{"id":119678,"date":"2020-12-21T14:02:20","date_gmt":"2020-12-21T14:02:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=119678"},"modified":"2021-12-17T16:23:54","modified_gmt":"2021-12-17T16:23:54","slug":"mi-marido-me-echa-la-culpa-de-todo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mi-marido-me-echa-la-culpa-de-todo\/","title":{"rendered":"Mi marido me echa la culpa de todo - He aqu\u00ed por qu\u00e9 (+ 7 soluciones)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Si una queja importante en su matrimonio es: <em><strong>Mi marido me echa la culpa de todo,<\/strong><\/em> este art\u00edculo le va como anillo al dedo.<\/p>\n<p>El malvado arte de echar las culpas a otros, as\u00ed como <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/8-etapas-de-curacion-tras-escapar-del-gaslighting\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">luz de gas<\/a> es algo que muchos c\u00f3nyuges (l\u00e9ase: <em>narcisistas<\/em>) cuando no quieren (ni pueden) asumir la responsabilidad de su comportamiento.<\/p>\n<p>Una persona controladora como tu marido te culpar\u00e1 de todo (incluso de las peque\u00f1as cosas) y te someter\u00e1 a un abuso emocional con sus formas narcisistas.<\/p>\n<p>Le dar\u00e1n mucha importancia a un asunto insignificante y le har\u00e1n pasar un mal rato cada vez que les sugiera algo. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/terapia-de-pareja\/\">acudir a un consejero matrimonial<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Mientras que el alcance de sus problemas matrimoniales es entre ustedes dos, esto es lo que puedo decir: <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/6-tipos-de-violencia-domestica-y-formas-de-combatirlos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Violencia dom\u00e9stica<\/a> nunca empieza como una gran cosa.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>At first, you&#8217;ll feel as if you&#8217;re in a loving relationship with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-senales-de-que-tu-novio-es-en-realidad-tu-mejor-amigo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">tu mejor amigo<\/a>. He&#8217;s still the kind human being you met for the first time years ago and his narcissism is nowhere to be found.<\/p>\n<p>Te dice que te quiere numerosas veces al d\u00eda, y lo m\u00e1s probable es que los miembros de tu familia tambi\u00e9n le tengan cari\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pero entonces, un d\u00eda, empiezas a ver el <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/psychology\/senales-de-que-debes-alejarte-de-alguien\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">se\u00f1ales de advertencia<\/a> que puede que hayas ignorado todo este tiempo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t use the word <em>abusador<\/em> lightly, but compared to what he was like last year, you&#8217;re starting to see a different picture.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Te mina constantemente. Te destroza la autoestima, y la relaci\u00f3n sana de la que estabas tan orgullosa se ha convertido en <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-formas-en-las-que-cambio-tras-una-relacion-emocionalmente-abusiva\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">una relaci\u00f3n emocionalmente abusiva<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s no <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/saliendo-con-chica-sobrevivio-abuso-fisico-saber\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">maltrato f\u00edsico<\/a> (<em>pero<\/em>), but he&#8217;s becoming a bad person that you have to walk on eggshells around.<\/p>\n<p>The thought: \u2018<em>Mi marido me echa la culpa de todo<\/em>\u2019 is constantly rummaging through your head. Are you leaning toward a breakup, and why is he acting this way?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Aqu\u00ed tienes 20 razones incre\u00edbles por las que tu marido te echa la culpa. Cu\u00e1ntas de ellas puedes tachar de la lista?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/marido\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mi marido es malo conmigo y est\u00e1 arruinando lentamente nuestro matrimonio<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>My Husband Turns Everything Around On Me &#8211; 20 Explanations<\/h2>\n<p><em>Here&#8217;s everything you need to know about your husband\u2019s sudden toxic behavior. These explanations will help you figure out your next move.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Se siente poco apreciado por ti.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119982\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-pensive-man-expressing.jpg\" alt=\"hombre triste y pensativo que expresa frustraci\u00f3n sentado junto a la mesa de su despacho frente al ordenador\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-pensive-man-expressing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-pensive-man-expressing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-pensive-man-expressing-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-pensive-man-expressing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-pensive-man-expressing-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-pensive-man-expressing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-pensive-man-expressing-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-pensive-man-expressing-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The simplest solution could be that he simply doesn&#8217;t feel valued by you. While I always say that it takes two to tango, there could be some truth to this after all.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re the only one who knows whether this is the case or not.<\/p>\n<p>Su abuso emocional nunca es tolerable, pero si crees que tus acciones contribuyen de alguna manera a este comportamiento, tal vez puedas sentarte y hablarlo despu\u00e9s de todo.<\/p>\n<p>RELACIONADO: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/signos-dolorosos-marido-no-ama\/\">15 Painful Signs Your Husband Doesn\u2019t Love You Anymore<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Carece de empat\u00eda.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119983\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-girlfriend.jpg\" alt=\"joven novia triste llorando cerca de dormir novio dentro del dormitorio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-girlfriend.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-girlfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-girlfriend-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-girlfriend-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-girlfriend-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-girlfriend-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-girlfriend-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-girlfriend-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There are people in this world with severely low empathy levels. These individuals have a hard time sympathizing with other people&#8217;s feelings.