{"id":126306,"date":"2021-02-22T11:41:45","date_gmt":"2021-02-22T11:41:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=126306"},"modified":"2022-02-15T00:40:14","modified_gmt":"2022-02-15T00:40:14","slug":"debo-enviarle-un-mensaje-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/debo-enviarle-un-mensaje-2\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfDebo enviarle un mensaje? Aprende cu\u00e1ndo enviar mensajes (y cu\u00e1ndo esperar)"},"content":{"rendered":"

So, you\u2019re looking at your phone, scrolling through your feed (or checking out his profile for the thousandth time) while asking yourself this famous question: \u00bfDebo enviarle un mensaje de texto o no?<\/a>? <\/p>\n

\u00bfDebo enviarle un simple \"Hola\" y esperar a que retome la iniciativa y me haga preguntas significativas?<\/em><\/p>\n

What if he doesn\u2019t do that? Should I text him one of those heartfelt texts where I\u2019ll show him the ultimate affection (that is killing me as I\u2019m overthinking all this)? \u00bfDeber\u00edas enviar primero un mensaje de texto a un chico?<\/a>?<\/em><\/p>\n

Tras un tiempo sopesando los pros y los contras, llegas a la siguiente conclusi\u00f3n: Tal vez deber\u00eda esperar. Pero, \u00bfy si no vuelve a mandarme mensajes? \u00bfY si se olvida completamente de m\u00ed? <\/em><\/p>\n

Una cosa es segura: It\u2019s so damn hard to be a woman (or to be a human being) in these instant messaging and social media times.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Si le env\u00edas un doble mensaje, puedes despedirte literalmente de vuestro (casi) romance. Si le dejas esperar demasiado a que respondas, te arriesgas a que se enfade contigo o a que se olvide de ti y te borre de su vida.<\/p>\n

God forbid if you \u201cSeen\u201d them or if they \u201cSeen\u201d you.<\/p>\n

We live in times when throwing a \u201cSeen\u201d is considered one of the greatest sins<\/strong> cuando se trata de relaciones rom\u00e1nticas y de comunicaci\u00f3n en general.<\/p>\n

Hay tantas reglas, tantas oportunidades de cometer errores y tantas vueltas que darle. Pero hay algo que las eclipsa a todas y es aprender cu\u00e1ndo es el momento adecuado para enviar un mensaje de texto y cu\u00e1ndo hay que esperar.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 quieres enviarle un mensaje?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Knowing when you should text him and when you shouldn\u2019t is connected with your motives.<\/p>\n

You need to ask yourself why you want to text them in the first place, and there, you\u2019ll find the answer to your question as to whether you should text him or not.<\/p>\n

Do you want to text him because you\u2019re feeling bored and\/or lonely?<\/h3>\n

Los mensajes de texto se han convertido en el remedio m\u00e1s popular contra el aburrimiento y en una herramienta de distracci\u00f3n para todo tipo de estados de \u00e1nimo.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing wrong with wanting to text someone when you\u2019re feeling bored or lonely, but this depends on your relationship with them.<\/p>\n

Is he your ex that you can\u2019t stop thinking about, so you have an uncontrollable urge to text him?<\/h3>\n

If he\u2019s your ex that you\u2019re thinking about 24\/7 (especially when you\u2019re feeling bored), you shouldn\u2019t enviarle un mensaje de texto durante un per\u00edodo de no contacto<\/a> que deber\u00eda durar unos 90 d\u00edas despu\u00e9s de una ruptura.<\/p>\n

I know what you\u2019re thinking: 90 DAYS, WHAT THE HELL? I\u2019ll die before then.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Well, you might feel extremely tempted to text him, you might experience a couple of breakdowns or eat tons of ice cream while cursing your destiny, but you won\u2019t die for sure. Why?<\/p>\n

Because no one else died because of a No Contact period. Yes, it will be challenging to survive 90 days without texting him, but you\u2019ll make it, and once you get there, you\u2019ll be thankful to yourself for that.<\/p>\n

Also, you\u2019ll have a clearer perspective on things, which will help you decide whether it\u2019s time to move on or reunite with him.<\/p>\n

\u00bfIgnor\u00f3 tu \u00faltimo mensaje y ahora quieres recordarle que te devuelva el mensaje?<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Este es realmente complicado y molesto (especialmente molesto).<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing more painful in the whole wide world than the feeling of expecting him to text you back when deep down in your soul, you know that he won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Aun as\u00ed, sigues esperando que alg\u00fan d\u00eda responda a tu mensaje, ya olvidado.
\nYou\u2019ll easily become tempted to remind him to text you back, and to do so, you have to double text him.<\/p>\n

Enviar dos mensajes de texto es otra zona peligrosa en la que todo el mundo deber\u00eda evitar entrar si puede.<\/p>\n

So, here\u2019s my humble advice to you: Unless you\u2019re REALLY and I mean really worried about their well-being, DON\u2019T double text him<\/strong>. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n

a) Porque ya ha le\u00eddo su texto.<\/p>\n

b) Because, for some reason, he didn\u2019t want to text you back.<\/p>\n

c) Because you\u2019re not desperate.<\/p>\n

d) Because if you do, he\u2019ll think of you as desperate.<\/p>\n

So, unless you suspect that he was prevented from texting you back due to some medical issue or other serious thing, then you shouldn\u2019t text him back.<\/p>\n

Otherwise, he\u2019ll continue taking you for granted by letting you wait for an eternity to text you back. Even worse, he\u2019ll think that you\u2019re okay with it and that you\u2019ll always wait.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: 14 cosas inteligentes que hacer cuando no te contesta en d\u00edas<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00bfQuieres enviarle un mensaje porque GENUINAMENTE le echas de menos y (todav\u00eda) sientes algo por \u00e9l?<\/h3>\n

Si rompisteis y realmente le echas de menos y sigues sintiendo algo por \u00e9l incluso despu\u00e9s del periodo de No Contacto, entonces deber\u00edas mandarle un mensaje.<\/p>\n

Perhaps he\u2019s feeling the same way, so if you don\u2019t tell him how you\u2019re feeling, you\u2019ll never know whether you have a chance at reuniting with him.<\/p>\n

M\u00e1ndale un mensaje una vez, y si te contesta, enhorabuena. If he doesn\u2019t text you back, then DON\u2019T double text him.<\/strong> Again, you don\u2019t want him to think of you as desperate or that you can\u2019t live your best life without him.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a man to be happy; trust me on that one. If you place your happiness in someone else\u2019s hands, you\u2019ll never be truly happy (I\u2019ve learned that one the hard way).<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s guilty of doing these things, don\u2019t even bother to text him back!<\/h3>\n

We women are really good at making excuses for our men. We\u2019re so good at it that making excuses for them should be presented to the world as an art in itself or a course that other people can attend.<\/p>\n

If you make an excuse once for your man, it\u2019s not a big deal, but if you continue doing so, it\u2019s time to change the game.<\/p>\n

There are some things that you should never tolerate no matter if you\u2019re dating him or if you\u2019re in a relationship.<\/p>\n

If he does these things, don\u2019t even bother to text him back<\/a>:<\/p>\n