{"id":124955,"date":"2021-01-22T18:59:28","date_gmt":"2021-01-22T18:59:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=124955"},"modified":"2022-01-16T21:10:31","modified_gmt":"2022-01-16T21:10:31","slug":"como-saber-si-tu-ex-volvera-algun-dia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-saber-si-tu-ex-volvera-algun-dia\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo saber si tu ex volver\u00e1 (y si deber\u00eda)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>After tons of ice cream, binge-watching of romantic movies, secretly hating couples around you, and contemplating texting your ex, you\u2019ll probably get to the point where you\u2019ll start asking yourself: <em>\u00bfC\u00f3mo s\u00e9 si mi ex quiere que vuelva?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Of course, you won\u2019t think about this much if you don\u2019t have feelings for them and if you\u2019ve successfully moved on. After a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/etapas-del-dumper\/\">ruptura<\/a>hay dos resultados posibles:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>a) O sigues adelante<\/p>\n<p>b) No dejas de pensar en volver a estar juntos y te preguntas si ellos sienten lo mismo.<\/p>\n<p>Piensa en las siguientes preguntas:<\/p>\n<p><em>What if your ex secretly wants you back but won\u2019t admit it? What if your ex doesn\u2019t want to get back together but keeps sending you mixed signals and giving you hope for some reason?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>What if you don\u2019t want to get back together, but you\u2019re only curious about whether they miss you?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Demasiados <em>\u00bfY si...?<\/em> I understand completely. Actually, there are so many things you need to think about when it comes to exes. It\u2019s never only one thing like <em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/se-arrepentira-de-perderme-7-senales-de-que-lo-hara-como-hacer-que-lo-haga\/\">\u00bfVolver\u00e1n<\/a>?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Las preguntas m\u00e1s importantes son <em>\u00bfDeber\u00edan volver? \u00bfY realmente quieren volver juntos?<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfSigues sintiendo algo por tu ex o simplemente lo echas de menos?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-124961 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con bufanda gris de pie cerca de la pared\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>En alg\u00fan momento, empezar\u00e1s a hacerte la siguiente pregunta: <em>\u00bfSigo sintiendo algo por mi ex, o s\u00f3lo le echo de menos?<\/em> There\u2019s a huge difference between the two.<\/p>\n<p>After a breakup, it is totally normal to miss the person you\u2019ve been with and created so many memories with.<\/p>\n<p><em>Your first road trip, laughing like careless children, pretending to be foreigners in your own country, kissing passionately during a romantic movie, the feel of their touch\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Estas y todas las dem\u00e1s cosas se han convertido en parte de ti.<\/p>\n<p>You have collected these memories in your mind, and it\u2019s not that easy to get rid of them (unless you\u2019re in the <em>Eterno resplandor de una mente sin recuerdos<\/em> pel\u00edcula, en la que consiguen borrar recuerdos).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lo peor de todo es que no puedes controlar cu\u00e1ndo aparecen esos recuerdos y te recuerdan a tu ex.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Cuando eso ocurre, puedes empezar a pensar que a\u00fan sientes algo por ellos, aunque no sea necesariamente cierto.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Para evitar que esto suceda, debes darte un tiempo para sanar y procesar todo lo que sucedi\u00f3 entre ustedes dos.<\/p>\n<p>Just because you think about them a lot doesn\u2019t mean that you still have feelings for them.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, tienes todo el derecho a empezar a buscar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/signos-ex-quiere-volver-desesperadamente\/\">se\u00f1ales de que tu ex quiere que vuelvas<\/a>, pero esto s\u00f3lo le confundir\u00e1 a\u00fan m\u00e1s si usted mismo no est\u00e1 seguro de querer volver a estar juntos de verdad.<\/p>\n<p>Esto nos lleva a otra pregunta:<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfSigues sintiendo algo por ellos o s\u00f3lo tienes curiosidad por saber si sienten algo por ti?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-124965 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con gafas caminando cerca del agua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If I\u2019ve learned something from all my romantic encounters, it\u2019s the following: <strong>La curiosidad es algo complicado.<\/strong> Nosotros, los seres humanos, tenemos ese poder de enga\u00f1arnos a nosotros mismos haci\u00e9ndonos creer algo que no es cierto.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que pienses que a\u00fan sientes algo por ellos, pero en realidad, puede que s\u00f3lo sientas curiosidad por saber si ellos sienten algo por ti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In that case, you shouldn\u2019t worry too much about whether your ex will ever come back. <\/strong><strong>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because it\u2019s time-consuming and since you\u2019re not genuinely interested in getting back together, there are other more important things you should worry about.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de pensar en lo que piensa tu ex, deber\u00edas centrarte en ti mismo y en el proceso de seguir adelante.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfVolver\u00e1 alguna vez tu ex?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-124967 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada en un banco mirando el agua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is one of the trickiest questions after a breakup. So, there you are, holding your cell phone and thinking about texting your ex just to ask them how they\u2019ve been doing.<\/p>\n<p>As you\u2019re getting ready to hit the send button, anxious thoughts start to occupy your brain.<\/p>\n<p>Is it really wise to send that text message when you\u2019re not sure what exactly is going on in your ex\u2019s head? Indeed, how do you know if <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/15-poderosas-maneras-de-hacer-que-te-quiera-de-nuevo-en-poco-tiempo\/\">tu ex volver\u00e1<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>Uno de los mayores <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/20-senales-definitivas-de-que-tu-ex-acabara-volviendo\/\">se\u00f1ales de que tu ex acabar\u00e1 volviendo<\/a> is the fact that they\u2019re still making an effort to be a part of your life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Si hacen algunas o todas de las siguientes cosas, entonces sabes que tu ex todav\u00eda se preocupa por ti:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Poner excusas para ponerse en contacto contigo<\/li>\n<li>Enviarte mensajes de texto con frecuencia (incluso durante <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-piensa-durante-la-ausencia-de-contacto-6-pensamientos-mas-comunes2\/\">ning\u00fan contacto<\/a>)<\/li>\n<li>Llam\u00e1ndote<\/li>\n<li>Preguntar a sus amigos y familiares sobre usted<\/li>\n<li>They aren\u2019t returning your things<\/li>\n<li>Acosarte en las redes sociales<\/li>\n<li>Admitting that they\u2019re unhappy after the breakup<\/li>\n<li>Mantenerte informado de sus sue\u00f1os, objetivos y planes de futuro.