{"id":12259,"date":"2020-09-15T12:58:38","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T12:58:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12259"},"modified":"2021-10-29T14:51:06","modified_gmt":"2021-10-29T14:51:06","slug":"7-tacticas-de-succion-que-utilizan-los-narcisistas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-tacticas-de-succion-que-utilizan-los-narcisistas\/","title":{"rendered":"7 t\u00e1cticas que usan los narcisistas para dejarte seco"},"content":{"rendered":"

Los narcisistas sufren un trastorno de la personalidad que acaba por destruirle.<\/p>\n

At the beginning, you don\u2019t understand what situation you\u2019ve put yourself in because these people are such good manipulators.<\/p>\n

When you first meet them, they appear as this perfect, rare species of men and you are happy about yourself and you can\u2019t believe that you\u2019ve hit the Jackpot\u2014you can\u2019t believe that you found the perfect man for you.<\/p>\n

Only afterwards, you discover that it was all a lie. You realize that he is nothing more than a manipulative bastard who has come into your love with one purpose only\u2014to suck you dry.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There is just one game in which they are absolute pros\u2014no one can touch them\u2014and that is the game of manipulation.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s their strongest weapon and they know how to use it to get absolutely everything they want.<\/p>\n

They play these little games with you to hurt and humiliate you. People\u2019s misfortune and suffering is something that boosts their egos and feeds their souls.<\/p>\n

Narcisistas<\/a> te consumir\u00e1n y agotar\u00e1n y, cuando hayan acabado contigo, te echar\u00e1n toda la responsabilidad <\/strong>en a ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Lo fascinante es que siempre consiguen empezar de cero.<\/p>\n

No matter how many people they\u2019ve destroyed, they will always find a new victim to manipulate and after they are done, they will leave you broken and move on to the next person.<\/p>\n

Estas personas nunca admitir\u00e1n que han cometido un error. Es m\u00e1s, te culpar\u00e1n de todo, sabiendo que es s\u00f3lo culpa suya.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cuando por fin te das cuenta de que se ha estado aprovechando de ti y chup\u00e1ndote la vida, cuando por fin le dejas, har\u00e1 todo lo que est\u00e9 en su mano para recuperarte.<\/p>\n

El usara tacticas de hoovering para literalmente succionarte de vuelta a una relacion disfuncional.<\/p>\n

Estas son t\u00e1cticas que todo narcisista usar\u00e1 contigo para recuperarte:<\/p>\n

Malinterpretar tus pensamientos y sentimientos a prop\u00f3sito<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Los narcisistas tienen el poder de hacer que tus opiniones y pensamientos parezcan rid\u00edculos. Tienen el poder de hacerte creer que t\u00fa eres el loco y el irracional.<\/p>\n

Este abuso narcisista<\/a> tactic is also called \u2018mind reading\u2019.<\/p>\n

Estas personas t\u00f3xicas creen saber exactamente lo que piensas o sientes, por lo que tienen tendencia a sacar conclusiones precipitadas sin haber observado previamente la situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t understand they are jumping to conclusions because they are convinced they are right.<\/p>\n

They will put words in your mouth and when you try to confront them about that, they will deny they\u2019ve ever said anything and just walk away.<\/p>\n

Cambiar de tema<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

A los narcisistas les encanta utilizar esta t\u00e1ctica. Siempre que pongas fin a algo y decidas enfrentarte a ellos por algo, cambiar\u00e1n de tema empezando a aparecer como si en realidad fueran v\u00edctimas.<\/p>\n

They will bring out the mistakes you\u2019ve done a year ago. They never forget anything.<\/p>\n

Cuando cometes un error te mentir\u00e1n<\/a> and pretend like it’s not a big deal until a situation like this.<\/p>\n

Luego, te restregar\u00e1n todo lo que hiciste por la cara, s\u00f3lo para desviar la atenci\u00f3n de ellos mismos.<\/p>\n

Acoso e intento de destruir tu reputaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If they\u2019ve lost control over you, they will do anything in their power to make other people see you as the toxic one.<\/p>\n

