For someone who hasn’t experienced this hell, the narcissist’s silent treatment sounds pretty harmless. In fact, some people will probably tell you that it\u2019s not such a big deal.<\/p>\n
Well, it is. It does not only destroy your self-confidence but, what is even worse, it drags you even deeper into a narcissistic net \u2013 which is exactly what your abuser wants to accomplish.<\/p>\n
So, the question arises: How should you respond when a narcissist goes quiet? Before we get there, let\u2019s scratch beneath the surface and understand what this stonewalling is and why it happens in the first place.<\/p>\n
\u00bfQu\u00e9 es el silencio t\u00f3xico?<\/h2>\n
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En pocas palabras, el silencio t\u00f3xico consiste en evitar cualquier forma de comunicaci\u00f3n posible.<\/p>\n
It doesn\u2019t necessarily have to include someone physically disappearing from your life \u2013 puedes recibir el tratamiento del silencio de la persona junto a la que te levantas cada ma\u00f1ana.<\/strong><\/p>\n We\u2019ve all been in a situation where our la pareja se niega a hablar con nosotros despu\u00e9s de una pelea<\/a>. When you ask them what\u2019s wrong or what\u2019s bothering them, you get short or blunt answers.<\/strong><\/p>\n In most cases, they\u2019re gaslighting usted<\/a>. They’ll try hard to convince you that everything is perfectly alright and that you\u2019re imagining things. In the meantime, their body language and actions will tell you something completely different.<\/p>\n At the end of the day, you can\u2019t help but wonder if you\u2019re going crazy. Have you done something wrong that caused this reaction?<\/p>\n \u00bfEs usted el culpable de esta situaci\u00f3n? \u00bfC\u00f3mo puedes mejorarla?<\/p>\n While you\u2019re asking yourself all of these questions, you\u2019re simultaneously doing your best to get to your significant other. You just want to find out what you can do to make things better.<\/p>\n But every time you make an attempt towards reconciliation, you face a stone wall. Or they\u2019re out of your life completely, and you can\u2019t reach them at all.<\/p>\n Maybe they\u2019re still physically present but act completely emotionally detached from you. Either way, you feel utterly lost.<\/p>\n It\u2019s like this person is trying to make you read their mind. They refuse to cooperate and communicate but at the same time are punishing you for the mistakes you\u2019re not even aware of making.<\/p>\n If they were the one who did something wrong, before you know it, you\u2019ve forgotten all about it.<\/p>\n Even if we\u2019re talking about infidelity or abuse \u2013 you just want your loved one back, and you\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes for your relationship to go back to its old ways.<\/p>\n Perhaps the worst part is that you don\u2019t know where you stand. Your entire life is practically on hold.<\/p>\n If this is happening for the first time, you can\u2019t possibly know what to expect. Is this a break-up? Will you get any closure? Or will they ever start communicating with you again?<\/p>\n At this point, some victims do their best to move on with their lives \u2013 especially in cases when the narcissist is not physically present next to them.<\/p>\n Por doloroso que sea, aceptan que su relaci\u00f3n ha terminado y se centran en recoger los pedazos rotos de su coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, suele ser cuando el el narcisista intenta volver<\/a>justo cuando estabas a punto de superarlos. Sin m\u00e1s, vuelven a aparecer en tu vida.<\/p>\n \u00bfY t\u00fa qu\u00e9 haces? \u00bfExiges una conversaci\u00f3n madura sobre todo lo que ha pasado?<\/p>\n Sadly, no. You\u2019re overjoyed that you have your loved one back to the point where you\u2019re too scared to start any arguments.<\/p>\n You just go with the flow and start acting like nothing ever happened. Before you know it, you\u2019re trapped in an endless cycle of toxic silence.<\/p>\n They\u2019ve gotten away with this behavior this time, haven\u2019t they? So, what\u2019s stopping them from repeating the same thing over and over again \u2013 practically everytime they feel like it?<\/strong><\/p>\n Nothing, that\u2019s right.