Como soy una persona que se enamora f\u00e1cilmente de alguien, s\u00e9 a ciencia cierta que no poder dejar de pensar en alguien es una de las cosas m\u00e1s molestas del mundo.<\/p>\n
Why can\u2019t we just delete that person from our mind and move on with our lives? Or maybe the reason why we can\u2019t stop thinking about them is that they also can\u2019t stop thinking about us?<\/em><\/p>\n Si me dieran diez centavos por cada vez que me hago esta pregunta, ya ser\u00eda m\u00e1s rico que Oprah.<\/p>\n Undoubtedly, this is one of the most complex questions that exist in the universe, and there\u2019s no single answer to it but a combination of answers. That, my friend, can sometimes be really confusing.<\/p>\n Generally, there are two main reasons why you can\u2019t stop thinking about someone:<\/strong><\/p>\n \u2022 You want to forget them.<\/p>\n \u2022 You want to be with them (but for some reason, you can\u2019t).<\/p>\n That\u2019s where all the confusion comes from. How can you know that you want to forget someone when you may still be in love with them?<\/p>\n Now, how can you know that forgetting them is the right thing to do? Well, if you\u2019re not sure that you want to forget them and move on with your life, you\u2019ll never be able to do so, right?<\/p>\n (Don\u2019t say I didn\u2019t prepare you for this confusion.)<\/p>\n If you want to be with them, but for some reason, you know you never will, it\u2019s natural for you to continue thinking about them 24\/7.<\/p>\n Why? Because we think about those we want to forget and those we can\u2019t have.<\/p>\n Here are some more reasons why you can\u2019t stop thinking about someone:<\/strong><\/p>\n \u2022 You are (still) in love with them.<\/strong><\/p>\n Whether you\u2019ve been in a romantic relationship with them or they are your almost love, if you can\u2019t stop thinking about them, you might as well (still) be in love with them.<\/p>\n It\u2019s when your feelings and mind fight every day, thus sending you mixed emotions and confusing messages. Be honest with yourself. Do you think the reason why you can\u2019t stop thinking about them is because you\u2019re (still) in love with them?<\/p>\n \u2022 You use them as a distraction from other things in your life that are happening at the moment.<\/strong><\/p>\n Nuestra imaginaci\u00f3n es una maravillosa v\u00eda de escape. Con ello quiero decir que hemos perfeccionado el arte de vivir en una ilusi\u00f3n en lugar de en la realidad.<\/p>\n When we can\u2019t deal with things that are happening in our daily lives, we switch to living in a better world by creating distractions. Perhaps thinking about them is your way of escaping from the realities of life?<\/p>\n \u2022 You\u2019re stuck thinking about how things could have been different.<\/strong><\/p>\n If they are your ex, at some point, you might find yourself thinking about how things could have been different if you acted differently (or if both of you acted differently). This is known as \u2018being stuck in the past.\u2019<\/p>\n So, if you know that there\u2019s nothing you can do about what happened in the past, then it\u2019s high time you stop thinking about it. I know it\u2019s easier said than done, but it\u2019s something that needs to be done.<\/p>\n \u2022 You\u2019re feeling lonely.<\/strong><\/p>\n Loneliness \u2013 the biggest enemy of every human being. Do you know why? Because when we are lonely, we can\u2019t help ourselves but think about the stupidest and silliest things in the world.<\/p>\n La soledad es la causa de muchas situaciones embarazosas, incluida aquella en la que contactas con tu ex de forma totalmente desesperada.<\/p>\n Just because you\u2019re alone doesn\u2019t mean you should feel lonely. Below you\u2019ll find some things you can do if you can\u2019t stop thinking about someone, so stay tuned.<\/p>\n \u2022 You can\u2019t stop thinking about them because they are an enigma to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n So, you met a girl or a guy who is a total enigma to you, and you simply can\u2019t understand their personality and way of thinking. The more time you spend with them, the more you can\u2019t stop thinking about them.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s some good news for you: The more you learn about them, the less they will be enigmatic to you, so at some point in your life, you will definitely be able to think about them less than you\u2019re thinking about them now.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s another million-dollar question: What should you do when you just can\u2019t stop thinking about her<\/a> \u00bfo a \u00e9l?<\/p>\n \u00bfDeber\u00edas enviarles un mensaje de texto cada vez que se te pasen por la cabeza? (Eso ser\u00eda aproximadamente un mill\u00f3n de mensajes al d\u00eda, \u00bfverdad?)<\/p>\n \u00bfDeber\u00edas llamar a tu amigo y hablar con \u00e9l cada vez que no puedas dejar de pensar en \u00e9l? (Ser\u00eda bastante molesto, \u00bfverdad?)<\/p>\n When we\u2019re so desperate to stop thinking about someone, we might start looking for desperate solutions to our problem. Don\u2019t let that happen because you\u2019ll make things even worse than they already are.<\/p>\n When you can\u2019t stop thinking about them, just look at yourself in the mirror and repeat the following sentence: I\u2019ll stop thinking about you right now!<\/strong><\/p>\n Es broma, pero puedes probarlo si quieres (quiz\u00e1 sea un m\u00e9todo instant\u00e1neo rompedor para olvidar a alguien).<\/p>\n No importa el motivo por el que quieras borrarlos de tu mente, aqu\u00ed tienes algunos things you can do when you can\u2019t stop thinking about him<\/a> o a ella:<\/strong><\/p>\n \u2022 Block all of their social media accounts.<\/p>\n \u2022 Live your best life and create new memories.<\/p>\n \u2022 Get some kind of closure.<\/p>\n \u2022 Understand that you don\u2019t need them to be truly happy.<\/p>\n I would like you to pay special attention to the last one. Many people think that the only way they\u2019ll be happy again is to enter a romantic relationship with them or reconnect with that one person they want to forget.<\/p>\n Recuerda que la \u00fanica persona que puede hacerte feliz eres T\u00da.<\/strong><\/p>\n You are enough. You are strong and beautiful. You are perfectly capable of living your best life, and you don\u2019t need someone else to evoke happiness in you because happiness comes from within you.<\/p>\n Work on yourself, strive to be your best self every day, and you\u2019ll reach your full potential. Happiness means connecting with your true self and loving yourself before you\u2019re ready to love anyone else.<\/p>\n Cada vez que no puedo dejar de pensar en alguien, empiezo a preguntarme si tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1 pensando en m\u00ed.<\/p>\n De hecho, ser\u00eda maravilloso si pudi\u00e9ramos, de alguna manera, saber cu\u00e1ndo alguien est\u00e1 pensando en nosotros sin tener que pregunt\u00e1rselo.<\/p>\n Ni que decir tiene lo raro que sonar\u00eda que le mandara un mensaje as\u00ed a mi ex sin venir a cuento: Oye, \u00bfest\u00e1s pensando en m\u00ed?<\/em><\/p>\n Maybe I would win some brownie points for being brave and straightforward, but still, that doesn\u2019t compensate enough for all the weirdness that comes with such a question.<\/p>\n \u00a1PERO no toda la esperanza est\u00e1 perdida! Tengo buenas noticias para ti y para el resto de la humanidad, porque en realidad hay una manera (maneras) de saber cu\u00e1ndo alguien est\u00e1 pensando en ti, y todo lo que tienes que hacer es prestar atenci\u00f3n a lo siguiente.<\/p>\nWhy Can\u2019t You Stop Thinking About Someone?<\/h2>\n
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