{"id":118599,"date":"2021-10-14T10:33:03","date_gmt":"2021-10-14T10:33:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=118599"},"modified":"2022-03-10T17:42:03","modified_gmt":"2022-03-10T17:42:03","slug":"por-que-me-contagio-de-sentimientos-tan-rapido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-me-contagio-de-sentimientos-tan-rapido\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 me contagio los sentimientos tan r\u00e1pido? (12 razones + 8 formas de parar)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tras quedarse con un coraz\u00f3n roto<\/a> tantas veces, una pregunta me rondaba constantemente por la cabeza, \u201cWhy <\/i>\u00bfme contagio de sentimientos<\/i> so fast and so soon in a relationship?\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n

Vale, lo admito. Tambi\u00e9n era parcialmente culpable de todas las veces que me rompieron el coraz\u00f3n porque se lo di en la palma de la mano a la gente antes de darles siquiera la oportunidad de demostrar que val\u00edan la pena.<\/b><\/p>\n

However, the fact that I\u2019m not alone, that I’m not the only one struggling with it, really gave me much-needed comfort. La verdad es que hay tanta gente como yo; gente que <\/i>atrapar sentimientos<\/i> demasiado r\u00e1pido.<\/i><\/p>\n

Somos muchos los que odiamos estar solteros y saltamos de una relaci\u00f3n a otra para enamorarnos con demasiada facilidad.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 me contagio tan r\u00e1pido?<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

I think it\u2019s also partly because we have un coraz\u00f3n puro<\/a> y pensamos que todas las dem\u00e1s personas tambi\u00e9n lo tienen. Nunca podr\u00edamos hacer da\u00f1o a una persona, y creemos que los dem\u00e1s tienen el mismo razonamiento.<\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019m really sorry I have to be the one who breaks it out for you, but that\u2019s not how things work.<\/p>\n

Hay tantos people who simply don\u2019t care<\/a> por otro <\/i>person\u2019s feelings,<\/i> and who\u2019ll stay with you only as long as they can use you.<\/i><\/p>\n

Creo que cada <\/b>coach relacional<\/b> estar\u00e1 de acuerdo conmigo en que<\/b> enamorarse<\/b><\/a> es un proceso, y como cualquier otro proceso, necesita tiempo.<\/b> It shouldn\u2019t be easy, and most importantly, it should never be too fast.<\/p>\n

Hay que ir paso a paso y respetar cada parte de ese proceso. No hay <\/b>atajos<\/b> en <\/b>enamorarse<\/b>.<\/b> Bueno, puede haberlos, pero para ser sincero, nunca te llevar\u00e1n a una buena y relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I know we can\u2019t control and command our hearts, but we definitely can our minds.<\/i><\/p>\n

Para evitar enamorarnos demasiado deprisa y evitar un posible desenga\u00f1o amoroso, primero debemos darnos cuenta de qu\u00e9 es lo que hace que nuestro coraz\u00f3n sienta algo por otra persona tan pronto.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 me enamoro tan f\u00e1cilmente? 12 razones probables<\/h2>\n

Yo era b\u00e1sicamente ese tipo de persona que capta sentimientos en la primera cita. S\u00f3lo me llev\u00f3 a muchos <\/i>rompecorazones<\/i>Y tampoco consegu\u00ed el cuento de hadas con el que so\u00f1aba, ni el final feliz.<\/i><\/p>\n

Fortunately, I was able to realize what was ‘wrong’ with me… I realized that I was falling in love too easily and way too quickly.<\/p>\n

If you have similar issues and are currently asking yourself, \u201cWhy do I catch feelings so fast?\u201d, then I hope you\u2019ll find an answer in these red flags below.<\/p>\n

