{"id":118725,"date":"2020-12-21T13:51:41","date_gmt":"2020-12-21T13:51:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=118725"},"modified":"2022-12-07T11:17:15","modified_gmt":"2022-12-07T11:17:15","slug":"salir-con-un-hombre-casado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/salir-con-un-hombre-casado\/","title":{"rendered":"19 cosas reveladoras que debes saber sobre salir con un hombre casado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Salir con un hombre casado<\/a> is one of the things every girl swore she’d never do. However, life often has a way of proving us wrong.<\/p>\n

You don’t know how exactly it happened, but you got the title of the other woman. You never planned for this to happen, and it is certainly not the fairytale kind of romance you’ve dreamt of.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As much as you try, you can’t find a way to resist the thrill this affair brings you. On the other hand, you know that dating a married man is a road to disaster.<\/p>\n

This toxic relationship makes you feel miserable, and you can’t believe that you settled for being some guy’s second choice. Besides, you’re not proud of getting yourself into this mess, are you?<\/p>\n

Well, having these doubts means that you’re on the right track. You just need some guidance, and this is the place to get it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9stos son algunos verdades reveladoras<\/a> sobre amar y salir con un hombre casado.<\/p>\n

8 preguntas reveladoras para salir con un hombre casado<\/h2>\n

The entire world can join forces to drag you away from this guy, but you won’t come to your senses until you see things how they are by yourself. I’m not here to give you any lectures.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Instead, I’ll just ask you to give honest answers to the following questions.<\/strong> I promise you \u2013 once you do, everything will be crystal clear.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: \u00bfExtra\u00f1an los hombres casados a sus amantes? 7 razones<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1 bien salir con un hombre casado?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

En circunstancias normales, ser\u00eda absurdo siquiera darle una respuesta a esta pregunta. Come on, isn\u2019t it obvious?<\/strong><\/p>\n

However, I\u2019m not here to judge you. Besides, it\u2019s pretty clear that you\u2019re having second thoughts about your relationship \u2013 otherwise, you wouldn\u2019t be here.<\/p>\n

Hay casos en los que la otra mujer<\/a> is perfectly aware of what she\u2019s doing. She knows that she is making a huge mistake, but she simply can\u2019t go against her heart.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de mujeres est\u00e1n consumidas por la culpa. Se consideran las \u00fanicas responsables de la desintegraci\u00f3n de una familia.<\/p>\n

The boyfriend\u2019s wife is constantly in these women\u2019s heads. The self-blame is eating them alive, but not enough to make them stop with their affair.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, there is a type of girl who is completely guilt-free. I\u2019m sure you know what I\u2019m talking about.<\/p>\n

This girl lives as if she is in a \u201cnormal\u201d relationship. She couldn\u2019t care less about her boyfriend\u2019s wife. After all, he is the one who made his wife some promises and the one who is backstabbing her.<\/p>\n

According to this point of view, the mistress holds no responsibility whatsoever. She isn\u2019t being unfaithful and she is only chasing her own happiness.<\/p>\n

While the first approach is all about guilt, the other one is all about self-deception. Basically, it\u2019s dead heat as to which one is worse.<\/p>\n

The important thing is that no matter what you think, having a romantic relationship with a married man is WRONG. I\u2019m not telling you to stop dating him nor do I blame you for this situation, but let\u2019s be clear with this.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Love him as much as you want or even continue dating him, but that doesn\u2019t make it right.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1 siendo sincero conmigo?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Now that we have that sorted out, it\u2019s time for a little bit of selfishness. After all, you\u2019re your own priority here and that\u2019s how things should roll.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, la mayor\u00eda de los hombres casados (si no todos) tienen un argumento similar. Pero, a pesar de estar familiarizadas con cada una de estas frases clich\u00e9, cada vez m\u00e1s chicas siguen cayendo en ellas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Porque un hombre casado te dir\u00e1 todas las cosas que quieres o\u00edr.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you must ask yourself if he\u2019s being honest with you.<\/p>\n

Mira, ning\u00fan chico vendr\u00e1 a ti con la historia de que su matrimonio ha ca\u00eddo en un bache y que s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 buscando algo de diversi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t tell you that he doesn\u2019t plan on leaving his significant other in a million years.<\/p>\n

