{"id":125398,"date":"2021-01-25T15:59:58","date_gmt":"2021-01-25T15:59:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=125398"},"modified":"2022-01-12T01:51:46","modified_gmt":"2022-01-12T01:51:46","slug":"salir-con-un-chico-timido-es-un-reto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/salir-con-un-chico-timido-es-un-reto\/","title":{"rendered":"Salir con un chico t\u00edmido es un reto, pero merece la pena"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have a confession to make. For a long time, I thought that shy guys were extremely boring creatures. So, whenever a shy guy asked me on a date, I would make an excuse only to avoid \u201cthe torture\u201d of going out with one.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Y entonces me di cuenta.<\/strong> I realized how foolish I was for not giving shy guys a chance because, let\u2019s be honest, everyone deserves a chance (except players, of course).<\/p>\n<p>My first date with a shy guy was unexpectedly awesome. Okay, it was a little bit awkward for the first few minutes, but later on, everything felt so refreshing and fun. I didn\u2019t need to be convinced to go on a second or third date because I REALLY wanted to and enjoyed every single minute of it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Today I feel it\u2019s my holy duty to spread the word about shy guys being true undiscovered gems!<\/strong><br \/>\nPuede que no hablen mucho, pero cuando lo hacen, pueden hacerte re\u00edr con unas pocas palabras sabiamente elegidas.<\/p>\n<p>Su aura misteriosa es algo tan adictivo que resulta irresistible estar cerca de ellos.<br \/>\nDating a shy guy has so many benefits, but I would be a liar if I told you that you wouldn\u2019t face any challenges.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s hard to decipher if a shy guy likes you, and it takes a lot of time and effort to help them open up to you.<\/p>\n<p>Otra cosa complicada es diferenciar a un chico t\u00edmido de un jugador (porque los jugadores pueden ser realmente astutos). PERO, \u00a1no todas las esperanzas est\u00e1n perdidas!<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re thinking about dating a shy guy (or you\u2019re already dating one), here\u2019s everything you need to know about them!<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfEs un jugador (disfrazado) o un tipo genuinamente agradable que s\u00f3lo es t\u00edmido?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-125402 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/the-man-sits-and-holds-the-phone-in-his-hand.jpg\" alt=\"el hombre se sienta y sostiene el tel\u00e9fono en la mano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/the-man-sits-and-holds-the-phone-in-his-hand.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/the-man-sits-and-holds-the-phone-in-his-hand-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/the-man-sits-and-holds-the-phone-in-his-hand-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/the-man-sits-and-holds-the-phone-in-his-hand-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/the-man-sits-and-holds-the-phone-in-his-hand-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/the-man-sits-and-holds-the-phone-in-his-hand-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/the-man-sits-and-holds-the-phone-in-his-hand-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/the-man-sits-and-holds-the-phone-in-his-hand-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s difficult to differentiate between a shy guy and a legit player because they have one thing in common: <strong>Ambos dan se\u00f1ales contradictorias.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s say that you meet a nice guy and notice that he has difficulty opening up to you. If he\u2019s a player, he could easily pretend that he has trust issues or that he\u2019s a shy guy who needs more time to feel comfortable around you.<\/p>\n<p>Or he could be a genuinely nice guy who is just shy. It\u2019s hard to decipher their intentions and make valid conclusions about their personality.<\/p>\n<p>But there are some things that are specific to every shy guy out there. If you notice that he\u2019s doing these things, know that these are legit<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-senales-de-que-estas-tratando-con-un-chico-timido\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">se\u00f1ales de que est\u00e1s tratando con un chico t\u00edmido<\/span><\/a> (y no un jugador):<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 He prefers texting over calling<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 He doesn\u2019t tell you much about himself (in the beginning)<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 He doesn\u2019t enjoy public displays of affection too much<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 He\u2019s a true gentleman<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 He puts a lot of effort into being romantic in his own way<\/p>\n<p>Remember that shy guys aren\u2019t like other guys out there. They have a specific personality and require time and patience to get to know them better.<\/p>\n<p>At first, you might think that they aren\u2019t interested in you because they have difficulty showing their.<\/p>\n<p>Pero, despu\u00e9s de alg\u00fan tiempo, te dar\u00e1s cuenta de lo intrigante que es realmente su mentalidad.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfC\u00f3mo saber si le gustas a un chico t\u00edmido?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-125404 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre y una mujer hablan\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Otro reto cuando se trata de chicos t\u00edmidos es c\u00f3mo saber si les gustas o no. De hecho, \u00bfc\u00f3mo sabes que est\u00e1n interesados en ti cuando realmente no lo demuestran y no te lo dicen?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m too afraid to imagine how many romances failed before they even started because a girl couldn\u2019t read between the lines and realize that a shy guy liked her.<\/p>\n<p>Eso puede ser frustrante tanto para los chicos t\u00edmidos como para sus chicas potenciales. Entonces, \u00bfc\u00f3mo puedes saber si le gustas a un chico t\u00edmido?<\/p>\n<p><strong>La forma m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil de entender lo que les pasa por la cabeza es prestar atenci\u00f3n a su lenguaje corporal y a estos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/le-gustas-a-un-timido\/\"><b>se\u00f1ales de que le gustas a un chico t\u00edmido<\/b><\/a><b>:<\/b><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 He looks at you A LOT (when you\u2019re not looking)<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 He has difficulty creating meaningful sentences in your presence<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 He\u2019s extra clumsy around you<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 He goes out of his way to please you (and be at your service)<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 He listens to you carefully<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 He showers you with likes on social media<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 His friends tease him about having (a secret) crush on you<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 He tries hard to impress you<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 He has difficulty locking eyes with you<\/p>\n<p>Hay muchas otras se\u00f1ales de que le gustas a un chico t\u00edmido, pero \u00e9stas son las m\u00e1s comunes, as\u00ed que aseg\u00farate de prestarles mucha atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Now, if you\u2019re having second thoughts about whether you should date a shy guy (or not), here is my humble experience with shy guys.<\/p>\n<h2>En mi opini\u00f3n, \u00a1los t\u00edmidos son los nuevos guapos!