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<\/p>\nAunque estemos a kil\u00f3metros de distancia y aunque no me conozcas, estamos tan cerca y unidos en nuestro dolor.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
I know how you feel every single day. I know that you are the one who wants this relationship to work out but darling, you can\u2019t be the only one trying.<\/p>\n
Sooner or later you will be fed up with all his stupid excuses and his reasons why he doesn\u2019t give you the love you need. I know that because I have been there.<\/p>\n
Just like you, I was once in love with a man who didn\u2019t give a damn about me. And I was the one who was trying so hard for us to make it . <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
I was the one who would buy the peace in our home, paying for it with my tears. I was the one who was lighting a fire in our bedroom when he didn\u2019t want to sleep with me. And most of all, I was the one who loved him more than he loved me.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
I was the girl who was so easy to love\u2014the one who deserved everything but in the end, got nothing. And that fact broke my heart. It took me so much time to recover and to pick myself up again.<\/p>\n
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It was a long process and I had to go through it all alone while he was seeking another victim. I couldn\u2019t believe that someone who swore his love to me could do that to me.<\/p>\n
I couldn\u2019t believe that he treated me like shit all the time and I just thought that it was just a phase and that he would change.<\/p>\n
Porque la gente cambia cuando ama, pero supongo que \u00e9l nunca me am\u00f3.<\/i><\/b> S\u00f3lo acud\u00eda a m\u00ed cuando las cosas se pon\u00edan feas. Yo era la que le conven\u00eda en ese momento. Y \u00e9l lo sab\u00eda muy bien.<\/p>\n
Pod\u00eda verlo por la forma en que le miraba cuando est\u00e1bamos solos. Pod\u00eda sentirlo por la forma en que tocaba su cuerpo cuando dorm\u00eda.<\/p>\n
Pod\u00eda sentirlo por la forma en que le besaba. Pod\u00eda sentirlo por el fuerte latido de mi coraz\u00f3n cuando se recostaba sobre mis pechos.<\/p>\n
Pero aunque supiera todas esas cosas, nunca me dio lo que tanto ansiaba. S\u00f3lo fue un hombre que me hizo aprender una lecci\u00f3n de vida de una forma dura.<\/p>\n
Era un hombre que me golpeaba hasta la muerte emocional, sin dejar nada para los dem\u00e1s que iban a entrar en mi vida. Con \u00e9l, estaba totalmente agotada, sin ning\u00fan sentimiento de felicidad interior que tuviera antes.<\/p>\n
Con \u00e9l, me perd\u00ed porque estaba tan preocupada por las cosas que \u00e9l quer\u00eda que hiciera...<\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n
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Con \u00e9l, me volv\u00ed c\u00f3modamente insensible y, en alg\u00fan punto del camino, aprend\u00ed a vivir as\u00ed. Pero un d\u00eda me vi en el espejo y me sorprendi\u00f3 el reflejo que hab\u00eda en \u00e9l.<\/p>\n
I couldn\u2019t even recognize myself anymore. I looked like a ghost wearing a tracksuit two sizes larger, with greasy hair and dark rings under my eyes.<\/p>\n
My lips were pale just like my skin and my eyes barely opened. There wasn\u2019t that sparkle in my eyes anymore and there wasn\u2019t a smile on my lips. I was just a shell of the girl I once was and I didn\u2019t like anything about that.<\/p>\n
Esa fue mi llamada de atenci\u00f3n y supe que ten\u00eda que hacer algo con mi vida. As\u00ed que lo dej\u00e9, aunque eso me desgarrara el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n
Tuve que dejarlo porque no hab\u00eda nada m\u00e1s a lo que aferrarse. <\/i><\/b> Y aunque fuera el peor momento de mi vida, nunca me arrepentir\u00e9 porque ese d\u00eda me salv\u00e9 de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n
So, now while I am telling my story to you, I know that you are going through all the same shit I have been through and I don\u2019t want you to mess up your life as I did with mine.<\/p>\n
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I want you to be smarter and to not let him treat you like shit. I want you to stand up for yourself and to fight against anyone who doesn\u2019t give you what you deserve. Trust me, baby, you deserve so much more than he can give you .<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
S\u00e9 que piensas que lo amas ahora pero despu\u00e9s de que te des cuenta de todo lo que te hizo y cuando cuentes todas esas veces que superaste la mierda que te hizo, ver\u00e1s que al final ya no vale la pena seguir esper\u00e1ndolo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
No hizo ning\u00fan esfuerzo para que te quedaras y probablemente ser\u00eda m\u00e1s feliz si le dejaras para poder seguir adelante con otra v\u00edctima.<\/p>\n
S\u00f3lo se detendr\u00e1 cuando tropiece con quien no le quiera lo suficiente como para demostrarle la clase de imb\u00e9cil que es.<\/p>\n
As\u00ed que, por favor, si te preocupas por ti misma y si quieres tener una buena vida, deja de ponerle excusas y simplemente vete.<\/a><\/p>\n
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