{"id":12273,"date":"2020-05-12T14:58:51","date_gmt":"2020-05-12T14:58:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12273"},"modified":"2022-07-06T09:29:06","modified_gmt":"2022-07-06T09:29:06","slug":"13-reglas-a-seguir-relacion-nsa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/13-reglas-a-seguir-relacion-nsa\/","title":{"rendered":"Relaciones NSA: Qu\u00e9 es y 13 reglas de oro a seguir"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfQu\u00e9 significa una relaci\u00f3n NSA?<\/em> You’ve probably seen that Ashton Kutcher and Natalie Portman movie and immediately started wondering if you could pull off something like that, haven’t you?<\/p>\r\n

Tener una relaci\u00f3n sin compromiso suena muy divertido cuando oyes a la gente hablar de ello.<\/p>\r\n

So it’s only natural that it should pop up in your head and tickle your imagination as well.<\/p>\r\n

Having fun in bed and knowing that you\u2019re not going to regret it in the morning is the kind of relationship we all secretly seek! You\u2019re with someone but you don\u2019t feel any guilt after leaving the next morning.<\/p>\r\n

You both know it’s just a sexy, innocent conectar<\/a> y sexo completamente casual (que es lo que lo hace tan caliente).<\/p>\r\n

It is never a way of getting emotionally intimate or invested. Unlike a serious relationship, this is pure fun with no strings attached. Sounds perfect, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\r\n

El problema es que este tipo de relaci\u00f3n est\u00e1 sujeta a ciertas normas.<\/p>\r\n

\"La<\/p>\r\n

Deber\u00edas seguirlas para no meter la pata ni hacer el rid\u00edculo. (Como la mayor\u00eda de las cosas en la vida, las relaciones son complicadas e impredecibles.<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  Sometimes you think you\u2019re about to embark on a life-changing adventure with tu alma gemela<\/a> y terminas con el coraz\u00f3n roto y solo. Te das cuenta de que solo era una relaci\u00f3n casual.<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  And other times, you choose an NSA relationship and you start developing serious feelings for this person. Nothing is going like you imagined it would and feelings appear out of nowhere. You\u2019re clueless what to do about it.<\/p>\r\n

That\u2019s life for you. You can\u2019t plan out tu vida amorosa<\/a>. You can\u2019t control your feelings when they appear out of nowhere.<\/p>\r\n

S\u00f3lo tienes que aprender a establecer unas reglas b\u00e1sicas para el tipo de relaci\u00f3n que deseas mantener.<\/p>\r\n

Si has decidido explorar la posibilidad de mantener una relaci\u00f3n sin compromiso, hay ciertas reglas no escritas que probablemente deber\u00edas seguir.<\/p>\r\n

Aprende a maximizar el placer y a evitar las posibles repercusiones negativas.<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s a way to have some innocent, sultry fun, so do just that with the help of the following guidelines.<\/p>\r\n

1. Know the difference between \u2018friends with benefits\u2019 and NSA<\/h2>\r\n

\"pareja<\/p>\r\n

If you choose a friend to have this type of relationship with, it\u2019s called amigos con beneficios.<\/a> But an NSA relationship doesn\u2019t have anything to do with that.<\/p>\r\n

Here, the man you\u2019re with doesn\u2019t have to listen to your problems and or make you feel better when you\u2019re down.<\/p>\r\n

Este tipo de relaciones se centran en el placer f\u00edsico. NSA significa que no hay ataduras.<\/p>\r\n

No es una relaci\u00f3n real y nadie se debe nada m\u00e1s que diversi\u00f3n, sexo casual y pasar un buen rato.<\/p>\r\n

2. Ask yourself if you’re ready<\/h2>\r\n

\"mujer<\/p>\r\n

Being emotionally ready for an NSA relationship is crucial. You don\u2019t want to make it awkward by revealing your feelings to someone who doesn’t feel the same way.<\/p>\r\n

