{"id":125780,"date":"2021-02-01T11:24:55","date_gmt":"2021-02-01T11:24:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=125780"},"modified":"2022-03-02T23:03:05","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T23:03:05","slug":"salir-con-un-hombre-de-verdad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/salir-con-un-hombre-de-verdad\/","title":{"rendered":"Se\u00f1oras, as\u00ed es como saben que est\u00e1n saliendo con un hombre de verdad"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>La pandemia de la b\u00fasqueda de un hombre de verdad alcanz\u00f3 su punto \u00e1lgido hace mucho tiempo. Hay tantos art\u00edculos, comentarios, memes y tantas definiciones de esta criatura m\u00edtica conocida como el hombre real.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There\u2019s one huge misconception as well.<\/strong> Algunas personas (especialmente de la especie masculina) piensan que un hombre de verdad es sin\u00f3nimo de perfecci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>They think that the main reason why women have \u201cinvented\u201d the term, real man, is because of their unrealistic expectations of men.<\/p>\n<p>The saddest part of all is the fact that this has nothing to do with unrealistic expectations, women being picky, ungrateful, or similar. Also, this has nothing to do with the saying \u201call men are pigs\u201d either.<\/p>\n<p><strong>El t\u00e9rmino, hombre de verdad, es en realidad un sin\u00f3nimo del malentendido entre g\u00e9neros.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tanto los hombres como las mujeres tienen su propia visi\u00f3n de lo que se espera que den y reciban cuando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/consejos-de-citas-para-mujeres\/\">contactos<\/a> o estar en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora bien, la diferencia entre un chico y un hombre de verdad es que este \u00faltimo sabe lo que las mujeres REALMENTE quieren, esperan y necesitan.<\/p>\n<p>Los hombres de verdad saben que la confianza, la honestidad, el respeto y el esfuerzo son las cosas que las mujeres valoran m\u00e1s que cualquier otra cosa.<\/p>\n<h2>Real men are like unicorns &#8211; TRUE or FALSE?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-125786 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-hugging-3.jpg\" alt=\"mujer feliz en blanco jersey de cuello alto y el hombre abrazando interior\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-hugging-3.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-hugging-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-hugging-3-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-hugging-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-hugging-3-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-hugging-3-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-hugging-3-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-hugging-3-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve probably heard that cliche saying multiple times, but you still aren\u2019t sure if it is false or true. Are real men legit unicorns who exist in the real world, but are really rare and hard to find?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll be honest with you. There were times when I thought I finally met a real man only to realize that I was completely wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, hubo veces en las que pens\u00e9 que un hombre era un jugador de fiar s\u00f3lo para darme cuenta de que en realidad era <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hombre-unicornio\/\">un hombre real unicornio<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is, if you\u2019re being too skeptical, then even if you meet one, you will think that there must be something wrong with him because such men don\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u201cReal men are like unicorns. You\u2019ve heard of them, a crazy friend of a friend has seen one, but there is no hope of ever actually meeting one.\u201d &#8211; Unknown<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Tengo un fuerte impulso de reformular la \u00faltima frase de la cita anterior de la siguiente manera: \u00bfHay esperanza de conocer a alguien? Mi respuesta es: S\u00ed, la hay.<\/p>\n<p>Do you know how I\u2019m so sure? Because I met mine.<\/p>\n<p>While you\u2019re waiting to meet yours, here are some <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/8-razones-por-las-que-es-tan-dificil-encontrar-un-hombre-de-verdad\/\">reasons why it\u2019s so hard to find a real man<\/a> that might give you a better understanding of this whole \u2018real man\u2019 situation:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Las citas informales modernas son las principales culpables de la extinci\u00f3n de los hombres de verdad<\/li>\n<li>Otro culpable es el exceso de opciones de citas<\/li>\n<li>Cuestiones de compromiso<\/li>\n<li>Algunos hombres se sienten intimidados por mujeres poderosas e independientes<\/li>\n<li>Crecer y ser responsable es una tarea dif\u00edcil para algunos hombres<\/li>\n<li>La extinci\u00f3n de las conversaciones en la vida real<\/li>\n<li>Sin presiones para casarse<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Todas estas razones mencionadas son m\u00e1s bien factores que han influido en la extinci\u00f3n de los hombres de verdad.<\/p>\n<p>La principal raz\u00f3n por la que es tan dif\u00edcil encontrar un hombre de verdad es la \u00e9poca moderna en la que vivimos. El cortejo en la vida real ha sido sustituido por el cortejo virtual.<\/p>\n<p>Las conversaciones en la vida real se han sustituido por la mensajer\u00eda instant\u00e1nea. Expresar nuestras emociones se ha sustituido por emojis.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Los romances lentos, llenos de gestos rom\u00e1nticos a la antigua usanza, han sido sustituidos por las citas informales.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Todas estas tendencias est\u00e1n dificultando que los hombres expresen su afecto de la forma correcta, cortejen a una mujer como se merece, se ganen su confianza y se esfuercen en la vida real y no s\u00f3lo en la virtual.<\/p>\n<p><em>Hay que ser un hombre de verdad para saber que las peque\u00f1as cosas son las que m\u00e1s significan para las mujeres.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>It takes a real man to know that just because he has won a woman\u2019s heart doesn\u2019t mean he should stop winning her.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/true-love\/finding-the-one\/takes-real-man-know-one-woman-enough\/\">Se necesita un hombre de verdad para saber que una mujer es suficiente<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>It takes a real man to ignore what\u2019s trending and stay true to his gentleman manners even if they are considered old-fashioned.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the main difference between real men and those who don\u2019t belong in this category. Basically, a real man doesn\u2019t give a damn about what society or other people will think of him.<\/p>\n<p>A un hombre de verdad s\u00f3lo le importa hacer feliz a su mujer.