<\/p>\n V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo hacer que un narcisista se obsesione contigo en 9 sencillos pasos<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Antes de aprender a enfrentarte a esta t\u00e9cnica narcisista de la forma correcta, tienes que entender por qu\u00e9 ocurre.<\/p>\n First and foremost, let\u2019s be clear about one thing: Las personas que padecen un trastorno narcisista de la personalidad (NPD) tienen una forma de pensar y de comportarse completamente diferente.<\/strong><\/p>\n Therefore, don\u2019t try reasoning with their methods. Don\u2019t put any effort into walking in their shoes, and don\u2019t look at things from the perspective of normal people.<\/strong><\/p>\n The name says it all: this is a personality disorder. That means that you can\u2019t change them or help them. In fact, nothing besides professional treatment can cure them.<\/p>\n La cuesti\u00f3n es que los narcisistas tienen una visi\u00f3n bastante retorcida de la realidad. Si quieres llegar al fondo de sus intenciones, tienes que olvidar todos los principios l\u00f3gicos y valores morales que has adoptado a lo largo de tu vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n En lugar de eso, tienes que ponerte sus gafas y, s\u00f3lo por un momento, observar el mundo como ellos lo hacen. Pues abr\u00f3chate el cintur\u00f3n y que empiece el viaje.<\/p>\n \u00bfTe has encontrado alguna vez en una situaci\u00f3n en la que un narcisista te hace algo malo? Descubres su infidelidad, te grita o abusa de ti de alguna manera.<\/p>\n Tu respuesta natural es que quieres una disculpa, aunque s\u00f3lo sea eso. Quieres dejar las cosas claras y comunicarte sobre lo que acaba de ocurrir.<\/p>\n \u00bfPero qu\u00e9 hacen? \u00bfTe dicen cu\u00e1nto lo sienten? \u00bfAsumen la responsabilidad de su comportamiento t\u00f3xico?<\/p>\n No, en lugar de esto, comienzan actuar como la v\u00edctima<\/a>. All of a sudden, you\u2019re the one guilty of exposing them.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re guilty of having the nerve to accuse them of something they\u2019ve actually done. They turn the tables on you and do everything they can to make you look like the bad guy.<\/p>\n Worst of all, they succeed in their sneaky intentions. Before you realize what\u2019s hit you, they give you the silent treatment.<\/p>\n En ese momento, en un abrir y cerrar de ojos, olvidas lo que inicialmente caus\u00f3 el problema. Es m\u00e1s, olvidas QUI\u00c9N lo caus\u00f3 e, inconscientemente, empiezas a seguirle el juego y asumes el papel de culpable.<\/p>\n Te suena familiar, \u00bfverdad? Pues s\u00ed, that\u2019s the trick of this entire scheme \u2013 the narcissist is not only doing this to take the blame off themselves \u2013 they\u2019re also doing it to punish you.<\/strong><\/p>\n De repente empieza a dudar de ti mismo<\/a>. They\u2019re obviously offended by your reaction or accusation, so you begin to wonder if you really overreacted.<\/p>\n Now, you become the one who apologizes. You ask for their forgiveness, and you\u2019re ready to do anything just to have them talk to you again.<\/p>\n But let\u2019s look at things from this perspective. What should you do when this happens once more? Because this phase will go away sooner or later.<\/p>\n Volver\u00e1n<\/a> to you, acting like they\u2019re giving you some kind of mercy by returning to you.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, let\u2019s face it: they will do something to hurt you again in the future.<\/p>\n Cuando eso ocurra, quedar\u00e1n completamente impunes. You won\u2019t have the courage to confront them about anything they did to you. Instead, you’ll walk on eggshells around them, afraid of getting the cold shoulder again.<\/strong><\/p>\n No matter how much they hurt you, you won\u2019t call them out on your actions. Why? Because you know what\u2019s coming next.<\/p>\n You know that you\u2019ll have to go through being ignored and endure the silent treatment time and again. So, you think it\u2019s better to let them be than to experience this hell again.<\/p>\n When a narcissist goes quiet, you feel like a little child who\u2019s being punished for misbehaving. Well, that\u2019s exactly how a narcissist perceives you.<\/p>\n No, they don\u2019t see you as their child in terms of their unconditional love for you. They think that they\u2019re above you.<\/p>\n Tienen ese sentimiento de derecho y superioridad que les da derecho a educarte, lo que incluye diferentes castigos.