{"id":126835,"date":"2021-03-02T01:45:02","date_gmt":"2021-03-02T01:45:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=126835"},"modified":"2022-08-12T07:54:46","modified_gmt":"2022-08-12T07:54:46","slug":"dejo-de-mandarme-mensajes-despues-de-acostarnos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/dejo-de-mandarme-mensajes-despues-de-acostarnos\/","title":{"rendered":"Dej\u00f3 de mandarme mensajes despu\u00e9s de acostarnos, \u00bfy ahora qu\u00e9? (+Por qu\u00e9 lo hizo)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dej\u00f3 de mandarme mensajes<\/a> despu\u00e9s de dormir juntos.<\/em> \u00bfTe has sorprendido alguna vez diciendo esta frase?<\/p>\n

If the answer is yes, congratulations, because you\u2019re one of the millions of women who found themselves in a similar situation.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not a pleasant scenario and it doesn’t feel good to be here \u2013 believe me, I know. Everything went great until you spent the night together. Then, poof, he was out of sight.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, it doesn\u2019t really matter whether you\u2019ve fallen in love with this man or not. All you want is an explanation for this cowardly act. You want to know how his wiring ticks.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 lo hizo? \u00bfTodo lo que pas\u00f3 antes de que te acostaras con \u00e9l fue un enga\u00f1o? \u00bfAcaso fingi\u00f3 toda la relaci\u00f3n<\/a> s\u00f3lo para meterte bajo las s\u00e1banas?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 debe hacer ahora? \u00bfPerder\u00e1s tu dignidad si le llamas? \u00bfO tu orgullo es m\u00e1s importante que tu curiosidad?<\/p>\n

Well, if the sentence, \u201cHe stopped texting me after we slept together\u201d, doesn\u2019t leave you at peace, read on because all of your questions are about to be answered.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 dej\u00f3 de hablarme despu\u00e9s de acostarnos?<\/h2>\n

Cada hombre tiene sus razones para comportarse as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, it\u2019s unlikely that he has been in a plane accident or lost your number \u2013 even though I\u2019m pretty sure these are the things you would rather believe in.<\/p>\n

But, let\u2019s be a little more realistic. Here are the possible reasons why a guy has ghosted you after spending the night with you.<\/p>\n

There isn\u2019t any room for improvement<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Sometimes, the answer to all of this is not hidden in mystery. You won\u2019t find it under some deep layers of secrets as you hope to.<\/p>\n

Tristemente, a veces, the answer is actually the most obvious one: he didn\u2019t like whatever happened last night.  <\/strong>Of course, this doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re lousy in bed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In fact, there doesn\u2019t exist anyone who is good or malo en la cama<\/a>. S\u00f3lo existen parejas compatibles y otras que no lo son.<\/p>\n

According to this guy, you two are a part of the second group. So, let\u2019s be real: did you really enjoy sleeping with him? Was the intercourse really mind-blowing?<\/p>\n

Before giving an answer to this question, do your best to shut off your emotions. Did you feel all of those fireworks simply because you finally got a hold of a man you\u2019ve been so crazy about?<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s talk about the intimate part here only. Was it really that good? Or, are you deep down also aware of the fact that you two are not a good match?<\/p>\n

Look, don\u2019t get me wrong, I\u2019m not trying to justify his move. First of all, this is not a reason to ditch someone, let alone to stop talking to them without a decent explanation.<\/p>\n

Secondly, he was dead wrong not to know that there is always room for improvement. Maybe the two of you were nervous or just didn\u2019t click right away.<\/p>\n

But, that doesn\u2019t mean that your physical connection wouldn\u2019t change with time. You know what they say: practice makes perfect.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, let\u2019s take another possibility into consideration: tal vez este tipo est\u00e1 avergonzado por su actuaci\u00f3n de anoche.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You probably didn\u2019t notice it (because, again, you are so crazy about him), but it is likely that he failed to please you or that he let down your expectations.<\/p>\n

In that case, he can\u2019t look at you in the eyes. His ego is crushed, and he thinks that the best option is to run for his life in order to forget awkwardness and discomfort.<\/p>\n

Hizo que te enamoraras de \u00e9l sin intenci\u00f3n de atraparte<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

