{"id":124437,"date":"2021-01-18T14:35:37","date_gmt":"2021-01-18T14:35:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=124437"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:09:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:09:05","slug":"cosas-que-hacen-las-chicas-para-alejarlos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cosas-que-hacen-las-chicas-para-alejarlos\/","title":{"rendered":"5 hombres revelan las peque\u00f1as cosas que hacen las chicas para alejarlos de ellos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando me pongo a pensarlo, no aprend\u00ed mucho sobre los hombres de mis novios. Un chico con el que sales nunca ser\u00e1 completamente honesto contigo.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that he\u2019ll go behind your back or deceive you, but he certainly won\u2019t tell you things that could start a fight.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s exactly why toda chica deber\u00eda tener un mejor amigo var\u00f3n<\/a>. He\u2019s the one who will show you the world from a whole different perspective.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But what if you don\u2019t have guy friends? Well, luckily, you have me.<\/p>\n

El otro d\u00eda estaba tomando un caf\u00e9 con unos colegas. Y les pregunt\u00e9 cu\u00e1les son las peque\u00f1as cosas que hacen las chicas para alejarlos, sin ni siquiera ser conscientes de ello.<\/p>\n

Esto es lo que me dijeron:<\/p>\n

Ser una reina del drama<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The number one thing that will make most guys run for their lives is you making a fuss over everything. Of course, you\u2019re allowed to complain about the things bothering you in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, you\u2019re both grownups. So, I\u2019m sure you can find a way to sort things out differently.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t achieve anything if you blow things out of proportion and turn every little dispute into a disaster.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trust me: guys don\u2019t find this behavior charming. Instead, they see you as a spoiled attention-whore.<\/p>\n

Remember: not everything will go your way. Whether you like it or not, if you want to keep a man around, you\u2019ll have to deal with it and act accordingly.<\/p>\n

Asfixiante<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Just because you\u2019re this man\u2019s GF doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ve suddenly become the only person in his life.<\/p>\n

I know that you\u2019re head over heels for your boyfriend, and you probably want to spend every second of your day with him, but smothering him is not the way to keep him around.<\/p>\n

Por el contrario, todos los hombres le dir\u00e1n que la asfixia s\u00f3lo le alejar\u00e1 de una mujer, por mucho que le guste.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, los hombres son muy diferentes a las mujeres. A el chico podr\u00eda estar loco por ti<\/a>...pero sigue necesitando algo de espacio personal y tiempo a solas.<\/p>\n

The last thing he wants is to feel tied down. The moment he notices that you\u2019re trying to ensnare him, he\u2019ll see your behavior as a threat, and he\u2019ll run for his life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, if you want to make any man yours, just let him be. Don\u2019t be too possessive, and he\u2019ll come to you of his own accord.<\/p>\n

Esperando que sea un lector de mentes<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

As much as we would all like them to be, the truth is that men are not mind-readers. No guy can guess what\u2019s going on in your head, nor can he be familiar with your feelings without you saying a word.<\/p>\n

Todos odian que se espere de ellos que sean una especie de magos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Los aleja cuando una chica muestra patrones de comportamiento pasivo-agresivos y cuando les da la callada por respuesta.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tienes que entender que la mayor\u00eda de los hombres son menos perceptivos que las mujeres. Rara vez tienen la capacidad de leer entre l\u00edneas.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, si quieres que tu BF te entienda, verbaliza tus pensamientos, sentimientos y actitudes. S\u00e9 muy clara con tus normas y precisa con tus expectativas si quieres que se cumplan.<\/p>\n

Compartir tus secretos de pareja con tu mejor amiga<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The next thing on the list of things most guys consider a huge turn off is not respecting his privacy. I\u2019m not talking about snooping around your boyfriend\u2019s phone here (even though this is also a big no).<\/p>\n

En su lugar, I\u2019m referring to when you share your relationship secrets with your BFF. I know this is your friend, but she is not his person of trust, so this is something every man will hold against you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Look, there is nothing wrong with talking about your relationship. After all, it\u2019s perfectly normal that you value your best friend\u2019s opinion and that sometimes, you\u2019ll be in need of her advice.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, no guy likes knowing that his girlfriend\u2019s BFF is familiar with all the personal details of his romantic relationship. He won\u2019t be comfortable knowing that this girl is familiar with his bedroom activities, financial records, and deepest emotions.<\/p>\n

B\u00fasqueda constante de validaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

I hate to break it to you, but most guys don\u2019t consider overly insecure girls attractive.<\/p>\n

You can look like a top model and be the smartest woman in the world, but if you don\u2019t have high self-esteem, nobody will even notice you.<\/p>\n

Cuando notan que su autoestima est\u00e1 a punto de ser destruida, las chicas suelen empezar a pedir la validaci\u00f3n constante de su novio.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cAm I pretty enough? Am I interesting to be around? Am I girlfriend material? What would you do if I died \u2013 would you get married again, or would you remain single forever?\u201d<\/p>\n

Even though this list sounds immature and unnecessary when you read it all together, this is just the tip of the iceberg. It\u2019s a sign that you don\u2019t see your worth, and before you know it, your BF will follow your lead<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When I come to think about it, I didn\u2019t learn a lot about men from my boyfriends. A guy you\u2019re dating will never be completely honest with you. I\u2019m not saying that he\u2019ll go behind your back or deceive you, but he certainly won\u2019t tell you things that could start a fight. That\u2019s exactly why…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":124440,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-124437","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/5-Men-Reveal-The-Little-Things-Girls-Do-To-Push-Them-Away-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/124437","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=124437"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/124437\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163631,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/124437\/revisions\/163631"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/124440"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=124437"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=124437"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=124437"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}