{"id":12547,"date":"2020-07-17T14:06:08","date_gmt":"2020-07-17T14:06:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12547"},"modified":"2022-06-25T10:28:43","modified_gmt":"2022-06-25T10:28:43","slug":"cierre-ex-se-niega-a-hablar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cierre-ex-se-niega-a-hablar\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo cerrar el c\u00edrculo cuando tu ex se niega a hablar contigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Al final de una historia, uno pensar\u00eda que al menos merece una explicaci\u00f3n de por qu\u00e9 las cosas acabaron como acabaron.<\/p>\n

And you ask yourself, \u201cAfter all I gave him, did I deserve to go through the silent treatment? Why doesn\u2019t he want to talk to me?\u201d And then the more he doesn\u2019t want to talk to you, the more you feel like you need closure.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s kind of natural for us humanos para buscar un cierre<\/a>. It\u2019s kind of normal for us to want to end one story and to be able to wrap our head around why some things ended the way they did.<\/p>\n

We just need to know why something happens, but the problem comes when this one person who is able to give you an explanation doesn\u2019t actually want to talk to you.<\/p>\n

So, what do you do when your ex won\u2019t talk to you?<\/strong><\/p>\n

When your ex doesn\u2019t want to talk to you, it\u2019s time for you to start realizing certain things.<\/p>\n

Firstly, you\u2019re going after someone who thinks you don\u2019t deserve a simple explanation.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re going after someone who wants you to be the last one to let go so that he could be able to say he was the one who cared less. Obviously, that\u2019s something he\u2019s proud of.<\/p>\n

Secondly, you\u2019ll be clinging to your past if you continue to seek closure from a person who actually isn\u2019t willing to give you any.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll appear as a crazy girl who\u2019s desperately wanting to hear from her ex-boyfriend. You\u2019ll appear as a girl who comes up with all kinds of excuses just to talk to her ex.<\/p>\n

You’ll obsess over whether he’s just pretending to be over you<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Por \u00faltimo, tienes que dejar de buscar el cierre en los lugares equivocados.<\/strong> Tu paz es m\u00e1s importante que la necesidad de escuchar lo que sali\u00f3 mal de alguien que te abandon\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

De alguien que no tuvo la decencia de luchar y esforzarse lo suficiente por esa \u00fanica persona que realmente le quer\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Remember, you\u2019re the only one who needs closure. So if you\u2019re the only one who needs it, then you\u2019re only who can give you it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to say is that you\u2019ll need to be the one to close the doors on a failed relationship. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but because the doors otherwise simply lead nowhere.<\/p>\n

Even if you deserve an explanation, this doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re actually going to get one. The worst thing you can do is let the unfinished stories of the past stop you from living your life.<\/p>\n

Lo peor que puedes hacer es dejar que el pasado interfiera en tu futuro.<\/p>\n

La mejor venganza es seguir adelante, superarlo y seguir triunfando. Nunca des a nadie la satisfacci\u00f3n de verte sufrir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Looking for closure from a person who doesn\u2019t want to talk to you is a joke. The only apology you need is the one you owe yourself for staying as long as you did.<\/p>\n

La \u00fanica conversaci\u00f3n que necesitas tener es contigo y la \u00fanica persona que necesitas volver a ver es la persona del espejo.<\/p>\n

No one likes to be ignored, and no one likes to not get answers to their questions. But what you have to learn is that any answer you are so desperate to get won\u2019t change anything, and it may or may not be the truth anyway.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que, a menos que te sueltes, a menos que te perdonas a ti mismo<\/a>A menos que perdones la situaci\u00f3n y te des cuenta de que se ha acabado, no podr\u00e1s seguir adelante.<\/p>\n

1. Reconoce que hiciste todo lo que pudiste<\/h2>\n

\"FotoWhat\u2019s done is done. If your ex doesn\u2019t want to talk to you, then stop chasing after him. Stop wanting him to do anything. Remember that you did all you could but even that wasn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n

Al final del d\u00eda, recuerda lo que te mereces y que normalmente las cosas que llegan a su fin nunca debieron ser en primer lugar.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: Las 98 mejores \u00faltimas palabras para una ex (sea cual sea la situaci\u00f3n)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

2. Piensa en lo que te mereces<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Always know that you deserve much more than a man who doesn\u2019t pick up the phone when you call.<\/p>\n

You deserve a man who\u2019ll respect your feelings even when your story comes to an end.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve someone who\u2019ll you\u2019ll need to chase<\/a> so if he isn\u2019t ready to give you what you need, let him go.<\/p>\n

Encuentra lo que necesitas en otra parte, encuentra tu cierre en ti mismo.<\/p>\n

3. Olv\u00eddate de su validaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"Hermosa<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need him to give you closure so that you\u2019d be able to validate your relationship.<\/p>\n

What happened was real, you should be able to realize this at least based on the pain you\u2019re feeling now.<\/p>\n

Lo que pas\u00f3 est\u00e1 escrito en tu coraz\u00f3n y ninguna \u00faltima palabra de un hombre podr\u00e1 cambiarlo.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: C\u00f3mo vengarte de tu ex: 12 maneras probadas de hacerlo<\/a><\/p>\n

4. Piensa con qu\u00e9 tipo de persona quieres estar<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

When you think about it, you\u2019ll see that the person you want to be with has a completely different personality to the one you\u2019ve been with. And this should help you to get your closure.<\/p>\n

Because you\u2019ll see that not only will you not be wanting a new start with the person who already hurt you once, but that you should be the one cutting all the strings.<\/p>\n

5. Perd\u00f3nate a ti mismo y perd\u00f3nale a \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Lo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil es perd\u00f3nalo<\/a> for all the pain you\u2019ve been through. But sometimes that\u2019s the only thing that will help you move on.<\/p>\n

Forgive him for treating you the way he did. Forgive yourself for how long you\u2019ve been holding onto something that was just breaking you. But don\u2019t ever forget.<\/p>\n

Keep what you\u2019ve been through at the back of your mind so you have something to remind you about the hell you\u2019ve been through once he reaches out to you again.<\/p>\n

\u00bfY c\u00f3mo saber si realmente va a intentar volver a tu vida? Pues porque siempre lo hacen.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: \u00bfMe echa de menos ahora que le he dejado solo?<\/a><\/p>\n

6. Seguir adelante<\/h2>\n

\"Hermosa<\/p>\n

Always try to think about those things that you\u2019re grateful for in your life. Learn to stop holding onto negativity once it walks out of your life.<\/p>\n

Corta los lazos con todo lo que te recuerde a los d\u00edas malos o que te recuerde a las personas que te hicieron da\u00f1o. Y, lo m\u00e1s importante, ten paciencia.<\/p>\n

Date tiempo para curarte y para acostumbrarte a ese cap\u00edtulo de tu vida que ha terminado.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: 10 se\u00f1ales inequ\u00edvocas de que tu ex quiere volver contigo (pero no lo admite)<\/a><\/p>\n

\"C\u00f3mo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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