1. Negligencia infantil<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

If you didn\u2019t get your needs met as a child, you\u2019ll probably spend your life looking for someone who\u2019ll compensate you for the affection and love you didn\u2019t get in your childhood.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re dealing with abandonment issues, <\/i><\/a>and you\u2019re constantly trying to find someone who\u2019ll <\/i>te quiero<\/i> sinceramente, protegerte del resto del mundo y, lo m\u00e1s importante, alguien que nunca se vaya ni te abandone.<\/i><\/p>\n

You\u2019re looking for those parental figures in everyone you meet, and that\u2019s why you\u2019re <\/b>enamorarse<\/b> tan a menudo y tan r\u00e1pido.<\/b><\/p>\n

Si quieres ayudarte a ti mismo, realmente necesitas <\/i>dejar de buscar <\/i>validaci\u00f3n<\/i><\/a> de otros.<\/i><\/p>\n

Hay una cosa que realmente necesitas entender para cambiar tu propia vida y convertirte en una persona m\u00e1s feliz. You need to understand that you have yourself, and that\u2019s perfectly enough.<\/i><\/p>\n

You aren\u2019t that little child anymore. You don\u2019t need anyone to protect you, and you definitely don\u2019t need to make anyone fall in love with you.<\/b><\/p>\n

You have love already in your life… you have <\/i>amor propio<\/i><\/a> and it\u2019s the purest and most special kind of love.<\/i><\/p>\n

2. Being drawn to a person’s shiny attributes<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to feel attracted to someone’s physical appearance, but you should never fall in love with those things you see on the outside. There are so many other qualities you should look for in order to build and maintain una relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a> con otra persona.<\/p>\n

El aspecto f\u00edsico es lo que te atrae de una persona, pero el car\u00e1cter y la personalidad son lo que hace que te enamores sinceramente de esa persona.<\/i><\/p>\n

You must learn to look deeper. Don\u2019t fall for what you see on the outside (for a person\u2019s appearance only)\u2026 that\u2019s overvalued. Things that are inside of us are what matters truly.<\/b><\/p>\n

And, in order to find them out, you\u2019ll have to wait, spend some time with a person, and get to know them a little bit better in order to establish a deeper emotional and romantic connection.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t get to know those things immediately after the first date. However, keep in mind that all siempre merece la pena esperar por las cosas buenas, especialmente por el amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n

3. Elegir pensar con el coraz\u00f3n en lugar de con la mente<\/h3>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que en el interior de cada uno de nosotros se libra constantemente una batalla agotadora. Y, esos rivales se enfurecen especialmente una vez que nos enamoramos.<\/p>\n

Of course, it\u2019s a battle between our hearts and our minds. <\/b>And, unfortunately, I think that the heart always leaves the fight as the winner, but that’s not always a good thing.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to listen to your heart sometimes, but you must also take into consideration what your logic is telling you.<\/i><\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to listen to your mind with all those butterflies dancing in your stomach, but sometimes, it\u2019s really necessary to do so for your own <\/b>bienestar<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

A todos nos ciega a veces el amor, y eso nos lleva a hacer cosas insensatas e imprudentes.<\/i> Si te gusta una persona y te invita a salir, detente ah\u00ed mismo y c\u00e1lmate primero.<\/p>\n

Just because they\u2019re nice to you and they look truly amazing doesn\u2019t have to mean they\u2019re your soulmate<\/a>, and it\u2019s not okay to fall in love immediately with that person.<\/p>\n

4. Fuerte creencia en el amor a primera vista<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I believed in LOVE\u2026 in every kind, shape, or type of love possible. I believed in almas gemelas<\/a> y todas las dem\u00e1s cosas relativas a amor verdadero<\/a>. En pocas palabras, estaba enamorado del amor.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong here; it\u2019s okay to believe in all those things… I still do. My mistake was that I didn\u2019t know the right definition of true love and <\/i>amor en <\/i>primera vista<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t know that there is a difference between falling in love with someone and simply liking someone. I couldn’t <\/b>diferenciar el amor verdadero del <\/b>encaprichamiento<\/b><\/a>compartir <\/b>sentimientos fuertes<\/b> por alguien, y sentirse atra\u00eddo por alguien.<\/b><\/p>\n

