{"id":11887,"date":"2018-01-11T14:13:36","date_gmt":"2018-01-11T14:13:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11887"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:15:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:15:03","slug":"5-maneras-novia-perfecta-hes-ever","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-maneras-novia-perfecta-hes-ever\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneras de ser la novia m\u00e1s perfecta que jam\u00e1s haya tenido"},"content":{"rendered":"

We all want to be something special to our boyfriends. We want them never to lay their eyes on someone else. We want them never to compare us to the girls they have dated before. We want to do that extra special something because we love them and to make sure they won\u2019t leave and hurt us.<\/p>\n

There are so many misunderstandings about what it takes to be the perfect girlfriend and it\u2019s not about cooking his favorite food, wearing sexy clothes, putting on perfect makeup or knowing trucos especiales en la cama<\/a> (aunque \u00e9ste puede ser \u00fatil).<\/p>\n

The secret to a perfect relationship, the one that all others will envy you on, is being able to love yourself. Everything starts with you. If you aren\u2019t satisfied with yourself, you\u2019ll always come across problems for which you\u2019re going to blame the other party.<\/p>\n

La mayor\u00eda de nosotros nos negamos a vernos a nosotros mismos como un problema y nos negamos a intentar buscar la soluci\u00f3n, as\u00ed que cargamos la responsabilidad en nuestra pareja y esperamos que sea \u00e9l quien resuelva el problema en el para\u00edso.<\/p>\n

But, things don\u2019t go that way. You can\u2019t expect him to know all the answers. Sometimes, you have to take a look deep inside yourself and try to see what it is that you are doing wrong.<\/p>\n

Try to be the best version of yourself because you can\u2019t change the person you are with. You can only hope he will rise to the challenge and try to be his best as you are.<\/p>\n

Aqu\u00ed tienes algunos consejos \u00fatiles para ser la novia m\u00e1s perfecta posible:<\/p>\n

1. Hay que ser comprensivo<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

You have to respect his feelings and opinions and never judge him. Try to understand him for doing something you don\u2019t like. Maybe he really has a good reason.<\/p>\n

If you show that you are not understanding, he won\u2019t trust you and he will never confide in you. You have to show that you tried to walk in his shoes and when he messes up and he will, you have to give him a chance to explain himself and try to look at the problem from his point of view.<\/p>\n

Y adem\u00e1s, esto le dar\u00e1 ventaja cuando un d\u00eda cometa un error. Que le muestres comprensi\u00f3n har\u00e1 que \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n te d\u00e9 una segunda oportunidad.<\/p>\n

2. Tienes que decir lo que quieres en voz alta<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Tienes que ser directo en tu relaci\u00f3n. La mayor\u00eda de las mujeres esperan que sus hombres sepan lo que quieren y lo que piensan. Nunca dicen directamente lo que quieren<\/a> porque piensan que un hombre debe leer sus mentes.<\/p>\n

Now, put yourself in that position. Imagine he wants something from you, he gets frustrated because he\u2019s getting nothing and you have no idea that he wanted something in the first place.<\/p>\n

Aunque no es probable que esto ocurra porque las mujeres tienen ese sexto sentido que les dice que algo va mal, intenta ponerte en esa situaci\u00f3n para ver c\u00f3mo se siente \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n puede sentirse muy frustrado porque, a pesar de sus esfuerzos, tendr\u00e1 la sensaci\u00f3n de que nada de lo que hace es suficientemente bueno para ti.<\/p>\n

If you are mad at him, don\u2019t be passive and wait for him to figure it out. Say it right away and try to solve the problem. Waiting for him to ask what is wrong will only build up tension and anger in both of you and you don\u2019t want that.<\/p>\n

3. Tienes que decirle c\u00f3mo te sientes<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Women are more sensitive than men and that\u2019s perfectly fine. One moment we can be over the moon and the next we sink down because of something he said to us.<\/p>\n

He probably doesn\u2019t have a clue that he made you feel like crap, so spill it out to him. If he was insensitive, tell him that he hurt your feelings and share with him how you feel.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll probably be glad you told him, so he doesn\u2019t make the same mistake again. Hiding your feelings because you don\u2019t want to make an inconvenience will ruin your relationship.<\/p>\n

4. Tienes que mostrarle aprecio<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

A los hombres les encanta sentirse apreciados. Les damos amor y amabilidad y nosotras les correspondemos. Pero eso no es exactamente lo que quieren.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s nice and it\u2019s thoughtful and it\u2019s the way every woman wants to be loved, but men are different. They want a feeling of acknowledgment for the things they have done for you or in general.<\/p>\n

Quieren sentirse apreciados por el papel que desempe\u00f1an y quieren saber que sabemos que saben hacerlo.<\/p>\n

Si te lleva a alg\u00fan sitio, dale las gracias y apreciarlo<\/a> for taking you and making an effort to do that. It\u2019s not as easy for them as it is easy for us to do these things. This may seem silly to you, but it means a lot to them.<\/p>\n

5. Tienes que darle espacio<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Una prueba m\u00e1s de que los hombres y las mujeres son completamente diferentes a la hora de afrontar situaciones estresantes. Las mujeres suelen odiar estar solas y quieren estar rodeadas de las personas que quieren.<\/p>\n

Quieren hablar con sus amigos sobre lo que les causa estr\u00e9s y, normalmente, eso ayuda. Los hombres, en cambio, odian estar rodeados de gente.<\/p>\n

Suelen retirarse a su cueva de hombres donde se ocupan de sus cosas a solas. Las mujeres a veces se equivocan con este movimiento y piensan que sus hombres las est\u00e1n aislando, lo cual no es cierto en absoluto.<\/p>\n

Si ves que se retira, d\u00e9jale en paz. Dale espacio para que afronte sus problemas de la mejor manera posible. Cuando est\u00e9 preparado, acudir\u00e1 a ti y hablar\u00e1 contigo.<\/p>\n

There is no point in pushing him to talk to you if he doesn\u2019t want to. The only thing you\u2019ll manage to do by forcing him is becoming another source of stress in his life, thus making things only worse.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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