{"id":116982,"date":"2020-12-07T20:15:47","date_gmt":"2020-12-07T20:15:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=116982"},"modified":"2022-05-24T07:51:07","modified_gmt":"2022-05-24T07:51:07","slug":"el-amor-despues-del-desamor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-amor-despues-del-desamor\/","title":{"rendered":"15 consejos que te cambiar\u00e1n la vida para encontrar el amor tras un desenga\u00f1o amoroso"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you’re grieving over a shattering break-up, all you want is for this seemingly endless dolor emocional<\/a> que se vaya.<\/p>\n

It’s not that finding love after desamor<\/a> only looks like mission impossible \u2013 it is also the last thing on your mind right now.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re convinced that you could never love anyone again and that you’re done with romance for good. You question la existencia del amor<\/a>. Your painful experience turned you into a bitter and resentful person \u2013 something you’ve never been before. <\/p>\n

Sin embargo, tarde o temprano, te das cuenta de que ese no es el camino. Comprendes que encontrar el amor despu\u00e9s del desamor<\/a> (o despu\u00e9s de uno de los tres amores en la vida<\/a>) es lo \u00fanico que echas de menos y necesitas realmente seguir adelante<\/a> con tu vida.<\/p>\n

But now, after all this time, you don’t know how. Where do you start? How do you get rid of your fears? How do you open your heart to someone new?<\/p>\n

It’s normal to ask all of these questions because finding love after heartbreak is scary and tough. However, it is even more rewarding.<\/p>\n

Prep\u00e1rate para el amor despu\u00e9s del desamor<\/h2>\n

You can’t start a new relationship without settling accounts with your past. Well, technically, you can, but it wouldn’t be fair or right.<\/p>\n

Por eso primero tienes que curar tu coraz\u00f3n roto y prepararte para que llegue un nuevo amor.<\/p>\n

Cortar los lazos con el pasado<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Your primary goal here is to move on, right? Well, you can\u2019t expect that to happen if you stay trapped in the same place.<\/p>\n

I hate to break your bubble, but your relationship is over. You and your ex aren\u2019t getting back together, and it\u2019s time to accept this.<\/p>\n

Cuanto antes lo entiendas, antes podr\u00e1s encontrar una relaci\u00f3n sana y el amor verdadero despu\u00e9s del desamor.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, lo primero que debes hacer es cortar todos los lazos con tu pasado. Cr\u00e9eme: es la \u00fanica forma de dejar atr\u00e1s el desamor.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not advising that you erase your ex and your entire relationship from your memory. This would be impossible to do.<\/p>\n

But you don\u2019t have to keep reminding yourself of them either. Don\u2019t turn your life into a sanctuary dedicated to your past romance.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re still in touch with your heartbreaker \u2013 go ning\u00fan contacto<\/a> en este instante. Deja de enga\u00f1arte pensando que puedes seguir siendo amiga de la persona que te hizo tanto da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

Deshazte de todo lo que te recuerde a ellos. Si quieres conservar algunos peque\u00f1os recuerdos, esc\u00f3ndelos lejos de ti y qu\u00edtalos de la vista.<\/p>\n

No more stalking their social media profiles, no more asking your mutual friends about them, and no more detective work about their new significant other. Don\u2019t live in hope that one day they\u2019ll come knocking on your door.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t care if you got the closure you wanted, if some things were left unsaid, or if you\u2019re still looking for answers.<\/p>\n

I know that cutting ties with the past hurts, but you have to come to terms with the fact that your relationship is history, and it\u2019s time for you to pack it away.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Perm\u00edtase llorar<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I know what you expect me to say after this pep talk: pretend that your heartbreak never happened. Well, that\u2019s actually the worst thing you can do at this point.<\/p>\n

A healthy healing process includes acceptance. It\u2019s all about looking your pain in the eyes and defeating it instead of running for your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, ser\u00eda m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil si pudieras enterrar tu trauma muy dentro de ti.<\/p>\n

Sweeping things under the carpet and moving on with your life as if you\u2019d never been through this hell sounds tempting, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

Well, this way, things would be less complicated for you temporarily. You wouldn\u2019t have to go through the different stages of grief, and you could lanzarse a una nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/a> con la primera persona que aparezca.<\/p>\n

But what would happen in the long run? That\u2019s right: your suppressed emotions would find their way back into your life.<\/p>\n

