{"id":11820,"date":"2020-03-10T10:27:54","date_gmt":"2020-03-10T10:27:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11820"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:51:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:51:30","slug":"el-amor-no-se-merece-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-amor-no-se-merece-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Te quiero, pero no me mereces"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Te quiero<\/b><b>Te quiero. Pero me quiero m\u00e1s a m\u00ed.<\/b> Te di todo lo que ten\u00eda. Me esforc\u00e9 tanto por ayudarte, con la esperanza de que volvieras a valerte por ti misma.<\/p>\n<p>I tried so hard to make you feel loved, hoping that you\u2019d see that you\u2019re worthy of it.<\/p>\n<p>But you didn&#8217;t, and honestly, I can&#8217;t take it anymore.<\/p>\n<p>I bent over backwards to show you that I still love you and that I don&#8217;t want us to end, but now I see the man I loved is long gone.<\/p>\n<p>Ese hombre de alguna manera se perdi\u00f3 en el camino y te convertiste en un tipo que s\u00f3lo toma, pero nunca da. Un tipo que me ve como su roca, pero que es incapaz de ser la m\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>A man who thinks everyone is out to get him, that he\u2019s the only victim. I love you , but I can\u2019t take this anymore. I can\u2019t keep on being the one who\u2019s always to blame.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t keep on being the bad guy when I\u2019m not. I love you , but I love me more.<\/p>\n<p>You hurt me and even though I miss you , I know I no longer deserve this heartbreak . I don&#8217;t want to get over you , but for my own sake, that is exactly what I need to do.<\/p>\n<p>For too long have I let men control my happiness, but now it&#8217;s time I wished you good luck and took the control back.<\/p>\n<p><b>Te quiero<\/b><b>, but you don\u2019t deserve my tears.<\/b> How can I stay with you when you\u2019re the guy who caused me this heartache ?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81251\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-crying.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste llorando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-crying.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-crying-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-crying-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are supposed to wipe the tears from my face. You\u2019re supposed to kiss them away. You\u2019re supposed to keep me from crying.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you\u2019re the one making me cry.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the one whose actions break my heart every day \u2013 every time you let me fall asleep alone, every time you let me go to bed thinking that I\u2019m not enough, every time you let me walk away without coming after me, thinking that I\u2019ll come back.<\/p>\n<p>But not anymore. You don&#8217;t deserve my affection and commitment. You don&#8217;t deserve my attention anymore.<\/p>\n<p>My feelings for you have not disappeared overnight, but my respect has. I am finally ready to admit to myself that it&#8217;s the end of our love affair.<\/p>\n<p>I wish I could say that you deserve better , but that&#8217;s not true.<\/p>\n<p>I deserve better than you and by letting you go, that\u2019s the only thing I will go after now.<\/p>\n<p>No dejar\u00e9 que mi desamor me defina y mantendr\u00e9 la cabeza bien alta. Puede que me hayas roto el coraz\u00f3n, pero mi esp\u00edritu sigue intacto.<\/p>\n<p>Seguir\u00e9 adelante y volver\u00e9 a encontrar mi lugar feliz.<\/p>\n<p><b>Te quiero<\/b><b>, but you don\u2019t deserve my devotion.<\/b> I\u2019m done giving you everything and getting nothing in return.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m done giving you all of my time, all of my love, all of me, just so I would fix you.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m done making an effort and watching it go unappreciated and unnoticed.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81254\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/unhappy-couple-standing-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"pareja infeliz en la naturaleza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/unhappy-couple-standing-in-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/unhappy-couple-standing-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/unhappy-couple-standing-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I finally know that it\u2019s not up to me to fix you. I\u2019m not supposed to give away parts of me to complete you.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not meant to lose myself so you can find yourself. That\u2019s toxic love and I\u2019ve had enough of it.<\/p>\n<p>I used to think that I was the one whose responsibility it was to mend your heart when you felt broken. But it&#8217;s not.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s on you. I can only give you so much without getting broken myself. Heartache is not something to be shared.<\/p>\n<p>Just because you are damaged doesn&#8217;t mean I need to be too.<\/p>\n<p>Y por eso acepto el final de lo nuestro. S\u00e9 que mi esfuerzo y mi devoci\u00f3n merecen ser correspondidos, y son cosas que t\u00fa nunca podr\u00e1s darme.