I was being attracted by a guy’s physical appearance, and I was instantly texting my best friend that I fell in amor a primera vista<\/a>. Ahora me parece una chorrada, pero entonces estaba segura de que era amor de verdad.<\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t. It never was. I wanted it to be, but honestly speaking, it was never anything more than just pure attraction, infatuation, and lust.<\/p>\n

5. El miedo a estar solo\/soltera<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Para m\u00ed, <\/b>ser soltero<\/b><\/a> significaba estar solo, y yo ten\u00eda tanto miedo, en realidad estaba aterrorizado de estar solo.<\/b> I jumped into new relationships too quickly and too soon only because I didn\u2019t want to be alone.<\/p>\n

Recuerdo que cada vez que rompi\u00f3<\/a> con un chico, activaba inmediatamente mis antiguos perfiles en las aplicaciones de citas y encontraba a alguien nuevo. Y, me contagiaba de algunos sentimientos por esa persona mientras solo nos envi\u00e1bamos mensajes de texto antes incluso de conocerla cara a cara.<\/p>\n

Afortunadamente, Me di cuenta de que deb\u00eda abrazar<\/i> mi vida de soltero <\/i><\/a>y esperar a alguien que valga la pena cambiar mi estado sentimental.<\/i><\/p>\n

6. La idea err\u00f3nea de necesitar a alguien que te complete<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Siempre sent\u00ed que estaba incompleta, que faltaba una parte de m\u00ed, y que necesitaba encontrar a alguien que llenara ese vac\u00edo.<\/i><\/p>\n

Ahora comprendo lo equivocada que estaba. Dios nos hizo completos y nos hizo perfectos tal como somos.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1 de acuerdo en que todos necesitamos a esa otra persona, pero s\u00f3lo debe estar ah\u00ed para querernos, apoyarnos y animarnos a ser mejores personas cada d\u00eda de nuestra vida.<\/p>\n

7. Inmadurez emocional<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Aunque me cost\u00f3 mucho aceptar este hecho sobre m\u00ed, tengo que admitir sinceramente que era muy cierto.<\/p>\n

Yo era <\/b>emocionalmente inmaduro<\/b><\/a>, and that was also one of \u200b\u200b\u200b\u200bthe reasons why I was <\/b>enamorarse<\/b> tan r\u00e1pido y saltando de relaci\u00f3n en relaci\u00f3n tan a menudo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Nunca me di <\/i>tiempo suficiente<\/i> para procesar mis sentimientos de la manera correcta. Siempre intentaba centrarme solo en las cosas buenas de una relaci\u00f3n mientras escond\u00eda todas las malas bajo la alfombra.<\/i><\/p>\n

Believe me, that’s the worst thing you can do to yourself and to your relationship.<\/p>\n

I couldn’t understand my own emotions\u2026 so how, for the sake of God, could I understand my boyfriend’s feelings?<\/p>\n

Algo que cada <\/i>coach relacional<\/i> le dir\u00e1 es que para tener una buena y <\/i>saludable <\/i>relaci\u00f3n duradera<\/i> <\/a>con alguien, es imprescindible tener altos niveles de comprensi\u00f3n, aceptaci\u00f3n y buena comunicaci\u00f3n.<\/i><\/p>\n

8. Falta de autoconciencia<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I never put myself on the top of my own priority list because I always felt like that place should be reserved for my \u2018better half\u2019. Well, to hell with that.<\/p>\n

First of all, I\u2019m not looking for \u2018my half\u2019 anymore because I\u2019m very well aware of my wholeness now.<\/b><\/p>\n

And, it definitely couldn\u2019t be a \u2018better half\u2019 because I have realized my self-worth, and in the very first place on my priority list, I\u2019ve finally put a person there who deserves that place the most \u2013 myself.<\/p>\n

De hecho, el primer paso para tomar conciencia de uno mismo es <\/i>convertirte en una prioridad<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

