{"id":126348,"date":"2021-02-15T00:31:07","date_gmt":"2021-02-15T00:31:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=126348"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:55:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:55:25","slug":"como-conseguir-que-le-gustes-a-tu-pareja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-conseguir-que-le-gustes-a-tu-pareja\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como conseguir\u00e1s VOLVER A GUSTAR A TU AMOR"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cada vez que me enamoro de alguien, mi cerebro se convierte en esto:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Oh no, me vio mir\u00e1ndolo. Mi vida est\u00e1 oficialmente acabada.<\/li>\n<li>I\u2019ve got NOTHING to wear.<\/li>\n<li>\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo deshacerme de esas mariposas en el est\u00f3mago?<\/li>\n<li>OMG, lo agregu\u00e9\/segu\u00ed en las redes sociales. Ahora probablemente piensa que me gusta.<\/li>\n<li>Necesito un nuevo corte de pelo.<\/li>\n<li>Should I text him? But, what if he doesn\u2019t text me back??<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Si a\u00f1ade <em>being unable to fall asleep because you can\u2019t stop thinking about them and every single thing reminding you of them<\/em> a la ecuaci\u00f3n, ah\u00ed lo tienes: <strong>Una receta para perder la cabeza.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfTe suena algo de esto? S\u00e9 que s\u00ed, \u00a1as\u00ed que deja de mentirte! Tu enamoramiento es lo primero en lo que piensas por la ma\u00f1ana y lo \u00faltimo en lo que piensas antes de irte a dormir.<\/p>\n<p>Son responsables de muchas noches de insomnio, de pensar demasiado y de so\u00f1ar despierto (\u00a1sobre todo de so\u00f1ar despierto!).<\/p>\n<p>Si conocieras una receta m\u00e1gica sobre c\u00f3mo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/como-impresionar-a-la-persona-que-te-gusta\/\">enamora a tu pareja<\/a>, you would learn it by heart. If only\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Now, let\u2019s be honest. There are no magic recipes or remedies for those intense feelings of infatuation. I\u2019m sorry, but you have to find a way to live with it (for the time being).<\/p>\n<p>Aun as\u00ed, hay algunas cosas que puedes hacer para captar su atenci\u00f3n y ganarte su coraz\u00f3n. Hay cosas que puedes hacer para demostrarle a la persona que te gusta lo interesante e incre\u00edble que eres.<\/p>\n<h2>Si quieres gustar a la persona que te gusta, aseg\u00farate de IMPRESIONARLA.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-126374 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer hablando con hombre tomando cafe al aire libre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re a girl, the first thing that comes to your mind when someone mentions the word IMPRESS is physical appearance, right?<\/p>\n<p>You think of so many different combinations of outfits that could potentially catch his attention, so many different shades of lipstick, nail polish, you name it. (I won\u2019t even mention hair because that would be another article in itself).<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong. Paying attention to your physical appearance is a great way to impress your crush, but only temporarily.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando te vea con el atuendo perfecto, con el pelo perfecto peinado durante 3 horas y todas las dem\u00e1s cosas perfectas en ti, tu enamorado pensar\u00e1 para sus adentros: <strong>DAMN, esta chica se ve muy bien.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de eso, seguir\u00e1 con su vida como si nada hubiera pasado.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re a guy, the first thing that comes to your mind when someone mentions the word IMPRESS is masculinity, strength, and skills, right?<\/p>\n<p>You think of hitting the gym immediately to pump those muscles or taking a picture in front of a mirror in a T-shirt that flatters those biceps, triceps, and almighty abs so that you can post it on social media while praying to God that the girl of your dreams, a.k.a., your CRUSH will see it! (I won\u2019t even mention cars because that would be another story in itself.)<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong. There\u2019s nothing wrong with your desire to accentuate your physique and impress your crush, but this is what she will think to herself: <strong>JODER, este t\u00edo tiene muy buena pinta.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>After that, she\u2019ll move on with her life as if nothing happened.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What I\u2019m trying to say is that physical appearance makes a temporary impression, but your personality is what keeps someone\u2019s attention (and eventually wins their heart)!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Regardless if you\u2019re a guy or a girl, if you want to win your crush like a boss, you need to impress them with your way of thinking, thoughtful actions, and unique mindset.<\/p>\n<h3>Dicho de otro modo: Si quieres llamar su atenci\u00f3n, tienes que ser diferente del resto de chicos y chicas.<\/h3>\n<p>So, how do you show someone that you\u2019re special and different from others? Easy:<\/p>\n<p>a) You don\u2019t pretend to be something you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n<p>b) You accentuate things you\u2019re good at.<\/p>\n<p>c) You don\u2019t use cheesy\/generic pick up lines (reserved for guys).<\/p>\n<p>d) You don\u2019t act desperate (I\u2019m talking about stalking them and similar).<\/p>\n<p>Olv\u00eddate de todos esos art\u00edculos que te dicen que hacerse el duro es la mejor manera de conquistar a tu enamorado.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de hacerse el duro, yo sugerir\u00eda <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-juegos-coquetos-jugar-crush\/\">jugar a juegos coquetos con la persona que te gusta<\/a> (suponiendo que te hayas armado de valor y te hayas puesto en contacto con ellos en persona o a trav\u00e9s de las redes sociales).