<\/p>\n<p><b>Te quiero<\/b><b>, but you don\u2019t deserve my heart. <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/im-sorry-dont-deserve-anymore\/\"> You don\u2019t deserve my love <\/a> , and you don\u2019t deserve to share my happiness or my pain.<\/p>\n<p>You wouldn\u2019t know how to appreciate it anyway. You never did.<\/p>\n<p>Me diste por sentado. Seguiste tomando y tomando partes de m\u00ed sin siquiera comprobar c\u00f3mo estaba.<\/p>\n<p>Me utilizaste como un cubo de basura, siempre desahog\u00e1ndote conmigo, pero nunca mostraste inter\u00e9s en ayudarme. Yo tambi\u00e9n estaba rota. Yo tambi\u00e9n estaba triste. Yo tambi\u00e9n te necesitaba.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfAlguna vez te import\u00f3 lo suficiente como para ver el dolor en mis ojos? \u00bfHubo alg\u00fan momento en nuestra relaci\u00f3n en el que me vieras de verdad?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81257\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-next-to-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en la cama junto a su novio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-next-to-her-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-next-to-her-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-next-to-her-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Not the woman who\u2019s here only to help you, but the woman who loved you with all of her heart, the woman who was ready to spend the rest of her life with you?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfLa mujer que tiene su propia historia, su propio pasado y sus propios sue\u00f1os y esperanzas? \u00bfO s\u00f3lo era conveniente tenerme cerca?<\/p>\n<p>My mother always told me, &#8221;Either make him see your love, devotion, and sacrifice for your relationship or show him the door!&#8221; and I am finally listening to her advice.<\/p>\n<p>Esta es mi manera de demostrarte que yo era demasiado bueno para ti de todos modos.<\/p>\n<p>Marilyn Monroe lo dijo mejor que nadie:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i> \u201cI&#8217;m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can&#8217;t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don&#8217;t deserve me at my best.\u201d <\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><b>Te quiero<\/b><b>pero <\/b><b>you don\u2019t deserve me<\/b><b>.<\/b> Ya no mereces mi cuerpo, mi mente ni mi alma.<\/p>\n<p>Me diste por sentado, y ni una sola vez luchaste por m\u00ed. Ni una sola vez me demostraste que estabas dispuesto a comprometerte conmigo, que estabas dispuesto a comprometerte con nosotros.<\/p>\n<p>Not once did you make me feel loved, and I don\u2019t deserve that. I deserve more than to be half-loved. I deserve more than to just be there when you need me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81260\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-smiling-together.jpg\" alt=\"pareja sonriendo juntos\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-smiling-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-smiling-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-smiling-together-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Merezco a alguien que me quiera, que quiera pasar tiempo conmigo, que haga todo lo posible por poner una sonrisa en mi cara.<\/p>\n<p>Someone who will want to date me for the rest of our lives, not only because I\u2019m good for him, but because he loves me.<\/p>\n<p>I deserve to be loved, and, let\u2019s be honest, you never loved me. You saw me as the all- American girl next door, but there is so much more to me than that.<\/p>\n<p>Sol\u00eda pensar que te echar\u00eda de menos a ti y a nuestras noches de Netflix y relax m\u00e1s que a nada.<\/p>\n<p>The way you stroked my hair as I was falling asleep on your shoulder \u2013 God knows how often that happened. But those are all things I am determined to forget now.<\/p>\n<p>Tiene que haber alguien m\u00e1s ah\u00ed fuera que sea capaz de darme lo que merezco sin necesidad de comprometer mi felicidad.<\/p>\n<p>I choose to believe God has better plans for me than this, and that\u2019s what is helping me push through.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81249\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/I-Love-You-But-You-Dont-Deserve-Me-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Te quiero, pero no me mereces\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/I-Love-You-But-You-Dont-Deserve-Me-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/I-Love-You-But-You-Dont-Deserve-Me-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I love you, I do. But I love me more. I gave you everything I had. I tried so hard to help you, hoping that you would stand on your own two feet again. I tried so hard to make you feel loved, hoping that you\u2019d see that you\u2019re worthy of it. But you didn&#8217;t,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":81261,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11820","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/I-Love-You-But-You-Dont-Deserve-Me.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11820","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11820"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11820\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81261"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11820"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11820"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11820"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}