Him not calling back ever again isn\u2019t a big deal, right? We enjoyed ourselves, and then we both continued with our lives.<\/p>\n
At least, that\u2019s what we keep telling ourselves. We put a lot of effort into being like men. Nos esforzamos por ense\u00f1ar a nuestros corazones a no encari\u00f1arse y romperse tan f\u00e1cilmente.<\/strong><\/p>\n Wouldn\u2019t that be perfect? Wouldn\u2019t it be great if you could have some fun with a guy you like without any emotional consequences?<\/p>\n Sadly, things don\u2019t always work out like that. As much as you try not to give it a second thought, you\u2019re always left wondering.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00bfMe llamar\u00e1? \u00bfFui s\u00f3lo una aventura para \u00e9l? \u00bfCu\u00e1ndo me llamar\u00e1? \u00bfEst\u00e1 pensando en m\u00ed?<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not only referring to one night stands here \u2013 this was just an example. I\u2019m talking about all the men who were gone from your life in the blink of an eye.<\/strong><\/p>\n Sin embargo, lo cierto es que nunca te hicieron ninguna promesa.<\/p>\n You weren\u2019t exclusive, so you\u2019re convinced that you don\u2019t have the right to be mad. You two didn\u2019t put any labels on it, so you think they were in no obligation to stick around.<\/p>\n The worst part is that all the red flags were there. From the very first moment you met them, deep down, you knew very well that they weren\u2019t here to stay.<\/p>\n But you tried anyhow. You put effort into these relationships that weren\u2019t going anywhere.<\/p>\n Estabas prestando tu atenci\u00f3n a alguien que s\u00f3lo te ve\u00eda como un alto en el camino, y esperabas para siempre de hombres que s\u00f3lo te ve\u00edan como algo temporal.<\/strong><\/p>\n No, this doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re not enough. It just means that you kept giving yourself to the wrong men.<\/p>\n A los hombres que se fueron en cuanto consiguieron lo que quer\u00edan de ti. A los hombres que fingieron estar emocionalmente rotos pero que en realidad fueron unos imb\u00e9ciles desde el principio.<\/p>\n You were giving yourself to the guys who weren\u2019t ready to commit and whose only goal was to use your heart, body, and mind.<\/strong><\/p>\n A los tipos que te ve\u00edan como su juguete y que te tiraron en cuanto se acab\u00f3 su jueguecito.<\/strong><\/p>\n You wasted years of your life on immature boys who didn\u2019t know what they wanted. On men whose call and text you had to desperately wait for and on guys who kept giving you breadcrumbs of their affection.<\/p>\n Te conformaste con hombres que se negaron a corresponder a tu esfuerzo. Con hombres que te trataron como si fueras su segunda opci\u00f3n y que nunca se dedicaron por completo a vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n And let\u2019s face it: you need to take a part of the blame \u2013 the fact that you were wasting your sunsets with men who you knew would be gone by the next sunrise.<\/p>\n El hecho de que estabas buscando amor en todos los lugares equivocados y de todas las personas equivocadas.<\/p>\n Look, I\u2019m no Judge Judy. I\u2019m not advising you against casual flings because they\u2019re inappropriate, or because other guys won\u2019t see you as wife material, or some crap like that.<\/p>\n I\u2019m begging you to save your heart and body for the ones who deserve you. You\u2019re a whole package, and you can\u2019t allow any man to take just the parts of you they like.<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s todo o nada<\/a>. And if they can\u2019t handle you entirely, they should be out of your life. In that case, they don\u2019t deserve the privilege of your presence.<\/strong><\/p>\n I\u2019m begging you not to waste an ounce of your energy on someone who doesn\u2019t have the intention of sticking around. Not to let a guy into your life until he proves to you that he deserves a place there.<\/p>\n En lugar de conformarse con medias tintas, casi o relaciones unilaterales<\/a>espera al verdadero. Espere a que un tipo que es digno de su amor y atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Please, stop forcing anything. I\u2019m not saying that you should sit in your bedroom and expect for your Prince Charming to come knocking on your door.<\/p>\n![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-woman-with-pensive.jpg\")
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