Is cheating a decision made in a split second or a process that consists of many underlying issues in a relationship? What exactly happens in a cheater\u2019s mind?<\/em><\/p>\n I\u2019m not one of those people who take sides and blame one party for being bad or glorify the other for being victims.<\/p>\n I believe that there\u2019s a reason for every action, and yes, cheating sucks and cannot be justified no matter how sorry the person is (if they\u2019re sorry at all).<\/p>\n Hay muchas razones por las que alguien decide enga\u00f1ar a su pareja.<\/p>\n They might be bored with their current relationship, want attention, or not know what they want (that\u2019s the most confusing reason of all).<\/p>\n Sea cual sea la raz\u00f3n, una cosa es segura: People usually decide to cheat on their partner because they crave something that\u2019s missing in their current relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n Puede ser cualquier cosa (falta de esfuerzo, de atenci\u00f3n, de afecto, de espontaneidad, etc.).<\/p>\n The biggest mistake of cheating individuals is refusing to talk to their partner about how they could improve their relationship (there\u2019s a reason for that too).<\/p>\n The main reason they \u201crefuse\u201d to talk to their partner about what\u2019s missing in their relationship is that they\u2019re not even aware of it (that something\u2019s missing) until they find it in another person.<\/p>\n This may sound like a vicious cycle, but it is nothing that can\u2019t be solved with regular open and honest communication, which is the basis of every healthy and happy relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n To help you better understand what\u2019s really going on inside a cheating person\u2019s head and the whole process of it, here are some interesting HECHOS sobre el enga\u00f1o y<\/strong> cosas que todas las parejas infieles tienen en com\u00fan<\/b><\/a>:<\/p>\n \u2022 Every cheater is overly protective of their cell phone<\/p>\n \u2022 Men cheat more than women (sorry guys)<\/p>\n \u2022 (Most) cheaters feel insecure in their current relationship<\/p>\n \u2022 Cheating partners tend to flirt with everyone around them<\/p>\n \u2022 A lack of intimacy is the first se\u00f1al de que su pareja podr\u00eda estar enga\u00f1\u00e1ndole<\/a> en ti<\/p>\n \u2022 Cheating partners don\u2019t think the affair partner is \u2018better\u2019 but instead \u2018different\u2019 than their current partner<\/p>\n \u2022 Narcissistic individuals are more likely to cheat<\/p>\n \u2022 Criticizing you is their way of trying to draw attention away from their bad behavior<\/p>\n \u2022 Cheating happens mostly when drunk<\/p>\n \u2022 Unhappy marriages and relationships lead to cheating<\/p>\n De todos los datos anteriores sobre parejas infieles<\/a>...tengo la necesidad de llamar la atenci\u00f3n sobre \u00e9ste: Cheating partners don\u2019t think the affair partner is \u2018better\u2019 than their current partner.<\/strong><\/p>\n Esto es lo que piensan la mayor\u00eda de las parejas que han sido enga\u00f1adas.<\/p>\n Pierden la confianza en s\u00ed mismos y se convencen de que su pareja piensa que no son lo suficientemente buenos y que el compa\u00f1ero sentimental es mejor que ellos en todos los aspectos.<\/p>\n This is not true at all. Cheating partners don\u2019t think that their affair partner is better than you, but they see them as different from you.<\/p>\n There\u2019s a huge difference between the two.<\/p>\n S\u00e9 que esto no es muy reconfortante, pero saberlo seguro que es beneficioso para tu autoestima.<\/p>\n Puede que te enga\u00f1en, pero nunca dejes que destruyan tu confianza.<\/p>\n The basis of understanding a cheater\u2019s nature is knowing their coping mechanisms after their sinful act.<\/p>\n Culpar a los dem\u00e1s es sin duda su juego favorito.<\/p>\n Rarely will you see a cheater admitting that they\u2019ve made a mistake (if it can even be called so) and that they\u2019re sorry for it.<\/p>\n Normalmente, siguen siendo infieles mientras t\u00fa no sepas nada.