<\/strong><\/p>\n This person sees you as submissive. You two are not equal partners in this relationship, nor can you ever be. Instead, they\u2019re the dominant one: the one who owns you and the one who has the right to \u201cteach\u201d you what\u2019s right and wrong.<\/p>\n You have to be aware of one significant thing here: an entire narcissist\u2019s life and personality are based on a lie.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t matter if they\u2019re consciously lying to you to present themselves as better than they are or if they\u2019re subconsciously lying to themselves: this is all their deception.<\/p>\n But this charade can\u2019t go on forever, can it? A veces, una persona narcisista queda atrapada en una red de sus propias mentiras.<\/strong><\/p>\n When that happens, they get paranoid that you\u2019ll discover them. Maybe you\u2019ll see their true colors, or you\u2019ll realize that half of their alleged past is a big fat lie. Some narcissists even live double lives, so they\u2019re scared of being busted.<\/p>\n En ese caso, tienen que retirarse durante un tiempo. They\u2019re actually doing some serious damage control: they\u2019re putting effort into repairing what can be repaired in an attempt not to blow their cover and lose their mask.<\/strong><\/p>\n Simultaneously with this \u201cphysical\u201d ghosting, a narcissist will usually desaparecer o guardar silencio en las redes sociales<\/a>. Of course, you will assume that this is all your fault \u2013 something you did or said hurt them so bad that they\u2019ve literally given up on life.<\/p>\n Pues bien, la verdad es bien distinta. Don\u2019t forget that covert narcissists need attention and validation the same way you need air to breathe.<\/strong><\/p>\n Therefore, if they\u2019re about to be discovered (or already have been), they won\u2019t be posting that on their current profiles.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t mean that they will go completely offline. They can\u2019t stand not having a bunch of followers or social media friends admiring them. They can\u2019t stand not being able to show the world that they\u2019re above everyone else.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why they\u2019re probably activating backup profiles you have no clue about.<\/strong><\/p>\n I hate to disappoint you, but this is also a red flag that your narcissist has a new girlfriend or boyfriend. They\u2019re literally presenting their latest victim with their new identity and want to avoid any chance of their two lives becoming intertwined.<\/p>\n Sometimes, a narcissist engages in damage control when they know that they did you something extremely wrong. They know very well that you\u2019re furious, and rightly so, and that the only way to escape your anger is to stay away from you.<\/p>\n When he or she ghosts you, you have no opportunity to call them out on their actions. You can\u2019t ask them for an explanation, nor can you get even.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que, en lugar de actuar como un aut\u00e9ntico adulto que afronta las consecuencias de sus actos, huyen. Hacen un movimiento cobarde y se esconden, esperando a que te calmes y te tranquilices.<\/strong><\/p>\n Whether you like it or not, with time, you will process the things that have been done to you. No matter how much harm they caused, after a while, you\u2019ll put your pain second and start to think about their whereabouts.<\/p>\n Without even being aware of it, you partially forgive them. You come to terms with what they\u2019ve done, and when that happens, they reappear in your life.<\/p>\n Once again, you welcome them with open arms the very next day. And that is exactly how they\u2019ve repaired the damage they made.<\/p>\n Las personas que sufren narcisismo se alimentan de atenci\u00f3n. Y sobre todo la esperan de ti, su principal v\u00edctima.<\/p>\n Al principio de tu relaci\u00f3n, estabas loco por esa persona. S\u00f3lo ten\u00edas ojos para ella y era el centro de tu universo.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, as time passes, you\u2019ve started noticing that they weren\u2019t as perfect as they seemed. Even though you still love them and are still by their side, you\u2019re no longer fascinated with every word they say and move they make.