{"id":11738,"date":"2020-06-10T11:50:09","date_gmt":"2020-06-10T11:50:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11738"},"modified":"2022-02-05T16:52:38","modified_gmt":"2022-02-05T16:52:38","slug":"no-permitir-relaciones-trampa-sin-titulo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-permitir-relaciones-trampa-sin-titulo\/","title":{"rendered":"No permitas que te atrape en una relaci\u00f3n sin t\u00edtulo"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>\u201cDon\u2019t give a man more than he gives you. If he respects you, respect him. If he loves you, love him. If he promotes you to the world, promote him. But if you\u2019re a secret he mistreats, he needs to become a piece of your history.\u201d &#8211; Tony A. Gaskins Jr.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Some might like these modern times, where you\u2019re with someone or you\u2019re dating a guy but you could also be single since your options are open, though you\u2019d probably be mad if you saw him with someone else.<\/p>\n<p>However, you can\u2019t really say anything because you \u2018agreed\u2019 you both <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/why-hate-labels\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">etiquetas de odio<\/a> and you are both confused most of the time about what you mean to each other but it\u2019s really just a waste of your time that promises to end in an ugly heartbreak.<\/p>\n<p>Because even though you, for some reason, agreed not to call each other boyfriend and girlfriend, you didn\u2019t agree to have no strings attached.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Las personas tienen sentimientos tanto si deciden etiquetar su relaci\u00f3n como si no, as\u00ed que \u00bfc\u00f3mo te explicas tu ruptura al final de la historia si nunca fuiste realmente suya o si \u00e9l nunca dijo realmente en voz alta que era tuyo?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91344\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/back-view-of-man-and-woman-sitting-at-looking-at-city.jpg\" alt=\"vista trasera de hombre y mujer sentados mirando la ciudad\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/back-view-of-man-and-woman-sitting-at-looking-at-city.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/back-view-of-man-and-woman-sitting-at-looking-at-city-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/back-view-of-man-and-woman-sitting-at-looking-at-city-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/> The ugly truth is: if he isn\u2019t ready to label your relationship, then he isn&#8217;t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-senales-evidentes-de-que-no-estas-preparado-para-tener-pareja\/\">listo para salir<\/a> you. And if he isn\u2019t ready to date you, what the hell are you doing?<\/p>\n<p>If you are not ready to put your heart on the line, why try anything in the first place? Stay single until you\u2019re actually ready to give everything that one relationship requires.<\/p>\n<p>If your guy is acting foggy, if he\u2019s coming up with all sorts of excuses as to why he, \u201cIsn\u2019t ready for a relationship,\u201d but keeps texting you and keeps having expectations from you, then my dear, you\u2019re on the edge of getting trapped in a relationship without a title.<\/p>\n<p>The worst part is you\u2019re unknowingly signing up for it. By giving him boyfriend privileges while he still refuses to make you official, you\u2019re saying you\u2019re okay with what he does to you.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re okay with being confused and not knowing what to answer when someone asks you what he is to you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91345\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/A-young-woman-comforts-a-sad-friend-in-a-restaurant-1.jpg\" alt=\"Una joven consuela a una amiga triste en un restaurante\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/A-young-woman-comforts-a-sad-friend-in-a-restaurant-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/A-young-woman-comforts-a-sad-friend-in-a-restaurant-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/A-young-woman-comforts-a-sad-friend-in-a-restaurant-1-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>All those excuses about how he feels like he\u2019s choking when he\u2019s in a relationship or how labeling it is so old-fashioned is just a pile of crap he\u2019s trying to sell you.<\/p>\n<p>If he isn\u2019t ready for it, it doesn\u2019t mean you feel the same and constantly popping up in your life but not having any intention to be upfront about what he wants is just <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/ugly-side-letting-go-saying-goodbye-toxic-love\/\">ego\u00edsta y t\u00f3xico<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What he truly means when he decides not to label your relationship is that he\u2019s not ready to commit, he wants to keep his options open, he doesn\u2019t believe you\u2019re the best or he thinks he deserves better than you but he\u2019s with you until that better thing comes along. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Regardless of what it may be, you don\u2019t have to obey. You don\u2019t have to accept to be a part of his game.