{"id":126010,"date":"2021-02-04T22:29:12","date_gmt":"2021-02-04T22:29:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=126010"},"modified":"2022-06-25T09:23:36","modified_gmt":"2022-06-25T09:23:36","slug":"por-que-dejo-de-enviarte-mensajes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-dejo-de-enviarte-mensajes\/","title":{"rendered":"Por qu\u00e9 dej\u00f3 de enviarte mensajes de repente (y qu\u00e9 hacer al respecto)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hace unos d\u00edas, era el hombre m\u00e1s encantador del mundo tanto en la vida real como en la virtual.<\/p>\n<p>Sus habilidades con los mensajes de texto eran realmente notables y nunca se olvidaba de enviarte un emoji para que sus textos parecieran a\u00fan m\u00e1s interesantes.<\/p>\n<p>Te contaba su d\u00eda, sus pasiones y sus planes, haci\u00e9ndote sentir como si fueras una parte importante de su vida aunque acabarais de conoceros y empezarais a salir.<\/p>\n<p>Y, de repente, miras el m\u00f3vil y tu ansiedad se multiplica con cada minuto que pasas esperando a que te responda.<\/p>\n<p><em>Minutes, hours, days, weeks, and even months go by, and he still didn\u2019t text you back. You decide to double text him or triple text him (if that term even exists), and still, nothing changes.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ahora, la situaci\u00f3n es a\u00fan peor porque tienes montones de mensajes sin contestar y \u00e9l puede empezar a pensar que eres una mujer desesperada, rega\u00f1ona o Dios sabe qu\u00e9.<\/strong> (Dios, odio a los hombres y pensar demasiado).<\/p>\n<p>Lo \u00fanico que se te ocurre es: <em>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 ha dejado de mandarme mensajes de repente cuando est\u00e1bamos bien? \u00bfQu\u00e9 ha pasado? \u00bfQu\u00e9 ha cambiado? <\/em><em>\u00bfHe hecho algo mal para que huya de m\u00ed o hay alguna otra raz\u00f3n leg\u00edtima para que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-un-chico-actua-interesado-entonces-retrocede\/\">que de repente est\u00e9 distante<\/a>?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>So many questions, but not a single answer to alleviate your worried mind. If it means anything to you, I\u2019ve been through the same situation multiple times so far, and here\u2019s what I\u2019ve learned from it.<\/p>\n<h2>When he stops texting you suddenly, it doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ve done something wrong.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-126026 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-leaning-on-table.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste con blusa amarilla apoyada en una mesa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-leaning-on-table.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-leaning-on-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-leaning-on-table-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-leaning-on-table-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-leaning-on-table-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-leaning-on-table-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-leaning-on-table-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-leaning-on-table-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esto es probablemente lo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil de aceptar.<\/p>\n<p>When a guy you really like and have great chemistry with all of a sudden stops answering your texts, you can\u2019t help yourself but think that you\u2019re the one to blame for it.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00e9jame decirte algo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In the majority of cases, this has nothing to do with you. No, he didn\u2019t stop texting you because you annoyed him with your texts or said something inappropriate that made him mad.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He didn\u2019t stop texting you because he wants you to suffer for some reason. There are so many factors that influence someone\u2019s decision to become distant.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps he\u2019s busy at the moment and forgot to tell you that.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe he thinks by telling you that he\u2019s busy, you\u2019ll think that he\u2019s just playing with you, and that\u2019s the reason why he decided to stop texting you at the moment without telling you why.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Scrolling through your chat to figure out what you\u2019ve done wrong WON\u2019T help. It will only make you feel even more confused.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You can only guess what\u2019s going on in his mind, and jumping to conclusions is out of the question.<\/p>\n<p>Quiero que sepas que perder el tiempo descifrando por qu\u00e9 ha dejado de enviarte mensajes de repente no es la soluci\u00f3n a tu problema.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, ser\u00eda diez veces m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil para usted si supiera exactamente por qu\u00e9<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-los-chicos-dejan-de-enviar-mensajes-y-luego-empiezan-de-nuevo\/\"> dej\u00f3 de enviarte mensajes<\/a>pero nunca lo sabr\u00e1s con seguridad hasta que \u00e9l te lo diga.<\/p>\n<p><strong>As\u00ed que, hasta que te cuente qu\u00e9 es exactamente lo que le pasa por la cabeza, aqu\u00ed tienes algunas posibles <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-razones-por-las-que-ha-dejado-de-enviarte-mensajes-de-repente\/\">razones por las que ha dejado de enviarte mensajes de repente<\/a> (but don\u2019t jump to conclusions yet):<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>He\u2019s busy at the moment<\/li>\n<li>He\u2019s only interested in something casual<\/li>\n<li>He\u2019s already taken<\/li>\n<li>You\u2019re always the first one to text him<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The last time a guy I\u2019ve been texting with for a long time stopped texting me suddenly is because he was too busy at the moment. Yup.<\/p>\n<p>Me pas\u00e9 semanas preocup\u00e1ndome por lo que le hab\u00eda pasado y por qu\u00e9 de repente hab\u00eda decidido borrarme de su vida.<\/p>\n<p>After some time, he told me that he wanted to focus on his studies, so he didn\u2019t text anyone, not only me. SERIOUSLY?