<\/p>\n You no longer see your narcissistic boyfriend or girlfriend as pure perfection. As much as you love them, you\u2019ve realized that they\u2019re just human beings, with all of their flaws.<\/p>\n In a healthy relationship, this would be a good sign. It would mean that the initial attraction is gone and that you\u2019re finally accepting each other for who you really are.<\/p>\n But don\u2019t forget that nothing about a narcissistic relationship is ever healthy. Therefore, a narcissist sees this as a threat.<\/p>\n \u00c9l o ella ya no est\u00e1 recibiendo la cantidad deseada de su suministro narcisista. Eso significa que deben encontrar una manera de recuperar la atenci\u00f3n que recib\u00edan al principio.<\/strong><\/p>\n And what better way to do it than by making you wonder? What\u2019 better way to do it than by making you afraid of losing them?<\/p>\n What\u2019s better than giving you the cold shoulder and making you fight for their love again?<\/p>\n Another possibility is that your narcissist’s silent treatment is actually a cover for a smear campaign they’ve been organizing against you. Basically, they’re trying to ruin your reputation and invalidarte<\/a> a\u00fan m\u00e1s<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Of course, they’re doing it in the sneakiest way possible. They’re spreading lies about you, and they’re trying to get your loved ones on their side.<\/strong><\/p>\n If this is true, we’re talking about the consequence of narcissistic rage. They’re angry at you for not obeying them or for not giving them the attention they craved, so they\u2019ve decided to get back at you.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re a victim of narcissistic abuse who\u2019s become aware of the situation you\u2019re in, when a narcissist goes quiet, you think of this as your final break up.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s be honest \u2013 even though you\u2019re perfectly aware of who this person really is, you still love them.<\/p>\n Therefore, you don\u2019t take them walking away from you easily. Your heart is broken, and you miss them, despite knowing you shouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n Pero al mismo tiempo, tu cerebro<\/a> te dice que este es tu boleto a la salvaci\u00f3n<\/strong>. This person has been stalking you one way or another for a long time, and now it seems that they\u2019ve finally disappeared.<\/p>\n As much as it hurts that you two hadn\u2019t made it, your rational side tells you that this is actually the best thing that could ever happen to you.<\/p>\n Now you\u2019re finally free to move on from this toxic relationship and work on your self-healing and well-being.<\/p>\n Bueno, odio ser quien rompa tu burbuja, pero tristemente, en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, esto no es m\u00e1s que la calma antes de la tormenta. De hecho, su abusador narcisista probablemente se est\u00e1 preparando para su gran regreso.<\/strong><\/p>\n When you start to forget about them, they\u2019ll reappear on your doorstep. And the worst part of this is that all of their love-bombing will begin again.<\/p>\n They\u2019ve used this time to think about new strategies. If they\u2019re out of their narcissistic supply, they\u2019re desperate to get it from you, and they\u2019ll choose any means to achieve their goals.<\/strong><\/p>\n All of a sudden, you\u2019ll get the person from the beginning of your relationship back. Wow, it looks like all of your dreams are coming true.<\/p>\n Esta mala racha no ha sido m\u00e1s que una pesadilla que, por suerte, ha quedado atr\u00e1s. Ahora est\u00e1is juntos de nuevo y pod\u00e9is ser felices para siempre.<\/p>\n You wish! Sadly, this is nothing but another one of your narcissist\u2019s charades. Before you know it, they\u2019ll go back to their old ways, and you\u2019ll regret ever taking them back.<\/p>\n When a narcissist goes quiet, they\u2019re doing the worst thing that can be done to any person in this world: they\u2019re making you feel invisible.<\/p>\n Antes te distanciaban de todo tu entorno. Probablemente ya no te quedan mejores amigos, la relaci\u00f3n con tus familiares nunca ha sido peor y no tienes con qui\u00e9n hablar en el trabajo.<\/p>\n Basically, you\u2019ve lost everyone who ever cared about you, everyone except your abuser.<\/p>\n Consequently, they\u2019ve become the only source of love for you. They\u2019re the one who determines your value and the one who holds your life in their hands.