{"id":12654,"date":"2020-02-20T14:18:16","date_gmt":"2020-02-20T14:18:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12654"},"modified":"2022-01-28T00:27:43","modified_gmt":"2022-01-28T00:27:43","slug":"me-gusta-24-preguntas-puede-hacer-saber-seguro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/me-gusta-24-preguntas-puede-hacer-saber-seguro\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfMe gusta? 24 preguntas para estar seguro"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfMe gusta?<\/i> That\u2019s the million dollar question ninety percent of women ask themselves after a date that they\u2019re not sure went exactly according to plan or when they think about that weird borderline friends relationship they have going on.<\/p>\n

Los sentimientos pueden ser TAN enga\u00f1osos a veces. Los sentimientos pueden ser una mierda. Pero, \u00bfqu\u00e9 puedes hacer al respecto?<\/p>\n

You are human, you feel. You deal with it and find a way to understand what’s going on in your love life.<\/p>\n

So here’s the problem and I’m bringing you the best answer possible.<\/b><\/p>\n

You can think you don’t have a crush on the guy you’re seeing<\/a>, but then when he’s gone, you realize you’ve been denying your true feelings for him from the beginning.<\/p>\n

We all go out with people, desperately trying to find our \u201cone\u201d and sometimes, due to our hidden desire to find that deep love that movies romanticize so much, we tend to settle for something that\u2019s not easy to define.<\/p>\n

But the real truth is, it\u2019s just too risky to put your heart out there, leaving it so open and vulnerable, when you\u2019re just not sure whether you like him or it\u2019s just a fleeting crush for the sake of momentary pleasure.<\/i><\/p>\n

You really want to like him and you want to be sure of your feelings if you\u2019re going to act on them\u2026 But what if your mind is tricking you? What if your <\/b>sentimientos reales<\/b> are not what you’re feeling right now?<\/b><\/p>\n

What if this guy is just some rebound dude you like at this very moment, because you\u2019re still so fresh from a breakup that you just can\u2019t think straight?<\/p>\n

This is why it\u2019s really important to ask yourself, \u201cDo I like him?\u2019\u2019<\/i> por dos razones muy concretas<\/h2>\n

\"joven <\/i><\/p>\n

Firstly, you don\u2019t want to end up embarking on another superficial, draining, insignificant romantic voyage that\u2019s going to feel good for exactly three weeks before you start realizing you\u2019re wasting your time on something so meaningless.<\/i><\/p>\n

Y en segundo lugar, debes tener cuidado de no herir sus sentimientos. Los hombres tambi\u00e9n son personas. Por muy duro que parezca su exterior, les duele tanto como a nosotras, as\u00ed que hay que estar segura de lo que se quiere antes de hacer promesas.<\/i><\/p>\n

Si quieres tener una relaci\u00f3n real y sana con este hombre, debes tener cuidado de empezarla con sentimientos sinceros y genuinos.<\/p>\n

Como usted sabe, lealtad<\/a> takes first place in every relationship and you can\u2019t be loyal if you\u2019re unsure of your feelings.<\/p>\n

So, if you\u2019re still interested in uncovering the hidden affections of your heart, keep reading, give honest answers to these questions, and find out for sure. Good luck!<\/p>\n

\u00bfMe gusta? 20 preguntas que puedes hacerte para estar segura<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/i><\/p>\n

1. \u00bfCon qu\u00e9 frecuencia piensa en \u00e9l?<\/h3>\n

Si la respuesta es de vez en cuando o a veces, es posible que se trate de un problema temporal. aplastar<\/a>.<\/p>\n

But if you can\u2019t take your mind off of him and if thoughts about him give you a fuzzy feeling, the answer is clear \u2013 you like him.<\/p>\n

Aunque esto suele ser cierto, hay una excepci\u00f3n en situaciones similares.<\/p>\n

Tienes que contar con la primera fase despu\u00e9s de conocer a alguien nuevo. Puede que lo tengas en mente bastante, pero eso suele durar unos 10 o 15 d\u00edas.<\/p>\n

I suggest you don\u2019t make the first move until you’re absolutely positive you like him.<\/p>\n

If nothing\u2019s happened in that period and you stop thinking about him, it means that you were just infatuated by him and not in love. These periods last so much shorter than the real deal.<\/p>\n

2. \u00bfCu\u00e1ntas cosas te gustan de \u00e9l puedes enumerar?<\/h3>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 te gusta de \u00e9l? Enum\u00e9ralo todo en un papel y observa el n\u00famero de cosas enumeradas.<\/p>\n

\u00bfHay m\u00e1s de 10, quiz\u00e1s 20 o 30 cosas que realmente te gusten de \u00e9l?<\/p>\n

Si es as\u00ed, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 te preguntas si te gusta? Claro que te gusta.<\/p>\n

3. \u00bfC\u00f3mo ser\u00eda tu vida sin \u00e9l?<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/i><\/p>\n

Has your life gotten much happier since he\u2019s been around? Are you happy he\u2019s there?<\/p>\n

