{"id":122900,"date":"2021-01-08T16:28:35","date_gmt":"2021-01-08T16:28:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=122900"},"modified":"2021-10-29T13:05:17","modified_gmt":"2021-10-29T13:05:17","slug":"como-el-phubbing-arruina-tu-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-el-phubbing-arruina-tu-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como el phubbing arruina tu relaci\u00f3n (no se trata de si, sino de cu\u00e1ndo)"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfCu\u00e1l es su forma de relajarse despu\u00e9s de un duro d\u00eda de trabajo? \u00bfSe acurruca frente a la chimenea con su ser querido, o le gusta beber su bebida favorita mientras hace phubbing?<\/p>\n

Desgraciadamente, en estos tiempos modernos, cada vez hay m\u00e1s gente que elige esta \u00faltima opci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Phubbing has become a real problem, and it’s one of the most common causes of weakening the emotional closeness between people.<\/strong><\/p>\n

All of those virtual things aren’t and should never be more important than the real world. All those people you communicate with online should never be more important than your loved one, not even those you communicate with on a daily basis.<\/em><\/p>\n

I know it’s nice to escape sometimes from our slightly boring and often cruel everyday lives in that ideal, virtual world.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, prestar m\u00e1s atenci\u00f3n a tu m\u00f3vil y elegir constantemente esa cajita de cristal antes que a la persona que amas dejar\u00e1 enormes consecuencias en tu relaci\u00f3n. A veces, incluso puede da\u00f1arla irreparablemente.<\/p>\n

You’ll grow apart<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Si permite que su smartphone le quite atenci\u00f3n a su pareja, le desconectar\u00e1 emocionalmente de ella.<\/p>\n

If you choose to share exciting news with your Facebook audience instead of your partner, that means you’re choosing your virtual life over them.<\/p>\n

You won’t be spending quality time together anymore, and it will lead to you eventually growing apart.<\/p>\n

Su v\u00ednculo emocional se debilitar\u00e1<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

If your partner is talking to you about their day or their work and they’re getting half of your attention while you’re scrolling on your phone, they will feel like you aren’t listening to them at all or that you don\u2019t care about the things that are important to them.<\/p>\n

Eventually, they’ll also stop communicating with you. And honestly, no hay relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a> sin una buena comunicaci\u00f3n.<\/em> The bond between you will weaken, and you’ll become completely emotionally disconnected.<\/p>\n

Surgir\u00e1n problemas de confianza<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

It\u2019ll definitely cause problemas de confianza<\/a>. Tu pareja empezar\u00e1 a preguntarse si hay alguien m\u00e1s en tu vida y si esa persona es la raz\u00f3n por la que prestas m\u00e1s atenci\u00f3n a tu tel\u00e9fono que a ella.<\/p>\n

Honestly, everyone would find it a little bit suspicious. When you truly love someone, you’ll never allow them to feel neglected, especially not over something so unimportant as that glass box.<\/p>\n

You’ll both feel lonely<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Aunque pas\u00e9is todos los d\u00edas juntos, aunque viv\u00e1is juntos, prestar m\u00e1s atenci\u00f3n a tu smartphone que a tu pareja har\u00e1 que ambos os sint\u00e1is solos en vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Esa distancia entre vosotros crecer\u00e1 con cada d\u00eda que pase y eso ser\u00e1 el principio de un relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica<\/a>. Por desgracia, puede incluso hacer que su pareja busque consuelo en otra persona.<\/p>\n

They’ll get bored of you<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Well, let’s admit it, there’s nothing worse than talking to a person who is just pretending to listen to you while they’re actually giving all their attention to their phone.<\/p>\n

Ahora imagina estar en una relaci\u00f3n con ese tipo de persona. Pueden llegar a frustrarte y, de hecho, su comportamiento puede aburrirte soberanamente.<\/em><\/p>\n

Tu vida \u00edntima tambi\u00e9n se resentir\u00e1<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

It’ll also leave dire consequences on your intimate life. At first, your partner was happy and satisfied because your bedroom was the only place where they could steal your attention away from your phone.<\/p>\n

But in the end, that will also change. At first, you’ll be only cada vez m\u00e1s lejos<\/a> emocionalmente, pero m\u00e1s tarde tambi\u00e9n aparecer\u00e1 una distancia f\u00edsica entre vosotros.<\/p>\n

Se convertir\u00e1 en la causa principal de todas sus peleas...<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Your partner will feel neglected and even rejected all the time. They won’t be able to accept the fact you’re giving more attention to your phone than you are to them, and it will make them doubt your fidelity.<\/p>\n

They’ll start snooping through your phone, and they’ll follow every step you take. Then you won’t be okay with their behavior, and there it is, each day more and more disagreements and problems will arise.<\/p>\n

Las emociones negativas estar\u00e1n a flor de piel<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

I know this may sound a little bit funny, but your partner will actually be jealous of your phone. They’ll also feel angry, hurt, and upset.<\/p>\n

I mean, who wouldn’t? After all, they’re being replaced with a simple glass box.<\/p>\n

En resumidas cuentas: Arruinar\u00e1 tu relaci\u00f3n tarde o temprano<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

If you don’t realize your problem in time, your relationship may not be salvageable. Your behavior may make your partner leave you once and for all.<\/p>\n

A nadie le gusta sentirse abandonado, y menos por alguien a quien queremos y apreciamos de verdad.<\/strong>. Don’t allow your smartphone to ruin the closeness between you and your loved one.<\/p>\n

Antes de empezar a trabajar para arreglar y salvar tu relaci\u00f3n, primero debes admitir y aceptar el hecho de que tienes un problema.<\/p>\n

Also, get ready because it might be a bumpy ride, but if you truly love your partner, you’ll know that keeping them by your side is worth everything.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

What is your way of relaxing after a hard day at work? Is it snuggling in front of the fireplace with your loved one, or do you like to drink your favorite beverage while phubbing? Unfortunately, in these modern times, there are more and more people who are choosing the latter option. Phubbing has become…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":122903,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-122900","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/This-Is-How-Phubbing-Ruins-Your-Relationship-Its-Not-If-But-When-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/122900","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=122900"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/122900\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/122903"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=122900"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=122900"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=122900"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}