{"id":126339,"date":"2021-02-15T00:27:31","date_gmt":"2021-02-15T00:27:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=126339"},"modified":"2022-02-27T03:13:10","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T03:13:10","slug":"salir-con-una-chica-ansiosa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/salir-con-una-chica-ansiosa\/","title":{"rendered":"Salir con una chica ansiosa: Lo que debe saber y hacer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>\u00bfY si no le gusto tanto como \u00e9l a m\u00ed? \u00bfY si me oculta algo? \u00bfY si no me contesta?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re dating a girl with an anxious mind, this is exactly what\u2019s going on inside her head. Overthinking, trust issues, anticipating disasters are a part of her everyday life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Una chica ansiosa pasa mucho tiempo preocup\u00e1ndose y d\u00e1ndole vueltas a todo. Esos pensamientos ansiosos son tan intensos como su amor por ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ella es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/privilegio-capaz-amor-chica-gran-corazon\/\">una chica con un gran coraz\u00f3n<\/a>pero su ansiedad a menudo le impide demostrarlo.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, she might look indifferent, bitchy, or reserved, but this is not her. It\u2019s her anxiety entrapping her mind and making her a prisoner of her own thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>Salir con una chica ansiosa es un reto y, al mismo tiempo, lo mejor que te puede pasar.<\/p>\n<h2>She\u2019s not like any other girl you\u2019ve dated before.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-126342 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-sitting-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"mujer pensativa con camisa de rayas sentada en un sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-sitting-on-sofa.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/psychology\/anxiety-depression\/ever-fall-love-anxious-girl-leer\/\">Si alguna vez te enamoras de una chica ansiosa<\/a>, the first thing you need to know about her is that she\u2019s not like any other girl out there.<\/p>\n<p>Su mundo es un lugar m\u00e1gico lleno de emociones intensas, altibajos, fantas\u00edas, pensamientos exagerados, amor.<\/p>\n<p>If you ever fall in love with such a girl, know that she\u2019s the most beautiful and fragile human being in the world.<\/p>\n<p>Know that most of the time, she\u2019s worried about everything and anything from the things you\u2019ve said to her to things you might say.<\/p>\n<p><em>But most of the time, she\u2019s thinking about bad things that might happen in the future. She\u2019s afraid of liking you so much because her anxious thoughts make her feel insecure.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Every morning when she wakes up, she thinks about you, and she wonders if you\u2019re thinking about her too.<\/p>\n<p>Cada vez que te env\u00eda un mensaje de texto largo y t\u00fa le respondes con uno de una sola palabra, se preocupa, se confunde y empieza a anticipar lo peor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She\u2019s not like any other girl you\u2019ve dated before because she\u2019s gone through a lot.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Her anxiety has made her life a living hell, but she found a way to live with it. It wasn\u2019t easy, but somehow she found a way to live with her anxious thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>When a girl with an anxious mind likes someone, she likes them with all her body and heart. She doesn\u2019t know how to love partially or selfishly. Loving completely and wholeheartedly is her style.<\/p>\n<p>A pesar de que sus pensamientos ansiosos la hacen preocuparse constantemente por las cosas malas que puedan ocurrir en el futuro, sigue eligiendo amar pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That\u2019s what makes her strong, beautiful, and unique. A girl with an anxious mind is not like any other girl you\u2019ve dated before because she over worries but also overloves.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Todos los d\u00edas de su vida tiene que enfrentarse a estas preguntas:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>\u00bfY si le gusta m\u00e1s otra persona?<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>\u00bfY si mi ansiedad arruina mi relaci\u00f3n?<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>What if I\u2019m always the one initiating conversation?<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>\u00bfY si me fantasma?<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>What if\u2026<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The world of a girl with an anxious mind consists of too many \u2018what ifs.\u2019 If you give her a reason to be suspicious of your faithfulness, she will enter the overthinking zone.<\/p>\n<p>If she\u2019s always the one texting you first, she\u2019ll start thinking that you don\u2019t or that you never even liked her in the first place.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/enamoramiento-chica-emocional-mente-ansiosa-saber\/\">Enamorarse de una chica emocional con un coraz\u00f3n ansioso<\/a> is not easy, but it\u2019s totally worth it!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Aside from being overly worried and confused, she\u2019s also too emotional and sensitive. She sees the world in a different light than the rest of us. She experiences everything on a deeper level:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Encuentra la alegr\u00eda en las peque\u00f1as cosas.<\/li>\n<li>Su percepci\u00f3n del mundo es pura e inocente.<\/li>\n<li>She\u2019s genuine.<\/li>\n<li>She\u2019s both scared and excited about life.<\/li>\n<li>She\u2019s not afraid to love with all of her heart.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/dating-girl-outgoing-personality-mente-ansiosa-saber\/\">Antes de salir con una chica de personalidad extrovertida pero de mente ansiosa<\/a>, know that even though she\u2019s laughing, she\u2019s still worrying in the background.<\/p>\n<p>Sepa que se fijar\u00e1 en cada detalle de usted y que se preocupar\u00e1 por tonter\u00edas.<\/p>\n<p><em>Te llamar\u00e1 a las 3 de la ma\u00f1ana s\u00f3lo para decirte lo mucho que te quiere porque le preocupar\u00e1 que lo olvides.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>She will tell you that she\u2019s feeling great even when her world is collapsing.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Siempre tendr\u00e1 miedo de perderte debido a su ansiedad.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Se necesita un hombre fuerte para salir con una chica ansiosa. Se necesita un hombre fuerte para hacerla sentir amada y aliviar sus pensamientos ansiosos. Si alguna vez sales con una chica ansiosa, recuerda esto:<\/p>\n<h2>DON\u2019T ever make her question your intentions, loyalty, and affection.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-126343 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-holding-hands.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer cogidos de la mano sentados cerca del agua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-holding-hands.