They would reappear and haunt you when you least expect them. So, let\u2019s not allow this to happen, and let\u2019s process them the healthy way.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I advise you to allow yourself to grieve.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t only mourn the loss of your ex. Grieve the death of your hopes and dreams, the breakage of your relationship, and the loss of the person you once were.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t run away from your pain because that\u2019s what cowards do.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t feel weak for going through this stage, and instead, see it as a sign of your strength. Trust me: not many have the ability to cope with their darkest emotions and thoughts.<\/p>\n

Libere sus emociones<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Cuando tu coraz\u00f3n se rompi\u00f3, dej\u00f3 tras de s\u00ed un mont\u00f3n de heridas abiertas. Se desgarr\u00f3 dentro de ti y estall\u00f3 en mil pedazos.<\/p>\n

You mustn\u2019t allow each one of these pieces to remain stuck inside of you. You don\u2019t have to just let go of your ex: you also need to let go of all the sadness that\u2019s been eating you alive.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The way to do this is by not keeping your emotions bottled up \u2013 get them out of your system one way or another.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, if you feel like crying, that\u2019s what you should do. If you need some time off from your busy life and want to spend a couple of days eating ice cream in front of the TV, who am I to judge you?<\/p>\n

However, the best way of releasing your emotions is, without a doubt, writing. Don\u2019t worry. You don\u2019t have to possess a remarkable talent for it.<\/p>\n

Un trozo de papel puede con mucho m\u00e1s de lo que crees. Se llevar\u00e1 todo tu dolor a la espalda y cumplir\u00e1 su prop\u00f3sito.<\/p>\n

Empieza a escribir un diario de liberaci\u00f3n y anota tus progresos cada d\u00eda.<\/strong> Recuerda que nadie leer\u00e1 esto, as\u00ed que puedes ser 100% honesto.<\/p>\n

No es ninguna verg\u00fcenza expresar tus sentimientos escribiendo sobre ellos. Esto no es m\u00e1s que un mecanismo de afrontamiento que te har\u00e1 mejorar.<\/p>\n

Conf\u00ede en su sistema de apoyo<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a self-sufficient, independent individual who went through the worst possible things alone. You don\u2019t need anyone patting you on the back and telling you that everything will be okay.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, lo \u00faltimo que quieres es exponer tus vulnerabilidades a tus seres queridos. Despu\u00e9s de todo, \u00bfqu\u00e9 pueden hacer exactamente?<\/p>\n

They can\u2019t take any of your pain away. They\u2019ll only start worrying about you, and you\u2019ll unintentionally drag them into your problems.<\/p>\n

Pues aqu\u00ed es donde te equivocas. As much as you think you don\u2019t need anyone, a strong support system will help you out a lot.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Who doesn\u2019t need a amigo de verdad<\/a> \u00bfPueden llamar en mitad de la noche? Yo s\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry: none of these people will think of you as pathetic. Going through something like this is perfectly normal, and I promise you that they\u2019ll understand your pain.<\/p>\n

Not only that: these people will hold your hand through all of your hardships. They will show you that you\u2019re not alone, and they will give you hope in a better tomorrow.<\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme: tener un amigo que se limita a escucharte sin decir una sola palabra es mejor que sufrir en silencio.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But what about those who don\u2019t have close friends they can count on? And those who can\u2019t find comfort in anyone? Are they sentenced to suffer in silence?<\/p>\n

Por supuesto que no. There is always the option of joining an actual grief support group full of people who have gone through the same things you\u2019re going through.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No, these groups are not only reserved for those grieving their loved one\u2019s deaths. Please, feel free to look them up near you and join them \u2013 these people will know how to help you.<\/p>\n

Recuerda lo que vales<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The biggest problem about your heartbreak isn\u2019t this overwhelming pain that\u2019s been consuming you. I know what you must be thinking: \u201cThere is something worse?\u201d Well, sadly, there is.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, el dolor s\u00f3lo parece ser insoportable. Pero t\u00fa y yo sabemos que con el tiempo, se ir\u00e1<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, el impacto que todo esto ha dejado en su confianza central<\/a> y la autoimagen podr\u00edan ser permanentes.<\/strong> Y eso es algo en lo que tienes que empezar a trabajar inmediatamente.<\/p>\n

