{"id":12465,"date":"2020-06-06T08:36:10","date_gmt":"2020-06-06T08:36:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12465"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:11:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:11:23","slug":"ausencia-que-has-ensenado-a-vivir-sin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ausencia-que-has-ensenado-a-vivir-sin\/","title":{"rendered":"En tu ausencia, me has ense\u00f1ado a vivir sin ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

En tu ausencia, me has ense\u00f1ado a vivir sin ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

There was once a time when I couldn\u2019t imagine my life sin ti<\/a> en ella. Hab\u00edas entrado en mi vida e inesperadamente te convertiste en la persona m\u00e1s importante para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Te convertiste en mi mejor amigo<\/a>mi roca, mi consuelo y mi verdad a la realidad. Fuiste mi mayor animadora, diciendo que siempre estar\u00edas ah\u00ed para apoyarme. Cre\u00edste en m\u00ed cuando nadie m\u00e1s lo hac\u00eda, ni siquiera yo misma.<\/p>\n

En tu ausencia, me has ense\u00f1ado a vivir sin ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

I tried not to fall in love with you but I was absolutely powerless to stop. Before I realized the danger zone, I\u2019d fallen so deeply into the ravine of loving you like I\u2019d never loved before.<\/p>\n

Without trying, you had full custody of my heart. Oh, I don\u2019t blame you for the heartbreak I was too blind to see coming. You told me that we were just friends.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You said that you didn\u2019t want a relationship. I just had hope to change your mind and you selfishly encouraged me with my success when you never planned to.<\/p>\n

En tu ausencia, me has ense\u00f1ado a vivir sin ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

I told you that I wasn\u2019t perfect. I knew that I would annoy you sometimes. I knew that compared to you, I was a complete mess.<\/p>\n

But I believed that you had allowed your heart to love me in return and that together we\u2019d find a way to make it work. I never could have imagined the havoc that would be thrown our way from every direction.<\/p>\n

Nunca pude prever los acontecimientos que me arrastrar\u00edan hasta el fondo. Pero nunca pareciste renunciar<\/a> a m\u00ed. Parec\u00edas seguir a mi lado, anim\u00e1ndome a seguir adelante cuando yo quer\u00eda rendirme.<\/p>\n

En tu ausencia, me has ense\u00f1ado a vivir sin ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Mientras todos los dem\u00e1s se daban la vuelta y se alejaban de m\u00ed, t\u00fa estabas all\u00ed para decirme que era su problema y no el m\u00edo.<\/p>\n

Me dijiste que siguiera haciendo lo que ten\u00eda que hacer. Con cada decepci\u00f3n de la que me levantabas, me enamoraba m\u00e1s y m\u00e1s de ti. Me di cuenta de que mi coraz\u00f3n estaba tan destrozado para entonces, pero segu\u00eda creyendo en los milagros y en la magia.<\/p>\n

I believed that I was one step closer to being yours as I found a more positive outlook. I believed that the day of \u2018us\u2019 was just around the corner.<\/p>\n

En tu ausencia, me has ense\u00f1ado a vivir sin ti. <\/b>\u00bfC\u00f3mo iba a ver el d\u00eda en que desapareciste?<\/p>\n

Dijiste que estabas siendo el gran empuj\u00f3n que necesitaba para hacer que las cosas mejoraran en mi vida. Dijiste que segu\u00edas estando ah\u00ed para m\u00ed y que seguir\u00edas estando en mi vida. Sab\u00edas que eras la \u00daNICA persona que ten\u00eda en mi vida.<\/p>\n

El \u00fanico al que pod\u00eda pedir consejo. La \u00fanica a la que pod\u00eda llorar. La \u00fanica con la que pod\u00eda contar. Sab\u00edas cu\u00e1nto te quer\u00eda y necesitabas que me recordaras que deb\u00eda seguir adelante.<\/p>\n

\"Feliz<\/p>\n

In your absence you\u2019ve taught me how to live without you.<\/b><\/p>\n

So in the last month I\u2019ve been doing what I could to bring things to a better state. I\u2019ve been working to get my life back on track. I\u2019ve been trying new ideas and I\u2019ve been scared to try some others.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve thought of solutions I hope will accomplish my goals. But I\u2019ve done it alone. You haven\u2019t been here. You have gone days without communicating with me.<\/p>\n