<\/p>\n<p>A menudo, tambi\u00e9n se les llama narcisistas. Aunque no todas las personas que carecen de empat\u00eda se denominan narcisistas, comparten rasgos inquietantemente similares.<\/p>\n<p>Si a tu marido le cuesta darse cuenta de que culparte est\u00e1 mal, puede que le falte empat\u00eda.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tiene una actitud de santurr\u00f3n.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119984\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-sulking-.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven enfurru\u00f1ada y hombre hablando durante una discusi\u00f3n\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-sulking-.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-sulking--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-sulking--1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-sulking--768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-sulking--1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-sulking--150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-sulking--720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-sulking--1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>His self-righteous moral superiority doesn&#8217;t allow him to ever question his actions and behavior. God forbid he did that!<\/p>\n<p>People like this will be in firm denial and refuse to face the facts even when they&#8217;re staring them right in the face. You shouldn&#8217;t get involved with someone like this in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9? <strong>Because you&#8217;ll never have a life partner in the proper sense of the word<\/strong>. Su altura moral siempre estar\u00e1 un nivel por encima de la tuya. Al menos, seg\u00fan \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s hypersensitive.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119985\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/arguing-couple-in-the-morning.jpg\" alt=\"pareja discutiendo por la ma\u00f1ana en pijama sentados en la cama\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/arguing-couple-in-the-morning.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/arguing-couple-in-the-morning-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/arguing-couple-in-the-morning-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/arguing-couple-in-the-morning-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/arguing-couple-in-the-morning-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/arguing-couple-in-the-morning-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/arguing-couple-in-the-morning-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/arguing-couple-in-the-morning-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Every time you face him with something he doesn&#8217;t want to hear, he gets overly emotional. He takes everything way too personally, which makes you constantly walk on eggshells.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s like you didn&#8217;t marry a man, but an immature boy. He doesn&#8217;t have his emotions in check, and that means that blaming you is a common issue in the marriage.<\/p>\n<p>If you can&#8217;t handle yourself, how can you be mindful of your partner&#8217;s needs?<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/no-quiero-que-mi-marido-me-toque-mas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> I Don\u2019t Want My Husband To Touch Me Anymore (Causes &amp; Solutions)<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s vulnerable.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119987\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"pareja discutiendo fuera del edificio con paredes de ladrillo rojo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outside-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outside-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outside-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outside-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Su extrema vulnerabilidad puede hacer que anhele el poder y la superioridad. A su vez, esto puede provocar que te menosprecie para su satisfacci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Otra cosa que puede crear la vulnerabilidad es una sensaci\u00f3n de inseguridad.<\/strong> This can make people never want to be seen as a bad person. Do you have reason to believe that this could be your husband&#8217;s struggle?<\/p>\n<p>Si tiene que ganar todas las discusiones y sigue desviando la culpa de s\u00ed mismo hacia ti, probablemente la respuesta sea s\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He gets offended easily&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119988\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/indifferent-couple-sitting-1.jpg\" alt=\"pareja indiferente sentada en el sof\u00e1 del sal\u00f3n\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/indifferent-couple-sitting-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/indifferent-couple-sitting-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/indifferent-couple-sitting-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/indifferent-couple-sitting-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/indifferent-couple-sitting-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/indifferent-couple-sitting-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/indifferent-couple-sitting-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/indifferent-couple-sitting-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Especially at the thought of marriage counseling. All you want to do is work it out and talk to someone who genuinely might be able to help you, but he won&#8217;t hear of it.<\/p>\n<p>He takes it as an offense and doesn&#8217;t give it any thought. When my husband turns everything around on me, I immediately ask him to explain his behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Exijo saber por qu\u00e9 se niega a ver mi idea como algo \u00fatil. <strong>Tienes que recordarle que sois un equipo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re not trying to cause him to feel bad; you&#8217;re merely trying to make things better for the sake of your marriage.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s plagued by a sense of entitlement.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119989\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-staring-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven que mira fijamente fuera de las ventanas de cristal mientras que mira pensativo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-staring-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-staring-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-staring-outside-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-staring-outside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-staring-outside-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-staring-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-staring-outside-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-staring-outside-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esto es algo que pueden decir sus familiares, amigos, compa\u00f1eros de trabajo y cualquiera que le conozca. