Pero, nunca fui por ese camino<\/strong>. Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019ve had my share of heartbreaks.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, la verdad es que a diferencia de ellos, ning\u00fan chico me ha arrastrado en<\/strong>. S\u00ed, llor\u00e9 mis rupturas e incluso me enfrent\u00e9 a la infidelidad.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, I was the kind of girl who always knew where she stood. I\u2019ve never been in a loveless relationship or with a guy who couldn\u2019t make up his mind about me.<\/p>\n On the other hand, they all spent most of their lives chasing guys who didn\u2019t have the decency to choose them for real.<\/p>\n Lloraban por unos chicos inmaduros que nunca supieron lo que quer\u00edan.<\/p>\n Mis tres amigas segu\u00edan tropezando con t\u00edos que jugaban al fr\u00edo y al calor, t\u00edos que las ten\u00edan como opci\u00f3n de reserva y que sal\u00edan con ellas mientras les conven\u00eda.<\/p>\n They\u2019ve been involved with men who disappeared and then marched back into their lives. Of course, they\u2019ve had problemas de pareja<\/a> con estos hombres con los que nunca tuvieron una relaci\u00f3n real.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why I always choose a man who knows what he wants over one who has doubts about our relationship, even if I\u2019m not on the list of his ambitions.<\/strong><\/p>\n Por otro lado, ninguno de estos hombres tuvo el valor de decirles la cruda verdad a la cara.<\/p>\n En lugar de eso, les estuvieron dando largas durante meses o incluso a\u00f1os mientras mis hijas estaban demasiado ocupadas intentando darse cuenta de lo que les hab\u00eda golpeado y averiguar qu\u00e9 estaba pasando en realidad.<\/p>\n Sounds familiar, right? Well, I\u2019m sure you know exactly what I\u2019m talking about. If you have never been a protagonist of this scenario, I\u2019ll bet that at least one of your friends has.<\/p>\n Debo admitir que, por suerte, nunca me he visto en una situaci\u00f3n similar.<\/p>\n \u00bfEra m\u00e1s guapa que el resto de mis compa\u00f1eras? No. \u00bfEra m\u00e1s inteligente? \u00bfM\u00e1s divertida? \u00bfM\u00e1s sabia? De nuevo, no.<\/p>\n So, you know what the difference is between me and them? You see, unlike them, I\u2019m the kind of gal who will always take rejection over false promises.<\/strong><\/p>\n I\u2019m not scared of the harsh truth. In fact, I prefer it over deception.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t comfort myself by believing in lies, and you won\u2019t make me calmer if you tell me what I want to hear.<\/strong><\/p>\n Let\u2019s be honest: nobody enjoys being rejected.<\/p>\n A guy telling me he\u2019s not interested in me would probably hurt my ego in a given moment. However, this situation most certainly won\u2019t be the cause of your misery in the long run.<\/p>\n I prefer a guy who tells me that he\u2019s not into me over one who leads me on, raising my hopes without any solid backup.<\/p>\n Prefiero un hombre lo suficientemente valiente como para proponer una relaci\u00f3n sin ataduras a uno que pretenda comprometerse mientras lleva una vida de soltero.<\/p>\n Lo \u00faltimo que necesito son falsas promesas y excusas vac\u00edas. I se niega a conformarse con un tipo<\/a> whose action doesn\u2019t support his words.<\/strong><\/p>\n I don\u2019t need a man who will sweet talk me into believing him while he is actually manipulating me.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t need a guy who will keep on telling me how much he loves me when he has never moved an inch to prove that imaginary love he allegedly feels for me.<\/strong><\/p>\n I don\u2019t need someone who is likely to become a part of my emotional baggage… a man who will make me question my worth and leave me wondering why I wasn’t good enough to earn the title of his girlfriend.<\/p>\n Me niego a conformarme con un t\u00edo que me mienta a la cara sin pesta\u00f1ear o con un t\u00edo que se meta con mi cabeza y mi autoestima o con un t\u00edo que s\u00f3lo est\u00e9 ah\u00ed para hacerme perder mi precioso tiempo.<\/p>\n Cuando un hombre \u00edntegro me dice que he doesn’t love me enough<\/a> or that he doesn’t want me in his life, he is giving me an opportunity to move on.<\/strong><\/p>\n En este caso, mis expectativas desaparecen y todas mis falsas esperanzas se convierten en cenizas.<\/p>\n Yes, that hurts – I won’t lie to you. But, at least everything becomes crystal clear.<\/p>\n![\"hermosa](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-brunnette-woman.jpg\")
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