{"id":12593,"date":"2020-04-18T09:07:29","date_gmt":"2020-04-18T09:07:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12593"},"modified":"2022-07-19T08:49:59","modified_gmt":"2022-07-19T08:49:59","slug":"sucede-finalmente-descarta-narcisista-manipulador","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/sucede-finalmente-descarta-narcisista-manipulador\/","title":{"rendered":"Esto Es Lo Que Sucede Cuando Finalmente Desechas A Un Narcisista Manipulador"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dejar una relaci\u00f3n narcisista<\/a> es extremadamente duro. El bastardo mentiroso acaba con tu autoestima y tu amor propio.<\/p>\n

After you\u2019re done with him, you don\u2019t have the strength to move on. Trusting people is the last thing you\u2019ll do.<\/p>\n

Only after you survive the long and painful healing process and after you realize that it wasn\u2019t your fault things didn\u2019t work out and that he made you believe in things that are not true, you are able to look at life from a different perspective.<\/p>\n

Las relaciones narcisistas son adictivas.<\/strong> You get used to their mistreatment and it becomes your life. He becomes like a fix that you need to take every day otherwise you\u2019ll be in crisis. His insults and manipulations become the air that you breathe and you don\u2019t want to suffocate. That\u2019s why you stay.<\/p>\n

Las relaciones narcisistas son un reto.<\/strong> Some women stay in that relationship although they are unhappy because they keep hoping things will change. They cling on to the idea they will change him and make him a better person. And actually, narcissists are such good actors that they know just the right moment to pretend they have changed\u2014the moment when the woman has had enough and once again, they manipulate her into staying.<\/p>\n

Las relaciones narcisistas son humillantes.<\/strong> These people take away everything positive about you. They take your will for life. They shove you and corner you with no hope of getting out. You just keep going round in circles hoping you\u2019ll find the way out but it never happens.<\/p>\n

He turns you into a shadow of the woman you once were. He takes away everything you had and creates a woman of his taste\u2014the one he could control and finally destroy.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pero una persona puede tomar lo suficiente abuso<\/a>. All women put a stop to this behavior eventually. Narcissists get them to the point they don\u2019t really care what is going to happen to them.<\/p>\n

\"Ri\u00f1a<\/p>\n

Ya no tienen miedo y su conciencia entra en acci\u00f3n. Esa peque\u00f1a pizca de fuerza que les queda grita y finalmente descartan al escurridizo bastardo.<\/p>\n

But the struggle doesn\u2019t end there. That is just the beginning of the journey. That was just the first step they were brave enough to take.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ahora viene lo dif\u00edcil. Todas las mujeres que tuvieron la fuerza de liberarse de una relaci\u00f3n narcisista<\/a> se enfrentan a redescubrir el amor por s\u00ed mismos.<\/p>\n

Se enfrentan al reto de encontrar su autoestima y perdonarse a s\u00ed mismos por haber cre\u00eddo todas las mentiras y manipulaciones narcisistas hasta el momento.<\/p>\n

Women have to deal with healing and fighting his tries to get them back. You see, narcissists can\u2019t live without their victims. They have to have someone to leech off of.<\/p>\n

They have to have someone who will be their punching bag, someone who will make them feel better, and someone to lash out at. And they will try with everything they\u2019ve got to get you back.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: La gu\u00eda definitiva para ignorar a un narcisista (Detecci\u00f3n y consecuencias)<\/a><\/p>\n

Esto es lo que puedes esperar cuando finalmente descartes a un narcisista:<\/p>\n

Te acechar\u00e1 y acosar\u00e1<\/h2>\n

\"Una  <\/p>\n

Cualquier persona normal entender\u00eda, si no de inmediato, s\u00ed al cabo de un tiempo, que ten\u00edas que dejar una relaci\u00f3n que te estaba causando m\u00e1s sufrimiento que felicidad.<\/p>\n

Pero, a diferencia de la gente normal, un narcisista ver\u00e1 tu marcha como si le hubieras ganado y no puede admitir la derrota.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t get that you were afraid for your safety and he will see you leaving him as abandonment, but no one abandons a narcissist because, in his own eyes, he is perfect. He sees your relationship as a competition and you won.<\/p>\n

Since he can\u2019t accept the fact you discarded him first, he will stalk and harass you for months and maybe even years after you break up.<\/p>\n