<\/strong><\/p>\n So, what happens when this person starts to ignore you? When the only person who\u2019s giving you attention stops? When the only person you think who loves you stops loving you?<\/p>\n L\u00f3gicamente, pierdes todo el sentido de la autoestima. Si se rindieron contigo, \u00bfqu\u00e9 puedes esperar de los dem\u00e1s?<\/strong><\/p>\n If they can\u2019t give you crumbs of their respect, why would you respect yourself?<\/p>\n It\u2019s pretty obvious that you don\u2019t deserve anyone\u2019s love or appreciation. You\u2019re not enough, and your value is so low that you don\u2019t even deserve a reaction from your abuser.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t worry: these are the thoughts every single victim fights with when a narcissist goes quiet. In fact, this is exactly what every narcissist wants you to think.<\/p>\n You must be asking yourself, \u201cWhat\u2019s the final goal here?\u201d. Well, it\u2019s much easier to manipulate someone once you get rid of their self-worth.<\/p>\n And that\u2019s what your abuser knows all too well. A narcissist wants to see you at your lowest, so they become your only light at the end of the tunnel.<\/p>\n They\u2019ve already made you codependent on their attention. So, now, they\u2019re giving you the toxic silent treatment to take that away from you.<\/strong><\/p>\n They\u2019re showing you that you need them. You need their response and reaction, and you need to communicate with them to stay sane.<\/strong><\/p>\n Once they prove to you that you\u2019re good for nothing, you\u2019ll forever see them as some kind of royalty. Once they humiliate you in the worst way possible, dominance and control sobre ti<\/a> se convierten en trozos de tarta.<\/p>\n Finally, when a narcissist goes quiet, it could mean that they’ve switched their attention to a new victim. You have to be aware that this man or woman has never seen you as an individual: from day one, they\u2019ve looked at you as a suitable victim.<\/p>\n Maybe they\u2019ve gotten tired of you. Perhaps they\u2019ve seen that you became too difficult to manipulate. Maybe they weren\u2019t getting as much attention from you as they used to.<\/p>\n Or maybe you became submissive to the point where you\u2019ve ceased to be interesting.<\/p>\n Either way, the bottom line is that you\u2019ve dodged a bullet. Their energy is somewhere else now, and even if you don\u2019t understand it now, you should thank God for it.<\/p>\n Do you know what\u2019s possibly the worst about padece el s\u00edndrome de la v\u00edctima narcisista<\/a>? It\u2019s the PTSD you develop with time. It’s a fact that you don\u2019t want your abuser to leave you<\/strong>. Para ser precisos, lo ves como el peor escenario posible.<\/p>\n Actually, you\u2019re convinced this is true.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve been brainwashed to the point where you think that you love this awful person. You\u2019ve been manipulated into thinking that you would be utterly lost without them.<\/p>\n Bueno, d\u00e9jame decirte que tu abusador centr\u00e1ndose en su nuevo suministro narcisista es la mayor bendici\u00f3n que puedes enfrentar. Tu narcisista que te deja<\/a> is the biggest favor he’s ever done for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m heartbroken for this new person who has no idea what they\u2019re getting themselves into. But hey, this means that you\u2019re finally off the hook.<\/p>\n I won\u2019t lie to you: it will take you a long time before you realize this. Nevertheless, the moment you do, it means you\u2019ve taken a step on your viaje de sanaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n Entonces, \u00bfcu\u00e1les son los pasos reales que debe seguir cuando un narcisista se calla? \u00bfCu\u00e1l es el mejor mecanismo de afrontamiento para esta situaci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n Let\u2019s be honest: we\u2019ve all been guilty of giving someone the silent treatment at some point.<\/p>\n So, if your partner has left in the middle of an argument or hasn\u2019t responded to your phone calls for a few hours after a big fight \u2013 it doesn\u2019t mean that they\u2019re necessarily a narcissist who te est\u00e1 dando largas<\/a>.