Looking for love after heartbreak is utterly pointless if you see yourself as unlovable, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, this is precisely what you\u2019ve been doing all along. Don\u2019t lie to me: I know the truth. It\u2019s like I\u2019m seeing you right now.<\/p>\n

There you are, doubting your worth and worrying that no man or woman would ever want you \u2013 that you\u2019re broken beyond repair.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Not only that: you also wonder why you weren\u2019t enough for your ex. Newsflash: your value has nothing to do with your relationship status.<\/p>\n

You have a lot to offer, despite all that has happened. You still carry a loving heart inside of your chest \u2013 you just can\u2019t feel it at the moment.<\/p>\n

Deja que el tiempo haga su magia<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be dead honest with you: your broken heart won\u2019t heal in a matter of days. Truth be told, sometimes, this process lasts for months.<\/p>\n

Pero al final, time will do its magic. And all you need to do is let it \u2013 you need to give time enough time.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This isn\u2019t a request for you to sit down patiently and wait for a miracle to happen. Of course, your life should flow on its course.<\/p>\n

However, the trick is that nobody can tell you how much time will pass before you’re ready for new love because we’re all different.<\/p>\n

But what I can promise you is that it will happen. Things will get easier with every day that goes by. One morning, you\u2019ll wake up and see that this is it: you\u2019re ready, and there are no more past traumas holding you back.<\/p>\n

Mej\u00f3rese<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The final step in the process of preparing yourself for love again has nothing to do with your ex or with the person you\u2019re about to meet. Instead, it\u2019s all about the most important person in your life: you.<\/p>\n

To attract a good quality woman or man, you need to be the best version of yourself. I\u2019m not saying that you\u2019re not lovable just the way you are, but you should definitely engage in some autocuidado<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

However, attracting romance shouldn\u2019t be your final goal here. In fact, if you work on yourself while obsessing about how to find love, you\u2019re unlikely to succeed.<\/p>\n

You have to better yourself to be satisfied with the person you\u2019re becoming. Tienes que mejorar tu vida para ser feliz solo, con o sin pareja.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This is your chance to rock the single life: a chance to enjoy every breath you take \u2013 a chance to find your true purpose and the chance to realize the importance of self-love.<\/p>\n

Trust me on this: happiness attracts happiness, and love attracts love. Therefore, when you\u2019re content with yourself, potential soulmates start appearing out of nowhere.<\/p>\n

When you love yourself the right way, you\u2019ll only draw those who deserve to be in your life.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s ironic, isn\u2019t it? To find romantic love, you have to stop craving it. But that\u2019s the beauty of it all.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Volver a salir a la calle<\/h2>\n

Everyone keeps advising you just to throw yourself back into dating. After all, how hard can it be? Well, in your situation \u2013 harder than anyone might think.<\/p>\n

La bolsa de citas<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

One thing is for sure: if you feel like you\u2019re emotionally available, you really should go volver a la piscina de citas<\/a>. Don\u2019t turn this search for love into your number one priority but don\u2019t run away from it either.<\/p>\n

Yes, you can join dating apps, you can go speed dating, and you can tell your friends that you\u2019re looking for your special someone.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, estar en la piscina de las citas es mucho m\u00e1s que esto. Significa volver a abrir los ojos al sexo opuesto.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Significa devolverle la sonrisa a ese compa\u00f1ero de trabajo tan guapo que podr\u00eda estar interesado en ti. Significa flirtear con ese atractivo desconocido que intenta mantener el contacto visual al otro lado de la habitaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

It means agreeing to go out on that blind date your best friend set up for you. Because let\u2019s face it: what do you have to lose?<\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re single as a pringle. You\u2019ve thrown away all of your emotional baggage, and that makes you more than ready to mingle.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aprenda de sus errores<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Now that you\u2019re ready for a new relationship, you\u2019re also mentally and emotionally capable of analyzing your past relationship.<\/p>\n

No, you shouldn\u2019t spend all of your time reminiscing about it.<\/p>\n

En su lugar, s\u00f3lo quiero que tomes todo lo que ha pasado como un lecci\u00f3n<\/a>. The love you felt for your ex is gone, and you\u2019ve mourned your relationship.<\/p>\n