If you’re done with citas en l\u00ednea<\/a> and all those useless dating sites, and you’ve decided to embark on a one night stand, ask yourself the following:<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  Can you deal with the fact that there won’t be an actual first date and that the person probably won’t stick around until morning?<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  Is the person you’re hooking up with familiar with the ground rules of an NSA relationship?<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  Are you two on the exact same page regarding your expectations and emotions and have you worked out a foolproof NSA arrangement?<\/p>\r\n

Only after you\u2019ve checked these boxes are you truly ready for this type of relationship.<\/p>\r\n

3. Utiliza protecci\u00f3n.<\/h2>\r\n

\"hombre<\/p>\r\n

Esto deber\u00eda ser de sentido com\u00fan, pero la mayor\u00eda de la gente comete el error de no tomarse esta norma muy en serio.<\/p>\r\n

This kind of arrangement is usually a quick, on-the-go type of thing that doesn’t leave much time to actually think things through.<\/p>\r\n

Por eso hay que resolver los problemas antes de reunirse con la persona.<\/p>\r\n

Aseg\u00farate de que al menos uno de los dos lleva alg\u00fan tipo de m\u00e9todo anticonceptivo para evitar embarazos no deseados o enfermedades de transmisi\u00f3n sexual.<\/p>\r\n

Be smart about this now, so you don’t regret it in the future.<\/p>\r\n

4. C\u00f3rtalo en el momento en que empieces a desarrollar sentimientos<\/h2>\r\n

\"mujer<\/p>\r\n

Si empiezas a ponerte celoso, y a comprobar su redes sociales<\/a> accounts to find out where they are, it\u2019s a clear sign to move on from that person as your feelings are starting to surface.<\/p>\r\n

In this type of relationship, feelings are the last thing you need or want \u2013 they complicate things.<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s not easy to recognize it at first, but if the thought of them being with someone else makes you feel weird, it\u2019s a sign to cut it off. Don\u2019t do this to yourself. You might get hurt.<\/p>\r\n

Unlike all your previous romantic relationships, this is new territory, and if you sense you’re not ready, press pause and wait it out.<\/p>\r\n

Casual sex is not for everyone and there’s no shame in that. The truth is, we’d all like to be void of emotions when it comes to these things, but it’s easier said than done.<\/p>\r\n

5. Tener l\u00edmites<\/h2>\r\n

\"hombre<\/p>\r\n

Los l\u00edmites son cruciales para protegerse de atrapando sentimientos<\/a>. Making rules for this type of relationship might seem harsh, but it’s necessary unless you want to end up hurt or hurting the person in question.<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  Decide to only text regarding sex and hooking up. No random messages about feelings and your life in general. Keep it strictly sexy and breezy.<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  Agree if you see each other in public, not to approach each other unless you’re alone. If you’re with other people, it may get awkward, so you want to avoid that at all costs.<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  When you’re done having sex, the person visiting has an hour tops to leave. No sleeping over and cuddling. That leads to talking and talking leads to getting to know each other. And you know where that goes. Nip it in the bud.<\/p>\r\n

6. Divi\u00e9rtete<\/h2>\r\n

\"pareja<\/p>\r\n

Isn\u2019t fun the main reason why you decided to enter into an NSA relationship?<\/p>\r\n

Then enjoy it as much as you can! Don\u2019t think about the way you perform too much, don\u2019t think about what will happen tomorrow, make it enjoyable.<\/p>\r\n

Rel\u00e1jate y desconecta. Es tu tiempo libre y puedes divertirte y re\u00edrte (o gemir) tan fuerte como quieras. El objetivo de este encuentro es olvidarte del mundo exterior y centrarte en tu cuerpo y en el placer. Borra todo lo que NO sea eso y rel\u00e1jate.<\/p>\r\n