El viejo escenario. O, \u00bfdeber\u00eda decir, el viejo escenario malo? En cualquier caso, no hay nada raro en que un tipo distanciarse despu\u00e9s de haber intimado<\/a> con una chica.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, almost every woman in the world has found herself in a situation to tell this infamous sentence: \u201cDej\u00f3 de mandarme mensajes<\/a> after we slept together\u201d, followed by the questions: \u201cDid he use me? Was I nothing but a one-night stand he forgot about the next morning?\u201d<\/p>\n

What is even sadder is that, in most cases, they are right. It’s nothing strange for a chico a perder inter\u00e9s<\/a> after getting in a girl’s pants.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t care how evolved our society is; men still think that sleeping with a girl and no volver a llamarla<\/a> los convierte en grandes sementales y jugadores.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, la chica en cuesti\u00f3n se queda llorando, aprovechada. Despu\u00e9s de todo, su trabajo era mantener el inter\u00e9s de su hombre<\/a> incluso despu\u00e9s de haber intimado con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

This sucks, I won\u2019t lie to you. You two had a great time and you don\u2019t regret sleeping with him \u2013 that shouldn\u2019t be argued about.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pero, lo que m\u00e1s te duele es que claramente, este tipo minti\u00f3 todo el tiempo s\u00f3lo para entrar en tus pantalones<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe he didn\u2019t lovebomb you or promise you the world, but he definitely did make you think that he is committed to your relationship.<\/p>\n

He managed to get under your skin \u2013 exactly as planned. And then, what happened?<\/p>\n

He got what he wanted, and poof, he turned his back on you and never appeared in your life again. It\u2019s hard to admit this, but he treated you as an object, not as a human being with feelings.<\/p>\n

Well, that doesn\u2019t make him a real man. Instead, it means he is an immature boy with one thing and one thing only on his mind.<\/p>\n

Lo vio como un acuerdo mutuo<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Even though this type of woman is rare, there exist girls who don\u2019t complain after pronouncing the sentence, \u201cHe dej\u00f3 de llamarme despu\u00e9s de acostarnos<\/a>\u201d.<\/p>\n

De hecho, se sienten aliviados porque eso es exactamente lo que tambi\u00e9n quer\u00edan desde el principio.<\/p>\n

Tanto como odias las citas modernas<\/a>La verdad es que las relaciones espor\u00e1dicas y los rollos de una noche est\u00e1n normalizados desde hace mucho tiempo.<\/p>\n

No hay nada extra\u00f1o en que dos amantes de una noche se enrollen, se acuesten juntos sin prometerse nada y, al final, se separen.<\/p>\n

No s\u00f3lo eso: tampoco hay nada malo en ello. Lo que est\u00e1 mal es que una persona est\u00e9 dispuesta a llegar a este tipo de acuerdo mientras que la otra tiene en mente un escenario diferente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

En este caso, eras t\u00fa quien so\u00f1aba con esta relaci\u00f3n. Al menos esperabas una llamada o un SMS de \u00e9l al d\u00eda siguiente.<\/p>\n

While I have no intention of justifying him, let\u2019s look at things from a different perspective.<\/p>\n

\u00bfFuiste clara sobre tus expectativas desde el principio? \u00bfFuiste sincera sobre el hecho de que estabas sintiendo algo por ese chico?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I think not. In fact, I can bet on my life that you played hard to get all along. To be precise, you acted pretty heartlessly: like you couldn\u2019t care less about the outcome of this situation.<\/p>\n

No, I\u2019m not here to judge you. You didn\u2019t do it because you didn\u2019t give a damn about him.<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, te diste cuenta de que durante todo este tiempo, \u00e9l se ha mostrado totalmente indiferente. As\u00ed que ten\u00edas que elegir: o admit\u00edas que ten\u00edas grandes esperanzas en esta relaci\u00f3n o le segu\u00edas el juego.<\/p>\n

Of course, you could have just walked away on time, but we all know you didn\u2019t see that as an option. On the other hand, you knew that putting your heart on your sleeve would equal humiliation.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t want to boost his ego by showing him that you were falling in love. You didn\u2019t want to initiate anything serious with a man who clearly sees you as nothing more than a random hookup.<\/p>\n

Al final del d\u00eda, \u00bfqu\u00e9 pas\u00f3? \u00bfCambi\u00f3 m\u00e1gicamente su perspectiva despu\u00e9s de que os acostarais?<\/p>\n