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Te mereces m\u00e1s que estar atrapada en una relaci\u00f3n sin t\u00edtulo.<\/strong> Te mereces m\u00e1s que estar con alguien que te confunde.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve someone who will show you off proudly. Someone who will know what to say when he introduces you to his friends and someone who\u2019ll hold your hand while doing so.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91346\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/a-female-introducing-with-a-group-of-friends-in-cafe-1.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer present\u00e1ndose con un grupo de amigos en una cafeter\u00eda\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/a-female-introducing-with-a-group-of-friends-in-cafe-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/a-female-introducing-with-a-group-of-friends-in-cafe-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/a-female-introducing-with-a-group-of-friends-in-cafe-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You deserve someone who knows your worth and who\u2019ll want to commit to you.<\/p>\n<p>Alguien que sabe que hay otros chicos que se mueren por tener la misma oportunidad que \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Someone who won\u2019t let you doubt what you mean to him, not even for a minute, and someone who\u2019ll remind you constantly how he wants to spend the rest of his life with you.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t fall into the trap of a guy who doesn\u2019t want anything serious with you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you have to ask a guy, \u201cSo what are we?\u201d the answer is probably nothing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Darling, no title means no obligation. With no title, he can tell every other woman that he&#8217;s free and single, and he can tell you the same when you start asking for title treatment.<\/p>\n<p>Let him be, someone else will come along who won&#8217;t play those games.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91347\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-touches-the-mans-hand.jpg\" alt=\"La mujer toca la mano del hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-touches-the-mans-hand.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-touches-the-mans-hand-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-touches-the-mans-hand-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t let yourself catch feelings and don\u2019t give him space to treat you with disrespect while you do nothing other than treating him right.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll end up attached to him and you won\u2019t even have any idea what you got attached to because he made no promises to begin with. He thinks he dodged a bullet by choosing not to label you two.<\/p>\n<p>Any person who sincerely has feelings for you will not hesitate to claim you or put a title on what you have with each other when you\u2019re ready to establish an official relationship and have that conversation.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t be a secret, a side piece, or just a fling that person wants to just mess around with.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.vixendaily.com\/love\/how-to-make-him-treat-me-like-a-priority\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">You\u2019ll be his priority<\/a>. Les encantar\u00eda presumir de ti, presentarte como su pareja, darte su lealtad, asegurarse de que sabes cu\u00e1l es tu lugar en su vida y cuidar\u00e1n de ti y de tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>If the bond you have is strong, then the title won&#8217;t complicate anything. Everything else is just an excuse you need to walk away from.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-91355 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Don\u2019t-Allow-Him-To-Trap-You-In-A-Relationship-Without-A-Title-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"No permitas que te atrape en una relaci\u00f3n sin t\u00edtulo\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Don\u2019t-Allow-Him-To-Trap-You-In-A-Relationship-Without-A-Title-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Don\u2019t-Allow-Him-To-Trap-You-In-A-Relationship-Without-A-Title-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Don\u2019t-Allow-Him-To-Trap-You-In-A-Relationship-Without-A-Title-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Don\u2019t-Allow-Him-To-Trap-You-In-A-Relationship-Without-A-Title-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Don\u2019t-Allow-Him-To-Trap-You-In-A-Relationship-Without-A-Title-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Don\u2019t-Allow-Him-To-Trap-You-In-A-Relationship-Without-A-Title-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cDon\u2019t give a man more than he gives you. If he respects you, respect him. If he loves you, love him. If he promotes you to the world, promote him. But if you\u2019re a secret he mistreats, he needs to become a piece of your history.\u201d &#8211; Tony A. 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