Or would it be much better if he wasn\u2019t around? Is this the first time you feel complete?<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs la primera vez que tienes la sensaci\u00f3n de estar en una relaci\u00f3n de verdad?<\/p>\n

Si tus respuestas a estas preguntas son afirmativas, entonces no tienes nada de qu\u00e9 preocuparte. Adelante.<\/p>\n

4. \u00bfLe resulta natural estar con \u00e9l?<\/h3>\n

Simplemente hay personas en nuestra vida que est\u00e1n destinadas a estar ah\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Son como el sol despu\u00e9s de una tormenta, tan c\u00e1lidos, y nos sentimos tan unidos a ellos porque podemos ser nosotros mismos a su alrededor. \u00bfEsto tambi\u00e9n se aplica a \u00e9l?<\/p>\n

5. \u00bfC\u00f3mo se comporta tu cuerpo cuando lo ves?<\/h3>\n

Does your heart rate increase? If you feel your heart thumping inside your chest and you lose your breath, if you can\u2019t find the right words and you always say something silly or things don\u2019t come out of your mouth the way they should, you are getting nervous around him.<\/p>\n

The next question is, \u201dWhy do you get nervous?\u201d and I guess that\u2019s because you really do like him.<\/p>\n

6. \u00bfC\u00f3mo te mira?<\/h3>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Vale, la forma en que nos mira un hombre que nos gusta puede darnos escalofr\u00edos por todo el cuerpo. \u00bf\u00c9l te mira de esa manera?<\/p>\n

\u00bfTe deja boquiabierta con s\u00f3lo mirarte? \u00bfLa atracci\u00f3n f\u00edsica es demasiado fuerte?<\/p>\n

Estas preguntas son la base de toda relaci\u00f3n. Si tus respuestas son afirmativas, no tienes de qu\u00e9 preocuparte.<\/p>\n

You’re definitely crazy about that guy and if you play your cards right, you can go far in your intention.<\/p>\n

7. \u00bfCu\u00e1les son tus objetivos en la relaci\u00f3n?<\/h3>\n

I mean for the both of you. Can you see yourself being with him and reaching all the relationship goals you\u2019ve set for yourself?<\/p>\n

Can you imagine yourself being happy with him? If you immediately thought, \u201cYes!\u201d to all of the above, you probably really like him!<\/p>\n

8. Si te pidiera una cita en condiciones, \u00bfqu\u00e9 har\u00edas?<\/h3>\n

\u00bfHas imaginado la situaci\u00f3n en la que \u00e9l se te acerca y te pide salir? \u00bfRecreas esa misma imagen en tu mente cada vez que le ves?<\/p>\n

Si la respuesta a esta pregunta es una imagen de ti mismo saltando de felicidad, entonces mi trabajo aqu\u00ed ha terminado.<\/p>\n

9. \u00bfTiene conexi\u00f3n?<\/h3>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Es decir, una conexi\u00f3n emocional, mental e incluso f\u00edsica con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Emotional, as in you feel secure when you\u2019re around him and you don\u2019t need to worry about if he\u2019s going to be there for you.<\/p>\n

A mental connection, as in you can talk about everything that\u2019s on your mind with him.<\/p>\n

Physical \u2013 do you \u00bflo encuentras atractivo?<\/a> \u00bfEs sexy? \u00bfEs guapo? S\u00e9 sincera.<\/p>\n

10. Simplemente preg\u00fantate si te gusta.<\/h3>\n

It\u2019s about the first thing that pops into your mind. If you get that fuzzy feeling and butterflies in your stomach and if the first thing on your mind is happiness, then the answer is clear. No need to further question yourself about it.<\/p>\n

Consider yourself lucky if he feels the same about you because a lot of people find themselves in the state of hopeless infatuation but sadly don’t get any response in return.<\/p>\n

11. \u00bfHas llegado a conocerle?<\/h3>\n

\u00bfTe has sentado con \u00e9l a hablar de sus planes de futuro, su moral, sus ideales, lo que le gusta y lo que no?<\/p>\n

If you haven\u2019t had a proper conversation about the big stuff, it\u2019s important to do so before deciding if you really like him!<\/p>\n

12. \u00bfDesde cu\u00e1ndo?<\/h3>\n

\"joven<\/i><\/p>\n

I mean, how long do you think you have liked him? If you\u2019ve been crushing on him for some time now, you might see that there is no reason to just call it a crush.<\/p>\n

Crushes can\u2019t last for a long period of time\u2014they are just temporary. But if it\u2019s been months? It\u2019s more than just a crush.<\/p>\n

13. \u00bfTus amigos se burlan de ti y te presionan para que est\u00e9s con \u00e9l?<\/h3>\n

Friends from both sides. If you\u2019re being pressured from your and his friends to like him and be with him because, as they said, \u201dYou\u2019d look cute together,\u201d chances are slim that you\u2019re actually interested in him but rather that you\u2019re being pressured into something that wasn\u2019t even your choice to begin with.<\/p>\n

14. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 est\u00e1s confundido al respecto?<\/h3>\n

Usually, if you like someone, you simply know it. You feel it, to be honest. You don\u2019t question yourself.<\/p>\n

But if you do, you can continue to ask yourself questions like, \u201cIs it because I didn\u2019t have the chance to talk to him alone?\u201d<\/p>\n

15. \u00bfTe hace muchos cumplidos?<\/h3>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You like the people who see the good parts of you and compliment you a lot. It\u2019s human nature. We love to be complimented.<\/p>\n

If he does compliment you a lot, then maybe you\u2019ve fallen for the compliments and not for him? I don\u2019t know, you do.<\/p>\n

16. \u00bfEst\u00e1s intentando superar a un ex?<\/h3>\n

This can mess with your feelings a lot. If you\u2019re trying to get over an ex, finding someone to help you with that is the easiest thing ever.<\/p>\n

Aseg\u00farate de haber superado por completo cualquier carga que haya quedado de tus relaciones pasadas; ay\u00fadate con eso.<\/p>\n

You will end up hurting both of you if you start something new while you\u2019re holding on to the baggage of your past.<\/p>\n

17. \u00bfTe gusta simplemente la idea de que te guste?<\/h3>\n

This is more confusing, but if you made a move on him before, if you tried to flirt with him, you really do like him. If not, then you\u2019re in love with the idea of liking him.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re known for going after what we want. If you didn\u2019t start something then you don\u2019t lo quiero de verdad<\/a>.<\/p>\n

18. Si ahora mismo sonara tu tel\u00e9fono y vieras su nombre en la pantalla, \u00bfc\u00f3mo te sentir\u00edas?<\/h3>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

If you immediately started hyperventilating in your mind at the thought of this, your heart started beating twice the normal speed and a huge smile formed on your face\u2026 Yup, you really like this dude.<\/p>\n

19. Si su atractiva mejor amiga te invitara a salir, \u00bfir\u00edas?<\/h3>\n

If you can\u2019t even imagine this happening and you are repulsed by the idea\u2026 then you probably do have strong feelings for him. If you can\u2019t see yourself going out with anyone else (no matter how hot they are), you know your feelings are legit.<\/p>\n

20. \u00bfC\u00f3mo se comparan tus sentimientos con los que ten\u00edas por tu ex?<\/h3>\n

If you feel like it\u2019s really different this time and you can\u2019t even compare it to anything, you might be onto something here.<\/p>\n

But if it feels the exact same way as it did with your exes, you might not actually like him; you\u2019re just stuck in an unhealthy pattern.<\/p>\n

21. \u00bfTe imaginas con \u00e9l?<\/h3>\n

\"silueta<\/p>\n

Cuando te gusta alguien, normalmente te imaginas con \u00e9l. Poco a poco empiezas a imaginar c\u00f3mo ser\u00eda una relaci\u00f3n con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Si puedes imaginarte con \u00e9l en lo bueno y en lo malo, en todo momento, siempre a su lado.<\/p>\n

If that thought doesn’t scare you, then you’re definitely ready for a relationship and you really like him.<\/p>\n

22. \u00bfHas hablado alguna vez con \u00e9l?<\/h3>\n

If you never made a move, then you probably don’t like him. You just like the idea of him.<\/p>\n

Since you’ve never done anything about that crush you feel, it’s probably something that won’t last for a long time.<\/p>\n

Normalmente, la idea de enamorarse va seguida de dar el primer paso, hablar con la persona que te gusta o pedirle una cita. Se trata de establecer contacto y empezar a salir con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

23. \u00bfTe sientes sola o realmente te gusta?<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This is a trap that is easy to fall into. Many people enter relationships only because they don’t want to end up alone.<\/p>\n

Tienen miedo de no enamorarse, as\u00ed que se obligan a enamorarse s\u00f3lo para evitar la soledad.<\/p>\n

So, if you only think of him at the end of the day, when you\u2019re home and alone, that’s a bad sign.<\/p>\n

It means you’re only trying to find someone to keep you company, someone who will prevent you from ending up single and miserable.<\/p>\n

But, if you’re thinking about him even when you’re out with friends or in a crowd, then there is something special about that person. Then, you\u2019ve definitely fallen in love with him.<\/p>\n

24. \u00bfTe pone celosa la idea de que est\u00e9 con otra?<\/h3>\n

If just the thought of him being around other girls drives you crazy, then what you’re feeling is far more than just simple infatuation.<\/p>\n

And, no, you’re not crazy for freaking out imagining him with other women despite the fact that you’re not with him.<\/p>\n

Esto s\u00f3lo significa que realmente te preocupas por \u00e9l y que quieres ser esa persona especial en su vida.<\/p>\n

So if your answer to this last question is yes, then you really do like him and you don’t have to wonder anymore. Just go for it!<\/p>\n

Lo \u00faltimo en su lista debe ser dile lo que sientes<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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