{"id":11995,"date":"2018-01-12T12:56:43","date_gmt":"2018-01-12T12:56:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11995"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:13:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:13:21","slug":"10-razones-amigos-bien-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-razones-amigos-bien-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"10 razones por las que est\u00e1 bien ser amigo de tu ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ser amigo de tu ex no siempre es un completo desastre. A veces, lo creas o no, puede convertirse en una amistad significativa.<\/p>\n

After all, that person spent a great amount of time with you and you shared a lot of moments together. You’ve been through good and bad; that is something you don\u2019t forget that easily. You may break up, but you can’t erase the existence of that person.<\/p>\n

Although it ended the way it did, you still have some fond memories of your time together. There were times he made you happy when you were together, when he surprised you by doing something beautiful. It wasn\u2019t awful all the time, especially not in the beginning.<\/p>\n

Si los dos pudierais centraros en los buenos momentos que hab\u00e9is pasado juntos en lugar de en c\u00f3mo os hab\u00e9is fastidiado el uno al otro, podr\u00edais tener una bonita y duradera amistad. Todo lo que hace falta es comprenderse y respetarse.<\/p>\n

Here are some reasons why it\u2019s okay for you to be amigos de tu ex<\/a>.<\/p>\n

1. By keeping your heart open, you\u2019ll be able to find love again<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Si vives tu vida perdonando a la gente que te hizo mal y abriendo tu coraz\u00f3n a los que te rodean, atraer\u00e1s tambi\u00e9n cosas positivas. Algunos lo llaman karma, otros buena suerte, pero la forma en que trates a los dem\u00e1s volver\u00e1 a ti m\u00e1s adelante.<\/p>\n

By maintaining a good relationship with your ex, you\u2019re forgiving yourself. You\u2019re going to be a better person with much more confidence, which will pay off when you finally meet someone new.<\/p>\n

2. Fue una ruptura feliz<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

OK, no break-up is happy, but let\u2019s say that yours wasn\u2019t ugly. You kind of expected it and maybe it was a mutual agreement between two people who just realized that they had nothing in common so they decided to break it off before someone got seriously hurt.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de situaci\u00f3n es perfecta para el comienzo de una bonita amistad.<\/p>\n

3. Ya lo sabe todo sobre ti<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

It\u2019s easy to talk to him because you don\u2019t have to explain yourself and the things you do or don\u2019t do, or eat or don\u2019t eat. He already knows all of that.<\/p>\n

It feels natural talking to him and despite the fact you\u2019re no longer together, it would be nice to act nice and keep him in your life as a friend.<\/p>\n

4. Ten\u00e9is muchos amigos en com\u00fan<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

If you have a lot of mutual friends and you don\u2019t want to create any awkward situations for them, you\u2019re better off staying friends. Imagine if one of your friends is having a birthday party and you are both invited.<\/p>\n

Wouldn\u2019t it be better for you to stay friends and go to the party with no resentment or anger that was left from the break-up? Also, you can always stay friends but keep your distance; you don\u2019t have to spend the whole night next to each other.<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s also important that you don\u2019t bother each other with your presence.<\/p>\n

5. You\u2019ve moved on<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

You\u2019ve had your share of tears and you\u2019ve passed the healing process. Now that you hold nothing against him, it\u2019s normal to be friends.<\/p>\n

Now that you are over him, his new girlfriend won\u2019t bother you and you won\u2019t be staring in his direction the whole time, fearing someone will hit on him.<\/p>\n

6. Ya no hay tensi\u00f3n sexual<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Tal vez saliste de un relaci\u00f3n duradera<\/a> where sex had turned from a source of pleasure to a habit. And now that you\u2019ve broken up, if someone else attracts you more than your ex-partner, it\u2019s safe to say that you can be lifelong friends.<\/p>\n

7. Ambos son emocionalmente maduros<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Your maturity allowed you to look at things from a different perspective. You realized that he means a lot to you and that you don\u2019t want to lose him, so if you had to break up, that doesn\u2019t mean you mustn\u2019t see each other ever again. You are reasonable enough to let him into your life as a friend.<\/p>\n

8. Dej\u00f3 de vivir en el pasado<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Por fin has seguido adelante y te has dado cuenta de que el pasado debe quedarse donde debe estar. Lo que hayas vivido ya ha quedado atr\u00e1s y nada de lo que hagas puede cambiarlo.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que puede cambiar es tu relaci\u00f3n con tu ex. As\u00ed que, si lo decides, puedes dejarle entrar en tu vida y los dos pod\u00e9is empezar de nuevo, pero esta vez en papeles diferentes.<\/p>\n

9. Te preocupas por los dem\u00e1s<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

You still care about each other but not in the same way as before. You grew to develop a different relationship, so why should you lose that just because of a stupid unwritten rule that exes shouldn\u2019t be friends. If you want to be friends and if you still have some feelings for each other, do it.<\/p>\n

10. Te da buenos consejos<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

You know that whenever you have a problem you can go to him. Even when you were in a relationship, he knew how to give you good advice. He didn\u2019t do it that often, but when he did, he knew how.<\/p>\n

You still value his opinion and you\u2019ve got nothing against him, so he has nothing to lose and he will be completely honest.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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