{"id":12350,"date":"2020-02-16T10:18:36","date_gmt":"2020-02-16T10:18:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12350"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:35:28","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:35:28","slug":"conseguir-que-un-hombre-se-comprometa-usando-psicologia-inversa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/conseguir-que-un-hombre-se-comprometa-usando-psicologia-inversa\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo conseguir que un hombre se comprometa utilizando la psicolog\u00eda inversa"},"content":{"rendered":"

You’ve been in a relationship or an almost relationship for a certain period of time and it seems like time is standing still.<\/p>\n

Has llegado a cierto nivel y se muestra muy reacio a pasar al siguiente.<\/p>\n

He gives you just enough to hold on to and stay by his side but it\u2019s never enough. He clearly has a miedo al compromiso.<\/a><\/p>\n

Los expertos en citas de todo el mundo y yo, como persona que ha pasado por una de estas situaciones, podemos confirmar que utilizar la psicolog\u00eda inversa con los hombres es lo \u00fanico que hace que se comprometan.<\/em><\/b><\/p>\n

It took me a long while and a lot of heartache and pain to discover that I\u2019d been doing it all wrong.<\/p>\n

Puse mi vida en espera de que \u00e9l se liberara de ese miedo al compromiso.<\/p>\n

Esperando, s\u00f3lo consegu\u00ed enviarlo a los brazos de otra persona.<\/p>\n

I don’t blame her, or him for that matter. I just wasn’t up to the task. She knew the secrets of reverse psychology and how to make a man commit and I was clueless.<\/p>\n

Yo era una de esas chicas que pensaba que s\u00f3lo se necesita tiempo, que lo que ocurre escapa a mi control.<\/p>\n

I was so sure that was the right way to go but after all that has happened, I see I couldn’t have been more wrong.<\/p>\n

Para que no repitas mi error, te dir\u00e9 en qu\u00e9 me equivoqu\u00e9 y c\u00f3mo lo correg\u00ed la siguiente vez que tuve ocasi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Aseg\u00farate de elegir al hombre adecuado<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando quise el compromiso del primer chico con el que estuve, no me di cuenta de que nunca fue el tipo adecuado<\/a> for me\u2014commitment or no commitment.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que piensa detenidamente en lo que tu hombre te est\u00e1 aportando y si realmente es alguien con quien quieres que las cosas vayan en serio.<\/p>\n

Busca a alguien que te respete, alguien en quien puedas confiar, alguien que est\u00e9 ah\u00ed para ti y alguien que haga que las horas pasadas juntos parezcan minutos.<\/p>\n

That’s really the short version but those are the basic things to build something real on.<\/p>\n

Dejar de ser demasiado complaciente<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

I was settling for the little things he gave me. Especially time. He was giving me just enough time so I wouldn’t consider other options.<\/p>\n

Conoc\u00eda bien mis l\u00edmites, as\u00ed que se ci\u00f1\u00f3 a ellos, sin traspasarlos nunca. Yo era demasiado suave, demasiado agradable y demasiado asustada para perderlo.<\/p>\n

I should’ve never been scared of losing somebody who wasn\u2019t afraid of losing me. When you show no fear, that’s when things start going your way.<\/p>\n

Aseg\u00farese de que las inversiones son iguales<\/h2>\n

\"primer<\/p>\n

Investing in a relationship shouldn’t be unilateral<\/a>deber\u00eda ir en ambos sentidos.<\/p>\n

Me entregu\u00e9 a \u00e9l en cuerpo y alma y siempre era yo la que daba demasiado. Ese es el mayor problema que tenemos la mayor\u00eda de nosotros.<\/p>\n

We give too much of everything and don’t get anything in return. The thing with applying reverse psychology is that you have to be stronger than yourself. You have to mirror his investment.<\/p>\n

If you have given more from yourself one too many times then it\u2019s time for him to start returning what he has taken for granted.<\/p>\n

Don’t be too available<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Siempre le dedicaba tiempo, sin importar lo que estuviera haciendo en ese momento.<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda que supiera que era la persona m\u00e1s importante de mi vida, pero lo estaba haciendo de la forma equivocada.<\/p>\n

It sends the message that you don’t have a life other than him. And believe me, that’s the worst message you want to send.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, si ya has hecho planes con tus amigos, ve a reunirte con ellos. Nunca pospongas nada porque quieras estar con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Hazle saber que tu tiempo es tan importante como el suyo, que disfrutas pasando tiempo con \u00e9l pero que tambi\u00e9n disfrutas pasando tiempo con tus amigos.<\/p>\n

He won’t be able to resist seeing you as soon as possible after that.<\/p>\n

Es hora de empezar a trabajar en ti mismo<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

I neglected my own personal interests because of him and the worst part is that he didn’t even have to ask me; it was all my own doing.<\/p>\n

Al hacer esto, mat\u00e9 la magia que ten\u00edamos desde el principio. Estaba enviando una vez m\u00e1s el mensaje de que no ten\u00eda vida aparte de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

That’s really sad even now when I think of it. So I got smarter afterwards.<\/p>\n

Me di cuenta de que el camino al coraz\u00f3n del hombre con el que estoy es hacer que mi coraz\u00f3n est\u00e9 lleno. Tengo aficiones. Trabajos voluntarios.<\/p>\n

Una rutina de ejercicios. Incluso me va mejor en mi trabajo. Estoy orgullosa de m\u00ed misma y el hombre que sale conmigo ahora tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1 orgulloso de m\u00ed. Orgullosa y asombrada de todo lo que tengo para mostrar.<\/p>\n

Desh\u00e1gase de sus preocupaciones<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

If you are concentrating on the next step and constantly worrying about what will happen next, you miss out on your relationship. You miss out because you can’t get away from your own head.<\/p>\n

If you keep bringing up the question of commitment all the time, it won’t make him commit any sooner; it will make him run in the opposite direction.<\/p>\n

Aqu\u00ed es donde entra en juego la psicolog\u00eda inversa. Lo mejor que puedes hacer es dejarle espacio y disfrutar de los buenos momentos que pasas con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Don’t hold on to the commitment issue so tightly because what you get will be completely opposite, and that’s not something you want to achieve.<\/p>\n

La psicolog\u00eda inversa funciona si le demuestras que no te est\u00e1s precipitando y hablas muy a la ligera sobre ello o no hablas en absoluto y \u00e9l estar\u00e1 listo para comprometerse por s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n

En resumen, la mejor manera de hacer que se comprometa es ser independiente. Haz cosas por ti mismo.<\/a> Dale espacio y tiempo para que te eche de menos.<\/p>\n

Sure, you are going to let him know that you like spending time with him but don’t make him into someone you have to be compliant with.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t sit around and wait for him to make plans with you. Make your own plans and fit him into your schedule from time to time.<\/p>\n

Tus deseos, sue\u00f1os y anhelos tambi\u00e9n son importantes. Si trabajas en ti misma y tienes tu propia vida adem\u00e1s de tu relaci\u00f3n, conseguir\u00e1s que \u00e9l quiera formar parte de esa vida.<\/p>\n

Commitment won’t scare him when he sees that he is there willingly. If you force it on him he will run because there is no man on this planet who likes to be pushed.<\/p>\n

Cuando utilizas la psicolog\u00eda inversa para ayudarte con el amor o en cualquier otra situaci\u00f3n de la vida, b\u00e1sicamente est\u00e1s haciendo lo contrario para conseguir lo que quieres. <\/strong><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, al dar un paso atr\u00e1s y dejarle espacio, en realidad est\u00e1s progresando y haciendo que se comprometa m\u00e1s f\u00e1cilmente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"C\u00f3mo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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