Esto s\u00f3lo puede significar una cosa: you\u2019ve finally acquired the ability to process things objectively. And that\u2019s what you should do: stand back and observe your past romance as if you were a bystander.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This is the only way to look at things realistically \u2013 the only way to realize your mistakes and learn from them.<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 elegiste mal la \u00faltima vez. O tuviste tus propios errores que no viste entonces.<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 tu defecto fatal fue darte demasiado sin pedir nada a cambio. O pasaste a\u00f1os intentando salvar una relaci\u00f3n fallida.<\/p>\n

Fuera lo que fuera, ahora lo sabes mejor. Esta devastadora experiencia te ha ense\u00f1ado mucho.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, please, don\u2019t repeat your toxic relationship behavior patterns. Isn\u2019t it obvious that they aren\u2019t taking you anywhere?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t settle for a rebound relationship<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La trampa en la que caen casi todos los hombres y mujeres con el coraz\u00f3n roto tras una dolorosa relaci\u00f3n pasada es meterse en otra a\u00fan peor.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to end your single life at all costs, and you definitely shouldn\u2019t settle for a rebound relationship.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be with someone just because you\u2019re scared of dying alone or because you can’t seem to find a healthy relationship.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t look for your ex in other people, and most importantly: don\u2019t use them to heal your scars.<\/p>\n

Come on. You know you\u2019re better than that. You\u2019re better than breaking someone else\u2019s heart in an attempt to repair your own.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Esto es exactamente lo que ocurrir\u00e1 si das relaciones de rebote<\/a> un disparo.<\/p>\n

The other person might fall in love with you, thinking that this is the real deal while you\u2019re still preoccupied with your healing process.<\/p>\n

Por favor, sea honesto y justo. It\u2019s way better to wait until you\u2019re fully recovered before starting something new than stringing an innocent person along.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Besides, this toxic relationship won\u2019t bring you anything good either. It won’t teach you how to love again. Instead, it will bury you even further in misery.<\/p>\n

Saltar de una persona a otra no es el camino a seguir<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Oye, si te apetece enrollarse con un chico o una chica nuevos<\/a> every weekend, I\u2019m no Judge Judy. But please ask yourself if you\u2019re doing it because you really fall for all of these people.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSientes que esto es lo que realmente quieres? \u00bfO es tu forma de intentar llenar el vac\u00edo que tu mala ruptura dej\u00f3 dentro de ti?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I bet I know the answer. And I\u2019m sure you do too.<\/p>\n

Saltar de una relaci\u00f3n a otra no es el camino para encontrar el amor despu\u00e9s del desamor.<\/p>\n

Ahora debes preguntarte: “So, how am I supposed to find my soulmate if I don\u2019t meet new people?”<\/strong> Mira, nadie te dijo que no tuvieras citas.<\/p>\n

Pero, sal con gente que te guste de verdad. Try building something bigger with the people you feel a genuine connection with \u2013 not with those you\u2019re just physically attracted to.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Deje claras sus normas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Now that you\u2019ve learned from your past mistakes, it\u2019s safe to say that you have a completely new set of rules.<\/p>\n

Hay algunos aspectos a los que nunca hab\u00edas prestado atenci\u00f3n, y probablemente hayas elevado tu nivel de exigencia en el proceso.<\/p>\n

Me alegro por ti. This doesn\u2019t make you demasiado exigente<\/a> \u2013 it means that you\u2019ve grown as a person and that this heartbreak served its purpose.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, por favor, ten claro qu\u00e9 y a qui\u00e9n quieres. En primer lugar, s\u00e9 honesto contigo mismo sobre tus est\u00e1ndares y luego s\u00e9 abierto al respecto cuando conozcas a gente nueva.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you should be too demanding or that you should only agree to date someone perfect. As much as you\u2019re into a guy or a girl, there will always be something you don\u2019t like about them.<\/p>\n

Pero la pregunta es: \u00bfSientes que es una peque\u00f1a rareza que puedes tolerar? \u00bfO es algo que no podr\u00edas tolerar?<\/p>\n

Whatever you do, don\u2019t make compromises with yourself.<\/strong> Look for the kind of a person you know you deserve, and don\u2019t ever settle for anything less.<\/p>\n

Aferrarse a la fe<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Finally, never lose hope that love will come to you, sooner or later. Don\u2019t be obsessed about finding it but deep down, have faith in its arrival.<\/p>\n