<\/p>\n<p>The one thing I still don\u2019t understand is why he didn\u2019t tell me that? I\u2019m definitely not one of those people who would still continue texting him even if he specifically told me that he doesn\u2019t have time for it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Why don\u2019t guys just say what they REALLY mean and how they really FEEL for once in their life?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Is it really easier to ignore someone and risk losing them from your life than to tell them that you\u2019re just too busy to text them right now?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I guess we\u2019ll never know the right answer to this question. (Okay, now give me some time to come to my senses because the recollection of this event has really pissed me off.)<\/p>\n<p>The second and the third reasons are pretty much obvious, so I won\u2019t even comment on them (I don\u2019t want to risk another virtual breakdown).<\/p>\n<p>But, I have the urge to say something about the last one. If you\u2019re always the first one to text him, this is a huge red flag.<\/p>\n<p>Uno de los mayores <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/12-razones-por-las-que-nunca-te-manda-un-mensaje-primero-pero-siempre-responde-cuando-le-mandas-un-mensaje\/\">razones por las que nunca te env\u00eda un mensaje primero (pero siempre responde cuando le env\u00edas un mensaje)<\/a> es por su bajo esfuerzo.<\/p>\n<p>If a guy can\u2019t EVER find time to text you first, you should refrain from initiating texting for some time to see if anything changes.<\/p>\n<p>En realidad, este es uno de los mejores <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-cosas-que-hacer-cuando-no-te-contesta\/\">things to do when he doesn\u2019t text back<\/a> for days as well, not only when he doesn\u2019t text first.<\/p>\n<h2>What to do when he doesn\u2019t text back for days?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-126027 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-laying-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste tumbada en la cama mientras usa el smartphone\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-laying-on-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-laying-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-laying-on-bed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-laying-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-laying-on-bed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-laying-on-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-laying-on-bed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-laying-on-bed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So, as you\u2019re sitting next to your cellphone and expecting him to text you back any second or minute, you might be wondering what exactly to do in this situation.<\/p>\n<p>To spare you the trouble, here\u2019s one thing that you should NEVER do: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/12-razones-por-las-que-nunca-te-manda-un-mensaje-primero-pero-siempre-responde-cuando-le-mandas-un-mensaje\/\"><strong>DON\u2019T TEXT HIM<\/strong><\/a> BAJO NINGUNA CIRCUNSTANCIA.<\/p>\n<p>Many girls (including my past self) think that by double texting a guy, you\u2019ll remind him that you\u2019re still alive and that you\u2019re still waiting for his reply (I love the fact that this sentence even rhymes).<\/p>\n<p>No, you won\u2019t remind him to text you back, and he will be even more reluctant to reply to you. Why? Because, in a way, you\u2019re forcing him to do so.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 hacer? <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-me-contesta\/\">when he doesn\u2019t text back<\/a> \u00bfdurante d\u00edas? Lo mejor que puedes hacer es DIVERTIRTE y asegurarte de que \u00c9L lo sepa.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>By doing this, you\u2019ll let him know that you don\u2019t care whether he texts you back or not and you\u2019ll be equally happy with or without him. If a man knows that, he will be more than happy to text you back.<\/p>\n<p>Uno de los mejores <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/no-me-contesta\/\">things to do when he doesn\u2019t text back for days<\/a> is to focus on yourself instead of wasting your time thinking about why he hasn\u2019t texted you back.<\/p>\n<p>When a man sees that you\u2019re a confident, independent woman and that you have more important things to do in your life than worry about him texting you, he will be more than happy to text you back.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That\u2019s the only recipe that works for sure. If you don\u2019t trust me, you can try both ways.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Puedes intentar pensar en \u00e9l y enviarle mensajes todos los d\u00edas de tu vida hasta que decida responderte (o bloquearte).<\/p>\n<p>O puedes centrarte en vivir tu mejor vida hasta que entre en raz\u00f3n (o se d\u00e9 cuenta de lo que tenga que darse cuenta) y decida devolverte el mensaje.<\/p>\n<p><strong>As\u00ed que, cuando por fin te devuelva el mensaje, puedes hacer dos cosas:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>a)<\/strong> Resp\u00f3ndele y p\u00eddele que te explique por qu\u00e9 ha tardado tanto (esto \u00faltimo es opcional)<\/p>\n<p><strong>b)<\/strong> Ign\u00f3ralo durante el resto de tu vida (o durante alg\u00fan tiempo s\u00f3lo para darle a probar de su propia medicina).<\/p>\n<p>Whatever you choose to do, I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll make the right choice.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A few days ago, he was the most charming man in the world both in real life and in the virtual one. His texting skills were truly remarkable and he would never forget to send you an emoji to make his texts look even more interesting. He would tell you about his day, his passions,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":126025,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-126010","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Why-He-Stopped-Texting-You-Suddenly-And-What-To-Do-About-It-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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