<\/p>\n<p>Also, pay attention to WHAT you\u2019re talking about rather than HOW MUCH you\u2019re talking to them. Quality over quantity (always remember that).<\/p>\n<p>So, let\u2019s say that you text or you stumble upon your crush in real life. What would you text\/say to them? Think about it for a few seconds as I\u2019m resting my hands from typing.<\/p>\n<p>Okay, given that I cannot know your answer, I\u2019ll just ask you one important question: <strong>\u00bfHay alguna intenci\u00f3n en lo que quieres decirles\/enviarles?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let me simplify. Do you want to ask them questions only for the sake of asking or is there an intention behind your questions and answers? If there isn\u2019t, well, there should be.<\/p>\n<p>Hay tantos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/cosas-de-las-que-hablar-con-tu-pareja\/\">cosas interesantes para hablar con la persona que te gusta y conquistarla<\/a> como la infancia, las mascotas, etc., y esas cosas tienen que tener una intenci\u00f3n (algo que quieras averiguar sobre ellos y similares), y tambi\u00e9n tienen que mantener la conversaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>And, you need to LISTEN to them carefully. By listening, you\u2019ll find so many follow-up questions, which will help you deepen the conversation and make it even more interesting.<\/p>\n<h2>Si quieres gustar a la persona que te gusta, ay\u00fadala a ABRIRSE a ti.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-126375 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-talking.jpg\" alt=\"hombre hablando con mujer sentado en cafe\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the thing with crushes. Chances are high that your crush also has a crush on you, but they won\u2019t admit it to you. You both keep living in an illusion and in your dreamy world full of fantasies and what ifs.<\/p>\n<p>Well, it\u2019s high time you wake up from daydreaming! It\u2019s time to do something about your feelings that are making your life so complicated.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll share with you one little secret: <strong>Si ayudas a tu enamorado a abrirse a ti, la mitad de tu trabajo est\u00e1 hecho.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>La verdad es que a todos nos encanta hablar de nosotros mismos (los que no est\u00e9n de acuerdo conmigo en esto s\u00f3lo se enga\u00f1an a s\u00ed mismos).<\/p>\n<p>Al hacer preguntas significativas, ayudamos a los dem\u00e1s a abrirse a nosotros, lo que hace que se sientan m\u00e1s c\u00f3modos a nuestro alrededor y conectados con nosotros.<\/p>\n<p>Las matem\u00e1ticas son sencillas. <strong>Si la persona que te gusta se siente a gusto contigo y conecta contigo, querr\u00e1 pasar m\u00e1s tiempo contigo.<\/strong> (s\u00f3lo para hablar de s\u00ed mismos, si no para otra cosa).<\/p>\n<p>Tengo experiencias tanto positivas como negativas en lo que respecta a mis enamoramientos. Algunas fueron imposibles de descifrar y abrir por mucho que lo intent\u00e9, mientras que otras fueron un libro abierto.<\/p>\n<p>Todo depende de su tipo de personalidad, as\u00ed que tenlo en cuenta. No obstante, tanto a los introvertidos como a los extrovertidos les gusta responder a preguntas reflexivas, es decir, preguntas que no sean ABURRIDAS ni GEN\u00c9RICAS.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He aqu\u00ed algunos datos interesantes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/50-preguntas-para-que-tu-pareja-se-abra-a-ti\/\">preguntas para que tu pareja se abra a ti<\/a>:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Si pudiera volver atr\u00e1s en el tiempo, \u00bfqu\u00e9 har\u00eda de forma diferente?<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>\u00bfQu\u00e9 fue lo primero que le vino a la mente cuando me vio por primera vez?<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Si fueras un animal, \u00bfqu\u00e9 elegir\u00edas ser? (Imagina que responden: T\u00fa. Ser\u00eda sarc\u00e1sticamente \u00e9pico).<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>\u00bfTiene fobias?<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>What\u2019s the one thing you can\u2019t live without?<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>\u00bfQu\u00e9 es lo que m\u00e1s odia de la gente?<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Y, por el amor de Dios, \u00a1muestra esa CONFIANZA!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-126376 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sonriendo sentados al aire libre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If there\u2019s something I have learned in my humble life, it\u2019s the fact that you could be the prettiest, handsomest, or whatever-est person in the world, but you will not succeed in winning your crush if you don\u2019t show some confidence.<\/p>\n<p>Eso incluye sentirte c\u00f3modo en tu propia piel, que no te importe lo que los dem\u00e1s piensen de ti y aceptarte tal y como eres, con todas esas rarezas y defectos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The more you are in love with yourself, the more you\u2019ll attract others.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In the end, it\u2019s all about the vibes, people. It\u2019s all about exhibiting positive energy that can make even the shyest ones or hard-to-get ones addicted to you.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Whenever I have a crush on someone, my brain turns into this: Oh no, he saw me staring at him. My life is officially over. I\u2019ve got NOTHING to wear. How do I get rid of those butterflies in my stomach?? OMG, I added\/followed him on social media. Now he probably thinks that I like&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":126373,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-126348","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/This-Is-How-Youll-Get-Your-Crush-To-LIKE-You-BACK-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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