9. Vac\u00edo emocional<\/h3>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Mi salud emocional y mental tambi\u00e9n estaban por los suelos. Yo era <\/i>luchando contra la depresi\u00f3n<\/i><\/a> y ansiedad, y eso me hac\u00eda sentir muy vac\u00eda por dentro.<\/i> Ese tipo de sentimiento es sencillamente inexplicable, y de verdad que no quiero que nadie lo experimente.<\/p>\n

I was constantly looking for someone who would be able to fulfill that emptiness\u2026 to bring peace, joy, and inner calmness back into my life.<\/b><\/p>\n

Every time someone made me feel good about myself and my life, I would immediately start thinking, \u201cThat\u2019s it, I finally found the right person\u201d, when, in fact, they were so far from it.<\/p>\n

10. Est\u00e1ndares muy pobres<\/h3>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Debido a mi <\/i>baja autoestima<\/i>Realmente pens\u00e9 que era<\/i> indigno de ser amado<\/i><\/a>y me hizo<\/i> bajar mis est\u00e1ndares<\/i><\/a>. En realidad, me convirti\u00f3 en una persona completamente libre de normas.<\/i><\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t think about whether we had positive compatibility or whether our relationship even had the potential to go the long term.<\/p>\n

Si alguien se portara bien y me tratara bien, inmediatamente sentir\u00eda algo por esa persona. Mi necesidad de <\/b>validaci\u00f3n<\/b> from others was actually the main culprit of my ‘<\/b>atrapando sentimientos<\/b> so fast’ weakness.<\/b><\/p>\n

11. Miedo al apego genuino<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Yes, I know… this is such irony, but trust me, it\u2019s definitely true.<\/p>\n

Salt\u00e9 de una relaci\u00f3n a otra y me enamor\u00e9 demasiado pronto, pero todo se debi\u00f3 a que en realidad estaba<\/i> miedo al compromiso<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Ten\u00eda miedo de un <\/b>relaci\u00f3n duradera<\/b>. I didn\u2019t want to attach to anyone, and that\u2019s why I would get back into the dating pool as soon as I <\/b>rompi\u00f3<\/b> con alguien<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Fortunately, I now realize how important commitment is… I understood that committing to someone is way better than jumping from relationship to relationship without any dreams, plans, or goals for the future.<\/p>\n

12. Negarse a aprender de las experiencias pasadas<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Am I the only person who\u2019ll never be able to learn from her own mistakes? Enamorarse<\/i> tan r\u00e1pidamente s\u00f3lo me hizo m\u00e1s miserable y me trajo muchos <\/i>rompecorazones<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Each and every single one of our mistakes comes with one clear purpose\u2026 to teach us some valuable lessons.<\/b><\/p>\n

Even after so many broken hearts, I couldn\u2019t realize how I was also guilty of breaking my own heart so many times. I was guilty of giving my heart so easily to people who never proved they actually deserved it.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo dejar de enamorarse demasiado r\u00e1pido? 8 m\u00e9todos infalibles<\/h2>\n

S\u00ed, por fin llegamos a la parte m\u00e1s importante. Love is a very heavy word, and it shouldn\u2019t be used so easily and so often.<\/b><\/p>\n

A continuaci\u00f3n le ofrecemos algunos consejos eficaces que le ayudar\u00e1n evitar contagiarse de sentimientos tan r\u00e1pidamente<\/a>. Pay close attention to them and save yourself from getting hurt… evitar que te vuelvan a romper el coraz\u00f3n.<\/i><\/p>\n

1. It\u2019s high time to redefine LOVE<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1l es su definici\u00f3n del amor?<\/a>? \u00bfQu\u00e9 cualidades debe tener la otra persona para que te enamores de ella?<\/p>\n