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/si-hace-estas-20-cosas-toxicas-es-un-narcisista-encubierto\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Es un narcisista encubierto<\/a> con un caso severo de derecho.<\/p>\n<p>This causes him to turn everything around on you, as whatever happens, he was either right to do it or he didn&#8217;t do anything wrong at all.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s what you get when you get involved with narcissists. They are self-absorbed, always in the right, and if you care to question their behavior, they&#8217;ll make you feel sorry.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s a perfectionist.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119990\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-man-sitting-in-the-chair.jpg\" alt=\"hombre pensativo sentado en la silla cerca de la cama cerrando los ojos con desesperaci\u00f3n \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-man-sitting-in-the-chair.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-man-sitting-in-the-chair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-man-sitting-in-the-chair-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-man-sitting-in-the-chair-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-man-sitting-in-the-chair-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-man-sitting-in-the-chair-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-man-sitting-in-the-chair-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-man-sitting-in-the-chair-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>His point of view is always the right one. Why? Because he&#8217;s incapable of doing anything wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Now, this doesn&#8217;t make it true. His perfectionism doesn&#8217;t mean that he&#8217;s faultless. Being married to a perfectionist isn&#8217;t necessarily bad.<\/p>\n<p>But, when they resort to blame-shifting and gaslighting, now, that&#8217;s a problem.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s controlling and dominating by nature.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119991\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-middle-age-man.jpg\" alt=\"hombre de mediana edad sentado en el bar con el pulgar tocando su barbilla\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-middle-age-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-middle-age-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-middle-age-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-middle-age-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-middle-age-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-middle-age-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-middle-age-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-middle-age-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Los ultim\u00e1tums son su forma de hacer las cosas. Quiere saberlo todo sobre cada llamada que haces y cada persona que ves.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t let you control your own life, as he needs to be on top of everything when it comes to you. He knows best.<\/p>\n<p>When you married him, it wasn&#8217;t nearly as severe as it is now. You could never imagine calling him an abuser before, but how else can you explain his behavior?<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/mi-marido-elige-a-su-familia-antes-que-a-mi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u00bfQu\u00e9 debo hacer cuando mi marido elige a su familia antes que a m\u00ed?<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Le encanta ver fracasar a los dem\u00e1s.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119992\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/blonde-woman-submerging.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rubia sumida en profundos pensamientos apoyada en el tronco del \u00e1rbol del parque\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/blonde-woman-submerging.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/blonde-woman-submerging-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/blonde-woman-submerging-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/blonde-woman-submerging-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/blonde-woman-submerging-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/blonde-woman-submerging-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/blonde-woman-submerging-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/blonde-woman-submerging-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He often says things like &#8220;<em>OMG, did you see what a fool Steve made of himself last night? Wasn&#8217;t it AMAZING?<\/em>&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Y piensas en lo tristes que son sus palabras. \u00bfQui\u00e9n puede disfrutar viendo fracasar a alguien que le importa? <strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/signos-dolorosos-marido-no-ama\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Tu marido<\/a><\/em>Supongo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Este tipo de comportamiento est\u00e1 directamente relacionado con su incapacidad para simpatizar con alguien que est\u00e1 pasando por dificultades. Adem\u00e1s, le hace m\u00e1s propenso a perder su br\u00fajula moral.<\/p>\n<p>Por eso, a menudo piensas para ti mismo: <em>Mi marido me echa la culpa de todo, pero \u00bfpor qu\u00e9?<\/em> Ahora, ya tienes una idea de por qu\u00e9.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He avoids feeling emotions, as to him, it&#8217;s a sign of weakness<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119993\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/disgusted-woman-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"mujer asqueada sentada junto a un hombre adicto al ordenador dentro del sal\u00f3n\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/disgusted-woman-sitting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/disgusted-woman-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/disgusted-woman-sitting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/disgusted-woman-sitting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/disgusted-woman-sitting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/disgusted-woman-sitting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/disgusted-woman-sitting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/disgusted-woman-sitting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In every good relationship, both partners need to be able to communicate their needs and wants. Emotions are a big part of that. You can&#8217;t see this as a weakness.<\/p>\n<p>But, your husband does. He&#8217;ll never say how he feels. He&#8217;ll never let himself be vulnerable. You&#8217;ve probably never even seen him cry.