In that case, every girl would just turn around and walk away. That\u2019s why a married guy will always say that his current relationship is on the verge of a breakdown.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one he confesses his deepest, darkest secrets to. He hasn\u2019t had an honest conversation with his wife in years and his marriage is just a piece of paper.<\/p>\n

\u00bfO ya ha pedido el divorcio antes de que os conocierais? Pero la bruja de su mujer est\u00e1 retrasando el proceso. Ella lo est\u00e1 chantajeando o amenazando con llevarse a los ni\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

The examples are endless, but I\u2019m sure you know the drill. However, there are some cases when all of this is true. They\u2019re rare, but they do exist.<\/p>\n

So, you know this man to the core of his being, don\u2019t you? Well, it\u2019s up to you to be completely honest with yourself and decide if you\u2019ll believe him or not.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSoy su primera aventura?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

En infiel<\/a> is not a big deal for some men. There are a bunch of married guys who continue living their lives as a bachelor even after saying \u201cI do\u201d.<\/p>\n

They see this as a way of extramarital fun \u2013 something that revives the spark in their current relationship. But, every time their wife is about to find out about their activities, they return to their nests as if nothing happened.<\/p>\n

O, simplemente, se aburren de una chica a la que arrastraron durante a\u00f1os. En cualquier caso, estos son los hombres que nunca cambiar\u00e1n su estilo de vida.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll keep on jumping from one woman to another as long as they have the chance to. They\u2019re ad\u00falteros en serie<\/a>, and if you fall into their trap \u2013 run for your life ASAP.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Por otro lado, hay hombres que simplemente se enamoran de otra persona fuera de su matrimonio. En este caso, ese alguien m\u00e1s eres t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

Look, I won\u2019t justify this. It\u2019s a well-known fact that you must end one relationship before starting anything new.<\/p>\n

But hey, we\u2019re all human beings made out of flesh and blood. So, whether we like it or not, these things happen.<\/p>\n

Es m\u00e1s probable que este tipo de hombre casado ponga fin a su relaci\u00f3n actual. Es consciente de que ha cometido un error, pero llevar una doble vida no es lo suyo.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo habla de su mujer?<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

I know that you\u2019d be the happiest person in the world if your boyfriend badmouthed his wife. That must mean that he doesn\u2019t want to have anything to do with her, right?<\/p>\n

Well, I can\u2019t emphasize enough how wrong you are.<\/p>\n

Lo primero y m\u00e1s importante, you don\u2019t want him to hate her. “Why”, you must ask. Well, hatred is an emotion, isn\u2019t it? Besides, it\u2019s a thin line between loving and hating someone.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Besides, if he is angry or resentful \u2013 he is clearly not indifferent. In fact, this might be just a defense mechanism.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s quite possible that he actually cares for his wife deeply, but refuses to admit this to anyone, including himself. Either way, it\u2019s apparent that there is still some strong passion present.<\/p>\n

La raz\u00f3n principal you shouldn\u2019t rejoice at this guy talking trash about his wife is the fact that his behavior shows what kind of a person he is.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Come on, isn\u2019t it enough that he is going behind her back? Not only that: now, he badmouths her with his mistress to humiliate her some more.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, puede que su mujer tenga todos esos rasgos t\u00f3xicos de los que no para de cotorrear, pero en ese caso, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 sigue casado con una persona como ella?<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs un cobarde para decirle todo lo que siente y piensa de ella a la cara?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 tipo de trato puede esperar USTED de \u00e9l en el futuro?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Es la mujer con la que quer\u00eda pasar el resto de su vida, y s\u00f3lo por eso merece respeto. As\u00ed que prep\u00e1rate para que te trate a\u00fan peor si os distanci\u00e1is.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, you don\u2019t want your boyfriend to talk to you about how he loves his wife either. As sick as that sounds, trust me \u2013 it happens.<\/p>\n

The best possible version would be a man who still has some respect for his wife, despite his affair. He doesn\u2019t blame her for the state of their marriage nor does he share the details of their past with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Instead, he just tells you that things aren\u2019t working out anymore, that the true love they shared faded away or that his marriage doesn\u2019t look the way he imagined it to be.<\/p>\n

\u00bfTiene hijos?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Kids should never be the main reason for a marriage to continue. However, nobody can tell you that they don\u2019t make a crucial difference.<\/p>\n