Or, did he remain consistent? Well, obviously \u2013 the second scenario took place.
\nI hate to break it to you, but it\u2019s too late for you to complain now, and it’s also in vain.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it \u2013 this man thought you two had a mutual agreement. He was certain that you wanted the same thing, so now, he doesn\u2019t think he\u2019s done anything remotely wrong.<\/p>\n

Su honestidad es demasiado amarga para quien quiera endulzarla<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a proven fact that people lie to get what they want. Men do it, women do it.<\/p>\n

But, they not only lie about their feelings… sometimes their deceptions go so deep that they literally make up a new identity just to get someone\u2019s interest.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs posible que te haya pasado esto con este chico enamorado? \u00bfEs posible que prefiriera fantasmear antes que contarte la amarga verdad?<\/p>\n

Mi suposici\u00f3n es que he\u2019s married<\/a> o en una relaci\u00f3n duradera con otra persona. O no es ni de lejos el hombre que te dijo que era. Puede que haya mentido sobre su educaci\u00f3n, sus finanzas o su vida en general.<\/p>\n

Obviously, he didn\u2019t tell you any of this because he knew that you would run away the moment you found out.<\/p>\n

Pero now, he can\u2019t keep up with his lie anymore. So, instead of revealing the harsh truth to you, he escaped like a real coward.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, don\u2019t you think that he hid the reality from you in an attempt to protect you. He didn\u2019t face you with the truth because he chickened out.<\/p>\n

He is scared of the consequences it could leave on his real life (that shouldn’t include going past young girls). Besides, he is also terrified of your reaction.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, he doesn\u2019t care enough to confront you. Isn\u2019t it easier to run away than to look you in the eyes and have to explain himself?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not you \u2013 it\u2019s him<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

When you hear a guy telling you it\u2019s not you \u2013 it\u2019s him, you automatically think of this empty phrase as nothing more than a big, fat lie. But, what if it\u2019s not? What if he\u2019s telling the truth?<\/p>\n

Tenga en cuenta que esta es la forma en que la mayor\u00eda fobia al compromiso<\/a> reaccionan. Se apegan demasiado emocionalmente, y en el momento en que lo hacen, comienza su huida.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, esta no es la manera justa de terminar las cosas, pero a veces, por hombres emocionalmente inaccesibles<\/a>, it\u2019s the only possible way.<\/p>\n

If this is true, then your guy started catching feelings for you \u2013 there is no doubt about that. But, the trick is that he became aware of them only when he slept with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

To be precise, it\u2019s possible that he saw some signs that he was falling in love before you two got intimate.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, until that magic night happened, he wasn\u2019t aware of his emotions. Ahora, en lugar de perseguirlos, se asust\u00f3.<\/strong><\/p>\n

El hecho de que estuviera perdiendo el control sobre s\u00ed mismo le asustaba m\u00e1s que nada. Por lo tanto, decidi\u00f3 largarse antes de que el romance fuera a m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

But, even if this is the case with your guy, it doesn\u2019t mean that your heart should melt. Oh, isn\u2019t it sweet \u2013 he is so crazy over me that he can\u2019t handle his feelings?<\/em> \u00a1Mentira!<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t change his ways, and as much as you try, you won\u2019t open his heart to love, so please don\u2019t even attempt doing so.<\/p>\n

Before you know it, years will pass by and you\u2019ll see yourself trapped with a douche who comes and goes as he pleases.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll waste all of your time, energy, and effort trying to teach him to love and doing your best to tear down the walls around his heart.<\/p>\n

But, you won\u2019t accomplish anything \u2013 be certain about that… anything besides draining yourself emotionally and committing spiritual suicide.<\/p>\n

Dej\u00f3 de hablarme despu\u00e9s de acostarnos; \u00bfqu\u00e9 debo hacer ahora?<\/h2>\n

When something like this happens, there doesn\u2019t exist a magic ball you can look into to see what you should do.<\/p>\n

Pero, aunque la situaci\u00f3n parece bastante complicada, lo cierto es que sus opciones son bastante sencillas.<\/p>\n

Basically, you have three options. If you hope that this man will eventually come back, then you\u2019ll either sit and wait for him to get the decency to call you or you\u2019ll be the one to reach out first.<\/p>\n