They will try to sabotage your reputation and slander your name so you don\u2019t have a security net to fall into after you leave them.<\/p>\n

Quieren enga\u00f1ar a todos los que te rodean haci\u00e9ndoles creer que eres peligroso para que acabes solo, sin nadie con quien hablar despu\u00e9s de que te abandonen.<\/p>\n

Pueden incluso acecharle o acosarle a usted o a sus conocidos. Intentar\u00e1n enga\u00f1arles y tratar\u00e1n de calumniarles o sacar a la luz la supuesta verdad sobre ustedes.<\/p>\n

Sarcasmo y tono condescendiente<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Narcissists will use sarcasm to hurt you. When both parties are up for sarcasm jokes, then it\u2019s funny, but when he tries to provoke you by using sarcasm, he is doing it on purpose just to provoke and degrade you.<\/p>\n

And if you show him that you don\u2019t find the things he\u2019s saying funny, then you are too sensitive or you don\u2019t get his jokes which are carefully planned para hacerte sentir como una mierda<\/a>.<\/p>\n

The other form of manipulations is treating you like you are a child, like you have no idea how to do things on your own, or you don\u2019t understand some things and you need to be carefully explained what to do and how.<\/p>\n

Te har\u00e1 sentir est\u00fapida y menospreciada, que ser\u00e1 exactamente lo que \u00e9l quer\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda silenciarte y hacerte olvidar que tienes tus propias opiniones, pero poco a poco te fuiste silenciando.<\/p>\n

Luz de gas<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Esta t\u00e1ctica es perfecta para perder la autoestima y el amor propio.<\/p>\n

His ultimate goal is to make you feel useless without him, so you stay by his side forever thinking you can\u2019t live without him and thinking you are unfit for life and that no one would like to live with you in the first place.<\/p>\n

He will use this tactic to make you think things that aren\u2019t real. He will convince you that you did or said something that never happened.<\/p>\n

Quiere que pierdas completamente la confianza en ti mismo y que te entregues a \u00e9l, para poder seguir utiliz\u00e1ndote como su marioneta obediente todo el tiempo que quiera.<\/p>\n

Cr\u00edticas y tareas imposibles<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Estas personas te criticar\u00e1n con un \u00fanico prop\u00f3sito y es menospreciarte y hacerte sentir como una mierda.<\/p>\n

Hay gente que te hace cr\u00edticas constructivas con la esperanza de que aprendas algo de ellas y las recuerdes para la pr\u00f3xima vez que hagas algo.<\/p>\n

Estas personas quieren ayudarte, pero los narcisistas usan la cr\u00edtica<\/a> s\u00f3lo para desanimarte. Quiz\u00e1 lo hagan por celos o por pura maldad.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, te dar\u00e1n tareas imposibles y te pondr\u00e1n metas imposibles de alcanzar, por lo que seguir\u00e1s fracasando y sentir\u00e1s que nunca eres lo bastante bueno.<\/p>\n

Por mucho que lo intentes, \u00e9l pondr\u00e1 el list\u00f3n a\u00fan m\u00e1s alto para que nunca lo alcances.<\/p>\n

Controlar<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

They will make themselves in charge and put you aside. You won\u2019t be having any say in anything.<\/p>\n

Poco a poco te ir\u00e1n aislando de tus amigos, de tu familia y de casi todos tus conocidos porque quieren ser los \u00fanicos que afecten a tu vida.<\/p>\n

Quieren moldearte en algo que quieren a su lado.<\/p>\n

Y arriesgarse a que otras personas destruyan eso, arriesgarse a que intenten hacerte entrar en raz\u00f3n, es completamente inaceptable.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n controlar\u00e1n tu econom\u00eda y tu tiempo libre. Querr\u00e1n saber qu\u00e9 haces, con qui\u00e9n y cu\u00e1ndo.<\/p>\n

They will make sure to control every little aspect of your life so you can\u2019t run away from him.<\/p>\n

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