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Let\u2019s be real. If they don\u2019t care about you and are not interested in what\u2019s going on in your life, they wouldn\u2019t try so hard to be a part of it still.<\/p>\n<p>They wouldn\u2019t make silly excuses like: <em>Necesito ayuda para hacer la compra, o necesito que me ayudes con esta tarea en concreto.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>They certainly wouldn\u2019t bother to text you or call you frequently because they would be focused on moving on instead of staying connected with you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Y si siguen preguntando por ti a tus amigos y familiares, puedes estar seguro al cien por cien de que siguen sintiendo algo por ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Otherwise, they wouldn\u2019t bother reaching out to those you\u2019re closest to only to find out a few things about you.<\/p>\n<p>They wouldn\u2019t bother stalking you on social media and following your every move hoping that they will uncover clues you still care about them.<\/p>\n<p>Y por \u00faltimo, pero no por ello menos importante, <strong>they wouldn\u2019t waste their time talking to you about their dreams, goals, and future plans because they would be busy living their own life and focusing only on themselves.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So, yes, if your ex does all or some of these things, you can be sure that they will eventually come back to you, and it\u2019s just a matter of time when.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfTu ex finge haber superado lo tuyo?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-124970 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada a la mesa cerca de una planta seca\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Now, this is where things get a little bit complicated, so I need you to focus on the following. If things were that simple, then we wouldn\u2019t be called humans, right?<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the thing, <strong>tambi\u00e9n hay <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/signos-evidentes-de-que-tu-ex-finge-haberte-olvidado\/\">se\u00f1ales de que tu ex finge haberte olvidado<\/a>, and it\u2019s not that easy to decipher them. Here are some of them:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Siguen intentando ponerte celoso<\/li>\n<li>They\u2019re trying too hard to prove that they are over you<\/li>\n<li>They can\u2019t keep their eyes off you (they also can\u2019t stop texting you)<\/li>\n<li>Preguntar por ti a tus amigos comunes<\/li>\n<li>Acosarte en las redes sociales y en la vida real<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Algunas de estas se\u00f1ales son similares a las de que tu ex acabar\u00e1 volviendo, as\u00ed que debes prestarles mucha atenci\u00f3n para aprender a apuntar a su verdadera intenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You\u2019re probably asking yourself the following right now: <em>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 fingir\u00eda mi ex haber superado lo m\u00edo?<\/em> He aqu\u00ed dos posibles razones:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>a) Perhaps the reason why they are pretending to be over you is that they think you\u2019re over them, so they believe they don\u2019t have a chance at reuniting with you.<\/p>\n<p>b) Piensan que fingir que te han olvidado har\u00e1 que vuelvas a quererles.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve probably noticed how complex this whole situation is, and it is never one answer or one reason but a wide array of them.<\/p>\n<p>Saber qu\u00e9 es lo correcto es una cuesti\u00f3n de proceso y no una decisi\u00f3n instant\u00e1nea.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the last question that you should ask yourself:<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfReunirse con su ex es una buena idea?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-124972 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con abrigo gris de pie sobre la nieve\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you genuinely still care about them and have feelings for them, then yes, it\u2019s a good idea, BUT (there\u2019s always a but) only if you\u2019re on the same page.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no point in getting back together, only to realize that you\u2019re the only one who really cares about reuniting.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Reencontrarse con un ex es una buena idea si ambos miembros de la pareja est\u00e1n dispuestos a trabajar juntos para mejorar su relaci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Si s\u00f3lo una persona hace todo el trabajo y se esfuerza por hacer las cosas bien, entonces reunirse no es una buena idea.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, si uno de los miembros de la pareja es culpable de comportamiento abusivo en el pasado, deber\u00edas pens\u00e1rtelo dos veces antes de volver a estar juntos.<\/p>\n<p>La \u00fanica manera de reencontrarte con \u00e9xito con tu pareja es haciendo un esfuerzo mutuo y trabajando tanto en ti mismo como en tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed sabr\u00e1s que reencontrarte con tu ex es una buena idea (o una mala).<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After tons of ice cream, binge-watching of romantic movies, secretly hating couples around you, and contemplating texting your ex, you\u2019ll probably get to the point where you\u2019ll start asking yourself: How do I know if my ex wants me back? Of course, you won\u2019t think about this much if you don\u2019t have feelings for them&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":124960,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29629],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-124955","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-him-back"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29629,"label":"getting him back"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/How-To-Know-If-Your-Ex-Will-Ever-Come-Back-And-If-They-Should-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29629,"name":"getting him back","slug":"getting-him-back","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29629,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, you need to avoid making the most common mistakes. 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