{"id":12004,"date":"2020-07-12T13:22:49","date_gmt":"2020-07-12T13:22:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12004"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:36:02","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:36:02","slug":"9-formas-en-que-los-celos-destruyen-una-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-formas-en-que-los-celos-destruyen-una-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"9 formas en que los celos destruyen tu relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

Los celos destruyen las relaciones cuando se descontrolan. Para entenderlo mejor, te explicamos c\u00f3mo te afecta a ti y a tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1 celoso<\/a> \u00bfo s\u00ed?<\/p>\n

Estas son las consecuencias de los celos t\u00f3xicos que pueden afectar a ambas partes de una relaci\u00f3n. Mientras algunas mujeres se preguntan c\u00f3mo poner celoso a un chico<\/a> for the sake of knowing they are truly interested in them – there are so many relationships out there that have been ruined by jealousy.<\/p>\n

Empiezas a sentirte inseguro<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Esta es la primera causa de los celos y puede manifestarse de forma consciente o inconsciente.<\/p>\n

When it\u2019s conscious, you feel like you\u2019re not enough, like you don\u2019t deserve your partner.<\/p>\n

But unconsciously, deep down you feel that you don\u2019t deserve happiness, when on the outside it seems to you like you\u2019re fine.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re so sure that he can do better that you start looking for signs of infidelity, you start waiting for something bad to happen.<\/p>\n

Incluso cuando las cosas van bien, sigues sintiendo que algo falla.<\/a><\/p>\n

Tus miedos crecen<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

You\u2019re constantly afraid of him cheating, of you ending up alone, of you getting hurt again.<\/p>\n

Los celos se alimentan de tus miedos, que luego te controlan.<\/p>\n

Te preparas para lo peor y, sin saberlo, allanas el camino para destrozar tu relaci\u00f3n, haciendo as\u00ed realidad tus temores.<\/p>\n

Te obsesionas con espiar<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando temes que alguien pueda hacerte da\u00f1o, o te distancias de \u00e9l o tienes la necesidad de conocer hasta el \u00faltimo detalle de su vida.<\/p>\n

Te obsesionas con su tiempo libre, con su tiempo en el trabajo.<\/p>\n

You have the need to know what kind of emails he sends, or what he\u2019s laughing at while he\u2019s looking at his phone.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: Se\u00f1ales de obsesi\u00f3n: 10 se\u00f1ales de que es peligrosamente obsesivo y no est\u00e1 enamorado<\/a><\/p>\n

Empiezas a sufrir<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Your obsession starts draining you, giving you constant fears and hurting you because you have no idea what\u2019s going on.<\/p>\n

Soon, you\u2019ll start suffering physically because of the jealousy that\u2019s gotten out of hand.<\/p>\n

Lo mejor es admitir que existe un problema, sentarse e intentar solucionarlo.<\/p>\n

If it doesn\u2019t look like it\u2019s going to work, the best thing to do is quit.<\/p>\n

If you stay, there\u2019s a huge possibility that both of you will dejar la relaci\u00f3n rota<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Aparece la posesividad<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re jealous, you start feeling like you own your partner (or the other way around).<\/p>\n

Nadie es due\u00f1o de nadie y la posesividad es una forma segura de acabar con tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Si empiezas a sentirte posesivo con tu pareja, o tu pareja empieza a sentirse posesiva contigo, aborda el problema antes de que sea demasiado tarde.<\/p>\n

Tu pasado vuelve para perseguirte<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Sometimes jealousy can stick with us from our previous experiences. You\u2019ve already been cheated on, so what\u2019s stopping him from doing the same?<\/p>\n

Empiezas a tener flashbacks y las se\u00f1ales del pasado empiezan a mezclarse con tu relaci\u00f3n actual.<\/p>\n

Te quedas atrapado en un bucle de recuerdos dolorosos y dudas, viendo s\u00f3lo lo peor en tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

La relaci\u00f3n se convierte en una relaci\u00f3n de control<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

De la posesividad nace la necesidad de controlar a tu pareja.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s de querer poseerlos, de conocer cada detalle de su d\u00eda y de sus horas de vigilia, viene despu\u00e9s la necesidad de controlarlos.<\/p>\n

Necesitas que se comporten de una determinada manera, que ignoren a ciertas personas y que pasen contigo cada segundo de su tiempo libre seg\u00fan tus condiciones.<\/p>\n

Controlar puede herir y da\u00f1ar gravemente a la persona controlada.<\/p>\n

If you feel like you\u2019re the victim of this, walk away. Esa relaci\u00f3n hace tiempo que desapareci\u00f3<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Pierdes la paz<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Whether you\u2019re the victim or the jealous one, it\u2019s inevitable that you\u2019ll lose your peace.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re jealous, how can you have peace if you\u2019re constantly worrying about losing them, about their behavior, about their free time?<\/p>\n

And if you\u2019re the victim, there\u2019s no single possibility of having peace while you\u2019re being tortured, with your feelings and loyalty questioned.<\/p>\n

En cualquier caso, las relaciones celosas son t\u00f3xicas para ambas partes.<\/p>\n

Destroza tu relaci\u00f3n<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re unable to address the issue, if there\u2019s no communication between the two of you, that\u2019s a lost relationship.<\/p>\n

Las discusiones constantes, la culpabilizaci\u00f3n y la p\u00e9rdida de confianza son signos inequ\u00edvocos del fin de la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Si de verdad quieres a tu pareja y quieres que las cosas funcionen, aseg\u00farate de actuar ante los celos en cuanto los notes aparecer.<\/p>\n

Los celos fuera de control convierten las relaciones en t\u00f3xicas.<\/p>\n

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