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, there is a huge difference between this happening once and between this being a habit of theirs. In the latter case, it\u2019s pretty clear what you\u2019re dealing with.<\/strong><\/p>\n So, for starters, let\u2019s not see this as a minor inconvenience. Instead, this kind of behavior is a huge red flag, and it is an alarming signal of an abusive relationship.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t sugarcoat things and be aware of reality. It\u2019s the only way for you to process it and finally solve it.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why it\u2019s crucial to call things their real names. This is a form of abuse. As hard as this might sound, it\u2019s the truth.<\/p>\n You see, there are many ways someone can abuse you besides physically harming you. Emotional and verbal abuse is very real, and it is what you\u2019re dealing with here.<\/strong><\/p>\n Despu\u00e9s de todo, \u00bfc\u00f3mo llamar\u00edas a estos intentos de manipulaci\u00f3n<\/a>...devalu\u00e1ndote y castig\u00e1ndote?<\/p>\n After you\u2019ve gathered all the intel, your number one worry is how to respond when a narcissist goes quiet. Well, the answer is something you\u2019d probably never expected to hear: you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n You see, this toxic person counts on your reaction. They consider themselves so sneaky that they won\u2019t have any trouble getting you involved in their juegos mentales retorcidos<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n That\u2019s why you have to show them that the best way to win them is by not playing at all.<\/p>\n Yes, this will take a lot of effort and self-control on your part. It\u2019s normal that you want them to talk to you. You want to get to the bottom of this issue, one way or another.<\/p>\n En lugar de perseguirlos y rogarles una conversaci\u00f3n sincera, simplemente ignorarlos<\/a>. Vive tu vida como si nada estuviera pasando y dales el tratamiento de silencio a cambio.<\/strong><\/p>\n Para variar, se el que no tiene contacto<\/a>. Don\u2019t post sad quotes or songs on your social media profiles, expecting them to see.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t stalk them, and don\u2019t go around complaining to people about them ghosting you. Don\u2019t try reaching out, and don\u2019t send them any signals or hints.<\/p>\n Conf\u00eda en m\u00ed. Esto es lo \u00fanico que un narcisista nunca vio venir: que los descubras<\/a>. Esperaban que lloraras o te pusieras furioso.<\/p>\n Esperaban que intentaras darles celos o que te sentaras delante de su casa a rogarles que hablaran contigo.<\/p>\n But this is something they could never predict. And that\u2019s exactly why it\u2019s the only thing that will leave them confused.<\/strong><\/p>\n Most importantly, it will show them that they haven\u2019t succeeded. All of their manipulation techniques failed.<\/strong><\/p>\n They don\u2019t have full control over you, contrary to what they believed. They haven\u2019t managed to brainwash you, and despite everything, you\u2019re much more than their puppet on a string. So, I guess you’ve roto su hechizo<\/a>.<\/p>\n En lugar de pasar todo este tiempo lamentando tu gran p\u00e9rdida, hazte un favor y disfruta de tu tiempo libre de t\u00f3xicos.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s face it. This person will come back into your life. So, ser\u00e1 mejor que recargues las pilas<\/strong> when you have the chance to do so because you\u2019re up for many more challenges and fights in the future.<\/p>\n Recapitula toda tu relaci\u00f3n y decide si esto es lo que realmente quieres. \u00bfMerece la pena luchar por ello? \u00bfO ha llegado el momento de renunciar a esta persona venenosa?<\/strong><\/p>\n I think both you and I know the answer. Nevertheless, your romance shouldn\u2019t be the only thing on your mind right now. Instead, you must work on yourself.<\/p>\n Empieza por reconstruir otras relaciones que tu maltratador te ha arruinado<\/strong>. No, I\u2019m not talking about jumping into a new romance here.<\/p>\n I\u2019m talking about your close friends and family members. Do your best to reconnect with some of them \u2013 just to see that there is a beautiful life outside of this hell you\u2019re trapped in.<\/p>\n Lo m\u00e1s importante: trabaja en la relaci\u00f3n que tienes contigo mismo.