{"id":12564,"date":"2018-01-17T14:12:20","date_gmt":"2018-01-17T14:12:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12564"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:09:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:09:09","slug":"me-cambiaste-despues-de-todo-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/me-cambiaste-despues-de-todo-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Despu\u00e9s de todo, me has cambiado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No me di cuenta en ese momento, pero yo era una presa f\u00e1cil, y t\u00fa eras un depredador.<\/p>\n<p>Like a moth to a flame, you were drawn to me. To my new-found freedom, the new-found peace and calm and happiness that radiated from me, and you needed it. Because you didn\u2019t have any of those qualities of your own.<\/p>\n<p>Sab\u00edas exactamente c\u00f3mo bailar a mi alrededor, revoloteando, tom\u00e1ndote tu tiempo, d\u00e1ndome espacio, mostr\u00e1ndome y demostr\u00e1ndome que eras todo lo que hab\u00eda so\u00f1ado, y que yo era la persona que hab\u00edas pasado toda tu vida buscando.<\/p>\n<p>Antes hab\u00eda recorrido un camino tan infeliz que todo a tu alrededor y al nuestro brillaba como diamantes en el cielo. El brillo era tan intenso que hac\u00eda dif\u00edcil ver cada grieta en la falsa superficie del espejo que eras, hasta que hubo tantas grietas, que toda tu fachada se rompi\u00f3 y por fin pude verte como lo que eras, y todo lo que nunca ser\u00edas.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-tipos-de-personalidad-toxica-evite-las-citas\/\">Eres t\u00f3xico<\/a>y peligroso para todos los que te rodean. Usted es una c\u00e1scara de un ser humano, y nunca ser\u00e1 un alma completa; que son s\u00f3lo en su mayor\u00eda el vac\u00edo, y fingir impresiones.<\/p>\n<p>Pero si no conoces nada m\u00e1s en esta vida, por favor, conoce esto:<\/p>\n<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><b>You may have temporarily broken me, but you didn\u2019t destroy me.<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Ya no me importas.<\/p>\n<p>De hecho, desear\u00eda desconocer por completo su existencia en esta tierra.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que no hay palabras que pueda escribir o pronunciar que puedan afectarte. Ver\u00e1s, para que eso ocurriera, tendr\u00edas que ser al menos en parte humano, y por el rastro de dolor y destrucci\u00f3n que has dejado por todo este mundo, es obvio que no lo eres. No hay sentimientos de remordimiento o arrepentimiento, no hay empat\u00eda por tus acciones. Simplemente eres malvado.<\/p>\n<h1 style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><b>\u2018Be Careful Who You Trust, The Devil Was Once An Angel\u2019.<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Of course, I think about what I would say to you, if given the opportunity. You always told me I had a way with words that you had never experienced before. You hadn\u2019t even experienced half of what I would say about you, to you, or around you. The truth is, it doesn\u2019t matter. It would never change anything that happened between us, nor will it change how you treat people in the future.<\/p>\n<h1 style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><b>Si hubiera algo que pudiera decirte, ser\u00eda esto:<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Lo \u00fanico que me has dado es saber ahora, con seguridad,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/christine-hassler\/dealing-with-regret_b_2265065.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">lo que realmente es el arrepentimiento.<\/a>\u00a0I thought I knew before, but I was completely clueless. I had no idea I could be so angry at myself. I thought I was as strong as all the quotes and memes I had saved and inspired to be, but I learned I wasn\u2019t.\u00a0<b><i>Pero lo estar\u00e9.\u00a0<\/i><\/b>Gracias a ti, ahora hay un fuego en m\u00ed para cambiar el mundo y c\u00f3mo te perciben a ti y a los que son como t\u00fa. Es una llama que nunca se apagar\u00e1.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><b>No es mejor haber amado y perdido que no haber amado nunca.<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>If I could take every moment, every emotion, every tear I ever wasted on you, I would. If I could wipe the memory of you away from the children\u2019s heads and hearts, I am pretty sure I would sell my own soul to do that. I will get through life. You have shown me that; look at you, happy and going on as if you have never done anything or anyone wrong, and you yourself have no soul. I would give mine up, to take it all back, EVERY SINGLE BIT OF IT.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que haya estado rota durante un corto periodo de tiempo, y t\u00fa me cambiaste, una parte de m\u00ed, para siempre, pero ahora soy alguien que sabe que hay un nivel de enga\u00f1o de mentiras, y proyecciones imaginarias de uno mismo, que nunca supe que fuera humanamente posible. Por tu culpa, perd\u00ed la confianza en m\u00ed misma, y mi juicio sobre qui\u00e9n merece mi bondad, mi confianza, mi perd\u00f3n, y mi af\u00e1n por ayudar a alguien a trav\u00e9s de esta cosa llamada vida.<\/p>\n<p>Although it is my career of choice, I have learned that\u00a0it is not my job to fix everyone in my path.<\/p>\n<p>No eres m\u00e1s que un espejo. No tienes identidad propia, y te compadezco por ello. S\u00f3lo has conseguido reflejar los deseos de la persona a la que manipulas y utilizas. Ya ni siquiera te llamar\u00eda hombre, pues un hombre de verdad nunca tratar\u00eda a la gente como t\u00fa lo haces. Eres simplemente un humano gen\u00e9ticamente masculino.<\/p>\n<p>En un tiempo pens\u00e9 que eras todo lo que nunca conoc\u00ed y con lo que siempre hab\u00eda so\u00f1ado. Y lo eras, pero no eran sue\u00f1os de amor y felicidad; resultaste no ser m\u00e1s que una pesadilla.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que enhorabuena, has ganado, me has roto, has destruido parte de m\u00ed y me has cambiado. Esta presa se convertir\u00e1 en depredador, y si t\u00fa o alguien como t\u00fa vuelve a cruzarse en mi camino, que sepas que te destruir\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p><b>I hope God forgives you for everything you have done, because I know that I never will\u2026. Again.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><strong>by\u00a0Kimberly Ponder<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I didn\u2019t realize it at the time, but I was easy prey, and you were a predator. Like a moth to a flame, you were drawn to me. To my new-found freedom, the new-found peace and calm and happiness that radiated from me, and you needed it. 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