Como ya he dicho, hay muchas <\/b>tipos de amor<\/b><\/a>, and first, you need to discover the most important one… you need to <\/b>descubra <\/b>amor propio<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Antes de enamorarte de otra persona, necesitas <\/i>enam\u00f3rate primero de ti mismo<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

All the madness and thinking about how you can\u2019t live without that other person is just the beginning phase of love. True, deep love is so much more than that.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a beautiful, but very challenging and difficult journey with many, many obstacles along the way.<\/i><\/p>\n

It\u2019s accepting to go through everything with that one person who makes your heart sing, and love them equally through all those ups and downs.<\/b><\/p>\n

Puedes sentir la chispa en la primera cita<\/a>, but it\u2019s way too early to catch some honest feelings or to fall in love. That\u2019s something that really demands time, understanding, sacrifices, and a lot of hard work.<\/p>\n

2. T\u00f3mate las cosas con calma<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t jump the gun and fall head over heels for another person before you get to know them. It won\u2019t end well… trust me. It never does.<\/i><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll end up hurt and disappointed. And, the worst thing is that you won’t be able to put the blame on anyone else… the only culprit in that story will be you.<\/b><\/p>\n

No hay por qu\u00e9 darse prisa. Deber\u00edas daros tiempo a los dos <\/b>conocerse<\/b><\/a> y establecer una conexi\u00f3n genuina poco a poco.<\/b> In my opinion (and based on my own experience, too), the faster you fall in love, the faster you\u2019ll fall out of love.<\/p>\n

3. Cultiva la relaci\u00f3n que tienes contigo mismo<\/h3>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

I think that the best answer to \u2018Why do I catch feelings so fast?\u2019 is neglecting the relationship I have had with myself for too long.<\/p>\n

I was constantly looking for someone who\u2019ll love me honestly and unconditionally; someone who\u2019ll love and accept all of me. I was looking for that<\/i> amor verdadero <\/i><\/a>mientras todo ese tiempo, estaba dentro de m\u00ed. S\u00f3lo ten\u00eda que redescubrirlo de nuevo.<\/i><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que mi consejo es <\/b>vuelve a centrarte en ti mismo<\/b><\/a>. Vuelve a enamorarte de ti mismo. El\u00edgete a ti mismo por encima de todos y de todo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Necesitas redescubrir y comprender cu\u00e1les son tus verdaderos valores respecto al amor. <\/i>Amor propio<\/i> siempre viene con<\/i> autocuidado<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Once you fall in love with yourself again, you\u2019ll revamp your self-worth, and you won\u2019t start catching feelings for someone else before they prove to you that they\u2019re truly worth it.<\/p>\n

4. Aprende a reconocer y aceptar tus emociones<\/h3>\n

\"relajarse<\/p>\n

Those things you feel at the beginning of a new relationship are only lust and pure infatuation. Those aren\u2019t honest feelings of love, and you shouldn\u2019t give too much importance to them.<\/p>\n

Vea la situaci\u00f3n tal y como es.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que podemos dejarnos llevar f\u00e1cilmente por esa fase principiante de <\/b>encaprichamiento<\/b> en una relaci\u00f3n, pero hay que reconocerlo y trazar una l\u00ednea divisoria entre \u00e9l y el amor verdadero.<\/b><\/p>\n

Esta es tambi\u00e9n la parte en la que debes confiar m\u00e1s en tu cabeza que en tu coraz\u00f3n. Primero, observa y reconoce tus emociones; luego, aceptarlas y compartirlas es el \u00faltimo paso.<\/i><\/p>\n

5. Nunca te muestres demasiado disponible<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Being too available for your loved one isn\u2019t the best way to prove to them you\u2019re honestly in love with them.<\/i> Eso te har\u00e1 m\u00e1s vulnerable y te llevar\u00e1 a perder la autoestima.<\/p>\n

Desgraciadamente, estar demasiado disponible<\/a> for others will make them take you for granted because they know you\u2019ll always be there.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t ever be too available to people who don\u2019t respect your presence at all. You’re not even aware of all the consequences it may have for your self-confidence.<\/b><\/p>\n

