{"id":12393,"date":"2020-05-16T12:23:24","date_gmt":"2020-05-16T12:23:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12393"},"modified":"2022-02-06T17:25:27","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T17:25:27","slug":"no-puedo-seguir-eligiendo-a-alguien-que-no-elige","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-puedo-seguir-eligiendo-a-alguien-que-no-elige\/","title":{"rendered":"No puedes seguir eligiendo a alguien que no te elige a ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Perm\u00edtame refrescarle la memoria.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa eras la que siempre se preocupaba por \u00e9l. T\u00fa eras la que pon\u00eda tanto empe\u00f1o en vuestra relaci\u00f3n. Fuiste t\u00fa quien aguant\u00f3 todas sus tonter\u00edas. \u00a1Fuiste t\u00fa quien hizo todo lo posible para que funcionara! But it didn’t change a thing. I hope he can sleep knowing that.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Entiendo, siempre habr\u00e1 alguien mejor que nosotros<\/a>. Someone more intelligent, someone more attractive etc, but no one can love him the way you did. No one can do all the things you’ve done for him and yet, he still chose someone else.<\/p>\n

You wanted to stay, but you couldn’t see the reason. Because there was no reason besides his lack of effort that made you choose between him and your own happiness. If it comes to these two, always choose yourself.<\/p>\n

Porque un d\u00eda mirar\u00e1s atr\u00e1s y sonreir\u00e1s porque sabr\u00e1s que has esquivado una bala. Escapaste de una trampa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Imagine if you hadn\u2019t found out about her. The same ‘her’ who ruined your dreams about forever being with that one person. She destroyed your dreams of loving him until the end of days.<\/p>\n

Y fue \u00e9l quien te rompi\u00f3 el coraz\u00f3n en pedacitos porque la eligi\u00f3 a ella antes que a ti.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Why would you even want someone who has to think twice before choosing you? Or the way he did it\u2014he didn’t think twice, he simply chose her.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1l fue tu primer pensamiento? Que nunca lo ibas a recuperar, \u00bfverdad? Pero luego empezaste a pensar y tu coraz\u00f3n dio un vuelco porque te diste cuenta de que lo recuperar\u00edas, porque lo amabas, porque tienes un alma pura.<\/p>\n

But you shouldn’t.<\/p>\n

Too often, love is an excuse to put up with someone’s bullshit, but it’s much, much more than that. Love is knowing that you are worthy of being someone’s priority rather than a choice.<\/strong><\/p>\n

El amor es saber que eres suficiente para alguien que te apreciar\u00e1 de verdad. Amor es la sensaci\u00f3n que tienes cuando alguien te abraza como si nunca fuera a soltarte.<\/strong><\/p>\n

En eso consiste realmente el amor. El amor verdadero y genuino nunca ser\u00e1 otra cosa que eso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Please remember that she is not easier to love than you are. You will be loved by your soulmate so effortlessly and you need to know that there will be someone who won’t let go of you, no matter how many women there are in line just to kiss him.<\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

There will come someone who won’t think twice, because his ONLY choice will be you. Not like the man you just saw walking away with someone who he thought to be a better option, but rather a man who won’t have options, but a priority\u2014which is you.<\/p>\n

You are the person he’s looking forward to meeting, so make space for that man while dejar atr\u00e1s el pasado<\/a> recuerdos y experiencias pasadas.<\/p>\n

Para el hombre que te dej\u00f3<\/a> will never be ready for a woman like you are. You are too kind and generous for him. He didn’t know how to handle you.<\/p>\n

He didn’t think that you were good enough, but you will be more than perfect for someone who knows how to appreciate you.<\/p>\n

So choose life and love over someone who doesn’t even know what loving someone like you looks like. And be patient, my dear. Be patient. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Llegar\u00e1 alguien que te dejar\u00e1 boquiabierto en el momento en que le mires a los ojos y veas la eternidad.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"No<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Let me refresh your memory, may I? You were the one who always cared for him. You were the one putting so much effort into your relationship. You were the one who took all his bullshit. You were the one who did everything you could to make it work! But it didn’t change a thing….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":94032,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12393","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Cant-Keep-Choosing-Someone-Who-Doesnt-Choose-You.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12393","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12393"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12393\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/94032"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12393"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12393"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12393"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}