Therefore, you have to put them on a scale. It\u2019s one thing if your boyfriend has no children with his wife.<\/p>\n

De este modo, si acaba divorci\u00e1ndose de ella, ya no habr\u00e1 nada que les una. Adem\u00e1s, el proceso de divorcio ser\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil y r\u00e1pido, sobre todo si no tienen bienes comunes.<\/p>\n

No obstante, si son padres, ser\u00e1n co-parents<\/a> para el resto de sus vidas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if he marries you or someone else or if she moves on with her life \u2013 there will always be something connecting them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying this to scare you off nor am I talking about an emotional connection here. I just want you to be perfectly aware of what you\u2019re getting yourself into.<\/p>\n

This is especially true if we\u2019re talking about younger children. When the two of them split, you can\u2019t forbid your boyfriend from talking to his ex-wife.<\/p>\n

Probablemente obtendr\u00e1n la custodia compartida. Aunque es m\u00e1s probable que los ni\u00f1os vivan con su madre, seguir\u00e1n visit\u00e1ndole.<\/p>\n

This means that eventually, you\u2019ll become their stepmother<\/strong>. Of course, this doesn\u2019t have to happen right away, but if a man is leaving his wife for you, you two moving in together or getting married is probably the next step.<\/p>\n

Is this the role you\u2019re ready to take? No, you won\u2019t have to replace their mother (nor should you ever try doing so!), but they will certainly become a part of your life.<\/p>\n

How do you plan on handling this? How do you think you\u2019ll deal with the fact that they\u2019ll probably hate your guts, at least in the beginning?<\/p>\n

Is all of this too much for you? Do you think you have what it takes to live with a man who has a family you\u2019ll never be a part of?<\/p>\n

\u00bfSu divorcio forma parte del futuro previsible?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

We\u2019ve already established the fact that married guys (read: jugadores casados<\/a>) suelen prometer a sus amantes que est\u00e1n a punto de divorciarse. Pero, en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, esto no es m\u00e1s que un enga\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

This is nothing but this man\u2019s way of keeping you around. Maybe he is lying to himself as well, but the truth is that there are a lot of guys in this situation who never file for a divorce.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, por favor, preg\u00fantate: \u00bfes \u00e9ste el caso de tu novio? \u00bfO su divorcio forma parte de un futuro previsible?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t lie to yourself. Let\u2019s disregard your hopes and wishes. Instead, look at things as realistically as possible.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Qu\u00edtese las gafas de color de rosa y preg\u00fantese si su situaci\u00f3n est\u00e1 avanzando de alguna manera posible o est\u00e1 estancada en un punto muerto.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfHa hecho algo este hombre para demostrar sus intenciones? \u00bfSe ha mudado de casa? \u00bfHa hablado con su mujer de divorciarse? \u00bfHa iniciado los tr\u00e1mites?<\/p>\n

\u00bfO no ha hecho nada m\u00e1s que enga\u00f1arte y hacerte falsas promesas? \u00bfSigue haciendo excusas vac\u00edas<\/a> cada vez que sacas el tema?<\/p>\n

Esta pregunta podr\u00eda ser la m\u00e1s importante de todas.<\/strong> It\u2019s the one that gives you a clear light on your relationship. It helps you understand if this forbidden romance has a future or if it is doomed to fail.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1nto dura esto?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be brutally honest about one thing: if you have been dating a married man for years, but he hasn\u2019t done anything about his marital status, things will never change.<\/p>\n

Come on, let\u2019s be real: if he hasn\u2019t filed for divorce throughout all these years, what makes you think that this time will be different?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know you\u2019ve heard a million excuses. \u201cIt\u2019s just not the time yet\u201d. \u201cMy wife is emotionally blackmailing me\u201d. \u201cPlease, give me some more time\u201d. \u201cWait until the kids grow a little older, so they can understand what\u2019s going on.\u201d<\/p>\n

La lista contin\u00faa. Las excusas cambian, pero tu situaci\u00f3n sigue siendo la misma.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you two have just started dating, you can\u2019t expect him to leave his entire life overnight. I know it sounds harsh, but he is probably still not certain whether you\u2019re algo temporal<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEres lo suficientemente digna para que \u00e9l se aleje de su familia? \u00bfEs s\u00f3lo pasi\u00f3n o es amor de verdad?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ambos necesitan tiempo para obtener respuestas a estas preguntas.<\/p>\n