7. Atiende primero a tus necesidades<\/h2>\r\n

\"caliente<\/p>\r\n

Tienes permiso total para ser ego\u00edsta con tus necesidades por encima de todo lo dem\u00e1s. Recuerda, esto NO es una relaci\u00f3n real, \u00a1as\u00ed que puedes hacer lo que quieras!<\/p>\r\n

If you don\u2019t like something, tell them and don\u2019t hesitate to make it clear exactly how you like it.<\/p>\r\n

If you\u2019re apasionado por el sexo<\/a> and you\u2019re having a great time, there is no doubt that it\u2019ll be amazing for them, too. But, you\u2019re your biggest priority.<\/p>\r\n

This is your time to shine. Sure, your NSA partner is important too, but you don’t have to worry about him that much. You only live once\u2026 so make the most of this!<\/p>\r\n

8. Vu\u00e9lvete loco<\/h2>\r\n

\"Relaciones<\/p>\r\n

Similar a la regla de oro anterior, esto significa que no est\u00e1s obligado a hacer nada que no te resulte agradable.<\/p>\r\n

Ahora tiene la libertad<\/a> para probar todas las cosas que tem\u00edas hacer en una relaci\u00f3n comprometida.<\/p>\r\n

Ya no tendr\u00e1s que preocuparte de que tu pareja se sienta intimidada o extra\u00f1ada por las cosas que te gustan en la cama.<\/p>\r\n

\u00bfA qui\u00e9n le importa ahora? Ten la mente abierta para volverte completamente loco y ser espont\u00e1neo. S\u00e9 curioso. S\u00e9 salvaje. S\u00e9 la persona que siempre has temido ser.<\/p>\r\n

9. Tener sexo e irse a casa<\/h2>\r\n

\"mujer<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t hang out afterwards and don\u2019t spend time cuddling. Once it\u2019s all finished, pick up your clothes, get dressed and get on your way home.<\/p>\r\n

You have a perfectly comfortable bed there, use it! If you start cuddling and hanging around each other, you will start talking and that\u2019s when you know that you\u2019ve gone too far.<\/p>\r\n

You want to keep this going, right? You like this NSA relationship? Then don\u2019t cuddle! This is the most important thing.<\/p>\r\n

Si empez\u00e1is a hablar de cosas personales, llegar\u00e9is a conoceros a un nivel m\u00e1s profundo y, os guste o no, \u00a1los sentimientos se interpondr\u00e1n en vuestro ligue casual!<\/p>\r\n

Ev\u00edtalo volviendo a casa inmediatamente despu\u00e9s del sexo y separando este asunto de tu vida personal.<\/p>\r\n

10. Don’t tell him things about yourself<\/h2>\r\n

\"joven<\/p>\r\n

With this I mean: Don\u2019t tell him your secrets; keep them to yourself. Who knows how long this is going to last?<\/p>\r\n

Do you really want someone who\u2019s not going to be around for too long to know everything about you? I’m guessing not.<\/p>\r\n

Una vez que empiezas a hablar de las cosas que te hacen sentir inseguro o asustado, est\u00e1s cruzando lentamente hacia una relaci\u00f3n real y una vez que ves que eso sucede, necesitas detenerte. La verdad es que estar en una relaci\u00f3n NSA es un trabajo duro.<\/p>\r\n

Todos pensamos que somos capaces de tener una relaci\u00f3n que sea pura diversi\u00f3n y cero emociones, pero a la hora de la verdad te das cuenta de lo complicado que puede llegar a ser.<\/p>\r\n

La l\u00ednea suele ser borrosa y pronto te das cuenta de que quieres una relaci\u00f3n seria con esa persona.<\/p>\r\n

Evita todo eso compartiendo lo menos posible. Siempre que quieras que las cosas sigan siendo informales, sigue esta regla b\u00e1sica.<\/p>\r\n

11. Puedes decir que no<\/h2>\r\n

\"mujer<\/p>\r\n

You have no obligations to this person and it\u2019s the same the other way around.<\/p>\r\n