<\/p>\n<p>All that macho crap has turned him into a toxic partner who blames you for everything. That&#8217;s easier than admitting that you&#8217;re only human, and that, yeah, you&#8217;ll make mistakes.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s an egomaniac.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119994\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-wearing-eyeglasses.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con gafas con traje de moda de pie al aire libre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-wearing-eyeglasses.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-wearing-eyeglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-wearing-eyeglasses-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-wearing-eyeglasses-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-wearing-eyeglasses-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-wearing-eyeglasses-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-wearing-eyeglasses-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-wearing-eyeglasses-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve never seen someone as egotistical and self-absorbed as your husband. His excessive obsession with his ego means he never stops to consider how that makes you feel.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He&#8217;s preoccupied with his delusions of personal greatness<\/strong> y muestra una falta de aprecio por ti y por todo lo que haces.<\/p>\n<p>A veces, los eg\u00f3latras recurren a la agresi\u00f3n para intentar demostrar su punto de vista.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t ignore the warning signs of this. This might be a case of emotional abuse, but it could also be a matter of time before it turns physical.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Necesita que la gente sepa lo grande que es.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119995\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/group-of-people-listening.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de personas escuchando al hombre de la barba hablar dentro del pasillo del edificio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/group-of-people-listening.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/group-of-people-listening-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/group-of-people-listening-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/group-of-people-listening-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/group-of-people-listening-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/group-of-people-listening-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/group-of-people-listening-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/group-of-people-listening-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Necesita que la gente sea consciente de su grandeza. Su sentido de la grandiosidad est\u00e1 en su punto m\u00e1s alto. Le da mucha importancia a cada cosa mediocre que hace.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u00bfC\u00f3mo podr\u00eda una persona tan intachable como su marido hacer algo malo? Es m\u00e1s, \u00bfc\u00f3mo podr\u00eda permitir que alguien m\u00e1s pensara eso?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>He can&#8217;t allow you to be right, as that would suggest he&#8217;s human after all.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s the master of projecting.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119996\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-wearing-pajamas.jpg\" alt=\"pareja en pijama peleando con la mujer girando la cabeza hacia otro lado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-wearing-pajamas.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-wearing-pajamas-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-wearing-pajamas-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-wearing-pajamas-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-wearing-pajamas-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-wearing-pajamas-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-wearing-pajamas-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-wearing-pajamas-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Un narcisista h\u00e1bilmente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/asi-es-como-un-narcisista-usa-la-proyeccion-para-llevarte-a-donde-el-quiere\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">usa la proyecci\u00f3n para llevarte a donde quiere<\/a>. That&#8217;s his area of expertise.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u00bfQu\u00e9 es esa proyecci\u00f3n de la que hablo?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2018\u2019In the field of psychology, projection \u2013 or psychological projection \u2013 is the denial of subconscious impulses by the human ego.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>For instance, someone accusing their partner of cheating when they\u2019re the one engaging in the scandalous act is projecting.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Y, algo me dice que esto describe a su marido a la perfecci\u00f3n. \u00bfEstoy en lo cierto al pensar as\u00ed?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Le gusta controlar con el miedo.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120394\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-looking-at-camera.jpg\" alt=\"mujer pensativa mirando a camara apoyada en pn sus brazos triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-looking-at-camera.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-looking-at-camera-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-looking-at-camera-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-looking-at-camera-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-looking-at-camera-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-looking-at-camera-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-looking-at-camera-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-looking-at-camera-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Everytime he wants something, he uses scare tactics to get you to do it for him. He&#8217;s a controlling person, and creating fear is what he thrives on.<\/p>\n<p>That way, you&#8217;re unlikely to stick up for yourself, and he&#8217;s always in control of his surroundings.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/cuando-tu-marido-mira-a-otra-mujer\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u00bfQu\u00e9 significa que tu marido mire a otra mujer?<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Naturalmente, le gusta causar problemas.