B\u00e1sicamente, tienes m\u00e1s posibilidades de acabar con este chico si llev\u00e1is juntos el tiempo suficiente para daros cuenta de que es el momento.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, your relationship doesn\u2019t last too long, so he objectively didn\u2019t have the chance to end things in his marriage.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 significa esta relaci\u00f3n para m\u00ed?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Until now, we\u2019ve focused on your boyfriend\u2019s deepest feelings and intentions. But, what about you?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 representa para usted esta relaci\u00f3n? \u00bfEs s\u00f3lo un asunto casual o est\u00e1s seguro you\u2019ve found your soulmate<\/a>?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mira, s\u00e9 que la atracci\u00f3n f\u00edsica puede ser intensa. Tiene una forma de cegarte para que no veas bien.<\/p>\n

However, trust me: it\u2019s not worth it. If you\u2019re not sure about your emotions, let it go.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Once you sober up and the butterflies in your belly fly away, you\u2019ll realize what you\u2019ve done. You\u2019ll see that you two have ruined a family for some vestigial attraction that never meant much.<\/p>\n

En cambio, la situaci\u00f3n es completamente distinta si ambos sab\u00e9is que quer\u00e9is envejecer juntos a pesar de las circunstancias.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1les son las desventajas de salir con un hombre casado?<\/h2>\n

It’s time to check out these shocking facts that apply to every extra-marital affair. En lugar de huir de la verdad, ten la valent\u00eda de mirarla directamente a los ojos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll waste years on him.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La mayor\u00eda de las mujeres pasan a\u00f1os saliendo con un hombre casado. De hecho, seg\u00fan los expertos en relaciones, la mayor\u00eda de estas relaciones no tienen ning\u00fan futuro.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not claiming that you two will be a part of the statistics. But, it is a possible scenario that you have to be prepared for.<\/p>\n

The harsh truth is that it\u2019s most likely that you\u2019ll end up wasting years of your life on this man. This is especially devastating if you\u2019re a younger girl who dreams of starting a family.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pero, puede que no tengas esa oportunidad si sigues viendo a este hombre.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1 dispuesto a pasar a\u00f1os en habitaciones de hotel destartaladas?<\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1s dispuesto a renunciar a algunas cosas habituales, como publicar una foto con tu base en las redes sociales, cogerle de la mano en p\u00fablico, irte de vacaciones sin tener que esconderte del mundo entero o simplemente ir a una cafeter\u00eda donde la gente pueda verte?<\/p>\n

There he is, living his life as if you don\u2019t exist. On the other hand, you put yours on hold, patiently waiting for him to choose you and make up his mind.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Las v\u00edsperas de A\u00f1o Nuevo, Valentine\u2019s Days<\/a>, Christmas Eves, holidays\u2026 He\u2019ll always be with his wife while you\u2019ll spend them alone.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easier while you\u2019re younger. You have your friends, but as time goes by, this will start to bother you more and more.<\/p>\n

Mira, no hay nada malo en estar solo cuando you\u2019re single<\/a>. In this case, you\u2019d probably enjoy your single life and you\u2019d know this is what you chose.<\/p>\n

But, it is something else to be in a relationship where you\u2019re alone, and this is exactly how these affairs look like.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 pasar\u00e1 cuando empiece a correr el reloj biol\u00f3gico (si quieres tener tus propios hijos)? \u00bfLe culpar\u00e1s por robarte los mejores a\u00f1os de tu vida?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, reality check: you\u2019ll be the only one guilty for giving it to him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

People don\u2019t change.<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

I assume what you must think: He\u2019s not like this. He is not an adulterer by nature. He did this with me only because we fell in love.<\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfes esto realmente cierto? \u00bfC\u00f3mo se puede conf\u00eda en este hombre<\/a>\u00bfIncluso si cumple todas sus promesas?<\/p>\n

I get it: you don\u2019t like his wife, which is perfectly natural. However, let\u2019s look at things realistically.<\/p>\n

Es una mujer a la que jur\u00f3 lealtad. Una mujer a la que jur\u00f3 permanecer a su lado en todos los d\u00edas buenos y malos y una mujer que probablemente dio a luz a sus hijos.<\/p>\n