Lo har\u00e1 acosarte en las redes sociales<\/a>ir a tu casa, enviarte mensajes de texto, llamarte o incluso utilizar a otra persona para intentar manipularte para que vuelvas con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 dispuesto a hacer literalmente cualquier cosa, desde piratear tu ordenador hasta meterse en tu cabeza y amenazarte.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: Se\u00f1ales de obsesi\u00f3n: 10 se\u00f1ales de que es peligrosamente obsesivo y no est\u00e1 enamorado<\/a><\/p>\n

Te culpar\u00e1 de todo<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Al principio, actuaba como si tuviera suerte de tenerte y fueras una bendici\u00f3n. Act\u00faa como si fuera muy afortunado de tener a alguien tan buena como t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

Pero a medida que la relaci\u00f3n sigue su curso y \u00e9l empieza a mostrar su verdadera cara, las cosas se deterioran. Por eso, te echar\u00e1 la culpa a ti.<\/p>\n

Se inventar\u00e1 una excusa est\u00fapida para echarte a ti la culpa de vuestra relaci\u00f3n rota.<\/p>\n

The reason is completely irrelevant\u2014what\u2019s important is that everything is your fault.<\/p>\n

Eso es tan chocante e hiriente y los narcisistas lo hacen s\u00f3lo porque ven que no hay manera de que los dos vuelvan a estar juntos, por lo que se aseguran de limpiar sus nombres y enga\u00f1arse a s\u00ed mismos pensando que no hicieron nada malo.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: 18 se\u00f1ales de advertencia de un novio controlador<\/a><\/p>\n

Triangulaci\u00f3n tras la ruptura<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Intentar\u00e1 crear deliberadamente tri\u00e1ngulo amoroso<\/a> para empeque\u00f1ecerte y retrotraerte a la \u00e9poca en que estabas con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

En estas situaciones, tienes que tener cuidado en las redes sociales, ev\u00edtalo e intenta no ir a los lugares donde podr\u00edas encontrarte con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Esto es realmente importante porque todav\u00eda est\u00e1s en el proceso de curaci\u00f3n y cualquier visi\u00f3n de \u00e9l o incluso un intento fallido de ponerte celoso puede traer de vuelta tu duda y falta de respeto.<\/p>\n

You have to make sure to have no contact whatsoever with your narcissist, so you deny him the chance of sucking you back into the hell you\u2019ve lived in.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: C\u00f3mo herir emocionalmente a un hombre narcisista<\/a><\/p>\n

Te har\u00e1 sentir culpable para que te quedes<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de que finalmente descartes a un narcisista, intentar\u00e1 hacerte sentir culpable para que vuelvas con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Te recordar\u00e1 todas las cosas maravillosas que ha hecho por ti mientras estabais juntos, y fueron muchas, pero por desgracia, cada una de esas acciones ten\u00eda un motivo oculto.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que hac\u00eda algo bueno por ti, quer\u00eda algo a cambio.<\/p>\n

He will shove these things into your face, hoping you\u2019ll remember only the good things and give him another chance.<\/p>\n

Te har\u00e1 quedar mal<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t dodge this bullet. You can\u2019t hide the fact that you broke up because the narcissist wants to make sure everyone knows you broke up and now it\u2019s time for those people to choose sides.<\/p>\n

Tu narcisista quiere que experimentes el abandono total de tus amigos.<\/p>\n

Hablar\u00e1 mal de ti en las redes sociales y cotillear\u00e1 sobre ti siempre que tenga ocasi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Intentar\u00e1 convencer a la gente de que t\u00fa hiciste todo lo que \u00e9l te hizo en realidad. Quiere reunir toda la simpat\u00eda posible y convertirte en el malo de la pel\u00edcula.<\/p>\n

\"Esto<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Leaving a narcissistic relationship is extremely hard. The lying bastard wipes out your self-esteem and your self-respect. After you\u2019re done with him, you don\u2019t have the strength to move on. Trusting people is the last thing you\u2019ll do. Only after you survive the long and painful healing process and after you realize that it wasn\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":115489,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12593","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/This-Is-What-Happens-When-You-Finally-Discard-A-Manipulative-Narcissist-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":24,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12593","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12593"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12593\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/115489"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12593"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12593"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12593"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}