{"id":120516,"date":"2020-12-23T17:22:01","date_gmt":"2020-12-23T17:22:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=120516"},"modified":"2021-08-30T13:47:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T13:47:57","slug":"hombre-que-me-hizo-sentir-como-si-fuera-imposible-de-amar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hombre-que-me-hizo-sentir-como-si-fuera-imposible-de-amar\/","title":{"rendered":"Una carta al hombre que me hizo sentir que era imposible amar"},"content":{"rendered":"

You left me with only one sentence that is still etched deep in my mind: \u201cYou are so hard to love.\u201d Really, after everything that happened, you had the guts to tell me that I\u2019m the unlovable one?<\/p>\n

Di demasiado y nunca ped\u00ed ni recib\u00ed nada a cambio.<\/em> That\u2019s why it was a hell of a thing for you to make me feel like I\u2019m the unlovable one. But I have to admit\u2026 You almost succeeded in convincing me.<\/p>\n

Casi. Una palabra tan importante para m\u00ed. Usted casi<\/em> made me feel like I\u2019m too hard to love. You casi<\/em> rompi\u00f3 mi fe en el amor verdadero.<\/p>\n

Usted casi<\/em> me hizo dudar de mi val\u00eda. Usted casi<\/em> lograste hacer todo eso, pero al final fracasaste porque yo era mucho m\u00e1s fuerte de lo que pensabas.<\/p>\n

I know I never asked for much. I was never interested in material things or precious gifts. I never asked you to spend time with me 24\/7. I wasn’t too needy, and I never tried to change you.<\/p>\n

Te acept\u00e9 tal como eres. Te acept\u00e9 toda, todos tus lados buenos, tanto como los malos. Acept\u00e9 todos tus defectos.<\/em> Por desgracia, me enamor\u00e9 completamente de ti y de todas tus imperfecciones.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No, I’m not trying to make myself out as a saint. I have flaws, and I also made mistakes. However, I was willing, and I was trying hard to change and be a better person for you… For us.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quer\u00eda que me quisieras de la misma manera que yo te quise a ti<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quer\u00eda el tipo de amor con el que siempre so\u00f1\u00e9. Ya sabes, el impresionante, incondicional<\/a>un tipo de amor hermoso, \u00fanico en la vida.<\/p>\n

And no, don’t tell me that I asked for too much because I loved you that way. The only problem is that I wanted it from the wrong person. Buscaba el amor correcto con la persona equivocada.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nada de lo que hice fue suficiente para ti<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Me esforc\u00e9 mucho por demostrarte que te quer\u00eda de verdad. Pens\u00e9 que era culpa m\u00eda que fueras tan fr\u00eda y distante conmigo.<\/p>\n

Usted nunca me apreci\u00f3<\/a>, neither as a person nor as a girlfriend. You were aware that as much as you ignored my efforts, I’d continue to try to be a better girlfriend to you.<\/p>\n

Mi error fue idealizarte<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

In my eyes, you were a perfect man. I would say that\u2019s my biggest mistake. Pensando en ti como un tipo perfecto y poni\u00e9ndote en un pedestal cuando estabas tan lejos de ser perfecto.<\/strong><\/p>\n

My other mistake was letting you inside my heart and, even worse, in my head. I allowed you to make me doubt myself, to decrease my value, and make me feel like I’m not worthy of being loved.<\/p>\n

Al final, siento que debo darte las gracias despu\u00e9s de todo.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Yes, you did leave me with many insecurities. I was convinced that I was unworthy of love. You said that love isn’t meant for everyone, and I was trying to come to terms with that.<\/p>\n

I thought that God had forgotten me when it comes to love…<\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfsabes qu\u00e9? Todas esas inseguridades hicieron de m\u00ed la mujer que soy hoy: una mujer segura de s\u00ed misma, valiente, independiente y mujer fuerte<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m a woman who knows what she wants from life and who won\u2019t allow anyone to take the wheel of her life because only she should steer it.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, lo siento por ti<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You tried to make me feel that I was the one who is hard to love when actually, you’re the one who is impossible to love.<\/p>\n

Encerraste tu coraz\u00f3n y construiste un enorme muro, una fortaleza a su alrededor para que nadie pudiera acercarse a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Maybe, you did it out of fear because you don’t want anyone to hurt you and break your heart.<\/p>\n

But, I think that the real reason you did it is that you’re weak.<\/p>\n

You’re a coward who cannot confront his own feelings and thinks that it’s better to run away from things than to accept the risk those things bring with them.<\/p>\n

That’s why I can’t be angry at you or hate you anymore. I honestly feel sorry for you, a weak man who’ll forever be alone, sad, and lonely.<\/em><\/p>\n

I’m still alone, but I’ll never be lonely. You see, you didn’t manage to convince me I’m unlovable after all.<\/p>\n

Hay tanta gente en mi vida que me quiere por lo que soy, que ama todas mis imperfecciones y mis defectos, y que me quiere por todas las razones correctas.<\/p>\n

That’s why even though I’m alone, I’ll never be lonely.<\/p>\n

Today I’m the happiest woman alive because I finally got closure with this letter and realized something very important: I’m worthy of the purest and most beautiful kind of love and belonging.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You left me with only one sentence that is still etched deep in my mind: \u201cYou are so hard to love.\u201d Really, after everything that happened, you had the guts to tell me that I\u2019m the unlovable one? I gave too much and never asked for or got anything in return. That\u2019s why it was…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":120525,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-120516","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Made-Me-Feel-Like-Im-Impossible-To-Love-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/120516","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=120516"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/120516\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/120525"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=120516"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=120516"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=120516"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}