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-holding-hands-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-holding-hands-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-holding-hands-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-holding-hands-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-holding-hands-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-holding-hands-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-holding-hands-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una chica ansiosa tiene miles de pesta\u00f1as abiertas en su mente dise\u00f1adas expl\u00edcitamente para pensar demasiado.<\/p>\n<p>This means that she\u2019ll always have plenty of material to overthink without you ever needing to give her more.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So, don\u2019t ever make her question your intentions, loyalty, and affection because if you do, she will worry even more.<\/strong> Don\u2019t make her jealous, don\u2019t play mind games, and don\u2019t play hard to get.<\/p>\n<p>Be open and honest with her because that will help her establish trust with you. If you disappoint her once, she\u2019ll need plenty of time before she can trust you again.<\/p>\n<h2>Don\u2019t accuse her of being anxious.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-126344 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-to-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer hablando con hombre sentada en un sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-to-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-to-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-to-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-to-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-to-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-to-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-to-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-to-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s perfectly aware that her anxiety is like a boring roommate that she can\u2019t get rid of.<\/p>\n<p>She knows that her anxiety sometimes forces her to make impulsive decisions, say something she doesn\u2019t mean, or worry about things normal people never would.<\/p>\n<p>She knows all that, and she accepts it as it is because there\u2019s nothing she can do about it.<\/p>\n<p>Si realmente te gusta y te preocupas por ella, <strong>don\u2019t EVER accuse her of being anxious because if you do, she\u2019ll feel even more anxious.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sepa que se levanta cada ma\u00f1ana deseando estar despreocupada y a gusto como cualquier otra persona.<\/p>\n<p>She often hates herself for not being able to shut her anxious thoughts off for good. So, don\u2019t accuse her of being anxious because she\u2019s already accusing herself every day of her life.<\/p>\n<h2>Don\u2019t try to change her.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-126345 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-hugging-woman-1.jpg\" alt=\"hombre abrazando a mujer de pie al aire libre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-hugging-woman-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-hugging-woman-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-hugging-woman-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-hugging-woman-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-hugging-woman-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-hugging-woman-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-hugging-woman-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-hugging-woman-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t judge her for overreacting, overthinking, or sometimes acting silly. Don\u2019t tell her that you wish she were different. Don\u2019t make her feel even more guilty about her anxiety.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly, don\u2019t try to change her because you\u2019ll make her even more confused. <strong>Acepte el hecho de que la ansiedad forma parte de su vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You can help her deal with it, but don\u2019t try to change it because you won\u2019t succeed.<\/p>\n<p>Anxiety isn\u2019t something that goes away, but it\u2019s something you learn to control. It\u2019s something you learn to live with.<\/p>\n<p><em>When she\u2019s feeling upset, hug her and tell her that she\u2019s not alone.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Cuando tenga un ataque de p\u00e1nico, c\u00f3gele la mano y dile que se le pasar\u00e1.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>When she tells you that she\u2019s a mess, tell her how beautiful she is.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Qui\u00e9rela por lo que es.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-126346 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-kissing-womans-forehead.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con camiseta blanca besando la frente de una mujer\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-kissing-womans-forehead.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Acepta sus imperfecciones, dale cari\u00f1o, haz que se sienta guapa y apreciada. En lugar de intentar cambiarla, qui\u00e9rela por lo que es.<\/p>\n<p>Deja que te muestre c\u00f3mo funciona su mundo. Deja que te presente sus miedos, sus sue\u00f1os y sus metas. Recu\u00e9rdale lo fuerte que es y que puede conseguir cualquier cosa s\u00f3lo si se lo propone.<\/p>\n<p><em>T\u00f3mala de la mano y hazle saber que puede confiar en ti. Abr\u00e1zala fuerte y nunca dejes de abrazarla. B\u00e9sala como si realmente lo sintieras.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Qui\u00e9rela cada d\u00eda un poco m\u00e1s que ayer.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Surprise her with a beautiful flower, make her laugh, send her a good night text to remind her that you\u2019re thinking about her.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let her wait, don\u2019t let her question your actions, and don\u2019t make her feel insecure. Be patient, understanding, and gentle.<\/p>\n<p>Show her that you\u2019re on her side, and you\u2019ll never leave her no matter what. Don\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/7-cosas-que-pasan-cuando-rompes-el-corazon-de-una-chica-ansiosa\/\">break an anxious girl\u2019s heart<\/a> because if you do, she\u2019ll never be able to love again.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What if he doesn\u2019t like me as much as I like him? What if he\u2019s hiding something from me? What if he doesn\u2019t text me back? If you\u2019re dating a girl with an anxious mind, this is exactly what\u2019s going on inside her head. Overthinking, trust issues, anticipating disasters are a part of her everyday&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":126341,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-126339","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Dating-A-Girl-With-An-Anxious-Mind_-What-You-Need-To-Know-And-Do-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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