Se trata de una mujer con la que construy\u00f3 una vida y junto a la que pas\u00f3 a\u00f1os. Sin embargo, nada de esto le impidi\u00f3 cometer adulterio.<\/p>\n

La traicion\u00f3 de la peor manera que se puede traicionar a una mujer. La humill\u00f3 y aplast\u00f3 sus esperanzas y sue\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 crees exactamente que le impide hacer lo mismo contigo? \u00bfQu\u00e9 otra se\u00f1al de alarma de su posible infidelidad necesitas?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfDice que te quiere?<\/a> He assures you he\u2019ll never leave you?<\/p>\n

Le hizo las mismas promesas un mill\u00f3n de veces, y las incumpli\u00f3 todas.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, el karma encuentra una forma de devolv\u00e9rtelo.<\/strong>. I don’t have the intention to scare you. Please know that all of this can happen to you years from now.<\/p>\n

One day, you’ll be a married woman. How would it feel to know that your husband is having an affair?<\/p>\n

Probablemente s\u00f3lo te est\u00e1 utilizando.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Yes, there are married men who fall in love with their mistresses \u2013 there is no doubt about that. However, in most cases, they\u2019re just using them for fun.<\/p>\n

You see, this man\u2019s marriage is not what it used to be. The two of them aren\u2019t in love as they were back when they were dating.<\/p>\n

These things happen. It\u2019s hard to keep the passion alive when you wake up next to the same person for years. This is often the case when kids come.<\/p>\n

La esposa ahora tambi\u00e9n se convierte en madre y, le guste o no, tiene que prestar mucha m\u00e1s atenci\u00f3n a este nuevo ser humano que ha tra\u00eddo al mundo.<\/p>\n

En consecuencia, el marido recibe menos atenci\u00f3n. O bien, ya no se siente atra\u00eddo por ella como antes.<\/p>\n

Maybe she gained some extra weight. Maybe he doesn\u2019t see the woman he fell in love with anymore.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, ahora est\u00e1 cambiando pa\u00f1ales, tiene olor a potito en el pelo o el ni\u00f1o le vomita encima de vez en cuando.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, there you are. Young and stunning. You don\u2019t nag about him not being home enough, you\u2019re not worried about paying the bills and you don\u2019t yell at the kids.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 m\u00e1s puede desear un hombre? B\u00e1sicamente, tienes todo por lo que se enamor\u00f3 de su mujer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, naturally, he falls for you hard. He doesn\u2019t care too much about your personality, and he doesn\u2019t think of your future together.<\/p>\n

For this man, you\u2019re not even real. You\u2019re just an illusion \u2013 an escape from his everyday problems and responsibilities.<\/strong><\/p>\n

After all this time, he feels young again. When he is with you, he doesn\u2019t think about paying the mortgage or mowing the lawn \u2013 he gets to enjoy himself.<\/p>\n

Not only that: you also fulfill all of his fantasies in the bedroom. You\u2019re never tired nor do you suffer from headaches every few days.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re always dressed to impress, your hair is perfect and your make-up is spotless. It\u2019s like he\u2019s got himself a personal, customized doll.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, Al cabo de un rato, la realidad le golpea con fuerza en la cabeza. Se da cuenta de que todo esto ha ido demasiado lejos y vuelve a su casa destrozada, intentando salvarla a toda costa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Los contras superan a los pros.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Amas a este hombre. Te gusta pasar tiempo con \u00e9l y ha tra\u00eddo alegr\u00eda a tu vida. A pesar de que es un ad\u00faltero, en el fondo, usted sabe que es un buen hombre.<\/p>\n

Estos son los pros. Si te fijas s\u00f3lo en esto, entonces todo el mundo te dir\u00e1 que vayas a por ello. Lucha por el hombre de tu vida. Todo vale en el amor y en la guerra, \u00bfverdad?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bueno, en realidad no. Hay situaciones en las que hay que poner un l\u00edmite.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Let’s talk about the disadvantages. Podr\u00eda estar us\u00e1ndote<\/a>. You\u2019ll spend years waiting for a miracle that will never come.<\/p>\n

Incluso si lo hace divorciarse<\/a>, you\u2019ll always blame yourself for tearing the family apart.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1n las cosas m\u00e1s claras ahora? Trust me: in the current situation, the cons almost always outweigh the pros. It\u2019s just not worth it<\/strong> and you\u2019ll figure that out on your own sooner or later.<\/p>\n