The third option is to cut this guy out regardless of his actions afterward. It\u2019s up to you which one you\u2019ll choose.<\/p>\n

Si\u00e9ntate y espera<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si un chico deja de llamarlas despu\u00e9s de haberse acostado juntos, la mayor\u00eda de las chicas no hacen literalmente nada. Se lamentan de su mala suerte como si fuera lo peor que les pudiera pasar.<\/p>\n

Even if they didn\u2019t have such strong feelings for this man until now, all of a sudden, they convince themselves that this is the worst thing that could happen.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que dejan pasar el tiempo. Se deprimen, se sientan en casa y lloran por todo lo que han vivido.<\/p>\n

Or, they pretend that everything is okay and that they\u2019re completely unbothered by this man los fantasmas<\/a> while, in fact, they’re secretly stalking him all over social media.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re too ashamed to admit that this hurt them so badly.<\/p>\n

Either way, in both situations, they\u2019re doing the same thing: from the first day of no contact, they\u2019re patiently waiting for him to come back.<\/p>\n

Every time their phone rings, every time they get a phone call or a text message \u2013 they hope it\u2019s him.<\/p>\n

They wait for him to appear knocking on their door with flowers, and most importantly, with a valid explanation. But, let\u2019s face it \u2013 any explanation would be good enough at this point.<\/p>\n

What happens next? Well, if he does come back with some lame excuse, they accept it \u2013 no questions asked.<\/strong><\/p>\n

After all, they\u2019ve spent so much time waiting for his great comeback that they don\u2019t even think about sending him away.<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t be one of these women and see for yourself that this is mal consejo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I understand that you\u2019re hurt, but that doesn\u2019t mean you should put your life on hold while he is out there living his life as if nothing happened.<\/p>\n

Env\u00edale un mensaje de texto primero<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Luego est\u00e1n las mujeres que se toman la justicia por su mano. S\u00e9 lo que debes pensar: \u00c9l es el hombre y deber\u00eda ser el primero en llamarme. Despu\u00e9s de todo, dej\u00f3 de mandarme mensajes despu\u00e9s de acostarnos.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

But, let\u2019s put a slightly different perspective on things. Yes, he did disappear.<\/p>\n

But, haven\u2019t you done the same thing? If we\u2019re honest, you didn\u2019t text or call him either. Do you wonder what’s pasando por su cabeza<\/a> \u00bfahora mismo?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even though it\u2019s a generally accepted rule that men should be the ones who invite you on the first date, initiate your contact.<\/p>\n

In the beginning, call him after spending the night, and do all those other firsts. Why wouldn\u2019t you change roles for once?<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de todo, it\u2019s not like there is a law preventing you from overtaking the steering wheel. Just as you wait for his call, he might be waiting for yours as well.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Besides, what\u2019s the worst thing that could happen? You can get rejected, that\u2019s right.<\/p>\n

But, isn\u2019t that a million times better than keeping on living in this suspense? Trust me \u2013 the uncertainty will take its toll and end up destroying you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s much better to know where you stand. You deserve the truth and this is the only way to get it.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry: even if he blows you off or doesn\u2019t return your calls \u2013 there is nothing to feel humiliated about.<\/p>\n

Instead, this is a move that you should be proud of yourself for making. Not a lot of women have the guts to make the first step, especially if they\u2019ve slept with a guy who hasn\u2019t called them since.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that things will work out in your favor. If we\u2019re realistic, it\u2019s more probable that he\u2019ll shut his eyes on your efforts.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, what\u2019s so tragic about that? Guys get rejected all the time, and you want to be seen as being equal, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

Bueno, esta es tu oportunidad de caminar una milla en sus zapatos. Ponte delante de tus actos y acepta su decisi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, you\u2019ll know that you\u2019ve tried. You did the best you could to pursue your happiness, but sadly, it didn\u2019t work \u2013 which doesn\u2019t mean that the next time, it won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3rtalo<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Finally: my personal favorite \u2013 jugar con este reproductor<\/a> y no permitir que tu mundo gire m\u00e1s a su alrededor. \u00bfC\u00f3mo de fant\u00e1stico y optimista suena eso?<\/p>\n