A veces, lo mejor que puedes hacer es dejar en paz a la persona que amas.<\/p>\n

If you see that someone doesn’t appreciate you, try with the good old art of <\/b>fantasma<\/b> ellos. <\/b>Tu ausencia har\u00e1 que se den cuenta de tu verdadero valor, y har\u00e1 que luchen por ti y por tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

6. Ten cuidado antes de volver al juego de las citas<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time for full dating apps and desintoxicaci\u00f3n de las redes sociales<\/a>. It\u2019s time to stop jumping from relationship to relationship searching for happiness and true love.<\/p>\n

Take some time for yourself. You won\u2019t mend your broken heart by <\/b>enamorarse<\/b> de nuevo e iniciar un <\/b>nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

That\u2019s not healthy, and no matter how good that other person will be, you won\u2019t be able to maintain a relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a> con ellos.<\/p>\n

Tienes que <\/i>lib\u00e9rate de la carga emocional <\/i><\/a>de una relaci\u00f3n anterior antes de empezar una nueva.<\/i><\/p>\n

7. Da un paso atr\u00e1s cada vez que empieces a sentir algo<\/h3>\n

\"atractiva<\/p>\n

Every time you catch yourself thinking that you\u2019ve started developing some romantic feelings for another person, you should pull away for a while.<\/p>\n

A veces, dar un paso atr\u00e1s puede ser un paso adelante.<\/b><\/p>\n

Think about what attracted you to that person and whether those reasons and the other person\u2019s values are valid and enough for you to fall in love with them.<\/i><\/p>\n

8. Retrasar la intimidad<\/h3>\n

\"hombres<\/p>\n

Intenta evitar el contacto f\u00edsico hasta que conozcas mejor a la otra persona y <\/i>profundizar <\/i>conexi\u00f3n emocional<\/i><\/a> con ellos.<\/i><\/p>\n

Being intimate with another person leads to catching feelings, and that is something we want to avoid, right? So, choose cinema dates over the \u2018Netflix and chill\u2019 kinds of dates.<\/p>\n

Retrasar la intimidad <\/b><\/a>tiene m\u00e1s ventajas que inconvenientes.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019ll help you build some important foundations of a healthy relationship, such as trust and effective communication, and it\u2019ll also strengthen the bond between you and your partner.<\/p>\n

Para concluir<\/h2>\n

\"bonita<\/p>\n

Durante mucho tiempo me he preguntado por qu\u00e9 me contagio tan r\u00e1pido de los sentimientos, porque era consciente de que no era sano. Siempre lo consider\u00e9 mi mayor debilidad y sab\u00eda que era el principal culpable de que me rompieran el coraz\u00f3n tantas veces.<\/p>\n

One thing is for sure, though, catching feelings so quickly only means that you aren\u2019t able to control your own emotions.<\/p>\n

Esto puede atraer a muchos personas t\u00f3xicas y falsas<\/a> en tu vida. Believe me… the key to attracting the <\/b>persona adecuada<\/b> en tu vida es el arte de ser capaz de navegar por tus emociones.<\/b><\/p>\n

Enamorarse<\/i> is a process. It demands time and hard work. I hope these tips will help you fall in love slowly like you\u2019re in a fairy tale\u2026 slowly, but forever.<\/i><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give your heart to someone too soon because they won\u2019t know what to do with it. They may drop it and snap, and your heart will be shattered once again all over the floor.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

After being left with a broken heart so many times, one question was constantly running through my mind, \u201cWhy do I catch feelings so fast and so soon in a relationship?\u201d Okay, I admit it. I was also partially guilty for all those times my heart was broken because I gave my heart in the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":118668,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-118599","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Why-Do-I-Catch-Feelings-So-Fast_-12-Reasons-8-Ways-To-Stop-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":316,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":316,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118599","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=118599"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118599\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/118668"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=118599"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=118599"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=118599"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}