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120396\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-young-woman-1.jpg\" alt=\"una joven pensativa sobre un fondo gris empedrado \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-young-woman-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-young-woman-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-young-woman-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-young-woman-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-young-woman-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-young-woman-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-young-woman-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-young-woman-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s just a jerk by nature. Sometimes, that&#8217;s all there is to it. He enjoys causing trouble. He loves being the reason why someone suffers be it his wife, friends, or family members.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s argumentative.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120397\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-young-man.jpg\" alt=\"joven disgustado mirando el tel\u00e9fono sentado en el banco del parque\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-young-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-young-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-young-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-young-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-young-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-young-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-young-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-young-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He can&#8217;t leave negative social media comments alone. He has to get involved every single time.<\/p>\n<p>Not to mention real-life arguments&#8230; he can&#8217;t let things go. He&#8217;ll bite your head off if you dare defy him (yours and everyone else&#8217;s).<\/p>\n<p>A veces, uno se pregunta si las se\u00f1ales estuvieron ah\u00ed todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>But, it&#8217;s easier to believe that he just suddenly became this toxic person rather than accepting the fact that you&#8217;ve been living with him all this time.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s emotionally immature.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120398\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-man-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"hombre trastornado sentado en la plataforma cerca de la masa de agua con la mano en la cabeza\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-man-sitting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-man-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-man-sitting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-man-sitting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-man-sitting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-man-sitting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-man-sitting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-man-sitting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-senales-de-que-es-un-nino-emocionalmente-inmaduro\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">He&#8217;s an emotionally immature mama&#8217;s boy.<\/a> Fue criado para ser un narcisista necesitado, exigente y que busca atenci\u00f3n, y con el tiempo, los s\u00edntomas s\u00f3lo empeoran.<\/p>\n<p><strong>While this isn&#8217;t <em>totalmente<\/em> Si bien no fue culpa suya, fue capaz de superarlo y convertirse en un ser humano amable y considerado a medida que crec\u00eda.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t do anything about how your parents raise you when you&#8217;re a kid, but as you get older (and hopefully more mature), you start seeing the error in their ways and do everything in your power to change them.<\/p>\n<p>Obviously, this wasn&#8217;t the case with your husband, and that tells you everything you need to know about him.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He can&#8217;t handle negative feedback.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120399\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/very-upset-young-man.jpg\" alt=\"joven muy alterado sermoneando a su novia en una pelea\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/very-upset-young-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/very-upset-young-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/very-upset-young-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/very-upset-young-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/very-upset-young-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/very-upset-young-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/very-upset-young-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/very-upset-young-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Su proceso de pensamiento es probablemente como: <em>&#8220;OMG, how dare you question me or anything that I say and do?&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>En traducci\u00f3n, <strong>su capacidad para manejar cualquier tipo de retroalimentaci\u00f3n negativa es asombrosamente inexistente<\/strong>. You feel as if he&#8217;d fall apart if he was forced to face all of his BS throughout the years.<\/p>\n<p>Pero utiliza su fragilidad como excusa para hacer lo que le plazca sin sufrir las consecuencias.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Utiliza la culpa como herramienta.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120400\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outdoors-2.jpg\" alt=\"pareja discutiendo al aire libre cerca de un gran muro de ladrillo en la calle\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outdoors-2.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outdoors-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outdoors-2-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outdoors-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outdoors-2-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outdoors-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outdoors-2-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outdoors-2-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A menudo, las personas controladoras son muy h\u00e1biles para manipular a sus c\u00f3nyuges y sus emociones de forma que sirvan a su objetivo.<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s that you may wonder? It is getting you to feel a constant stream of guilt about every little thing that happens throughout the day so that you can do their bidding for them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Te hace sentir culpable para que hagas su trabajo, y t\u00fa nunca te quejas porque sientes una inmensa presi\u00f3n para que lo hagas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A menudo, al hacer esto, renuncias a tu poder en la relaci\u00f3n. No hace falta decir que eso juega a su favor.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/mi-marido-cree-que-no-hace-nada-malo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u00bfQu\u00e9 debo hacer cuando mi marido cree que no hace nada malo?<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>7 preguntas que debe hacerse en esta situaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><em>Antes de decidir cu\u00e1l es tu pr\u00f3ximo paso, hazte estas preguntas y s\u00e9 sincero al responderlas. Te ayudar\u00e1n a ver c\u00f3mo te sientes con respecto a tu matrimonio.