If you decide to go with this approach, then you don\u2019t wait for an explanation. In fact, you wouldn\u2019t want to hear one even if your guy comes up with one.<\/p>\n

Seg\u00fan t\u00fa, ya se ha dicho bastante hasta ahora. Si este hombre se preocupara por ti, nunca se habr\u00eda comportado as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, nobody claims that you\u2019re not allowed to miss him or regret your potential relationship just because you decided to call it quits. You simply value your dignity over everything else.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Besides, your brain is clearly stronger than your heart here. As attracted as you are to this guy and as much as you like him, you\u2019re perfectly aware that he doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n

If he did this at the very beginning, then what can you expect in the future when life turns nasty? So, even if you\u2019re heartbroken, you start healing yourself far away from him.<\/p>\n

Also, you don\u2019t blame anyone for this outcome. You could have called, he could have called… but the truth is that neither of you did.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Isn\u2019t it obvious that your romance has been toxic even before it officially started? These games are not a foundation for a healthy relationship, and this kind of poison is the last thing you need in your life.<\/p>\n

Dej\u00f3 de enviarme mensajes de texto despu\u00e9s de acostarnos. \u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo evitar que vuelva a ocurrir?<\/h2>\n

After everything that went on, you\u2019re wise enough to see all of it as a life lesson instead of observing it as a defeat.<\/p>\n

But, what exactly did you learn from this experience? What steps can you take to prevent this scenario from happening again? Let\u2019s revise and check if you\u2019ve mastered things or not.<\/p>\n

Propiedad de las acciones<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The first step is to reflect on your entire relationship with this man. It\u2019s time to take off your rose-tinted glasses and observe things as they really went on.<\/p>\n

Why is this so important? Well, you can\u2019t expect yourself to move on as long as you idealize this man.
\nAlso, you need closure, but you know you\u2019ll never get it.<\/p>\n

Yes, it would be great if you could simply forget the entire thing, but I know you\u2019re overanalyzing every single detail.<\/p>\n

Well, while you\u2019re at it, why wouldn\u2019t you put effort into getting to the bottom of the moral of the story? After all, it\u2019s the only way to learn.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Where is this person’s fault? Don\u2019t let anger overwhelm you, and do your best to answer this question from an observer\u2019s point of view.<\/p>\n

Imagine that you\u2019re just a bystander who is not emotionally involved in all of it, and looks at this man for who he is \u2013 without justification or false accusations.<\/p>\n

Now, it\u2019s time for ownership of actions. It’s time to own your mistakes. Don\u2019t go too easy on yourself and recognize your flaws so you can start working on them.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not to blame<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Whatever happened, let me tell you that you\u2019re not to blame. It\u2019s likely that you\u2019ve dealt with an immature guy who has been playing you all along.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 lo que debes pensar ahora.<\/p>\n

How come I didn\u2019t notice the red flags before? How could I have been so blind, stupid, and foolish?<\/em>
\n\u00bfSoy tan idiota? LOL, \u00bfrealmente pens\u00e9 que se hab\u00eda enamorado de m\u00ed?<\/em><\/p>\n

Look, this guy is a skilled manipulator. He has gotten under your skin, and it isn\u2019t your fault. You\u2019re the victim here \u2013 don\u2019t forget that.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even if you did do something he didn\u2019t like, he should have been man enough to confront you about it. However you acted, this is not a way to treat a lady.<\/p>\n

Aprecie su val\u00eda<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Am I good enough? What\u2019s wrong with me? Why couldn\u2019t he at least allow a chance to get to know me? Am I really this unlovable?<\/p>\n

Un acontecimiento dio origen a todas estas preguntas. Sacudi\u00f3 tu confianza en ti mismo, destruy\u00f3 tu ego y despert\u00f3 tus inseguridades m\u00e1s profundas.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t help but wonder if every man who shows up on your path will end up treating you the same.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo es que este tipo s\u00f3lo ve atractivo tu cuerpo mientras desprecia tanto tu intelecto como tus emociones? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 weren’t you enough<\/a> \u00bfpara \u00e9l?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Are you actually that shallow? Don\u2019t you have anything else besides your physical appearance to offer? How come he didn’t see that you’re una buena mujer<\/a> con su parte de cualidades?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mira, todos estos pensamientos no son nada inusual. Sin embargo, si siguen persigui\u00e9ndote, pueden convertirse en un gran problema m\u00e1s adelante.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you have to remember who you are and how much your value is ASAP. This experience alone doesn\u2019t define your worth. Actually, no man does, and that\u2019s something you must never forget.<\/p>\n

