{"id":11764,"date":"2018-01-10T13:01:25","date_gmt":"2018-01-10T13:01:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11764"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:18:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:18:43","slug":"historia-real-detras-de-chica-se-enamora-facilmente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/historia-real-detras-de-chica-se-enamora-facilmente\/","title":{"rendered":"La verdadera historia de la chica que se enamora f\u00e1cilmente"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Falling in love is like an instinct to her, something she was born with. It\u2019s not something she chooses, it\u2019s something that comes naturally to her, like with breathing air. She lets emotions surround her and she breathes in love.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">She is the one who falls too strong, too hard and too fast. She feels lucky to be alive after all those heartbreaks she has been through. She doesn\u2019t know where she gets her strength from but she never gives up on the idea of true love.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">It is a difficult thing, giving your heart so easily. It\u2019s not something she wants, it\u2019s something she simply does. It gives people more chance to destroy her, to take advantage of that pure soul she possesses. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetalko.com\/15-signs-he-has-really-bad-intentions\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">No tiene malas intenciones<\/a>, so she can\u2019t possibly grasp that other people might have them.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">La gente a menudo la mira con sus ojos juzgadores, tach\u00e1ndola de desesperada por el amor, llam\u00e1ndola y dici\u00e9ndole que est\u00e1 forzando las cosas y que deber\u00eda esperar a algo real, que no todos los amores son el amor de su vida.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Lo que no entienden es que ella lo sabe. Sabe que no todos los hombres que le llaman la atenci\u00f3n son los indicados. Ella espera que los que realmente llegan a su coraz\u00f3n lo sean.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">So she gives them a chance. She crosses her fingers and hopes that this one is the real deal. That she no longer needs to be a part of that emotional roller-coaster she\u2019s been through her entire love life.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Lo sabe todo y arriesga su coraz\u00f3n una y otra vez por amor. Tiene miedo de que le rompan el coraz\u00f3n, pero lo que la asusta a\u00fan m\u00e1s es no darle ninguna oportunidad a ese coraz\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Tiene miedo de perderse el amor. Tiene miedo de renunciar demasiado pronto a algo que podr\u00eda ser real. As\u00ed que lo intenta y da lo mejor de s\u00ed misma. Antepone la felicidad de su amado a la suya propia. Le hace ver lo importante y asombroso que es.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">El inconveniente es que, al amarle, olvida su propia importancia. Se olvida<a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/debbie-gisonni\/10-ways-to-show-people-they-matter-and-why-its-im_b_6172792.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> lo valiosa que es<\/a>. She forgets that she has a life that doesn\u2019t involve him. She forgets her future plans and goals. She postpones her dreams so he can chase his.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>That\u2019s where she fails every time.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">She doesn\u2019t realize that she is in love \u2018with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/senales-de-que-le-quieres\/\">estar enamorado<\/a>\u2019. She is hooked on that feeling. It consumes her and it controls her. So she always gives more emphasis to the feeling than to the person.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">She doesn\u2019t pay attention to getting the love back. She doesn\u2019t see that her efforts and investments aren\u2019t reciprocated. She doesn\u2019t see that she is giving her best for somebody who is failing her in every aspect. Someone who wouldn\u2019t lift a finger for her.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">She knows it\u2019s time to change.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">She knows that she has to stop repeating the pattern. That she has to stop choosing to give her heart to the wrong man. She has to stop loving those who don\u2019t deserve her so easily.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">She knows that she needs to take a good look at the person she is falling in love with. She knows that expecting all that she is giving in return is not selfish\u2014it\u2019s normal and necessary.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Sabe que tiene que darse m\u00e1s amor a s\u00ed misma. Tiene que dejar de descuidarse y posponer sus sue\u00f1os. Tiene que encontrar la manera de vivir la vida que se merece.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Tiene que ponerse a s\u00ed misma en primer lugar, para que ese sentimiento fuera de lugar pueda encontrar el camino correcto.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Lo sabe todo en teor\u00eda, pero a la hora de la verdad,<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/science-choice\/201602\/why-old-habits-die-hard\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> it\u2019s really hard giving up the old habits<\/a>. It\u2019s hard when that feeling of being in love is like an addiction to her and she is aware that she needs to change, that she needs rehab.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Somehow, she also knows she will make it. She knows because she realized that she should fall in love with herself first, as easy as she has fallen for those who weren\u2019t worthy of her.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lo que necesita a\u00fan m\u00e1s es paciencia. Paciencia para aprender a quererse a s\u00ed misma y convertirse en una versi\u00f3n mejor. La versi\u00f3n que sabe que tiene pero que se le escap\u00f3 de alguna manera. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Paciencia para darse cuenta de que quiere estar para siempre con alguien. Paciencia para esperarlo. Paciencia porque ella puede apresurarlo todo pero nunca puede apresurarse para siempre.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Falling in love is like an instinct to her, something she was born with. It\u2019s not something she chooses, it\u2019s something that comes naturally to her, like with breathing air. She lets emotions surround her and she breathes in love. She is the one who falls too strong, too hard and too fast. 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