Lo primero y m\u00e1s importante, perder la idea de que s\u00f3lo se puede amar una vez en la vida<\/strong>. Yes, you loved your ex \u2013 otherwise, they wouldn\u2019t have had the chance to break your heart.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, that doesn\u2019t mean that you won\u2019t learn to love again with the same intensity or even more.<\/p>\n

Maybe your ex was your soulmate at that given moment, but that doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019re meant to be yours forever.<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t give up on love, despite all of your disappointments.<\/p>\n

Aunque te duela, el amor es bello en su esencia, y ser\u00eda una pena que te lo perdieras s\u00f3lo porque tuviste una experiencia dolorosa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dos And Don’ts Of Your New Relationship<\/h2>\n

You’ve done everything by the book, and now you’re here: closer to your final goal than ever. You’ve found someone you see yourself falling in love with.<\/p>\n

But your job isn’t done here. There are still some steps to take unless you want to ruin this relationship before it even starts.<\/p>\n

No todo el mundo es como tu ex<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight: you\u2019ll get nowhere if you compare everyone to your ex.<\/p>\n

I know that getting over this person doesn’t mean that you got over the fear of going through the same pain all over again.<\/p>\n

Piensa para tus adentros: \u201cWhat if I am a magnet for heartbreak?\u201d \u201cWhat if the next one leaves me devastated, the same way my ex did?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry: this is perfectly normal, and everyone in your situation has the exact same thoughts. But you have to learn how to chase them away.<\/p>\n

Si dejas que la negatividad nuble tu visi\u00f3n, tu pensar demasiado podr\u00eda arruinar tu posible relaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Look, I won\u2019t lie to you: nobody can guarantee that your new boyfriend or girlfriend won\u2019t break your heart. However, this time you won\u2019t let them.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not the person you once were. Now, you have what it takes to recognize the red flags in time, so you won\u2019t stick with someone who is likely to do you harm.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Besides, you can\u2019t predict the future. Sometimes you have to take risks and follow your heart\u2019s lead.<\/p>\n

If things fail once again, at least you\u2019ll know you tried. You\u2019ll be proud of your bravery to take a chance and jump into the unknown, despite your painful past.<\/p>\n

Esfu\u00e9rzate al m\u00e1ximo<\/h2>\n

\"feliz<\/p>\n

Cuando encuentras el amor despu\u00e9s del desamor, don\u2019t hold yourself back<\/strong>. Instead, put your maximum effort in, as if you\u2019re in love for the first time ever.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let your past ruin your future, and don\u2019t make your new partner pay for your ex\u2019s mistakes.<\/strong> Disfruta de cada momento de tu nuevo romance, entr\u00e9gate al amor y \u00a1ve ad\u00f3nde te lleva la magia!<\/p>\n

Encontrar el amor despu\u00e9s del desamor<\/em> Libro<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Encontrar el amor despu\u00e9s del desamor<\/em> es un bestseller escrito por Stephan Labossiere, un famoso experto en relaciones.<\/p>\n

In his book, Stephan speaks to anyone who’s been through a bad breakup they can’t seem to recover from and anyone who is convinced they’ll never find love again.<\/p>\n

En el primer volumen de una serie de dos partes que puedes adquirir en Amazon y otras plataformas, te ense\u00f1a a liberarte de las heridas del pasado y abrirte al amor futuro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This great read won’t make all of your problems go away, nor will it magically heal you. However, it can serve as a guide through your journey of finding your soulmate and believing in love again.<\/p>\n

Para terminar:<\/h2>\n

Ahora ves que encontrar amor verdadero<\/a> despu\u00e9s de un desenga\u00f1o amoroso es mucho m\u00e1s que lanzarse a una nueva relaci\u00f3n. It’s a real enterprise that includes plenty of self-work, introspection, and personal growth.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There will be moments when you’ll want to give up on this journey, moments when you’ll lose faith, and when despair will get the best of you.<\/p>\n

Please, don’t let those moments of weakness defeat you. Trust me: once you reach your goal, you’ll see that it was all worth it.<\/p>\n

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When you’re grieving over a shattering break-up, all you want is for this seemingly endless emotional pain to go away. It’s not that finding love after heartbreak only looks like mission impossible \u2013 it is also the last thing on your mind right now. You\u2019re convinced that you could never love anyone again and that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":117167,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-116982","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/15-Life-Changing-Tips-For-Finding-Love-After-Heartbreak-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116982","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=116982"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116982\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/117167"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=116982"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=116982"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=116982"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}