It\u2019ll ruin your reputation.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need to justify your actions to anyone. After all, you are not a people pleaser whose only goal is to get others\u2019 approval.<\/p>\n

However, I have to warn you: dating a married man might ruin your reputation in the long run. It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re promiscuous.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, even when this affair ends, your potential boyfriend might look at you through it. You will also probably be judged for interfering in someone\u2019s marriage.<\/p>\n

Even your best friends and family members won\u2019t support your decision. They might understand it, but deep down, they\u2019ll be against it.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo afrontar una cita con un hombre casado?<\/h2>\n

Una cosa es segura: debes poner fin a tu aventura a toda costa. Sin embargo, si insiste en seguir con esta farsa, al menos siga los buenos consejos que le han dado y juegue bien sus cartas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Rompe las cosas.<\/h2>\n

\"novio<\/p>\n

If you ask me: \u201cHow do you date a married man successfully\u201d, there is only one valid answer to this question: YOU DON\u2019T.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, un buen consejo es romper cosas<\/a> as soon as possible. I know it\u2019s hard, but please trust me \u2013 it\u2019s the best decision you\u2019ll ever make.<\/p>\n

You should at least try doing it despite all the love you might feel for him. Come on, you\u2019re a big girl and you can do it!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not advising you to make this move because it\u2019s the right thing to do. Yes, your conscience should be clear and you should take the fact that this is not moral into account.<\/p>\n

However, I\u2019m asking you to be a little selfish here. End this affair before it ends you emotionally and mentally.<\/p>\n

That is what the most probable outcome of your relationship is: you\u2019ll be heartbroken beyond repair and your life will shatter into pieces.<\/p>\n

Yes, there is a chance that things won\u2019t end this tragically. However, this is not a risk worth taking.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vaya a ning\u00fan contacto<\/a>corta todos los lazos con este hombre y olvida que alguna vez existi\u00f3.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll grieve over losing him \u2013 there is no doubt about that. And, I won\u2019t lie to you: by doing this, you\u2019ll break your own heart.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, en este caso, tienes la oportunidad de volver a pegarlo. De hecho, eso es exactamente lo que ocurrir\u00e1: sanar\u00e1s y ser\u00e1 solo una parte de tu amargo pasado.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t put your life on hold.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you decide to stay in this relationship despite all of these warnings, I\u2019ll beg you one thing: don\u2019t put your life on hold.<\/a><\/p>\n

You\u2019re a mistress and your love life can\u2019t be solved until this man makes a decision. However, that doesn\u2019t mean that you should spend years patiently waiting for him to do it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ten siempre presente que tu novio es no comprometido contigo<\/a>. As\u00ed que lo peor que puedes permitir es que te enjaule.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 deber\u00eda hacer exactamente? \u00bfSentarse en un cuarto oscuro todos los fines de semana que pasa con su familia?<\/p>\n

\u00bfDebes estar disponible cada vez que \u00e9l recuerde que existes? \u00bfToda tu vida debe convertirse en una espera interminable a que este hombre encuentre tiempo para dedicarte algo de atenci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re stuck in this relationship, use this time for some self-improvement. Don\u2019t ditch your friends because he might call, don\u2019t skip the gym because this is the only time he can come.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, muchas amantes acaban haciendo esto sin haberlo planeado nunca.<\/p>\n

Before you know it, you no longer go to the movies simply because he can\u2019t come along, you don\u2019t take vacations because he doesn\u2019t want you traveling without him and you don\u2019t invite your best friend over because your lover might march into your apartment if he gets the chance to.<\/p>\n

Antes de que te des cuenta, te sorprendes a ti mismo qued\u00e1ndote dormido completamente vestido con el tel\u00e9fono en las manos, esperando una llamada que nunca llega.<\/p>\n

Y, antes de que te des cuenta, t\u00fa te pierdes la vida mientras \u00e9l est\u00e1 por ah\u00ed viviendo la suya, completamente despreocupado.<\/p>\n

Dale un ultim\u00e1tum.<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

So, you\u2019re sure that this is the real deal. You want this man for yourself and you\u2019ve had enough of sharing him with his wife.<\/p>\n