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">\u00bfCrees que su comportamiento es de alguna manera culpa tuya?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120414\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mujer en casa sentada en el sof\u00e1 dentro de la ventana cerrada a oscuras y sinti\u00e9ndose triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-at-home.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-at-home-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-at-home-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-at-home-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-at-home-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The first thing you need to ask yourself is whether or not he is successful in making you believe that it&#8217;s you?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Newsflash, it&#8217;s <em>NO<\/em><\/strong>pero tienes que descubrirlo por ti misma. Puedo seguir convenci\u00e9ndote de que todo esto es \u00e9l, pero si te niegas a verlo, no se puede hacer mucho.<\/p>\n<p><em>Entonces, \u00bflo crees? \u00bfCrees que su comportamiento es culpa tuya? \u00bfCrees que de alguna manera, haces que se vuelva todo contra ti?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Depending on your answer, you&#8217;ll start seeing what your next steps should be.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00bfEstar casada con \u00e9l te hace sentir bien contigo misma?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120416\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mujer pensativa en casa descansando en la silla amarilla cerca del balc\u00f3n de la habitaci\u00f3n\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-at-home.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-at-home-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-at-home-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-at-home-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-at-home-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This one&#8217;s simple. Being married to someone is supposed to make you feel good about yourself. Not just on some days, but EVERY day.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s supposed to emphasize all your best qualities and increase your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/50-frases-inspiradoras-sobre-la-autoestima-que-aumentaran-la-confianza-en-uno-mismo-cada-dia\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">autoestima<\/a>. Debe hacerte sentir que puedes lograr todos tus objetivos sin cuestionar nunca tus capacidades.<\/p>\n<p>Se supone que un matrimonio debe ser un entorno edificante, enriquecedor y saludable en el que te sientas absolutamente seguro. <strong>\u00bfY t\u00fa?<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00bfSientes que tu marido te cubre las espaldas?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120418\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-lying-on-carpet.jpg\" alt=\"mujer tumbada en la alfombra pensativo dentro de la sala de estar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-lying-on-carpet.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-lying-on-carpet-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-lying-on-carpet-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-lying-on-carpet-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-lying-on-carpet-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-lying-on-carpet-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-lying-on-carpet-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-lying-on-carpet-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfTe cubre las espaldas? \u00bfTe defiende en tu ausencia? \u00bfTe anima cuando fracasas?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Se supone que la respuesta a todas estas preguntas es un S\u00cd inequ\u00edvoco.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Partners should be there for each other through thick and thin without hesitation. If you don&#8217;t feel that way in your marriage, what does that tell you?<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/mi-marido-quiere-el-divorcio-pero-yo-le-sigo-queriendo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mi marido quiere divorciarse pero yo a\u00fan le quiero - 16 cosas que debes y no debes hacer<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00bfQu\u00e9 consejo le dar\u00eda a un amigo \u00edntimo que est\u00e9 pasando por lo mismo?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120421\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sideview-of-a-thinking-woman.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de una mujer pensativa tomando una bebida caliente de pie cerca de las ventanas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sideview-of-a-thinking-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sideview-of-a-thinking-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sideview-of-a-thinking-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sideview-of-a-thinking-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sideview-of-a-thinking-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sideview-of-a-thinking-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sideview-of-a-thinking-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sideview-of-a-thinking-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Es una de las formas m\u00e1s seguras de ver las cosas claras de una vez por todas. Si una de tus mejores amigas est\u00e1 pasando por lo mismo, \u00bfqu\u00e9 le dir\u00edas?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m pretty sure I already know. <strong>Isn&#8217;t it amazing how differently we treat ourselves versus our best friends?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re putting up way more than you ever should while I&#8217;m sure that if your bestie was in your shoes, you&#8217;d be telling her to leave his sorry ass yesterday. <em>\u00bfA qu\u00e9 cree que se debe?<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00bfHay algo que USTED pueda hacer para mejorar las cosas?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120422\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/lonely-pensive-woman.jpg\" alt=\"mujer solitaria y pensativa apoyada en la puerta sola en casa \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/lonely-pensive-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/lonely-pensive-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/lonely-pensive-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/lonely-pensive-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/lonely-pensive-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/lonely-pensive-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/lonely-pensive-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/lonely-pensive-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>While his behavior is in no way on you (as made clear by the first question), you can still ask yourself whether there&#8217;s anything YOU can do to improve your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/se-ha-acabado-mi-matrimonio\/\">uni\u00f3n conyugal infeliz<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If there&#8217;s a slight chance that your actions could somehow make a positive shift, it could be the saving grace for your marriage.