{"id":11831,"date":"2018-01-11T12:11:54","date_gmt":"2018-01-11T12:11:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11831"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:16:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:16:11","slug":"7-razones-por-las-que-todavia-no-puedo-conseguir-ex-a-pesar-de-que-rompio-hace-mucho-tiempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-razones-por-las-que-todavia-no-puedo-conseguir-ex-a-pesar-de-que-rompio-hace-mucho-tiempo\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Razones por las que a\u00fan no puedes superar a tu ex aunque hay\u00e1is roto hace tiempo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Your past is still haunting you and you just can\u2019t let go of it. Well, that is what is keeping you from forgetting about him. You are the reason you can\u2019t let go.<\/p>\n

Tu pasado te impide disfrutar de los momentos presentes. Usted es incapaz de olvidar esa parte de tu vida<\/a> and that is what makes you so miserable now. Don\u2019t let him be the reason why you can\u2019t be happy now.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s just a ghost of the past and you want to move forward, leaving the past where it belongs.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, before you decide to go into a new romantic relationship, you have to be sure you\u2019ve overcome your past because if you haven\u2019t, your new relationship is going to suffer. And don\u2019t be scared to take a step into the future just because someone broke your heart. It happens. We all get our hearts broken, but we all heal after some time and move on.<\/p>\n

Moving on is not as hard as you think, especially not if you know the real reasons why you still can\u2019t get over your ex.<\/p>\n

1. Lo comparas todo con el pasado<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

You\u2019re comparing your current relationship with the past one. However, you can\u2019t expect everything to be the same. After all, your past relationship failed, which means that things being the same is not such a good idea. Let go of him and the moments you had together. Focus on the new relationship and on the beautiful present and on an even more beautiful future that awaits you if you play your cards right. Comparison will lead you nowhere except destruction.<\/p>\n

2. You can\u2019t believe it has happened<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Emotions are running wild. You feel confused, angry, doubtful\u2026 a lot of things at the same time. You got used to being in a relationship that now that you are out of one you can\u2019t get rid of that \u2018in a relationship\u2019 paradigm. Your brain was used to thinking that you were happy and in a relationship and now all of a sudden you are not. It\u2019s a pretty stressful situation, not only emotionally but for your body\u2019s chemistry, too. Try to see yourself as a single person now. Walk the streets thinking that you are what you are and after some time, you\u2019ll get used to it.<\/p>\n

3. You haven\u2019t had closure<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Tal vez te dej\u00f3 de repente o sab\u00edas que iba a pasar pero no ten\u00edas ni idea... por qu\u00e9 quer\u00eda romper contigo<\/a>. If you don\u2019t have closure, you are not ready to move on because you\u2019ll keep obsessing over what went wrong with the two of you. Closure is extremely important because it means that you finalized things and closed the final chapter of that book. And if you don\u2019t finalize something, you can\u2019t start anything new. You have to give yourself time to grieve the loss, take responsibilities for your actions and look to the future.<\/p>\n

4. Echas de menos la intimidad<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

You miss the actual person, which is completely understandable, but that doesn\u2019t have to be the only reason why you are not over him yet, and it isn\u2019t. That is just a small part of the whole story. Most of the work that has to be done to heal has to be done by you and no one else. You have to get your respect back and you have to start loving yourself.<\/p>\n

5. Tienes que recuperar tu autoestima<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

If you were neglected in your relationship or always last on his priority list, then this is the main reason you can\u2019t get over your ex. He took your self-worth by treating you the way you didn\u2019t deserve and now you think you aren\u2019t fit for life. You think you are lost without him and you are scared because you don\u2019t know what to do, so the first thought in your mind is to go back to him. That won\u2019t solve anything. You have to remember that you are a beautiful human being, worthy of all the attention and love you can get. You deserve to be happy, so don\u2019t let yourself prevent yourself from being happy.<\/p>\n

6. Todo te recuerda a \u00e9l<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Todo lo que ves u hueles te recuerda a \u00e9l porque still haven\u2019t let him go<\/a>. It\u2019s perfectly normal to feel this way because a large part of you was ripped away from you and you have to miss it. Heck, if you had a tiny rock in your pocket for a long time, you would get used to that and miss it. If you still think about him after some time has passed then you are just not ready to move on yet. Give it some more time because we all heal differently.<\/p>\n

7. He was a part of you and now he\u2019s gone<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

He was a part of your identity. Your brain memorized him as that and if you see him again after a break-up, those old emotions will come swirling back because once it was you and him together and now it\u2019s just you and just him. Before, everything you did revolved around him and now you are on your own and you don\u2019t have to take care of anyone and it\u2019s confusing. A large part of you is now gone and it\u2019s natural to feel sad and to want it back, but that doesn\u2019t have to mean getting back together would be a good thing.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Your past is still haunting you and you just can\u2019t let go of it. Well, that is what is keeping you from forgetting about him. You are the reason you can\u2019t let go. Your past is holding you back from enjoying present moments. You are unable to forget that part of your life and that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":11845,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11831","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/photo-1453171194557-e6c630bb8af0.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11831","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11831"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11831\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11845"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11831"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11831"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11831"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}