Y no s\u00f3lo eso: dice que tambi\u00e9n te quiere. Sigue prometi\u00e9ndote que te pedir\u00e1 el divorcio.<\/p>\n

Theoretically, you two are on the same page. However, practically, you\u2019re stuck in the same spot for years.<\/strong><\/p>\n

En ese caso, dale un ultim\u00e1tum. Dale un plazo hasta el que tenga que hacer algo concreto por vuestro futuro juntos.<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

De lo contrario, lo abandonar\u00e1 sin intenci\u00f3n de volver jam\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The most important thing here is to be serious. Don\u2019t make empty threats that you\u2019re not ready to go through with.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t do anything, you have to walk away. Don\u2019t take him back until he keeps his promise.<\/p>\n

Trust me: this is the only way for him to respect you. In all other cases, he\u2019ll consider you as a fool he can play with for as long as he wants.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stand between him and his children.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Hagas lo que hagas, nunca te interpongas entre este hombre y sus hijos. Aunque se divorcie, sigue siendo su padre y nunca debes olvidarlo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Si se convierte en padre soltero<\/a>, don\u2019t turn into an evil stepmother. Don\u2019t make him choose between you and them because you will lose.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Most importantly: don\u2019t look at his kids through their mother. You might hate her guts, but they don\u2019t deserve your animosity.<\/p>\n

After all, they see you as someone who ruined their family \u2013 not the other way around. I know he made that choice, but it\u2019s easier for them to blame you than their own father.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t disrespect his wife.<\/h2>\n

\"cabello<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re dating a married man, you can\u2019t blame his wife for him not being yours. To be straight, she shouldn\u2019t blame you for him being unfaithful either.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, esto es lo que tienden a hacer muchas mujeres. Luchan por los hombres que ambas aman y se ven como archienemigas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, along the way, you both forget who the only one responsible for your miseries is: the man you love, that\u2019s right.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So please, don\u2019t you ever disrespect his wife. This goes for the situation when she becomes an ex as well.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think that you\u2019ll get him to leave her if you send her proof of your relationship. Don\u2019t meddle in their marriage, don\u2019t insult her, and don\u2019t badmouth her.<\/p>\n

Of course, nobody expects you to like her. It\u2019s reasonable that you see her as competition, but that can\u2019t be an excuse for any kind of disrespect.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t date other men.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I\u2019d be the happiest if I could tell you to go to the grupo de citas<\/a>. Technically, you\u2019re a single woman and your boyfriend has no right to be jealous.<\/p>\n

You share him with his wife, so the least he deserves is to share you with other men as well. This is the only way you\u2019d give him a taste of his own medicine.<\/strong><\/p>\n

However, I\u2019m here to advise you of something completely the opposite. I\u2019m here to tell you not to date other guys while you\u2019re dating a married man.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No, I\u2019m not saying this out of respect for your boyfriend. I\u2019m saying it because of you.<\/p>\n

En primer lugar, ser\u00eda injusto meter a otra persona en este l\u00edo. Lo \u00faltimo que necesita tu tri\u00e1ngulo amoroso es un cuarto miembro.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, \u00bfy si conoces a un chico guapo que te acaba gustando de verdad? \u00bfY si te enamoras de \u00e9l mientras sigues queriendo a tu novio casado?<\/p>\n

You’ll just end up with a bunch of conflicting emotions and another problem you don\u2019t need on your back.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Si te involucras en una relaci\u00f3n, le ser\u00edas infiel a este nuevo chico. Eso significa que ser\u00edas pr\u00e1cticamente igual que tu novio casado.<\/p>\n

You\u2019d hurt an innocent person just to get back at someone who is breaking your heart. We both know that you\u2019re better than that.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, por favor, aparca tus citas hasta que liquides tus cuentas<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Olv\u00eddate de las citas online, de dar falsas esperanzas a ese chico guapo que intenta ligar, o de conocer hombres nuevos hasta que tu situaci\u00f3n actual se aclare.<\/p>\n

Para terminar:<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I’ll be honest with you: dating a married man is a bad thing. Nevertheless, it doesn’t automatically make you a bad person.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Whatever happens with you two, be aware that you’ll regret this affair in the long run. However, this doesn’t mean that you’re doomed because of it.<\/p>\n

Don’t let this one mistake define you. Rise from the ashes and see it as a valuable lesson instead of letting it destroy you.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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