<\/strong><\/p>\n Put maximum effort into finding your true self \u2013 the person you were before this monster marched into your life. Put all of your energy into regaining your self-esteem and your sense of self-worth and self-love.<\/p>\n If you still don\u2019t have what it takes to chase this person out of your life for good, at least become a stronger version of yourself for when they do return.<\/p>\n \u00bfQu\u00e9 ocurre cuando un narcisista se calla y luego vuelve a ti? Bueno, lo ideal ser\u00eda que lo echaras de casa y le cerraras la puerta en las narices al d\u00eda siguiente.<\/p>\n But I\u2019m sure that you\u2019re still not ready for these drastic measures. In that case, what you must do is set healthy boundaries.<\/p>\n Now is the time to calmly tell them that this is not acceptable behavior. Don\u2019t yell, don\u2019t play games, and don\u2019t accuse them of anything.<\/strong><\/p>\n Just directly tell them that this is not something you\u2019ll tolerate in the future.<\/strong> Dales tu visi\u00f3n de una relaci\u00f3n sana y marca la direcci\u00f3n en la que quieres ir.<\/p>\n Por \u00faltimo, cumple tus promesas. Lo peor que puedes hacer es proferir amenazas vac\u00edas sin cumplirlas.<\/strong><\/p>\n Cuando un narcisista vuelva a callarse, haz que asuma las consecuencias de sus actos.<\/strong> Otherwise, you\u2019re just giving them the green light to keep on treating you however they want.<\/p>\n When a narcissist goes quiet, they\u2019re not only giving you the silent treatment (as if that alone wouldn\u2019t be enough).<\/p>\n They\u2019re also gaslighting you and playing with your mental health. Ironically, by ignoring you, they\u2019re pulling you even closer to them.<\/p>\n Bien, you\u2019re the one who has to break that cycle because they won\u2019t do it for you<\/strong>. In fact, they\u2019ll probably never admit their true intentions.<\/p>\n En cambio, la cruda realidad es que un narcisista abusar\u00e1 de ti mientras se lo permitas<\/strong>. That\u2019s why you have to find the last atoms of your strength and cerrarlos<\/a>.<\/p>\n S\u00e9 que todo esto parece demasiado dif\u00edcil o incluso imposible de manejar. Pero te aseguro que puedes hacerlo.<\/p>\nEl c\u00edrculo sin fin de los tratamientos t\u00f3xicos silenciosos<\/h3>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-wondering-and-sitting.jpg\")
<\/p>\nCuando un narcisista se calla, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 ocurre?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nUna poderosa arma de castigo<\/h3>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/angry-emotinal-man.jpg\")
<\/p>\nRelaci\u00f3n dominante-sumisa<\/h4>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/upset-woman-sitting.jpg\")
<\/p>\nControl de da\u00f1os<\/h3>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/pensive-woman-behind.jpg\")
<\/p>\nCuando un narcisista se calla en las redes sociales<\/h4>\n
Un movimiento cobarde<\/h4>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/pensive-man-in-sideview.jpg\")
<\/p>\nB\u00fasqueda de atenci\u00f3n<\/h4>\n
Campa\u00f1a de desprestigio<\/h4>\n
Un gran regreso en proyecto<\/h3>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/pensive-man-smoking.jpg\")
<\/p>\nBombardeo amoroso<\/h4>\n
Devaluaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/sad-woman-in-sofa.jpg\")
<\/p>\nT\u00e1ctica de manipulaci\u00f3n<\/h4>\n
Nueva oferta narcisista<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nSu mayor bendici\u00f3n<\/h4>\n
\u00bfQu\u00e9 debe hacer cuando un narcisista se calla?<\/h2>\n
Ser consciente de la realidad<\/h3>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/bored-woman-staring.jpg\")
<\/p>\nAbuso emocional<\/h4>\n
Don\u2019t play their mind games<\/h3>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/sad-and-bored-woman.jpg\")
<\/p>\nNot giving the narcissistic\u00a0partner control<\/h4>\n
Turn it into \u201cyou\u201d time<\/h3>\n
![\"tres](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/three-women-friends.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEstablecer l\u00edmites saludables<\/h3>\n
![\"pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/serious-couple-chatting.jpg\")
<\/p>\nCumpla sus promesas<\/h3>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/serious-woman-staring.jpg\")
<\/p>\nReflexiones finales:<\/h2>\n
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