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-125412 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre y una mujer se paran y hablan\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-stand-and-talk-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve had my fair share of dealing with players and other types of toxic men, so maybe that\u2019s the main reason why I\u2019m a firm believer that shy guys are the new hot. Whatever it be, I know that I\u2019ll never look at them the same way I used to.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you\u2019re still a little bit skeptical about the nature of shy guys (like the old me), I\u2019ll do my best to explain their peculiar personality in detail.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>At first, you might think that there\u2019s nothing interesting going on in their minds, and spending time with them equals ultimate boredom. After some time, you will realize how mysterious, humble, and down to earth they are.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s truly impressive how their minds work and how they always manage to say the right thing at the right time.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s nothing more exciting in the whole world than revealing their enigmatic personalities bit by bit. There is so much you can learn from them and about them, trust me on this.<\/p>\n<p>So, if you ask me, shy guys are DEFINITELY the new hot. Their inspiring perspectives and enticing personalities are things that can capture any girl\u2019s heart, only if she decides to give them a chance. So, will you give him a chance?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Si lo desea, aqu\u00ed tiene algunas <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/salir-con-un-chico-timido\/\"><b>cosas que debes tener en cuenta al salir con un chico t\u00edmido<\/b><\/a><b>:<\/b><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 Focus on asking him open-ended questions.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you ask a shy guy questions that can be answered with a simple \u201cYes\u201d or \u201cNo,\u201d you will not establish meaningful communication with him. Instead, focus on asking him interesting open-ended questions. These questions can be about shared interests, things he likes, his childhood, hobbies, etc.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-125479 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre y una mujer hablando con un caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-talking-over-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 Find some common interests.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The easiest way to bond with a shy guy is by finding common interests (I\u2019ve realized this the hard way). Think about all the things that you could have in common. It could be anything from your favorite sweets to movies.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, the goal is to find one thing that you\u2019re both passionate about because this will tell a shy guy that you\u2019re just like him (well, to a certain extent).<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 Stick to his preferred method of communication.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No shy guy ever would be pleased with talking to you over the phone. Mostly, their preferred method of communication is via text, so you should stick to it. Don\u2019t force him to call or, God forbid, video call you because this could make him feel uncomfortable and scared.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 Don\u2019t rush introducing him to your friends and family.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t rush with introducing a shy guy to your friends and family because that might scare him off. Keep in mind that meeting new people is a real challenge for them because they have difficulties opening up.<\/p>\n<p>Intentar impresionar a tus amigos y padres y, al mismo tiempo, lidiar con sus pensamientos ansiosos puede resultar agotador para ellos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 The GOLDEN RULE of dating a shy guy: Always give him enough space.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Los t\u00edmidos necesitan su espacio m\u00e1s que nada en el mundo. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nunca-obligues-a-nadie-a-hablar-contigo\/\">Don\u2019t force them to talk to you<\/a> when you see that they\u2019re not interested in it at that moment. Don\u2019t force them to do anything if you know that they\u2019re not comfortable with it.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the golden rule when it comes to mastering the art of dating a shy guy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 Don\u2019t pressure him to open up to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Si crees que presionando a un chico t\u00edmido conseguir\u00e1s que se abra a ti, pi\u00e9nsalo otra vez. El \u00fanico resultado de presionarlo ser\u00e1 ahuyentarlo.<\/p>\n<p>Los chicos t\u00edmidos necesitan tiempo para sentirse c\u00f3modos compartiendo cosas contigo, y una vez que se sientan c\u00f3modos a tu lado, te dejar\u00e1n entrar en su mundo m\u00e1gico. Adem\u00e1s, te agradecer\u00e1n que les des tiempo para poner en orden sus sentimientos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 NEVER share things he tells you in confidence.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Once you betray a shy guy\u2019s trust, the game is over, and I truly mean it. Earning their trust and helping them open up to you is a challenge in itself.<\/p>\n<p>So, if they find out that what they\u2019ve told you in secret has been shared with other people, they will instantly become reserved again. Be smart and never share things he tells you in confidence (this applies to other non-shy people as well).<\/p>\n<h2><em>\u201cI can\u2019t take my eyes off you unless, of course, you notice me. Then I\u2019ll quickly look away and act like it never happened.\u201d<\/em> \u2013 Unknown<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-125415 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-look-at-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre y una mujer se miran\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-look-at-each-other.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-look-at-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-look-at-each-other-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-look-at-each-other-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-look-at-each-other-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-look-at-each-other-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-look-at-each-other-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/a-man-and-a-woman-look-at-each-other-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Es muy probable que esta cita la haya escrito un t\u00edmido.<\/p>\n<p><strong>As\u00ed que la pregunta es:<\/strong> \u00bfDejar\u00e1s que un chico t\u00edmido te admire en secreto mientras se muere lentamente por decirte cu\u00e1nto le gustas?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfO tomar\u00e1s t\u00fa la iniciativa y le animar\u00e1s a que se abra a ti?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have a confession to make. For a long time, I thought that shy guys were extremely boring creatures. So, whenever a shy guy asked me on a date, I would make an excuse only to avoid \u201cthe torture\u201d of going out with one. And then it struck me. I realized how foolish I was&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":125400,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-125398","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/Dating-A-Shy-Guy-Is-Challenging-But-Totally-Worth-It-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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