Te guste o no, estas cosas pasan<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, you\u2019re not the only girl who has had to say the sentence, \u201cHe stopped texting me after we slept together\u201d while looking at herself in the mirror.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 consciente de que estas cosas pasan, por muy inc\u00f3modas que sean.<\/p>\n

Being some guy\u2019s notch on his bedpost is not fair \u2013 I know. You didn\u2019t deserve it \u2013 I know. But, life isn\u2019t always fair and you\u2019ll just have to deal with it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This is not me telling you that your next experience will end up the same way. Nevertheless, just because this is the first time you got ditched doesn\u2019t guarantee that it\u2019s also the last.<\/p>\n

Some men are douches, so it would be better not to take all of this personally. Even if someone else was in your place, she would get the same treatment, so don\u2019t beat yourself up.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Este curso de los acontecimientos estaba predestinado. Recuerde que todo sucede por una raz\u00f3n<\/a>, and have faith that sometime in the future, you\u2019ll realize that everything actually turned out for the best.<\/p>\n

This might be a big deal now, but the most important thing here is for you to understand that it’s not the end of the world. You\u2019ll get through this and leave it in the distant past.<\/p>\n

Los hombres que quieren estar en tu vida se pondr\u00e1n a tu altura<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando conoces a un chico nuevo, don\u2019t settle for anything less<\/a> than you deserve. I\u2019m talking about his treatment before you two reach the bedroom here.<\/p>\n

Little things do matter. If you tolerate him too much at first, he\u2019ll see it as a green light to treat you the way he wants, without any consequences.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not advising you to be too picky, but please, establecer algunas normas<\/a>. If it\u2019s necessary, stay single for a while so that you have enough time to figure out what\u2019s acceptable in a relationship for you.<\/p>\n

Most importantly: don\u2019t go below your deal breakers. Don\u2019t let anyone tell you that your standards are too high.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You know how much you\u2019re worth, and it\u2019s natural that you want someone to match your value and effort.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, te aseguro que no todos los hombres son iguales.<\/p>\n

De hecho, probablemente s\u00f3lo el diez por ciento son folladores que pasan de chicas j\u00f3venes y rara vez llegan a la segunda cita, pero arruinan la reputaci\u00f3n de todos los chicos que hay por ah\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Deje claras sus expectativas<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The last, but not the least important step is to be clear about what you want, need, and expect. Don\u2019t be scared to speak your mind.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, cr\u00e9eme cuando te digo que cualquier hombre maduro apreciar\u00e1 tus agallas y honestidad por encima de jugar a juegos infantiles cualquier d\u00eda.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ning\u00fan chico puede leerte la mente, y algunos son mal\u00edsimos captando indirectas. Por lo tanto, si te niegas a conformarte con algo sin compromiso, di lo que piensas. Si quieres una relaci\u00f3n de verdad, p\u00eddela.<\/p>\n

Don’t beg for love, but verbalize your desires. It’s the only chance you have to turn it into reality.<\/p>\n

Para terminar:<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It\u2019s crucial for you to understand that the sentence: \u201cHe stopped texting me after we slept together\u201d must never be followed by any kind of justification.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t care what kind of a sci-fi explanation this man offers you.<\/p>\n

There is no excuse for this behavior, no matter what. I know you want to take him back (if he tries to come back, that is), but trust me… if you do, you\u2019ll only give him the thumbs up for everything he\u2019s done.<\/p>\n

As much as you like him, please open your eyes and be aware that you\u2019re dealing with an immature boy who doesn\u2019t know the true value of any woman, including yourself.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

He stopped texting me after we slept together. Have you ever caught yourself saying this sentence? If the answer is yes, congratulations, because you\u2019re one of the millions of women who found themselves in a similar situation. It\u2019s not a pleasant scenario and it doesn’t feel good to be here \u2013 believe me, I know….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":126837,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-126835","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Stopped-Texting-Me-After-We-Slept-Together-What-Now-Why-He-Did-It-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/126835","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=126835"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/126835\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/126837"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=126835"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=126835"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=126835"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}