You know that I cannot go anywhere and you haven\u2019t come to see me.<\/p>\n

When I suggested you come and see me, you avoided the subject. You don\u2019t call to see how I\u2019m doing or how my progress is going.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t call to see if I\u2019m OK. You only call to tell me about your problems or to ask my opinion, even though we both know that you won\u2019t take my advice anyway.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

En tu ausencia, me has ense\u00f1ado a vivir sin ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que ahora s\u00e9 que puedo vivir sin ti<\/a>. Me duele el coraz\u00f3n por los sue\u00f1os que una vez tuve para nosotros. Me sorprendo a m\u00ed mismo queriendo llegar a ti y compartir algo contigo.<\/p>\n

But I then remind myself that you aren\u2019t doing the same with me. And if you really wanted to know if I was OK, then you would ask. If I was important to you, then you would make some effort. Instead, you just abandoned me. Just like everyone else.<\/p>\n

You now only see the negative in me and no longer believe in me. I could ask myself why I should try, if no one, not even you, believes in me and sees my potential. I could ask myself that but I won\u2019t. I won\u2019t ask because I know what I hold inside.<\/p>\n

I know my value and importance. I\u2019m just sad that you can\u2019t. I no longer need validation from you because in your absence, you\u2019ve taught me how to live without you.<\/p>\n

In your absence you\u2019ve taught me how to live without you.<\/b><\/p>\n

For so long, the only thought that went through my head was the incessant question, \u2018\u2019How do I live without you?\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo vivir sin la persona que me ha convertido en la mujer que soy? \u00bfC\u00f3mo vivir sin la persona que me ha formado para ser la mejor versi\u00f3n de m\u00ed misma?<\/p>\n

La que nunca se cansaba de hacerme mejor y siempre me cubr\u00eda las espaldas pasara lo que pasara.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo se acostumbra una persona a vivir sin alguien a quien cre\u00eda su media naranja?<\/p>\n

It was tough. It took me time, I\u2019m not going to lie. I had to stop myself from wondering why, in order to stay sane. It was a roller coaster of emotions\u2026 but I pulled through.<\/p>\n

En tu ausencia, me has ense\u00f1ado a vivir sin ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

Now, instead of torturing myself wondering why you\u2019ve abandoned me, I tell myself that if it was destinado a ser<\/a>, you\u2019d still be here.<\/p>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

God has a funny way of showing me what\u2019s good for me but I choose to believe that I\u2019m on my way to something more meaningful. Something that is going to come into my life, make me happy, and stick by my side come hell or high water.<\/p>\n

Tontamente cre\u00ed que eras mi alma gemela. La \u00fanica persona en este mundo que fue creada para estar a mi lado y cogerme siempre de la mano. La \u00fanica sin la que nunca tendr\u00eda que vivir. Pero me equivoqu\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Now I see that you came into my life to teach me a lesson. That no matter how much love there is and no matter how deeply connected I felt to you\u2026 if it\u2019s not in the cards for us, it\u2019s not going to last.<\/p>\n

It was a tough pill to swallow but that\u2019s what helped me push forward without looking back every two minutes.<\/p>\n

En tu ausencia, me has ense\u00f1ado a vivir sin ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

Hoy acepto lo que ha ocurrido entre nosotros. Acepto que lo que tuvimos fue especial, profundo y m\u00e1gico y que, mientras dur\u00f3, fue un torrente sensacional de sentimientos a trav\u00e9s de mi cuerpo y mi alma.<\/p>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Ya no siento resentimiento ni rabia cuando pienso en ti. Ahora s\u00f3lo siento pena por tu forma de ser.<\/p>\n

See, I\u2019m going to be fine. I\u2019m not going to let this define me, mark me or destroy me.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s going to be rough getting over you with no closure but I\u2019ll be damned if I\u2019m going to let it stop me from living my life.<\/p>\n

You know your reasons for leaving me and you\u2019re the one who needs to live with them. I, on the other hand, have a clear conscience. There is nothing that is troubling me and keeping me from sleeping at night.<\/p>\n

One of these days, I\u2019m going to wake up and you won\u2019t be the first thought that pops into my head. And when that happens, I\u2019m going to know that I\u2019ve made it. You\u2019re no longer somebody whose company I crave, and I\u2019ll finally be free of you.<\/p>\n

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