<\/p>\n<h2>Compromisos de un hombre de verdad:<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-125787 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek.jpg\" alt=\"hombre besando a mujer en mejilla sentado en cafe\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When it comes to romances, I\u2019ve learned this lesson the hard way: <strong>NUNCA saques conclusiones precipitadas.<\/strong> It\u2019s true that you cannot judge a book by its cover.<\/p>\n<p>It is impossible to know if he\u2019s a real man right on the first date. Nevertheless, it is possible to make a mistake and misinterpret his actions.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So, how do you know that you\u2019re dating (or you\u2019re in a relationship with) a real man?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You know it by paying attention to his actions. Here\u2019s another cliche saying that I\u2019m really fond of: <em>Los hechos hablan m\u00e1s que las palabras.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>A man could spend an eternity convincing you with his words that he\u2019s the right person for you, but this doesn\u2019t mean anything if he\u2019s not ready to show it to you.<\/p>\n<p>Cualquiera puede decir lo que quiera de s\u00ed mismo, pero pocos est\u00e1n realmente dispuestos a DEMOSTRARLO tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c9stos son algunos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/9-cosas-que-hace-un-hombre-de-verdad\/\">things a real man does when he\u2019s in a relationship<\/a>:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Siempre cumple sus promesas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Una de las mayores diferencias entre los chicos y los hombres de verdad es que los chicos ponen excusas, pero los hombres de verdad cumplen sus promesas.<\/p>\n<p>If they aren\u2019t sure that they will be able to deliver it, then they won\u2019t promise it to you. If they fail to deliver a promise, they make sure to apologize for it and never repeat the same mistake again.<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Sabe que los hechos hablan m\u00e1s que las palabras.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A regular man says \u2018I love you\u2019 and does nothing to prove it to his woman, but a real man says those three words and supports them with actions.<\/p>\n<p>He makes sure that the amount of effort he invests in you and your relationship is visible, and that you never have to question his intentions or ask yourself if he\u2019s the right one for you.<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Conoce sus prioridades.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No matter what is happening in his life at the moment, a real man always knows his priorities. He never takes you for granted or appears only when it\u2019s convenient for him.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca te hace esperar s\u00f3lo porque sabe que lo har\u00e1s. Aprecia tu tiempo y las cosas que haces por \u00e9l y por vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>\u00c9l te protege.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Aunque todo el mundo est\u00e9 en tu contra, un hombre de verdad te har\u00e1 saber que te cubre las espaldas. Un hombre de verdad te proteger\u00e1 de enemigos, personas t\u00f3xicas y otras cosas negativas en tu vida.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-125789 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1.jpg\" alt=\"hombre besando la frente de una mujer cerca de una pared de madera\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He will never let you fight your battles on your own because he\u2019s a team player and because it\u2019s his duty to protect his woman.<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Hace planes de futuro.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Real men aren\u2019t only focused on what\u2019s happening at the moment, but they make future plans and they involve you in them as well.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t wait on their women to do everything, but they make sure to roll up their sleeves and make their women proud of their present and future accomplishments.<\/p>\n<p>Los hombres de verdad son ambiciosos y nunca se estancan.<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Te aprecia.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to remind a real man to appreciate you because it\u2019s in his nature to treat a woman the way she deserves to be treated.<\/p>\n<p>A real man appreciates his woman, his friends, his family, and all the other people as well. He\u2019s never rude to those of lower social status and he treats everyone with the same amount of respect and appreciation.<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Se gana tu confianza y conquista tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Some men are only interested in getting into a woman\u2019s pants, but real men are actually interested in earning a woman\u2019s trust and winning her heart.<\/p>\n<p>They aren\u2019t interested in mediocre romances, but they are interested in investing in real relationships that take time, effort, and patience.<\/p>\n<p>Being solely focused on winning a woman\u2019s heart and never stopping pursuing her even when they have won her is one of the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/45-cosas-que-los-hombres-de-verdad\/\">cosas que s\u00f3lo hacen los hombres de verdad<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><em>Real men support their women, they don\u2019t depreciate them.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Los hombres de verdad se esfuerzan en lugar de poner excusas.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/los-hombres-de-verdad-protegen-a-sus-mujeres-no-abusan-de-ellas\/\">Real men protect their women, they don\u2019t abuse them<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Real men are honest and genuine, they don\u2019t play games.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>When you meet one, you\u2019ll know it in your guts. He will never make you question his feelings for you and he will never make you overthink.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando conozcas a uno, tu mundo dejar\u00e1 de ser en blanco y negro para convertirse en miles de matices de colores. Por fin te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que esperar a tu hombre unicornio ha merecido la pena.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The pandemic of searching for a real man reached its peak a long time ago. There are so many articles, comments, memes, and so many definitions of this mythical creature known as the real man. There\u2019s one huge misconception as well. Some people (especially male species) think that a real man is a synonym for&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":125784,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-125780","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/Ladies-This-Is-How-You-Know-That-Youre-Dating-A-Real-Man-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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