&#8217;ll use many different weapons to try to intimidate you or make you doubt yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t allow them to win the fight. Hold on and be strong. Good will always triumph over evil, trust me.<\/p>\n<p>Believe in yourself because that&#8217;s what hurts them the most. Don&#8217;t let them change you. It&#8217;s better to be called crazy than to be someone&#8217;s fool.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you finally stood up for yourself for the first time in your life and immediately been declared insane and crazy? You&#8217;ve put up with so many bad things. You&#8217;ve tolerated way too much from other people. You&#8217;ve been disrespected, manipulated, and mistreated so many times, and you kept quiet about it just because it&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":116979,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-116967","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/People-Call-You-Crazy-When-You-Show-Them-You-Cant-Be-Manipulated-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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