{"id":122241,"date":"2021-01-08T16:17:37","date_gmt":"2021-01-08T16:17:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=122241"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:15:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:15:46","slug":"mujer-deja-de-discutir-ya-no-vales","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mujer-deja-de-discutir-ya-no-vales\/","title":{"rendered":"Cuando una mujer deja de discutir, significa que ya no vales la pena la pelea"},"content":{"rendered":"

El otro d\u00eda, estaba sentado con algunos de mis amigos varones y les hice la pregunta definitiva: \"\u00bfQu\u00e9 es lo que m\u00e1s les molesta de las chicas?\".<\/p>\n

I wasn\u2019t referring to their rompe-contratos en las citas<\/a> because they\u2019re all different \u2013 I was talking about the things that bother them in the women they like and are in a relationship with.<\/p>\n

And, they all agreed on one thing: they can\u2019t stand naggy girls.<\/strong> As\u00ed es como clasifican a las chicas que se\u00f1alan sus defectos y les llaman la atenci\u00f3n por sus acciones.<\/p>\n

Before we consider matters any further, let\u2019s get one thing straight: I\u2019m familiar with each one of these guy\u2019s love histories, and I know exactly which of their exes they\u2019re talking about.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re not talking about possessively jealous girls. They\u2019re not talking about women who saw them as not good enough or about women who kept putting them down.<\/p>\n

En cambio, eran las chicas que hac\u00edan todo lo posible por convertir a mis amigos en mejores hombres. Las chicas que invirtieron su tiempo, energ\u00eda y nervios en chicos que nunca las merecieron.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Eran las mujeres que luchaban por sus hombres. Las mujeres que hac\u00edan todo lo posible para que sus relaciones funcionaran, de un modo u otro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight: neither of these relationships was idyllic. There was a lot of arguing, but one thing was for sure: each one of these women wholeheartedly loved my buddies.<\/p>\n

Pero cada una de estas historias tuvo un desenlace similar. Tarde o temprano, todas estas chicas se cansaron.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Dejaron a mis amigos, se alejaron de ellos y nunca volvieron atr\u00e1s. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Todos estos tipos acabaron con el coraz\u00f3n roto cuando se dieron cuenta de lo que hab\u00edan perdido, pero claro, ahora todos fingen que algo as\u00ed nunca ocurri\u00f3.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, these things do happen. It\u2019s actually a pretty typical scenario.<\/p>\n

A guy meets a girl. They fall in love, but the second he sees that he\u2019s gotten under her skin, he shows his true colors.<\/p>\n

Empieza d\u00e1ndola por sentada<\/a>El hombre est\u00e1 tan convencido de que esta chica ha venido para quedarse que no hace ning\u00fan esfuerzo por mantenerla a su lado. Est\u00e1 tan convencido de que esta chica est\u00e1 aqu\u00ed para quedarse que no pone ning\u00fan esfuerzo en mantenerla a su lado.<\/p>\n

Al mismo tiempo, la chica es la \u00fanica que lucha por esta relaci\u00f3n. Hace todo lo posible para que las cosas funcionen.
\nElla lo perdona por toda la mierda que le hace pasar.<\/p>\n

Why? Because she loves him and because she sees something in him \u2013 she sees hope that one day, this man will be her happily ever after.<\/p>\n

The telenovela goes on and on for years. She moves mountains for his sake while he isn\u2019t willing to move a finger for her sake.<\/p>\n

Y entonces, despu\u00e9s de todas esas segundas oportunidades, se da cuenta de todo. Por fin lo entiende: \u00e9l no es digno, nunca lo fue y nunca lo ser\u00e1.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Se da cuenta de que ha malgastado a\u00f1os de su vida en un chico que nunca le dar\u00eda lo que necesita. Despu\u00e9s de hacer todo lo que pudo, se da cuenta de que todo fue en vano.<\/p>\n

Esta chica ve la verdad y rompe esta relaci\u00f3n unilateral. S\u00ed, ya lo hab\u00eda intentado antes, pero esta vez es diferente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This time, it\u2019s not an empty threat. This time, she gives up on him because she realizes he\u2019s no longer worth the fight.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There is no more arguing, no more yelling, no more ultimatums, no more begging, no more chasing\u2026 All that is left is su silencio<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bueno, aqu\u00ed es cuando todo hombre est\u00e1 jodido. Esta es la se\u00f1al de que ha llegado al punto de no retorno.<\/p>\n

And, this is exactly what happened to most of my male friends. So, if you\u2019re like this, please be different and change your destiny on time.<\/p>\n

If you have a girl who argues with you \u2013 it means that she still has the strength to fight for you. <\/strong><\/p>\n

It means that you should consider yourself lucky because when she stops trying, you\u2019ll wish for all the nagging and criticism to come back. You\u2019ll wish for her love to come back.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The other day, I was sitting with some of my male friends and I asked them the ultimate question: \u201cWhat is the thing that annoys them most about girls?\u201d I wasn\u2019t referring to their dating dealbreakers because they\u2019re all different \u2013 I was talking about the things that bother them in the women they like…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":122335,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-122241","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/When-A-Woman-Stops-Arguing-That-Means-Youre-No-Longer-Worth-The-Fight-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/122241","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=122241"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/122241\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/122335"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=122241"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=122241"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=122241"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}