You don\u2019t have to go and have sex with them whenever they want it, so if you\u2019re not feeling like it, be clear about it.<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  If they call wanting to have sex and you’re not in the mood, you are free to say it loud and clear. Your wants are just as important as theirs.<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  Remember, even if the person does get mad, is it really important? No, it’s not. Unlike with romantic relationships, here you don’t have to be so considerate of their feelings. Be kind, but stand your ground.<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  If the person can’t take no for an answer, walk away from this arrangement. They might get too possessive and controlling, which is your cue to get out.<\/p>\r\n

12. Recuerda que no son de tu propiedad<\/h2>\r\n

\"mujer<\/p>\r\n

Si ves al tipo sentado en un caf\u00e9 con otra persona, don\u2019t get all jealous on him<\/a>pelearse por lo que haya pasado o enfadarse.<\/p>\r\n

That\u2019s the first sign of attachment. No strings attached means exactly what it says.<\/p>\r\n

\u00c9l puede salir con quien quiera y lo mismo vale para ti. Prep\u00e1rate para esta situaci\u00f3n, porque ocurrir\u00e1.<\/p>\r\n

The only question is when. One day, you are going to see this person in the real world holding hands with someone else, and at that moment, you will realize just how okay with this you are or aren’t.<\/p>\r\n

Y por muy mierda que sea, no tienes derecho a ir all\u00ed y montar una escena.<\/p>\r\n

What you have is not real, and you don’t get to cause them trouble. If it hurts, walk away before it gets worse. It’s for your own good.<\/p>\r\n

13. Tener siempre un plan de respaldo<\/h2>\r\n

\"foto<\/p>\r\n

Why would you throw out all the other options you have in your life for an NSA relationship? Don\u2019t do that. It\u2019s not worth it.<\/p>\r\n

Puedes flirtear con otros hombres y tener citas. Al hacerlo, te aseguras de que tienes otras opciones en caso de que la cosa se tuerza.<\/p>\r\n

And let’s face the truth, it might. Your NSA partner might find someone else, and you could find yourself in deep water.<\/p>\r\n

NSA significa sin ataduras. Recu\u00e9rdalo por si la l\u00ednea empieza a hacerse demasiado borrosa. Dale otra oportunidad a los sitios de citas y mira qu\u00e9 m\u00e1s hay por ah\u00ed.<\/p>\r\n

You are totally allowed to do that, so don’t be afraid to have a backup plan if this blows up in your face. He is probably doing the same thing.<\/p>\r\n

So think about yourself first, and everyone else second. When this stops being fun and casual, take it as a sign to resort to your backup plan. Trust me, you’ll be happy you had one.<\/p>\r\n

En conclusi\u00f3n<\/h2>\r\n

\"mujer<\/p>\r\n

An NSA relationship is certainly not everyone’s cup of tea. People get into these things thinking it will be smooth sailing and pure, innocent fun, but more often than not, one person gets blindsided and hurt.<\/p>\r\n

Y lo peor es que nadie se lo espera. Entras en ella sinti\u00e9ndote esperanzado y furtivo y sales de ella herido y decepcionado con un agujero en las tripas.<\/p>\r\n

Precisamente por eso hay reglas de oro que debes seguir si quieres que la tuya tenga \u00e9xito.<\/p>\r\n

Esta no es una relaci\u00f3n comprometida y tu pareja no te debe nada.<\/p>\r\n

There are no dates, no declarations of love, and no talking about stuff for hours on end. It’s casual, fun, and breezy.<\/p>\r\n

You go in and you get out, and that’s it. If after reading all of this you feel you’re ready to experience it, by all means \u2013 go ahead! But those who are apprehensive and confused by the arrangement, perhaps this is not for you.<\/p>\r\n

Don’t be discouraged. Do your own thing and stick to what makes you sentirse bien<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n

There’s no shame in being honest with yourself. Good luck and follow your gut! <\/p>\r\n

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