<\/p>\n Once you confront them about their cheating nature, they enter blame-shifting mode, or they pretend that nothing is going on and you\u2019re just being paranoid.<\/strong><\/p>\n This can be really confusing and frustrating, but that\u2019s just how their mind operates when you start suspecting that they\u2019re doing something behind your back or when you have proof of them being unfaithful.<\/p>\n Instead of admitting that they\u2019re guilty of cheating, they will focus on finding ways to make you feel at fault instead.<\/p>\n Lo hacen para evitar ser el centro de atenci\u00f3n. Quieren desesperadamente que la atenci\u00f3n se centre en ti y no en ellos.<\/p>\n \u00c9stos son algunos cosas frustrantes que dicen los infieles cuando se les confronta<\/b><\/a>acompa\u00f1ado de mis humildes comentarios entre par\u00e9ntesis:<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cYou don\u2019t trust me!<\/em>\u201d (Hell, no.)<\/p>\n \u201cFue algo puntual.<\/em>\u201d (Yeah, sure.)<\/p>\n \u201cIt didn\u2019t mean anything to me.<\/em>\u201d (That still doesn\u2019t change the fact that you\u2019re a cheater.)<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s not what it looks like.<\/em>\u201d (I\u2019m pretty sure that all these calls and texts are not from your grandma and that constantly staying late at work is not a pure coincidence.)<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m not happy anymore.<\/em>\u201d (Well, you could have said that earlier.)<\/p>\n \u201cI did it because we weren\u2019t having enough sex.<\/em>\u201d (Well, you could have addressed the issue earlier.)<\/p>\n \u201c\u00a1Se me insinu\u00f3!<\/em>\u201d (A stranger on the street also came on to me, but that didn\u2019t mean I needed to follow them into their apartment.)<\/p>\n \u201cEso ocurri\u00f3 hace mucho tiempo. Ahora las cosas son diferentes.<\/em>\u201d (Even if it happened five years ago, it still doesn\u2019t change the fact that you\u2019re a cheater.)<\/p>\n \u201cI didn\u2019t want to hurt you.<\/em>\u201d (Too late for that now, wouldn\u2019t you agree?)<\/p>\n Otro juego favorito de los tramposos es hacerse la v\u00edctima.<\/p>\n It\u2019s when they are so desperate to present themselves as poor creatures who didn\u2019t know what they were doing or who were bewitched by their affair partner.<\/p>\n Tratar con un infiel que se hace la v\u00edctima puede ser un reto, pero como todo, es algo que se puede dominar.<\/p>\n Aqu\u00ed est\u00e1n los mejores formas de tratar a un infiel que se hace la v\u00edctima<\/b><\/a>:<\/strong><\/p>\n \u2022 Make sure they know that nothing justifies cheating.<\/strong><\/p>\n Just because they were feeling bored at the time doesn\u2019t mean that cheating was the right option.<\/p>\n Or just because they were lacking something in your relationship doesn\u2019t mean it was okay to cheat on you.<\/p>\n Nada justifica las trampas, porque hay muchas formas de resolver los problemas sin trampas.<\/p>\n \u2022 Tell them how you feel about this whole thing.<\/strong><\/p>\n Often cheaters don\u2019t even know how you\u2019re feeling about the whole thing until you tell them.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que hazles saber c\u00f3mo te han hecho sentir sus enga\u00f1os.<\/p>\n \u2022 Ask them how they would feel if you were the one cheating on them.<\/strong><\/p>\n Para ayudarles a comprender las consecuencias de sus actos, haz que tu pareja infiel invierta sus papeles.<\/p>\n Preg\u00fantales c\u00f3mo se sentir\u00edan si estuvieran en tu lugar. Su respuesta podr\u00eda sorprenderte.<\/p>\n \u2022 Let them see the evidence (if you have any).<\/strong><\/p>\n The moment they are faced with evidence, cheaters automatically stop playing the victim because there\u2019s nothing they can do or lie about to justify their behavior.<\/p>\n I call this \u2018the priceless moment of truth.\u2019<\/p>\nDentro de la mente de un tramposo<\/h2>\n
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