{"id":126319,"date":"2021-05-17T19:12:49","date_gmt":"2021-05-17T19:12:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=126319"},"modified":"2021-11-12T17:26:21","modified_gmt":"2021-11-12T17:26:21","slug":"no-necesitas-un-hombre-para-ser-feliz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-necesitas-un-hombre-para-ser-feliz\/","title":{"rendered":"Se\u00f1oras, por eso no necesitan un hombre para ser felices"},"content":{"rendered":"

I don\u2019t need a man to be happy<\/a>!<\/strong><\/p>\n

How many times have you heard this clich\u00e9?
\nHe apostado demasiadas veces, como yo.<\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfcu\u00e1ntos de ustedes han aplicado realmente esta filosof\u00eda en sus vidas?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Apuesto a que no muchos de ustedes, al igual que mi yo del pasado.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s something truly intriguing about us women (and people in general) being convinced that we need to have someone in our lives to be truly happy or fit into societal norms.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s something truly wrong about this worn-out sequence: Finish school \u2013 Find a job \u2013 Find a partner \u2013 Get married \u2013 Have kids.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfEn serio? \u00bfDesde cu\u00e1ndo es \u00e9sta la receta que todos debemos seguir para evitar el ostracismo social?<\/p>\n

So, if you manage to finish school and find a job but have no partner yet, society and the media will make you feel like you\u2019re doing something wrong, and you\u2019ll NEVER be truly happy.<\/p>\n

Well, it\u2019s time to put an end to this lie and manipulation because we don\u2019t need a partner to be happy, and we don\u2019t need to appease society to feel worthy.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a man to experience true happiness because you\u2019re the creator of your own!<\/p>\n

Estar soltero puede ser tan EXCITANTE como tener pareja<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Mariposas en el est\u00f3mago, contar los segundos que faltan para ver a la persona amada, abrazarse, re\u00edr, tener un compa\u00f1ero de fechor\u00edas, un confidente y un amigo, todo en uno...<\/em> son las cosas que hacen que nuestra vida sea divertida y emocionante.<\/p>\n

Now let\u2019s be honest. No matter how fulfilling and entertaining relationships can be, they also come with a HUGE burden.<\/p>\n

All those overthinking sessions about whether you should text them first (or not), whether you should introduce them to your friends and family, the inevitable arguments, compromising (even when you don\u2019t feel like it), finding a balance between esforzarse por hacer cosas por ellos y que no se den por sentados<\/strong>y la lista sigue y sigue.<\/p>\n

Todas estas cosas pueden hacer que tu vida sea frustrante y, en algunos casos, un infierno.<\/p>\n

So, NO, you don\u2019t need to be in a relationship to be happy (especially not a toxic one) because ser soltero<\/a> puede ser tan emocionante como tener pareja.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re single, you have all the time in the world to prioritize your own happiness before someone else\u2019s<\/h2>\n

\"tres<\/p>\n

Puedes elegir tus propias actividades, comida, pel\u00edculas y todas las dem\u00e1s cosas que la gente suele acordar con su pareja.<\/p>\n

You get to live your best life without needing to worry about whether you\u2019re texting him too much, whether he\u2019s not giving you enough attention, or if you should be suspicious of his loyalty.<\/p>\n

You get to spoil yourself the way you deserve, spend more time with your friends and family, so you don\u2019t need a man to be happy because you can be perfectly happy on your own!<\/strong><\/p>\n

It took me a while to realize that putting my happiness in someone else\u2019s hands is the wrong thing to do.<\/p>\n

Durante la mitad de mi vida, sol\u00eda pensar que la \u00fanica forma de alcanzar la verdadera felicidad era encontrando la pareja perfecta para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

So, I\u2019ve learned two lessons the hard way:<\/p>\n

1. The perfect partner doesn\u2019t exist.<\/strong><\/p>\n

2. La \u00fanica forma de ser verdaderamente feliz es aprendiendo a estar enamorado de uno mismo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you love yourself, you don\u2019t look for that one missing piece in someone else. When you love yourself, you don\u2019t need validation from others. You don\u2019t need a man to make you feel worthy or loved.<\/p>\n

Loving yourself is about establishing a relationship you\u2019ll value your whole life. It\u2019s about accepting yourself for who you are with all those imperfections, quirks, weaknesses, and weird habits.<\/p>\n

Loving yourself is about knowing that you\u2019re the creator of your own happiness<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Recuerda que viniste sola a este mundo. Encontrar pareja es una elecci\u00f3n, pero enamorarte de ti mismo es una necesidad.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s interesting how society (particularly the media) prioritizes relationships before self-love.<\/p>\n

Since when did finding a partner become an alternative for getting in touch with your true self? How is it possible to love someone else if you\u2019re not in love with yourself?<\/p>\n

Una de las principales razones por las que los medios de comunicaci\u00f3n nos obligan a creer que necesitamos una pareja para ser felices es porque es la \u00fanica forma que tienen de vendernos cosas.<\/p>\n

En \u201ctechniques and magical recipes for dealing with commitment phobes\u201d <\/strong><\/em>a \u201cthe most expensive makeup that will make you beautiful\u201d<\/strong><\/em> and help you find a long-awaited \u201cperfect\u201d partner.<\/p>\n

Te convencen de que necesitas a alguien en tu vida s\u00f3lo para convertirte en esclavo de su propaganda.<\/p>\n

Half of those terms like \u201ccommitment-phobes,\u201d \u201calmost relationships,\u201d and similar don\u2019t even exist in the real world, but that\u2019s an article for another day.<\/p>\n

En mi opini\u00f3n, la gastada secuencia que mencionamos al principio deber\u00eda reformularse de la siguiente manera:<\/p>\n

Finish school \u2013 Find a job \u2013 Enam\u00f3rate de ti mismo<\/strong> \u2013 Find a partner \u2013 Get married \u2013 Have kids.
\n(Of course, some of us don\u2019t want to get married, have kids, finish school, or have a job, which is more than okay.)<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t love yourself, you\u2019ll spend your whole life feeling like something is missing. Perhaps you already have a few failed relationships, and you blame yourself for it.<\/p>\n

De lo \u00fanico que deber\u00edas culparte es de no darte suficiente amor y atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

\u201cLove yourself first because that\u2019s who you\u2019ll be spending the rest of your life with.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Yup. Relationships come and go, but the relationship you have with yourself is for life. You don\u2019t need a man to be happy because you can be perfectly happy on your own only if you want to.<\/p>\n

Acu\u00e9rdate:<\/p>\n

It\u2019s better to be single than to be in a crappy relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not happy, give yourself permission to leave<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quererse a uno mismo es la clave de la verdadera felicidad.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid to live your life without a man<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Love yourself because, at the end of the day, the only person you have is yourself. You don\u2019t need a man to remind you of that.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a man to be happy because you\u2019ve already got plenty of razones para ser feliz ahora mismo, pase lo que pase<\/a>:<\/p>\n