{"id":118587,"date":"2020-12-14T10:25:27","date_gmt":"2020-12-14T10:25:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=118587"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:40:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:40:25","slug":"cosas-que-nunca-deben-halagarte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cosas-que-nunca-deben-halagarte\/","title":{"rendered":"4 cosas que nunca deben halagarte en una cita"},"content":{"rendered":"

When we are into a guy, we all have this strange habit of falling for nonsense. Don\u2019t get me wrong: little things are actually the biggest, but that doesn\u2019t include crumbs of someone\u2019s attention.<\/p>\n

Algunos gestos significan el mundo para nosotras viniendo de un chico que nos gusta. Pero adivina qu\u00e9, ninguna de estas siguientes cosas deber\u00eda halagarte.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re not proof of his love for you, nor do they assure you a special place in his life.<\/p>\n

Calling you when he\u2019s drunk<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be real: what girl hasn\u2019t had an ex or an almost who tried to hit her up whenever he was drunk?<\/p>\n

He is nowhere to be found during the week, but as soon as the booze takes over, he\u2019s all over your DMs.<\/p>\n

So, you think to yourself that he must be crazy about you. After all, you know what they say: \u201cA drunk mind speaks a sober heart\u201d?<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 tan locamente enamorado de ti que le asusta la intensidad de sus sentimientos. O intenta reprimir sus emociones, pero no lo consigue.<\/p>\n

Alcohol serves him as a truth serum. You\u2019re the one he remembers whenever he gets wasted, so that should flatter you, right?<\/p>\n

Pues NO. Si este tipo realmente se preocupaba por ti<\/a>, he would call you when he\u2019s sober. <\/strong><\/p>\n

He would do everything in his power to make you his \u2013 he wouldn\u2019t only reach out to you when he doesn\u2019t even know what he\u2019s doing.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Confiar en ti<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Confiar en tu pareja es una de las bases de una relaci\u00f3n sana. Saber que los dos estar\u00e9is ah\u00ed el uno para el otro y que cont\u00e1is el uno con el otro es como deben ser las cosas.<\/p>\n

But, hey, you\u2019re not this guy\u2019s girlfriend. Maybe you are his ex, or what you two have is sin laboratorio<\/a>, but officially, you\u2019re not his girlfriend.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, sigue confiando en ti. Valora tu opini\u00f3n y conf\u00eda en ti m\u00e1s que en nadie.<\/p>\n

Whenever he is in trouble, he asks for your help or advice. And whether you like to admit it or not, deep down, you\u2019re flattered by this.<\/p>\n

Come on, just look at him. He has all those girls, but it\u2019s clear that you\u2019re special.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the only one he feels much more than vestigial attraction. He appreciates you as a person and sees you as a friend and not just as a hookup or an ex.<\/p>\n

Bullshit! He relies on you because you\u2019re the only one who lets him.<\/p>\n

This man is using you. The moment he gets himself into any kind of trouble, you\u2019re the first one he calls.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But later on, as soon as you help him, he goes back to his old ways. So, what\u2019s exactly flattering about this?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Reaparece en tu vida<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

It\u2019s been ages since you two broke up. Or maybe you were never a real couple. Either way, the bottom line is the same \u2013 ever since he left, this man keeps coming back to you.<\/p>\n

Ocurre cada pocas semanas o meses, pero lo cierto es que reaparece en tu vida de vez en cuando. As\u00ed que lo ves como una se\u00f1al de su incapacidad para olvidarte.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s been with all those other women. He tried moving on, but he just can\u2019t. Every time is the same: he always comes knocking back on your door. So, you must be special to him.<\/p>\n

As much as he tries, he can\u2019t seem to forget you. It\u2019s apparent that he loves you, as he can\u2019t control his urge to see you.<\/p>\n

Al menos, esto es lo que usted quiere creer. Sin embargo, s\u00f3lo hay una raz\u00f3n por la que se comporta as\u00ed: porque puede.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re the only woman in the whole wide world who would always take him back. It doesn\u2019t matter what he\u2019s done or how long he\u2019s been away: you\u2019re there waiting for him with your arms wide open.<\/p>\n

Y \u00e9l lo sabe. No s\u00f3lo eso: lo utiliza en su beneficio. Pero, \u00bfqui\u00e9n podr\u00eda culparle?<\/p>\n

Dici\u00e9ndote que te echa de menos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It\u2019s super cute if your BF tells you te echa de menos<\/a> because you two hadn\u2019t had a chance to meet for a few days. It\u2019s also acceptable to hear this from your long-distance partner.<\/p>\n

Pero if a guy who is a few minutes drive away from you tells you that he misses you but doesn\u2019t do anything about it \u2013 don\u2019t be flattered.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t miss you, and he doesn\u2019t give a damn about you. Instead, he is doing this to keep you on hold.<\/p>\n

He is deliberately playing with your mind. This man is making sure you don\u2019t forget him while he is somewhere else, putting effort into another girl.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When we are into a guy, we all have this strange habit of falling for nonsense. Don\u2019t get me wrong: little things are actually the biggest, but that doesn\u2019t include crumbs of someone\u2019s attention. Some gestures mean the world to us coming from a guy we like. But guess what, none of these following things…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":118596,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-118587","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/4-Things-That-Should-Never-Flatter-You-In-Dating-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118587","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=118587"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118587\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/118596"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=118587"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=118587"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=118587"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}