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">En un mundo ideal, \u00bfc\u00f3mo te gustar\u00eda que te tratara tu pareja?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120425\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-woman-1.jpg\" alt=\"joven triste sentada sola en la cama mirando hacia otro lado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-woman-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-woman-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-woman-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-woman-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-woman-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-woman-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-woman-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-woman-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Olv\u00eddese de su realidad actual. Si vivieras en un mundo ideal, \u00bfc\u00f3mo te gustar\u00eda que te tratara tu pareja?<\/p>\n<p>Piensa en esto y luego resp\u00f3ndeme a esto: <strong>\u00bfEs necesario vivir en un mundo ideal para recibir un trato justo?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>La respuesta es no. Tu matrimonio debe ser un refugio seguro independientemente del tipo de mundo en el que vivamos.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando vuelvas a casa, todas tus preocupaciones deber\u00edan disiparse (al menos durante un minuto) y una sensaci\u00f3n de tranquilidad deber\u00eda invadirte.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00bfC\u00f3mo ser\u00e1 tu futuro sin \u00e9l?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120429\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-dreamy-woman.jpg\" alt=\"mujer so\u00f1adora y pensativa sentada en la roca de la playa \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-dreamy-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-dreamy-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-dreamy-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-dreamy-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-dreamy-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-dreamy-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-dreamy-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-dreamy-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Contempla tu futuro con \u00e9l frente a uno sin \u00e9l. \u00bfC\u00f3mo te hace sentir el primero frente al segundo?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfTe ves feliz, realizada y cuidada si te quedas con \u00e9l? <strong>Or, is there a sense of relief at the thought of a future in which he isn&#8217;t a part of your life?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pi\u00e9nselo bien. La respuesta te dir\u00e1 todo lo que necesitas saber sobre lo que tienes que hacer a continuaci\u00f3n. Todo se reduce a si te hace feliz o no.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/marido-controlador\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">7 se\u00f1ales de un marido controlador y todo lo que necesitas saber<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Para terminar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120434\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/silhouette-of-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"silueta de una mujer sentada en una roca pensativa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/silhouette-of-a-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/silhouette-of-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/silhouette-of-a-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/silhouette-of-a-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/silhouette-of-a-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/silhouette-of-a-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/silhouette-of-a-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/silhouette-of-a-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>My husband turns everything around on me, but this is the last time I&#8217;m going to let it fly.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>This is what your mantra should be from today on. After carefully having gone through all of my points, isn&#8217;t it obvious that this is not a healthy environment that you can thrive in?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Estar casado con un narcisista te chupa la energ\u00eda d\u00eda tras d\u00eda, semana tras semana. \u00bfCu\u00e1ndo va a ser suficiente?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Su cambio de culpas y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/fake-love\/emotional-abuse\/10-tipos-de-manipulacion-emocional\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">manipulaci\u00f3n emocional<\/a> are making it difficult for you to react the way you want to. Due to his gaslighting, you&#8217;re slowly losing self-respect and your sense of self.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t let this go on any longer. It&#8217;s time to start <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/psychology\/asuma-la-responsabilidad-de-sus-actos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">asumir la responsabilidad de sus actos<\/a>. Mientras sigas sentado, sufriendo en silencio y sin hacer nada, las cosas nunca cambiar\u00e1n.<\/p>\n<p>But, the moment you stick up for yourself and start letting him know that you&#8217;re not his punching bag, your life will change.<\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t say for certain what this means for your marriage, <strong>but when you start prioritizing your well-being over his scare tactics, you&#8217;ll know what you need to do.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/cortar-el-paso-a-la-gente\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u00bfCu\u00e1ndo es necesario cortar con alguien? ( + 7 consejos para hacerlo)<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If one major complaint in your marriage is: My husband turns everything around on me, this article is right up your alley. The evil art of blame-shifting as well as gaslighting is something many spouses (read: narcissists) resort to when they are unwilling (and unable) to take responsibility for their behavior. A controlling person such&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":120435,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-119678","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/My-Husband-Turns-Everything-Around-On-Me-Heres-Why-7-Fixes-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. 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